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Hey yall, I'm Lindsey, 14, and i just want to help people so leave me some questions, i reply really fast! I love talking to people and hanging out with my friends and family(most of the time!) soooo I'm open to all kinds of questions but please only ask if its true, dont put fake crap in here! Love yah!!

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my girlfriend thinks im not the same as when we first started going out, she say i ahve been acting differently....she eve ask if i want us to take a break...(i said no)because i love her and i want to be with her. Also she keeps acting like she wants to break up with me but i dont kno if she thinks that or not..... help plz


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yahhh umm well maybe she just thinks you have changed or something, idk, im not quite sure how to help, just give her some space and it will turn out for the best in the end! hope I helped~

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hey.. well.. i have a problem.. i like this one kid.. and something has happened bfore(nothing bad.. just kissing) but there is this other girl who has him liek wrapped around his finger.. and he could do soo much better than her..( im not saying with me or anything.. im just saying he can..) and liek we will go on and off.. like i always have liked him.. but im not sure about him.. like he flirts with a lot of girls too.. but ppl say he does it with me the most.. but its on and off is the thing.. like we will talk for hours.. and liek when the other girl who is around..t he girl who has him wrapped around his finer.. well we act different.. and i cant talk to him about it because we are good friends.. and the girl who has him wrapped is one of my friends too.. and this other guy who lieks me wouldnt be too happy bc we are frineds too.. i just dont know what to do.. and one of my bffls is a flirt too... and she knows that i like him.. but she still flirts with him too... and she says she donet like him.. so that bothers me... im just really confuised.. and i dontknow what to do.. please help me.

yah ok, your question was kinda confusing but I think i understand. try talkin to his friends and see what they think and find out who he talks about and stuff, b/c if he talks about you then thats good but if he doesnt then he might not be totally interested in you. also, dont jump into things b/c relationships can ruin friendships! hope I helped~ Linds

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Ok, well there are these two guys that I like. One of them I have known since kindergarten and we went to the same school and we liked each other there. Then I recently saw him at one of my athletic games and we got updated and stuff, and then when he left the game, my friend from my old school(the one that he still goes to now) said that he still likes me and I still like him. Then there is a guy that I like at school and I know him a little but not as much as I know the other guy I like. I like them both but I dont no what to do!!! My friend from my old school said that he really likes me a lot and wants to ask me out, but if he does then I won't see him a lot because he goes to a different school and everything... I'm not sure what i should do!!!!
~Lacy

ok Lacy, I think you should talk things out with the guy from your old school, and see if hes really interested and talk about if things would work out, if yall dont think they do, try getting to know the other kid better and then maybe something will happen from that.Good Luck~ hope I helped~Linds

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ok heres the thing.. i like these 2 guys.. one knows i like him.. and he lieks me too.. like we both like eachother a lot.. and the other guy doesnt know i like him.. but we both flirt.. but the tihng is is that the 2 guys are good friends..and no one knows i like the other guy bc i dont wanna hurt the other guy..and i just dont knwo what to do.. please help me!

The only thing I could tell you is that you should definetely talk to each of them privately and figure out your feelings, if you really love someone sometimes you have to take a risk, most of the time your probably going to hurt someone whether you know it or not, just be open and tell them how you feel~hope I helped~Linds

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I really like this guy let's call him Joe and 2 of my friends also like him and it gets crazier than that. The first time I saw Joe the room seemed to melt away, like him and I were the only ones in the room. Then it happened again a couple months later. I'm so confused because I just started liking him recently! What do you think is happening to me? And should I tell my friends? Thanks! I appreciate it!

Definetly talk to your friends about him, your sooo falling for him and he needs to know so talk to him too!!! It could be love at first site! Love does that to you, Good Luck!! hope I helped~ Lindsey

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well i decided to have a sleep-over but i dont know what i should do or what movies i sohlud rent.. pleez help me out here. if u say truth or dare please give examples.

