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Q: OKay so i want to try pot one time.. thats it, just once, my friend offered to do it with me
what are some of the last effectf of doing drugs.. like withh doing it one time follow me my whole life
or is it not that bad to do it like once
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With pot ppl say that it is addicting but it's all in your head. Doing pot just once isn't going to hurt you and after a while you will forget you even done it. It won't follow you around your whole life. So if you want to do it once it's fine.
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Q: So, i had sex today. and i ended my period a little over a week ago; well me and the boyfriend didn't use a condom,so he busted his load all in me. should i be worried about becoming pregnant?
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well if you aren't on bc then you probably are most likely going to be pregnat. let me know how everything goes. good luck
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Q: so, like, probably about a month ago i started cutting myself. now, i can't stop. it has turned into an addiction. i can't hide it anymore, i wera like tons of hair things on my wrist, but it still doesn't fully cover all of the cuts and if one accidentley moves, people are like omg what is that?! and i always tell them i axcidentley burnt myself. and i have been going to the doctor ALOT lately because i'm really sick and they don't no what is wrong with me and so they always check my body and stuff, and i have been getting I.V.'s and stuff and the nurse just pulls up my sleeve and see's it and looks at me then just acts like she didn't see it because she no's. so, i have been trying to stop, i really have, but it is so hard because i like to do it so much. it's not like im really doing anything bad to me, they are harmless little cuts that barley bleed, so what i really want is to no how to hide them! anyone who can help will be well appreciated! thanks.
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Well if you dress kinda punk you can wear sweatbands, or jackets with the holes for your thumbs. When I went through that, that is what I wore just so ppl wouldn't see them.
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Q: ok so i just found out im pregnant. and im only 15. DONT JUDGE ME I JUST NEED ADVICE.
i have to tell my parents. but i dunno how. any help on that?
also, the father doesnt know im pregnant, either. how can i tell him and my parents?
and please please please dont tell me to get an abortion cause im so against that.
so yeah just gimme advice on how to tell my parents and the father.
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What you do is get them all in one room... and just tell them. that is what I would do... or I would tell my parents 1st and then tell the father
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Q: i returned some clothes at Christmas at a store, and really i wanted the money but when the cute guy at the place asked me if i wanted store credit/ put it on a gift card i said yeah. and im going to the mall tomarrow, do you think that if i ask for the money on the card they'll give it to me?
thankss.
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I really don't think they will, becuase my friend tried and they didn't allow it. But all you can do is ask.
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Q: before I ask, I'd like to make a point: I am completely aware that males find sex important and especially in the teenage years. I know that alot of feelings could be driven by this (especially in the teens again), but if I were to say that my boyfriend and I have been together a year and still we have not had sex (we've been waiting for me to get ready and be prepared), would this surprise you? Given that yes, we are still in our teens.
My real question is, do guys fall in love easily? Or is sex one of the main things they go for? And if they do say, fall in love with someone, do they still scout about for other girls?
I am kind of looking for a link to my relationship - remember! A year, no sex... and we are very, very happy just as that :)
Thanks, Faye
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I have noticed in alot of my past relationships that most of the guys tell you that they love you but then as soon as you have sex they want to break up. so the way that I look at it most guys yes do go for sex... but on the otherhand some of the guys out there are looking for love and that is all they want no matter if there is sex in the relationship or not. So the way that i look at it is that if oyu all are happy without having sex just wait and see where you all go and one day it will happen... the right moment and time.
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Q: My mom wont let me be myself I'm a Tomboy but she wants me to be a stupid prep i just want to be myslef i want to get black eyes because the boys get mad just because i beet them at football, I want to play ice hockey, I want to wear what I want and act the way I want. I wish mom would just listen to the song beautiful by christina agluira (or whatever her last name is) and think that she is distroying me I'm beautiful the way I am and I'm not going to change nobody can make me change not even a thousand of our strongest armys why cant my mom just except the fact that im a tomboy and im never going to change ever in my life it has been 5 years and im still the same. what should i do about this?
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I had the same problem.. My mom tried to throw away all of the guys clothes I had and I learned to hide them and wash my own laundry. She told me that she wouldn't let me go anywhere i still went. Then one day I just sat her down and told her how I felt about her trying to change who i am. she got it through her head and we are fine now.... so just sit down and talk to her, and she should understand.
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Q: 16/f. honors student..
i lost my drive to study and do schoolwork for the past 2 months...alltogether.
but then i got angry with myself, started studying and am doing SO much better. Practically all As and Bs now.
but the problem remains with one subject; chemistry. i hate chemistry, but i know im gonna need it in the near future when i study in university to become a doctor.
but i cant force myself to study it. i study for everything else, read over for every other subject..history, math, english, you name it. but i just cant force myself to sit down with a chemistry book open..and actually study. this is due to the fact that my chemistry teacher doesn't really teach us anything. i know i can get the motivation. but how can i force myself to study? i'm falling way behind on this subject..and we're already one of the slowest classes.
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What I think you should do is get some of your friends that are in that class and you all study together. That way if that is what all of you all want you all can help each other and talk about what is goin on. Also you all can have fun with it.
