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well my best friend and i have been friends for 3 years ok. we have been getting in fights once a week and its driving me crazy lets just say i have been seeing my councler alot for and one day i didnt talk to a single person. well we recently just got in a fight because i was walking with a friend that she doesnt like him at all. i tryed to talk to her but we just got in this big fight and she says she cant trust me because im friends with someone she doesnt like and right now i have alot of problems and when i try to explain to her wat my problem is she just compares it to her life. i dont know how to tell her how i feel with out her getting all mad and crap like that. so can u give me some ideas on how to talk to her. ooo and shes an only child. she can be self concided to if u couldnt tell already. (link)
its sounds to me like she isnt a true friendand you don't need her.i wouln'd have her as a friend if i were you.


hey ..ok i'm a 15 yr old female in high school.
me and a bunch of my friends decided we were going to dress up and go trick or treating..yea we're a lil old (15yrs-18yr olds) but we dont care, we just want to dress up & have fun with it. anyways..any cute ideas for costumes? like maybe something all of us could be together? like for example some1 said a cheerleading squad..or a football team..

thanx in advance =)
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be a trucker.
Tips:
*rip up some old jeans and put holes in them
*get an old baseball hat
*old ripped up t-shirt


how long does it take to get your braces off? thanx (link)
i think it takes 4 years but its okay its for the best!


wut is the best way to get a rid of pimples or acne quickly? i rate! (link)
i would go call your doctor and see what your doctor procribes to you.


K well anyways I have had this b/f for 2 months and Its internet, thoug I've knew him almost a year... anyways My Friend, her b/f and myself are planning to drive down to where he lives, which is about 30 minutes to an hour away from me... but I know my rents would not go for it if they knew I was going to meet him... so Should I go on and go and just tell them Im going shopping with my best friend for a party or something or tell them the truth and try and convince them o let me go? If I should tell them Im going shopping with My buddy... I need a good excuse to go out of town...
Thankz
l8rZ (link)
i think that instead of lieing you should go shopping and then invite him to lunch and meet him at the place.that way your not lieing but you forgot bits and pieces.


i'm moving... my room has white walls and a tan carpet. any cool color schemes?? i want it to be really awesome with a whole bunch of different colors.

also, where can i get cheap bedspreads and things like that?? (link)
i think that ebay.com might have some cheap/bargin prices. it all depends on what colors you like. i would hire a interior decorator to help you with that.


okay, i have this guy best friend..weve been best friends for like 6 months now..he just gotta gf like 4 months ago,and be4 that he usta REALLY REALLY REALLY Like me more than friends..but then he stopped...recently it REALLY seems like he likes me again, even with his gf, its kinda freakin me out alil..like i really think that he thinks that i like him too..all tha poems i write and put in my aim profile about love i think he thinks is about him..all tha songs i put for my voicemail, i think he thinks are about him...and he has a GF. AND i dont even likke him at ALL like that hes like my brother!!! i have talked to him bout it like 2 months ago, and he REALLY hinted it but didnt admit anything..in a cd he made me there was a song that went like this, "i wish we were more than just friends.."blahblah..its kinda freaking me out...whut do i do :-/ i cant really talk about it with him nemore, i mean i make it realy obvious that i dont want to be more than friends not only cause he has a gf but because i dont like him that way!! help please (link)
tell him that you don't like him more than a friend.if he doesn't like ur feelings or doesn't respect ur feelings you really need to get rid of him cause he's not a true friend.


my boyfriend and i have been going out almost a year. we lived in the same state then within the 7th month of us going out he moves then a few months i moved but we still live in different states. we are still going out but now he works and there are girls that like him there. i know i am supose to trust him but it is really hard he tells me he doesnt look at other girls but then he tells me (we are honest with eachother) that he has watched bad stuff on tv i hate to think that he checks out other girls but thats what i think. i am a very negative person. should i just blow off what i think and just trust him or just think that if he finds someone else thats fine i can find someone else too... (link)
i think that if you have a feeling that he's lieing or is cheating dump him.But if he hasn't done anything in the past then i wouldn't worry bout anything.


My mom says I need to be more responsable so that she can trust me when I start driving in a month. How can I show her that she can trust me? (link)
do things with her that will have to include trust.the way i got my mom and dad to trust me was to do extra things for them.always help them out and if she gives you a time to be in the house by be like 20 minutes early to prove that you were responsable for leaving at where you were early so you could be home in time.also, i would clean the whole house and keep track of things that they would normaly ask for so you could give them an answer and that would show responsability.