I would rent some girly movies, if your a girl, you sound like one, anyways so like Sweet Home Alabama, Legally Blonde, Miss Congeniality..etc.., ask the girls comming to the party, they may have their own ideas! Have Fun and Be Safe, hope I helped~Lindsey

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Ok, here's the deal. I have HIGH morals, and one of them is that i dont want to kiss a guy untill i get married. Well. theres this guy that i really like and he likes me. and if we go out i know that he'll wanna kiss me and i've been thinkg about it and i wanna kiss him. what do i do?? I am afraid if i dont then i'll regret it. And i think i'll regret it if i don't.

What do I do ??

Ok hun I have morals too, one is not to have sex until marraige and I've made that promise, but kissing isn't a huge thing and it's not going to cause you any harm so I think that you should kiss him if you want to and your comfortable with it.hope I helped~Lindsey

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okay.. im like totally in love with this guy seriousally in love... but hes soo much older than I am... but hes all I think about, I really dont know what to do.. I think he knows that I like him and I kinda think he likes me too but Im not sure.. what do I do...?

I would definitely talk to someone about it, it kinda depends on how much older and how old you are because of certain reasons, but if you truly love him dont let anyone stop you. Be careful and safe in ur decisions! hope I helped~Lindsey

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ok well here is the thing..... i like 2 guys.... guy A flirts with me a lot and stuff.... and he sed he doesnt want a g/f rite now. guy B hung out with me for a few hours and he was flirting like crazy.... he pulled into his lap... put his arm round me.... tickled me and other things i wont mention. and he met my friend over the internet and says he kinda likes her and he has only known her for a few hours... and he sed he doesnt like me... and i like him. but if he didnt like me then y washe flirting like that so much. IDK WUT TO DO PLEASE HELP!!

I have a feeling he was using you to get to your friend, I'm sorry I haven't had the same experience, but thats what it sounds like. Talk to him about your feelings, but he sounds to me like hes a jerk. hope I helped~Lindsey

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Why do you people even make these they are pointless please tell me

Me, personally I thought it was a good way to help people, and it's pretty fun! ~ sry you dont't feel the same~ Lindsey

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THIS IS PRETTY LONG AND BORING....
Im 20m and never had a girlfriend!!!I never even hold or kiss a girl before.... It's not that im ugly or gay, although im not the cute or handsome type either. When i was in high school there were a few girls that come up to me but they weren't my type so i refused them all. But the girl that was my type, i never had the courage to ask them out (im very shy around the girl i like). Now that i drop out of college and work fulltime, i dont have the chance of meeting new people. HOW AM I GOING TO GET A GF? I dont hang out that much and i had never step foot in a club before. Here's the weird thing, the older i get the pickier i am about girlfriend. I thought that not having a gf is suppose to make me desperate, but im not, although i do want a gf pretty bad. What make it worse is that i dont like party girls or girls that would go out with someone that just met and thought he is kinda cute, of course there is nothing wrong with that, im just being picky. I would like to get to know the girl a lil bit before i go out with her, but HOW AM I GOING TO DO THAT????

ok, i suggest that you go to the mall, because girls love the mall, also you sound like you need to loosen up, your 20 so your at the age where people like to party, and have fun, so just think about that, also it's not sad that you havent had sex before because you should save yourself for marraige!~hope I helped~ Lindsey

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14/m
i like 2 girls right now, GIRL-A goes to my school and lives REALLY close, but GIRL-B goes to a dif school but still lives kind of close to me. im good friends with GIRL-A but i dont think i have a chance with her(atleast not right now cuz she just broke up with her bf and she still likes him). i know GIRL-B likes me and shes perfect for me but we barely ever see each other(atleast not now). do you think that a relationship w/ GIRL-B would work out or should i just wait a while and see what happens?
-thanks

In your case try going out with girl B, because girl A needs some time before she gets caught in another relationship. Even though girl B doesn't go to your school, try making plans for the weekends(movies, mall, etc.) good luck~ hope I helped~ Lindsey

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I just want to know what are some things you can say to a girl to charm her and make her like you. Such what are some things i could say to the girl i like to just slowly make her like me. Are there anythings that girls like to hear that charms them. Thanks any help is pretty much appreciated

In my own opinion girls love to be complimented, but most have a hard time accepting them. Girls inside are accepting the compliment but just flirting on the outside. Also I love cute quotes, and poetry, and I think they are romantic. You could try and write a love letter also that would be sweet and maybe leave it in her locker or on her desk at school!~ good luck~ hope i helped~ rate me~ Lindsey

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well there is this guy that i like and im not sure if he likes me. we talk at school and he likes to joke around with me adn make fun of me, but he always smiles and is happy around me. i just want to knwo if he likes me, what do you people think?

