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I'm a freshman , and I've been searching online for good colleges and i just need someone who attended or have seen CUNY : Brooklyn College to tell me is it good or bad ? , and does it have Computer Science ?
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ooh sorry I have no knowledge of colleges, but then again, how about phoning and asking said college ask if they have a computer science class...yet what constitutes a "good college"? perhaps you could ask one college that you phone.."Hi Iam looking for a good college,LOL and yada yada,or how about picking a couple and visiting them...or go to that town and ask around ,but Iam guessing that's out of the question, these college are possibly far away, and you have neither money or time....on second thought, I guess more internet searches,or better yet phone a bookstore like barnes and nobles and asking if they have a reference book on colleges...right? or high school counselers, would they know "good colleges" good luck.sign me,I never finished high school, but I sound intelligent...yes? LOL again good luck and BTW I never cared for school, but in the last few years I discovered I love history,and medical stuff....go figure...a MIND IS A TERRIBLE THING TO WASTE...
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Let's say I believe in many things, God, third eye (mines open, I can see spirits and see futures sometimes), empathic (I've been told I'm one),and witchcraft, etc.. I've never told anyone I can do these things, unless they told me They could do it too. But my teacher knows I believe in God and once she found out she started treating me extremely rudely. Why do atheists hate so much? And why do they care of others belief? And when anyone mentions religions, she attacks. She starts saying,“let's not be rude." “shhh." “Quiet. No talking of it." How do I deal with this stupid, closeminded bitch? (link)
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well first rule is one doesn't speak of politics, religion or things of that nature...its just a good thing to remember...anything provocative...okay so she said what she said...why are you hangin with a bitch? who puts you down...next time she pipes up and puts you down with something...and not about what we said one shouldn't talk about, tell her to shut her pie hole, and then walk out the room...only surround yourself with supportive people..don't let ms bitch drain your essence...got it? do it! love peace out
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I am married w/2 girls 21 & 16. My oldest doesnt ever come around and I am told that is my fault. My husband calls me names, disables my car, when I can leave he shows up so I go back again. I recently had my 3rd back surgery, cant find a job, and am pathetic to my family so my girls go to his mother even on Mother`s Day!..I just want to fall asleep and die but do not know how to do it. I have tried, so need to know what/how many do I need to take?...NOT 1 PERSON would care if I wasnt around. dont judge I get enough of that (link)
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know that song, nobody wants you when your down and out? get on your knees and thank God for the little things you have to be grateful thankful for no matter HOW SMALL the universe will give you more, try it...nobody likes a complainer,whiner...start to love yourself...get away...take a walk...volunteer...do something for someone else...take a shower, clean a neighbors yard...you still have time to change your life...hug a puppy get out of yourself
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So I have been with my bf for about 8 months and this is the 2nd time we tried to make this work. The first time, he screwed it up and then left but later came back. This time, we compromised and talked and made a "request list" of what we don't want each other to do. Because we are both super protective, its requests like not checking out members of the opposite sex and not lying, etc. Over the course of our 8 months, he has lied to me a couple times and broken requests. I can't leave the house without seeing a girl and thinking "oh gosh I look awful and he would totally love seeing her" yet he denies breaking the opposite sex requests. I'm over the lying. I want to trust him but I don't know what to do. Over the course of time, particularly when he started lying, I started doubting and second guessing my love for him. So now I don't know if I love him and I don't trust him yet I can't really make myself leave. I don't know what to do. Its like I don't want to leave but I do. Ive seen The Fault In Our Stars and all I could think about was him. He tells me "you will see a change" but he has said that before. I don't know if I'm pretending to love him just because I don't want to be alone of a bunch of stuff like that. I really need help. Plus its like I don't want someone to reply back to this and say "yea leave him", I want good advice which then means I care about us lasting so I have feelings for him. I just feel empty and like there's something missing and he claims for it to be trust. Is he right? Is my doubt just because I don't trust him? How do I trust him once and for all? How do I love him once and for all? (link)
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You have "walk all over me stamped on your head" I cAN SEE it from here...your lazy and naïve and that's why this guy is probably physically with you "there" and Iam willing to bet he's tapping some ass somewhere or soon to be...your weak quote "I don't want somebody to tell me to leave him" your pathetic...I don't like you from what you wrote...and Im guessing he dislikes you even more than I...your a whiner...grow a pair girl...you have no respect for yourself...you have no chemistry with this guy...get it?? its never going to work...but you'll probably beat this dead horse, way past expiration date... yea the something missing is you two have no chemistry...but not to worry, he'll find her soon enough, and then you wont even get the token fuck...LOL
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I've been in a relationship with a girl from overseas for almost two years. I'm a 26 y/o guy, and she's 24. She came with me here about a year and a half ago. I treat her well, romance her, buy her roses, bake her cakes, take her out when I have time, tell her that she's beautiful, help her look for work, and a lot with English.
