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well i went to a concer like 2 days ago and i was in the mosh pit and i got thrown on stage...
i stood up and the band had stopped playing and everyone was staring at me...i feld so embarassed. but then i saw my bf in the front row and i started singing the song that they were playing... so they started playing the song again and i was up their the whole show..
the band called me the next day and asked me and my band to come with them on tour... my band is called the audio switch.
should i go on tour with them and miss the whole summer hangin wid my friends or play punk rock music with mental riot on tour?!?!?!
help!!!!
they both sound so awesome but bieng on tour with metal riot is a chance of a lifetime.. (link)
its a chance of a lifetime and if you give it uo now you will most likly regret it forever


My boyfriend keeps coming back to me, claiming to love me but he always ends up cheating on me with his ex. What do i do? I'm a female age 15. (link)
he aint worth it i know from experience mine did the same and when he actuallt sroppd i ended us for good and he cried the entire time


I really really like this guy and he is like everythink i ever wanted(cute, can talk to him, and actually has friends...lol)well, he recently broke up with his girlfriend and she was really not "loving" and never was by him when he wanted her to be. well, he knows i like him and when we hang out sometimes he flirts and i think he likes me, but when we r talking online, i have to be the one to say, "hi, whats up," and doesnt seem interrested at all, he only really talks to me when i bring up a good subject, but when i dont have a good conversation starter, words are minimal...and sometimes doesnt resopond to my little questions like, "how r you doing?" I dont wanna sound desperate and be like,"why arent you talking to me? or do you not like me? should i leave you alone?"...things like that...so im asking...should i keep going(if so what should i do)...or let him go and find someone else?

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wait it out if he likes you then he will bring it up bsides you do know what alot of guys do on the internet dont you.....



Hi im a 17/f. Im not that out going but my best friend is a very social person. She introduced me to her Older brother who is in collage. My best friend invited me to stay the night at her house. while i was there it turned out that her older brother was throwing a crazy frat party at there house whle there parents were away. Later that night after partying for awhile my friends older borther came up to me and asked if i wanted to dance. after a while he said he needed to talk to me in private. Wwe went up to his room and started talking for a while. he said how he really liked me and how he didnt care how i was 17 and he is 21. by that point i could tell he was drunk. i said "i'll be right bak" not meaning to return. i walked out of the room and went down stairs and started dancng again. about 15 minutes later he came down and said we needed to talk again. so i went along with it. when i walked in first he locked the door pushed me down on the bed and started rapeing me. now im 5 months pregnant and im supposed to be heading off to collage ona full scholorship. i really want to keep my child but it will be hard to go to school and keep a child. my parents dont want anything to do ith me so they wont help out. what should i do. keep my baby and skip out on Yale or give the baby up for adoption and go to Yale? im so confused please help!!!!!!!! (link)
he rapd you so you need his help child support or see if the state can help you as a single mother attending college you have a good chance at that see if he can pay for daycare. DO NOT GIVE UP YALE ON NO ACCOUNT yale is an awesome school and going on a scholarship is even better i too am 17 and would do anything to be able to go their both your child and ed is important but if you give your child up you will regret it i was raped by my ex who is 22 and had a miscarriage i would do anything to have my baby back . please do not have an abortion i hope i helpd


Alright well my friend gave me this stuff to try because I really want a tan but im really pale. Well she kinda didnt tell me the full directions.. she told me to rub it in and stuff.. and then wait 5 mins.. and that the tan would show up in 5 mins.. well she was so wrong and she didnt tell me it takes a few hours for it to start showin up.. so i got home na dim putten some on.. and i dont look tanner.. so i wait like 15 mins still dont.. so i put some on and more and more ect. well i wake up and my legs are really dark and sorta orange!! how do I get it off!? (link)
u can try rubbing alchohol but i doubt it will come off


I wrote last time how my ex wants to hook back up with me the advice was great. i talk to him and i told him how i felt and told him i was tryed of him leaving me to talk to some other gurl, and how he never sends any times with me. I seeing change in him he comes every moring to see me where it's mostly all of my girls. come to my one study hall some days to one of my class and we write notes to each other. we spend time after school with each other when we can. The thing is couple of my girls and one of my teacher friends are telling me not to get back with him. that all he want is bootie. i don't think that what should i do?