14/f

I definetely think he is in to you! If your not positive or wan't to ask him out yourself try to talk to one of your friends about it, and see if they can help you by talking to them for you~ hope I helped~Lindsey

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okay i have a b/f now well call him "K" okay well we've been goin out for a lil while but i wanna call him but im afraid his mom or something is gonna answer what do i do/?

I recommend you call and if his mom answers be sweet and ask nicely if you can speak with him. Believe me, mom's are interested don't be afraid of them~hope i helped~Lindsey

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..........theres this girl in my class who is really hot,has a great personality,smart.and athletic. she just recently had a boyfriend but she dumped him.i like her alot and she sot of likes me.....im not absolutely sure,but she talks to me alot and i think she likes me. i need advice on how to figure out how much she likes me without snitches snooping and telling everyone i like her. please help

well if you know some of this girls friends, try asking them who she is into right now, if you don't want to be that public talk to one of your friends that you really trust and have known for a while, and get that person to talk to her!~good luck~ hope i helped ~ Lindsey

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Me and this guy use to go out. He broke up with me and I didnt see him for a long time. I was in love with him, we started talking again and we hug and flirt and talk but theres this other girl he does some of that stuff with too. I still have feelings for him, everytime I see him I always think god he's hot, and think about how much I care for him. But wut do I do? I need him back, he's like all I ever think about.

please just tell him how you feel, you will never get anywhere by keeping your feelings stored up inside, realized this from own experiences. Sit him down somewhere or ask him to go somewhere where you can talk privately, or call him ~hope i helped~ Lindsey

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Hey!

I have a case of boredum!

lol

anyways-
what are some good sites to go to when you are bored?!

Like some that have those quizes like:

ex:
1-whats your fav color
2-whats your fav drink


or

1- where did we meet


and/ or those when you pick your fav color and its says something like "blue means that....."

you know?

any one have some of those that they could send to me? or any sites?

Thanks In Advance!!

*-KeLsA-*

Try going to seventeen.com, it's a great magazine site, and they have a ton of quizzes that are very interesting!~hope i helped~Lindsey

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i have just moved to a new skool, and i have noticed that most of the girls at my skool like me. now i just got here and wont be here for long and hardly know any of them. and it's really obvious on who likes me cause i often find them staring at me then they stop when i see they are. i wanna know wat i should do about this.... i'll rate i guess if its good

hey, try talking to them, if you like one of them, that's great try to get to know her and maybe yall can go out, if not then tell them your not interested~hope i helped~ Lindsey

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I just don't understand how I can easily give advice to others and yet I am horrible at taking my own advice. For instance I always tell my friends and anyone else for that matter people at my age (17 and under) can not understand love. Yet I sit here thinking I love someone. I care about this guy a lot and we used to date. I know he is a jerk but that doesn't mean I want to not date him. I know I will be fine without him but I know how much fun I had with him (in a perfectly christian way). All he does now is avoid me and surrounds himself with girls. Then when we actually talk he is tells me he loves me just doesn't want to date right now. I don't understand his thought concept or his reasoning. How can you tell a girl you 'love' them and then ignore them for a long time? I just don't understand it. I am tired of waiting for answers he is not willing to tell me. Can any one help me understand why he is doing this?

Ok i know how you feel, if he really loved you he wouldn't be ignoring you so he must have feelings for sumone else, just try to move on becuase i don't think hes interested right now, or you could tell him how you feel and ask him whats up, hope i helped~ lindsey

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