Last year she started acting funny and talking about a guy, and I found out she cheated on me by looking at her phone, and reading her emails (Not saying this was right, just that I did it). I confronted her, but I never really felt she thought what she did was wrong. I promised not to look at her stuff again.
For the half year since then she's been using her phone a ton, and hiding it from me. Lately she has been getting calls and messages from the guy she cheated with on me again, so often that even though she doesn't want me to know, it's inevitable that I would see at some point. She gets pissed off over trivial things, she's stuck to her phone 24/7, we hardly ever have sex anymore, and sometimes I don't feel like she even wants to be here.
So I gave her time, and everything just felt kind of wrong. I broke my promise and checked up on her. She's still cheating on me, and things never really stopped. She tells me she's faithful, nothing has happened, and she loves me, but I know she's lying.
Recently she got offered her dream job in my country, and the contract process is happening fairly quickly. She's staying here on a Partner visa with me, and we live together. If I break up with her, she either has to leave within a month, or become illegal. Apart from that, it will obviously make my life more hellish for that month than it already is living with a person who you know is lying to you with a straight face, while making out with another guy. I know that she is planning to stay with me for the two years it will take for her to gain permanent residence, and then leave me for the guy she is cheating on me with.
In my country, you can only ever sponsor two people to be partners, and if your first partner is granted PR, the length your second one has to wait grows to 5 years, rather than just 2.
I don't know how to handle breaking up with her, and what to say to who, when. I don't want to be taken advantage of, or have my name smeared by this. Breaking up with her before she gets PR will pretty much destroy her whole life as she knows it. She quit her job to come here with me, which is kind of a black spot on her employment history in her home country. I feel angry and upset about what she has done to our relationship, but I'm still battling feelings of love for her, and I don't want to see her broken. I wish everything I know about what's happened could be a lie, but I know it's not, so I have to deal with it.
To complicate things, accepting the job involves costly medical and security checks for her, and may mean we consider moving. I'm at university, and I only just found this out, right before the exam period. I really don't want to think about this before exams, and I definitely don't want to break up with her just before my first exam, so I am putting it off, but I feel so guilty for "supporting" her through the process of getting checks and references for this job that I know will be difficult if not impossible for her to keep.
What would you do?
What should I tell her? The truth? Or that I've fallen out of love, but don't know why? Or that one of her friends told me the truth?
How do I deal with the stress of living together with this oblivious lying girl who tells me she loves me?
What should I do to handle the resistance that I'm likely to have to breaking up with her? She won't want to break up with me, because she wants PR.
Can you tell me some steps and the order in which I might do them?
Any other general advice about the situation that I haven't asked a specific question about is more than welcome.
Thanks in advance.