PLZ HELP ME OUT (link)
that may be all he wants trust your heart but be careful with it your heart is the best thing you can give a guy that and your virginity so watch out


I'm looking for a song to kind of go out to my boyfriend, because his song to me is Differences by Ginuwine or I Promise by Jagged Edge, and I kinda wanted to have a song for him too. So if anyone has any "songs" kind of hip hop or R&B type-ish music, that would be awesome! If it could be a girl singing it about a guy, that would be MOST appreciated also. Thanks! (link)
texangirl gave the right choices mayb also mario let me love you or destinys chil t-shirt just turn o ur rnb/hiphop station on your radio n listen


m 25..My boyfriend's a rather sexual person but we both never have sex , some time when he touches me i really feel that m not being excited.. by nipple does not get erect & i don't think i cum .. his touches doen't excite me more ! i m being worried abt my sensuality.. please suggest me something. And what does an orgasm feel like for a girl (or anyone)?

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tell him of your fear try to relax and close your eyes feel dont think you should just try kissing until you want him if ur bf wants to keep hell try to help you out otherwise end it if your not havn a great time sexually he may not b either


okay i like this guy he's in college he's about 2 years older then i am. i am only 17. i really like him and i told my friends that i do. all of my friends suggest that i should just call him and tell him that i like him. would this be right or should i just get to know him more?? (link)
get to know him first it helps if you dont jump into a realationship.


Okay I am 14 and a girl.. and The guy I am with is 22 and a guy.. He works at a jail.. Do u think it is wrong for us to 'be together' (link)
its illegal but age shouldnt matter its the person that counts my grandmother is 11 years older then my grandfather and he would die without her my motto on this subject is "its the who the person is not hteir color of age that counts." good luk i hope your parents know ur datn him if nit they can put him in jail


When my girlfriend had a baby she took off a couple weeks after the baby was born. So I've been taking care of her by myself. Well my girlfriend called me and said that she needed money and that she's coming to take Lisa, our baby, and not to fight her on it because she has the right as her mother. I don't know what to do. I still care about her but I think she might be doing drugs again and I don't feel like our baby will be safe with her. I'm afraid that she'll just leave her like she did before except this time I won't be there to take care of her. Does she have the right to take Lisa or can stop her from taking her? If I can stop her how can I do that without causing a lot of stress for the both of us?

Thank you in advance

Jack (link)
take it to the police she has no right o the child she left behind protect your daughter and tell the police of your suspisions of drugs and her asking you for money i hope i can help but this is going to be a stressful situation your gf took off leaving you to take care of your chils even though she may be the biological mother she in her emotional state is not one . you should try visitation rights at which you will be present at.


im 16 im living with my boyfriend i know im (young its complicated)I was kind of pressured into having sex with my boyfriend i did say yes at the start but then changed my mind and told him i wernt ready he ignored me and carried on i tried to push him off he was to strong i started crying wen it was finished in the morning he acted like nothing was wrong and brought me a cuppa tea in the bed. was i raped? or am i just being a baby? what should i do (link)
as long as you said no very clearly you were raped make sure to get a pregnancy test follow ur heart to decide what to do u dont want to be livng on the street


My boyfriend and I gave our virginity to eachother ( im 14 he 16) and the way we slept together was we snuck out of the house. I got caught and now I am grounded until June 18 now we got caught on April 25 and ever since then he was acting really weird like he didnt like me anymore and everything else but before april 25 we did it 4 times before that. and he acted fine but the thing is he didnt even get in trouble for sneaking out and hes acting really really really weird. like I talked to him about how he's changing and he said he doesnt know whats going on. so i asked him if he's still interested and he said "i guess so" then the next day i asked him do you want to be with me and he didnt answer then we almost broke up but we didnt and then i said to him i need you to be more affectionate and he said no. and hes not going to change or even try to.

