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ok, well i watched one tree hill on wed. and i have only watched it a few times before. this is kinda weird but w/e. lol. the girl that is preagnant (sp?) what is her name?? i really like her hair, well, her bangs anyways. i just wanna know her character name, and name in real life if possible. thanks!!!! (link)
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The characters name is Haley (although I'm not sure if I spelt that right) and her name in real life is Bethany Joy Lenz. =]
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im going to my ex's party tonight and i need to make him see what he is missing
what are ways to look extra gorgeous?
he has a beautiful girlfriend and i just want him to see im prettier
and specialer
i am curling my hair
but any way to act? im a good dancer so ill do that
what drives boys crazy? i need to know!
thanx! (link)
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Apparantly you arent over him, otherwise impressing him would mean nothing to him. Don't act slutty and dance like a whore, that will only make him think your trashy. Instead just talk to a lot of people, mingle a lot. The way you look means nothing. Especially in relationships.
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If a guy asks me, out of no where, if I have a boyfriend... what does it mean? (link)
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It just means that he's curious about whether you have a boyfriend or not. It depends on how he asked it. It might have meant he likes you. I hope I helped
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I know that I trust my boyfriend and I know that he would never cheat on me because he honestly loves me and it's a mutual feeling, but he's been talking to this girl that he said he met about a year ago and she lives about an hour away from where him and i live, but when he visits his dad he visits her, and she is suposidly one of his best friends, but for some reason whenever i'm hanging around with him and a girl calls h sits there and texts her or talks to her, and it bugs me alot, and i said something once and he said that he would never cheat on me, but for some reason i'm still scared that something will happen. I'm also upset because I was looking at this girls MySpace and it had some comments on there from like almost a year ago him saying on her pictures stuff like "Or you're so sexy.." and stuff like that but he posted those things before him and i started dating, but it bugs me that they are still there and i tried telling him i didn't like it and asked him to delete it but he told me that i shouldn't worry about it and it shouldn't be a problem but for some reason i still don't like it, and he talks about his ex's alot and it bugs me alot and i told him and he said that i had nothing to worry about and i shouldn't worry about, but i really love him but it bugs me so much and i try to ignore it but i can't and whenever i try to talk about it with him he gets pissy and moody and says that i'm not listening to my heart and i'm only thinking about his past.
I'm sorry that this is so long but i needed to get it out. Thank you so much.
-Beanie (link)
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The fact that he keeps telling you not to worry about it shows that he doesn't care about your feelings. If he was such a great guy, and you really DIDN'T have anything to worry about, he'd just delete it and pay more attention to you. Now I'm not saying he's cheating on you, but it is obvious that he's not 100% into you. If he loved you so much he'd want to spend every minute with you, and not spending time talking to someone else. Let him know that it is really bothering you. And if he says not to worry about it tell him that if he truly cared about you he'd care about your feelings. I hope I helped
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(Sorry if this is too long, but I'm just a 17-year-old girl who has no idea what she's doing in this area of her life :3 Never had a boyfriend [or girlfriend for that matter] before, mainly because... I just didn't want one enough to go out and seek one.)
So I've been best friends with this guy for at least five years. However, ever since we've met, he's had a huge crush on me--I'm not sure if it's been on/off or continuous, though he has had a couple of short-term relationships while I've known him. I kind of had a crush on him once or twice, but I never asked him out because, at the time I did like him, I was unsure of whether he liked me or not.
Anyway, now we're both 17, and he likes me, though I've kind of grown asexual and I don't particularly care for anyone in that sort of way. So today, he asks me if I want to go see a play at his church; I don't go to that church (I'm not even his same religion), but I'm good friends with some of the other people in his youth group so I said sure. The night passes on, and as he's driving me home, he asks me to be his girlfriend. I kind of sputter for a second, but finally I just say sure.
Now I don't know what to do. I love him as a friend, and a part of me says that I might as well go out with him--that I even owe it to him (we have a kind of "he buys me food every once in a while and I don't release my undead feline minions upon him" relationship). However, I really don't want to hurt him by just breaking up with him in the end. I'm a senior in a public high school and (hopefully) I'll be going to an art college after I graduate (if not out-of-state, definitely out-of-town). He's homeschooled and doesn't have much of a desire to go to any college, so I'll be leaving this town in a few months anyway, but...
The truth is, I have no idea if I like him or not. It's not a definite "yes or no" question--on the one hand, he's the first guy in my life who's ever asked me out without being a complete sleezeball; but on the other, I don't know if I like him for anything more than a friend.
So what I'm trying to ask is this: is there anyway I can find out if I really like him or not, preferably before I hurt him? And if I don't like him, how can I tell him without using the whole "I like you as a friend, but not as a boyfriend" routine? (Most guys I know absolutely hate that, and I can understand why.) Help, please?