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RUN! What the hell are you doing!!?? get the hell out of there...the writtings on the wall...your being used...LEAVE what the hell are you waiting for...it doesn't matter what she thinks at this point...what does she have to do draw you a picture!!!! if your happy with this situation like this, no sex, she doesn't want to be here, shes still cheating, what the hell are you waiting for...you deserve better...get out, take a small bag say your going for chips and leave have some self respect for gawd sakes...would you like you with what you've tolerated...grow a pair you pussy she sure as hell hates you...are you blind...SUCKEr
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im 13 and ive been going out with my boyfriend for 7 months and i love him but ive also liked 1 of my guy friends for a while and my boyfriend even said our relationship is getting boring and ive relized that my guy friend likes me to but i dont know who to choose (link)
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You don't know what the word Love mean! your 13! just wait...tell in in 10-20 years LOL dump both friends for a couple of weeks, get busy...if the guys bored oh well too bad...get on with your life..what are you his babysitter or his mom...toss him to the curb...let someone else grow up this pup...NEXT
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i use to date this guy named alex a month ago. he's a freshman in college and im a senior in high school.i can say that I was really in love with him enough to lose my virginity to him and he's one those guys that doesn't show his feelings and he hasn't been in many real relationships and I know what we had was real. we broke up because he never made time for me when he came into town for the weekend and we never really had the typical relationship regular people had. all we did was txt and occasionally oovoo. I wanted him to do the simplest things to show he cared and he never did. I cant really explain all the wrong things because no one gets it but me. and I just really got fed up with it all and ended it. and right after I started talking to this guy named allah. he's perfect and he does everything that alex never did and I really like him. the problem is that its hard to let him in because of past things with alex. I told alex everything , our connection was different than ive had with anyone. I cant open up or let myself love anyone else. im even scared to have sex with him because I don't feel right having sex with someone else. if im being honest I still have feelings for alex and I haven't let go of him hurting me so much. I literally just found the guy I want but still stuck on feelings for alex. he was really something special to me and idk how to move on. allah understands it all but why cant I just let go of alex (link)
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See this is a good example of why a young woman/firl should not be having sexual relation with a male/man...when a woman has sex, with any male she gets, for lack of a better word..tied to that man...that's why women of old didn't have sex and were chaperoned...a young woman needs to focus on her life...and what she wants..a husband or school or what ever, not hankering for some dude that used her as a receptacle (sorry) a warm place to put it...your not in a relationship..hes just doing you...get it? yea you care but he could care less...get it? that's nature for a man to put his Penis into everything that's walk are you understanding...don't have sex with young men, plain and simple....don't lay down and spread your legs, count yourself lucky you didn't get pregnant...its no fun taking care of a baby with no daddy...stop having sex with him...keep busy and stop putting out...understand? DO IT. now go and make something of your life, or at least don't get pregs...
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How to convince a girl to sex
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You don't!! go get a prostitute and pay her to service you and leave young womankind ALONE...get it Buster? just because you want what you want...doesn't mean your to have it...your ruin a girls life...your using her as a receptacle...that's why society has women to take care of lustful men...unless your going to marry and provide you have no business trying to deflower a girl.,,..get it? you should be horse whipped...young women don't understand males needs, and unless your going to commit to her...which your not...Leave it alone,or ask her hand in marriage to her father you dog.
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I am 23 yrs old gal. I was in a relationship for past 3 yrs. He ws my lifeline but last year I came to know he ws cheating with me. It destroyed me.I tried to move on. During dos months I started having horrible dreams. Most nights I see m in some battle field fighting. Ders blood everywhere. I scream but wen I woke up derz nthing. I really feel all dis happening to me in real. Unknown people's faces der screams, blood in my hands. I couldnt sleep for months bcz I fear des dreams will haunt me again. After some months my friend proposed me.He lives out of station so basically it would be a long distance relationship so I said yes. At first it was like a diversion from my nightmares. I finally slept peacefully at night.For me it ws more of compromise dan love. Aftr 5 months I came to know abt his other girlfriend. He said me dey broke up but in reality dey were still together. I left him but he kept pursuading me saying he really loves me. We are friends now but its hurting me seeing him with other women. Now dos horrifying dreams started coming again. Again same war scenes. Peaople dying. M trying to help but I cant move. I cant sleep in nights. Some nights I dream my ex boyfriend. In reality I cant remember his voice but in my dreams I can hear his exact voice leaving me. Its like I havent slept for months. (link)
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There is no easy answer...trust me been there done that, it just take time...its especially hard with first love...its just life, you have to go threw it, like right of passion, its what happened to everyone...suck it up...deal with it...if you have any kind of support as in family or friends well then count yourself lucky...better yet if you can "Don't have sex with the male" that's why young people should nt have sex...you get mixed up and more hurt...its too bad young ones cant be brought up with a mom and dad, and supervision so some guy doesn't wreck your life, or those serial molesters...naïve and young needs to be protected. good luck watch your kids every minute
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