Well i was in school and my two friends told me that this kid,told them that he likes me! and i was wicked excited cuz hes cute,hott,funny,smart etc. and i like him. But now he says its not the rite time to have a girlfriend because he just got over this girl that he liked for 3weeks cuz she was the biggest bitch ever! how do i show him that it is the rite time? or should i just wait for him to get over everything hes been through? i really like him and i don't know wut to do..omg please help...sorry its so long but pleaseee give me some advice (link)
i would give him time til he feels comfortable.i am a popular girl at school and i felt the same way bout my boyfriends ex.i thought that she was a bitch but thats cause we all like the guy and its hard knowing that he likes you and you like him.but if you rush a guy he won't go out with you for a long time cause he might feel presured.


two days ago i got this bug bite that started to swell up like MAD and now it's the size of my elbow, it's red, and swollen. what can it be and what can i do about it? (link)
go tell your mom.then or put some lotion on it that will help swell up better and faster.maybe if it gets any biger you should see a doctor.


Well, I've hardly been eating ANYTHING lately. And when I do, it's small doses of like...carrot sticks or something. I've been loosing weight and everything. I don't think I'm fat and all that, I don't even want to be on some stupid diet. I want to eat, but everytime I try, I get sick if I eat too much. Should I see a doctor? Or is this normal for a girl my age?

13.f. (link)
DO NOT BECOME ANERETIC*********************

it is not good to not be eating.exspecialy at ur age.when i lift my arms up all you could see in my back are bones.I am boney and skinny.you really need to eat and don't not feed urself becasue inside ur body you will get really sick and ifur doctor finds out you could be hospatalized.You also will have to go to a rehab center where you can't see any of ur friends til you get out.Whitch could be possibly 6 months.


I have never actually made out with someone and i can tell mi boyfriend and i r gonna do it soon. Plz if u have any ints or tricks i would realli appriciate it! (link)
just give him what he wants.and then if you feel peer pressured then tell him ur not ready for this. If he doesn't care bout ur feelings then dump him.


Hello,

I am 16 years old and a female. I am 5'2 1/2 and 93 lbs. I am very thin but not sick looking. I don't really eat like I'd call normal. I eat like once or twice a day normally but sometimes three. I am just never hungry most of the time and I am typically a light eater. The odd thing is last year I was like 115-120 lbs and then a few months ago I was 98 and now I'm 93 lbs. Is there something wrong? (link)
you need to eat cause ur starving yourself and you could die if you don't eat.you are not normal thats all i could say.


I have to babysit tomorrow and the next day and i get really bored i have to watch my lil bro 4 lyk 6 hours and i wanted to no if u have n e ideas about how to keep me not so bored? (link)
my idea is to chill wit the kids and eat some munchies.Then Take them to a park and play there then while you watch them play if ur friend is there talk with them and watch the kids.


OK I'm a 15/f and I'm white.. and my boyfriend's black. It makes no diffrence to me .. I dont care at all but I think my dad does. Eventually he's going to meet my Dad and I'm so afraid of what my Dad's going to say. He doesn't know about my boyfriend yet. My dad's a little bit intimidating and I dont want him to scare my boyfriend or anything because I really like him a lot. I think we're going to last a long time, but I'm so scared of what my Dad's going to do or say. What should I do to make this easier ? (link)
i have the same problem kinda like urs. I am datin a black guy and my mom doesn't like it.My dad doesn't care but my mom does.I don't get it either how come white girls can't go out with black guys.I had sex with a black guy before and my mom found out 'bout it. DON'T FEEL BAD I AM IN THE SAME ISSUE!!!


Hey ..
I was just wondering..
does anyone have any ideas on places my boyfriend and I can go to just hang out? We just like to hang out and spend time together....I'm 15 by the way. Also..what are some good jobs to get at this age? I heard Culver's hires at this age, but I'm not positive. Does anyone know of any work places to help earn money towards college? Thanks so much!:) (link)
I am a 17 year old girl and my parents are goin
to put me in law school.Maybe you should work at like a doctors office and be a phone helper or somethin like that.If you like the phones you should do that or work at a near by store that you could get a lot of buisness at.As far as the boyfriend thing i think that you guys should hit a dinner and a movie,then when the movie is done go on a carrage ride.Thats what i do with my boyfriend all the time.Or your other option is go dinner and then rent a movie and go back to one of your guys's place.


well honestly i just feel like giving up on guys and its not like they dont like me they do but all the ones i want to like me either we "talk" and something happens and we dont work out or we date but only for a short period of time or they just like me as a really good friend or they like me but i dont like them like that. like all the guys lately that ive liked they dont like me as more than a friend .. tell me that im really pretty and dont act so like most girls and i have an awesome personality and im really sweet but they just dont think of me like that or they just dont want a gf right now. my friends tell me i shouldnt give up on them that i should keep looking but i jsut dont know bc i hate it when guys break my heart. im sorry this is sooo long! please help me! (link)
i think that you shouldn't give
up on guys because there is always
a guy that likes you. I get upset when
my heart gets broken but that means that
i could date knowing that i'm not getting
used by him cause he likes me. I wouldn't
give up on the guys and i would tell ur
friends that they should give it a shot like you.




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