(Once again, sorry for the "tl;dr"-ness of this question. Kind of utterly baffled here.) (link)
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Gah, I hate when I'm in situations like your in. The sure-fire way? Kiss Him. I know it sounds totally cliche but it works. If you kiss him and don't feel anything, or feel weird, then you know it isn't right. If you dont know if you like him liek that, you probably dont. If hes really your friend hell understand. Just let him know that you werent sure if you liked him so thats why you went out with him. But after a while you realized you didnt like him like that. let him know you didnt wanna say it but its true that you like him better as just a friend. Im sure hell understnad, as long as you do it soon. I hope I helped
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f/16. I've never been in a real relationship before, and I've only been on maybe 3 or 4 dates. But that's not the problem. I don't want this to come out sounding conceited, but I do think I'm a fun person, pretty, and smart. I don't have problems with guys liking me. I've been asked out five times this year. But the problem is, I always say no! Even when they're cute guys. I don't know why. I'm outgoing and a "people - person", and I want to have a boyfriend, but for whatever reason I have a problem starting relationships. Am I too picky? I keep telling myself that I'm holding out for the "right guy", but am I being too idealistic? Anyhow, anyone who has had this same problem ... your advice is appreciated! :) (link)
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Hun, that is not conceited at all. In fact I suggest telling everyone that you are fun and amazing. It makes them realize that you love you, and makes them love you too. But back to the question. Next time someone asks you out say yes. Even if they arent attractive in your eyes. That way you can see if you and that person have anything in common. If all else fails you might just make a new friend. Or try going to the other guys and asking them out, telling them you made a mistake. You might realize that that guy is the RIGHT guy. I hope I helped.
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theres this girl whos a complete bitch named sophia
i was talking to a guy on facebook and she commented that he should stop talking to me &shed explain later.
i dont want to stop talking to him.
would it be a completely bad idea to message him saying "what did sophia say about me?" (link)
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Asking what she said will make you seem insecure. Instead try telling him that whatever Sophia said shouldn't alter what he thinks of you. Let him know that she doesnt know you well enough to give someone else any ideas about you, and youd like to show him the real you without worrying that someone else is trying to make you seem different. That way you'll seem mature and confident in yourself, and probably make her seem like a total loser.
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I just heard the saying "drop acid not bombs". I know it is an anti-war saying, but what does drop acid mean? (link)
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Drop acid means to take the drug LSD. Acid makes you see insane things. The most common is having spiders all over you. Pretty creepy from what I've heard. I think it started in the 70's when everyone was against Vietnam and for drugs. Better anti-war sayings are "Make love not war" and things like that.
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16/f
I've talked to this guy on myspace [I knew him from middle school] so he's not a stranger to me. We talked for many weeks. We met up about 3-4 times and we are going out now.
But I feel so stupid because I'm so shy and I can't look at him
We are surrounded around our friends and we haven't been alone.. I can only glance at his face. If i really stare at him, i get so shy.. my eyes water [for some reason? sensitive eyes?] and i blush like mad. I'm awful at eye contact. i keep telling myself to look into his eyes but i end up looking away.
I'm also tensed and nervous. I don't know how to feel comfortable around him. We haven't been dating long. Maybe a week? How can I be more open? Not so shy around him?
I can hug him but it's so awkward standing next to him. Maybe it's because he's watching my every move. It sort of scares me.
I need help:[ (link)
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Maybe you guys should talk a little more and tell each other some goofy things about each other to kind of break the ice. You should let him know you have trouble with eye contact and you feel nervous so that maybe he can help you out.
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I feel really weird asking this lol but I need help. See I never know exactly when I'm going to get my period, but I briefly know around which time it comes. I was wondering, if it was okay to put a tampon in when you think it's coming soon, but you don't have your period. I dont want to get that toxic shock syndrome or anything like that, so if anyone could help me out that would be great =] (link)
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You shouldn't put a tampon in before your period comes. Now, I'm not sure if that is 100% true, but after some research many people have said that tampons should only be used during your period. If you think its coming soon you could put a panty liner in your underwear and keep tampons in your purse, locker, bag, or wherever just in case. They make them very thin and you can barely notice they're there. I hope I helped
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on my myspace when i view it it says my age and it says what town i am from.. i recently just moved and want to change the town name
how do i do this?? (link)
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When you sign in and your at your home you see your picture. Next to it will have different links. Click "Edit Profile". Then select "Basic Info". I think it's the third or fourth tab. Then you can edit information about yourself.
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Okay. It would be something like..
"I want you to hang out with me on my 16th birthday We can go blahblah place." But then when it's soon to happen, they tell me they can't hang out because they have to hang out with their parents..and ditching them would make them angry.
You know.. a really good reason..
Would that be lying or what? I CAN HANG OUT WITH YOU. except..NOT!
It's almost like the person is making the plans themselves.. and they don't mention it to their parents.. so things might not work out..
I'm not sure. Too many friends keep letting me down. (link)
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Your question completely lost me a few times. But I think I understand the main point. If your friend says they want you to hang out with them, that means they want to. And it also means that they aren't making anything permenant, more like just throwing the idea out there. Then they find out their parents want to be with them, and tell you they can't hang out. If that's what it is, then no they arent lying to you. I know it sucks, but it could just mean that they really do want to be with you, but their parents want them to be with them. You know what I mean? I hope I helped.
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i've liked a guy named .. dan, scine i was in 2nd grade, we went out when i was in 4th through 5th grade. but then 6th through 8th [until now, im in 8th] grade, i was over him. and last weekend we hung out, flirted. he lives next store to me, so were on the same bus and today he sat with me and we listened to his ipod. my plams got all sweaty, and my plams never get sweaty. i was nervous about like what to say and stuff. i neverrr get nervous with other guys! i wanna like .. make a move on him. i dont know like how i should. how should i? how should i let him know i like him?
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Just flat out tell him. It sounds like he still likes you, and you obviously still like him. Just let him know how you feel and see if he feels it back. Don't ask when they're are other people around though. Maybe when you get off the bus stop him before you walk away and let him know. That way he's most likely to be honest and not to feel pressured. Hope I helped
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