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Q: hey,
thank you for your advice, i now feel that the chances of a worst case scenario from happening isn't that bad, but i'm afraid of the awkward situation. was it awkward when you brought it up? b/c i've been hinting at him i feel the same way, he just doesn't get it, or he thinks it's an act of kindness from a friend, so now i know i have to initiate it. so i'm wondering if you were nervous or anything, because i sure am!
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Yes it was kinda awkward, but I got through it.
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Q: I have to get an MRI on my elbow tomarrow morning b/c they think I have torn a ligament. They are gonna use contrast and all of that. I'm kinda nervous and I would like to know a few things--
1. Will they start an IV??
2. Will my whole body go into the MRI machine?
3. What should I wear to the MRI?
4. Will they make me wear a hospital gown or what?
THANKS in advance.
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when I got my MRI on my knee. I got to wear my own clothes I did the MRI and left. so no IV. since it's your elbow probably the only thing that won't be in is your head. you can wear whatever you really want. and no you don't wear a gown.
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Q: I just put a semi-permanent color in my hair and was told it would take 4-6 weeks to fade out. Does anyone know if it will completely fade back to my natural color or will it just be a lighter shade of what I put in?
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When I did it, it faded to a very light color mixed with my natural color. so depending on what color you use.
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Q: hey, i just want to know if there's anyone who's asked their good guy friend out,or if you've had feelings for them and just straight out told them. i dunno anyone who's done that and what the best/worst is that can happen,as in how often the friendship still remains after that is said. so if you can tell me what happened after you told your best guy friend please let me know! thank you!
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Yes, I have. I sat down and had a conversation with him and told him how I felt. I told him if he thinks that it would make our friendship go down if we dated we shouldn't do it. He was just like it won't so we dated. well he broke up with me for another chick... but we are still really good friends and we talk almost everyday.
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Q: Sorry it's so long...Okay, I'm not sure if I'm over-reacting but my boyfriend (age 20) is literally in love with his mommy. The birthday card he gave to her read this....
Mom,
May this Birthday be a special day for you, just as special as you are to me. First of all I want to thank you for raising me by yourself and doing a great job at it. I know it seems as I get older I need you less but that isn't true. I am still learning things from you every day.
Even though I am not into all of that religious stuff, I beleive you are an Angel. You were put on this earth to help and guide others. I want to thank you for all you have done for me, and guiding me on to the right path of life.
Mom, you have done so much for me and I can't even begin to tell you how much I appreciate it.
You will always be the best MOM in the world!!!
The older you get the wiser you get and you will always be beautiful.
He is 20 years old and his mom still cooks his dinner, washes his clothes, and tells him how to live his life! Not to mention he just forgot our THREE YEAR anniversary...he also went on vacation w/ his mom during my sweet sixteen (I got no card or call for that matter). I'm at a loss. We have been "dating" for three years but we have NEVER been out on a date together!!! Yet, he takes his mom out for dinner all the time! He is always rubbing her back or massaging her head but for me, it's like pulling teeth to get a massage!! AND I'M HIS GIRLFRIEND!!!! I would greatly appreciate any advice, because I've been trying different approaches for three years and no luck yet!! THANKS!!
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I really don't thinkk that he is going to change just because of the fact that he is 20 and that you all have been together for 3 years and he hasn't change. To me I think that you need to find a man that will treat you like a real woman should.
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Q: Lately ive been getting urges to look at naked girls. Like Vanessa Anne Hudgens, nude. I like a guy, but i wanna know if im a lesbien. I like looking at myself naked, and lesbien porn, and fingering myself. Its just happened like this week. Im 14/f. Thanks so much!
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You don't have to be lesbian... you could be bi. but with being only 14 you could just be bi- curious. So just give it time and you will figure it all out.
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Q: Mmmkay , WELL...I really really really like this guy [ we'll call him bob ] and he was new a month or 2 ago and my group was the only ones who would hang with him.So he hung with us for a while , now he;s populerish , and he says I can hang wit hhim at breaks and lunch and he wants me to but I don't like the people he hangs with and I told him that and he's okay with it...but them we talk a lot and everything.
I asked him out 2 weeks ago and he said he didn't want to wreck the friendship.But I like him SO much...Also , my gy friends that I have gone out with / am comforatable with I flirt with a lot even if I don't like him.But with Bob , I'm trying to be suddle and everyone keeps sayin I'm flirting SO much with him ?
Anyways , I really want to show him that I'd be good as a more than a friend :) I need helllllp xD
BUT the problem is ... I'm flirting [apparentlly] and he still isn't doing anything diffrent and RAWR neither am I because i'M A CHICKEN Dx
Help ?
Please ?
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To me it seems like you need to sit down and talk to him. Tell him what is really going on in your head. Don't just ask him out actually sit and tell him how much you like him and if he still says no then just go along with it... even if it is hard.
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: Bluefield, WV Occupation: student Age: 17 Yahoo: MSN: rumpshaker3003@msn.com Member Since: February 6, 2008 Answers: 35 Last Update: July 15, 2009 Visitors: 2336
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