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how do i pick between my boyfriend and my guy friend
im 13 and ive been going out with my boyfriend for 7 months and i love him but ive also liked 1 of my guy friends for a while and my boyfriend even said our relationship is getting boring and ive relized that my guy friend likes me to but i dont know who to choose
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You don't know what the word Love mean! your 13! just wait...tell in in 10-20 years LOL dump both friends for a couple of weeks, get busy...if the guys bored oh well too bad...get on with your life..what are you his babysitter or his mom...toss him to the curb...let someone else grow up this pup...NEXT
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I'd say, that if your boyfriend says that the relationship is getting boring in a harsh way, then drop him because that is not very nice. And go for your guy friend if you think things will work out, because if you really loved the first guy, you wouldnt be considering the second guy :)
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When someone is confused between two or three people, I normally say take a step back away from both and figure out who you really want to be friend.
This isn't something that should be an impulse decision because you can easily regret it.
So take a break from your boyfriend. Spend some time away from your guy friend.
Write down what you're looking for in a guy. See if these guys match that.
If in the end you decide to go after your guy friend, then that's fine.
If you decide to stay with your current boyfriend, then that's fine too. Although if you're relationship is getting boring, then try doing new things. Like going out and trying new activities to keep your relationship exciting and fun. If you guys really love each other, you'll make it work.
Don't stress out over this too much. You're only 13 and will probably end up dating more guys in your future. Most girls won't end up with the guys they were dating in high school since people change as they get older.
So don't rush it. Just take some time to figure out what you need and what you want.
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Hi, haha maybe some of this might sound a bit harsh but here goes:
If you say that you "love" your boyfriend (I assume that he said he "loves" you too) then why is he saying that your relationship is boring? you should be with a guy that is excited and acts privileged about going out with you, not someone who says he is bored with you.
All I can really say now is if you really like your guy friend and he likes you too and you can't imagine being bored with him or him being bored with you, then go for it and break up with your current boyfriend and ask your guy friend out. But don't break up with someone and ask someone else out frequently or else you'll not have a steady boyfriend (if that's what you want.)
Anyway, good luck, fabulous, I hope everything works out for you! ;)- talldivaofbeverlyhillz
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