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JUST DON'T GET IT
I just don't understand how I can easily give advice to others and yet I am horrible at taking my own advice. For instance I always tell my friends and anyone else for that matter people at my age (17 and under) can not understand love. Yet I sit here thinking I love someone. I care about this guy a lot and we used to date. I know he is a jerk but that doesn't mean I want to not date him. I know I will be fine without him but I know how much fun I had with him (in a perfectly christian way). All he does now is avoid me and surrounds himself with girls. Then when we actually talk he is tells me he loves me just doesn't want to date right now. I don't understand his thought concept or his reasoning. How can you tell a girl you 'love' them and then ignore them for a long time? I just don't understand it. I am tired of waiting for answers he is not willing to tell me. Can any one help me understand why he is doing this?
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um... u can love at any age!!!!!
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he is embarrassed to show it in front of his friends he wants them to think he is a monch monch kinda guy thats isnt fallen for a certian girl
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Ok i know how you feel, if he really loved you he wouldn't be ignoring you so he must have feelings for sumone else, just try to move on becuase i don't think hes interested right now, or you could tell him how you feel and ask him whats up, hope i helped~ lindsey
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Well because he is a guy! And, he surrounds himself with girls all the time (which a girlfriend may not approve of).He just isn't ready to settle for one girl yet.Maybe he will sometime but not now.At least he's being honest with you about it and not running around behind your back....that would hurt a lot more.
I wouldn't say that you don't give yourself good advice. I think you are handeling everything in a mature way, it's just hard to do. And love is just one of those crazy things that doesn't make sense no matter what you do.Most things are easier said than done!
Don't sit around and wait on him though. Believe it or not there are other guys who would be just as much, if not more fun. If you get back together in the future great.If not maybe you'll find someone even better!:}
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i think its because you gave out wrong advice and you shoud start giving better advice then you would probly know what to do
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He's a guy, and hes young. He doesnt know what he wants in his life and since hes young, its all about having fun right now. I think he is saying he loves you, and then ignoring you..because he thinks he can come back to you whenever he wants and be welcomed with open arms. Just because he left off with a nice thing to say. I understand how you feel about the advice thing, everyone is like that! They can give advice to others but when it comes to you, you cant give yourself advice. I hope I helped a little:)
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