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Plz help me
m 25..My boyfriend's a rather sexual person but we both never have sex , some time when he touches me i really feel that m not being excited.. by nipple does not get erect & i don't think i cum .. his touches doen't excite me more ! i m being worried abt my sensuality.. please suggest me something. And what does an orgasm feel like for a girl (or anyone)?
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Sounds like you guys need to.. "open the lines of communications". :) Talk to him about this - it'll be haRd to solve this alonw youR own, ya know? Let him know what's on youR mind; peRhaps HE has HIS two cents to chip in two, ya know? TogetheR, you two should be able to come up with some appRopRiate solutions. Hope this helps!! Goodluck to you!!
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Are you on any antidepresants? I know my sex drive took trip to hell in a handbasket on Prozac. I switched to Effexor to see if it would help, but by that time I couldn't stand my husband anyway and the less he touched me the happier I was. That is one possibility. The next is that the two of you are just not sexualy compatable. That happened to me once before I was on meds. I really liked the guy, we had tons in common and could spend hours together and never be bored. When he kissed me, and there was NOTHING wrong with his kisses, I felt nothing. I mean nothing. I wasn't disgusted, I wasn't shocked, I wasn't anything. I couldn't bring myself to kiss him back, but I never turned him away. I kept trying to get interested. We made out in a movie theater, and I watched the movie (which I had already seen) over his shoulder. Nothing there. No chemestry at all, but I'm not cold. I am not gay. We were just meant to be friends. Maybe that is what's going on between you and your boyfriend. Maybe you are just meant to be close friends, no sex involved. Luck and Love!
Almost forgot the orgasam thing, It's like every nerve ending in your body catching fire at once then exploding like a fire cracker. You feel lazy and warm and so relaxed afterward.
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You might be the kind that can hold out longer. there is nothing wrong with that. It feels like you are being free. Talk to your bf see if there are other ways. Or you just might not be into him. It doesnt mean your les you just might not like him. or mabye you do like girls. I hope I helped you.
Bianca
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tell him of your fear try to relax and close your eyes feel dont think you should just try kissing until you want him if ur bf wants to keep hell try to help you out otherwise end it if your not havn a great time sexually he may not b either
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