This is very confusing but for people who understand me tell me. Should I break up with him? and what is wrong with him!!

I WILL RATE 5'S!! JUST PLEASE HELP ME!! (link)
u should breal up with him beforehe breaks with you it will hurt because he was your first but still... and try to gain ur parents trust bak guys asre not worth losn trust me i jo


Hey ...well ive been goin out with this guy for almost 2 weeks and well we have been on three dates but he hasnt kissed me yet...i mean he likes me but i dont know..is he just nervous or what? i need help!
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dont kiss him it may seem pushy ask him bout him bsideshe may like u so much he may just want to take it slow


What do you say to someone you see everyday, have never talked to, you have know what he likes, who is having problems fitting in and whose friends despise you and would not only make fun of you but him too for talking to him? Oh, and did I mention I am madly in love with him? (link)
its hormones it will pass and dont worry bout wut others think its what u think that matters


I really want to get my fake nails taken off. Does anyone know how you can remove them other than chipping them off and going to the nail place (not an option as of this moment)? (link)
soak them in acetone nail polish


16/f
me and my boyfriend recently broke up and my other guy friend says that the best way to "get over" a relationship is to rebound date. personally i don't think that's right because its leading the other person on, making them think that you like them when all you are doing is making the ex jealous or making yourself think about the ex. then my other guy friend (the one from above) calls me up and asks if i want to do something this weekend, and i say yeah because he is my friend. but later on during our conversation, he suddenly whispers really fast that i should go for the rebound dating. i know what he wants, but do you think that rebound dating is the best way to "get over" a previous relationship? thanks in advance.

signed
weirded out and conflustered (link)
rebound dating is neva good i did it and fell for the gut only he found out and now i love him but he hates me never rebound date wait


I went out with a guy Sept-Dec, and it ended very badly. I got really disinterested halfway through, but kept convincing myself I liked him, so I wouldn't have to deal with it. Finally, I couldn't take it anymore, and I basically started ignoring him. Not intentionally, it was just hard to pretend to be excited to see him. He only took about a week of this before he broke up with me. Even though I had wanted out, I was really sad, especially when I heard he was dating someone else. I got comepletely over it very quickly though.

A couple weeks into x-mas break, he called me and told me he'd screwed up really badly, and he asked me back out. I was totally disinterested by that point, so I flat-out said no. When school was back in, he wrote me a note about how he owed me an explanation and how he knew I said no the second time because he'd hurt me, and other similar bullshit. His ego just shined through so well. I wrote him a nasty letter explaining that I had said no because I didn't like him and for that reason only. I told him about how I actually lost interest halfway into the relationship. It was a pretty scary letter. We haven't spoken since.

I assumed he was over me by now. But the other day, I was talking to his good friend who told me that my exboyfriend still thinks he's in love with me. He says he thinks he screwed it up really bad, and he knows I hate him now. (not really true)

He's moving pretty far away right after school ends. I'd really like to talk to him face to face before then, but I don't know what to say, if anything. I'd like to apologize, and I'd like to clear the air. I don't know if it would do more harm than good, though. Suggestions? (link)
apologize and clear the air tell him youd like to b FRIENDS by mail and mayb phone but nothing more


this summer im moving from PA to Chicago. i need some tips to help myself get through this. like how to handle this kind of a change. thx a lot! (link)
letters to your friends mayb try to find a pen pal now thats there now around where your movn to and dont hang out by yourself or after dark as chicago is a big city


My male friend (he has a girlfriend, i dont date) and i were really close for quite some time and then he told me that he liked me (for some time now) and then a few weeks later that he loved his girlfriend, the entire situation was aweful and i tried to stay away from it best i could, but now we arent as colse...actually now we are more of aquaintences than friends and im starting to doubt what our friendship was. what do i do? how do i know we werent just close because he like me? (link)
if your frienship was based on him liking you then its sort of like it being based on a lie and if thats the case then he isnt worth it.




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