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Lesbien or no?


Question Posted Sunday February 3 2008, 7:34 pm

Lately ive been getting urges to look at naked girls. Like Vanessa Anne Hudgens, nude. I like a guy, but i wanna know if im a lesbien. I like looking at myself naked, and lesbien porn, and fingering myself. Its just happened like this week. Im 14/f. Thanks so much!

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sassynena answered Thursday March 13 2008, 8:32 pm:
i think that maybe your bi, or maybe that your curious. and you shouldnt worry to much, its not much of a big deal :]

hope i helped.

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kitkit2009 answered Wednesday February 6 2008, 5:17 pm:
You don't have to be lesbian... you could be bi. but with being only 14 you could just be bi- curious. So just give it time and you will figure it all out.

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AgonyAuntM answered Tuesday February 5 2008, 1:47 pm:
Hi,
Well, many girls get turned on by looking at girls so the same sex it can be a natural instinct and they have boyfriends as well. It's not because your a lesbian it's just life and they get horny and feel good after watching some.

Mandy
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xsillygirlx answered Monday February 4 2008, 9:44 pm:
No i would say your bi-sexual...

i hope i helped :]

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junebug93 answered Monday February 4 2008, 3:26 am:
You're not lesbian if you like a guy; being lesbian would make you ONLY attracted to girls. If you like/get crushes on both girls and guys, you would be considered bisexual.

That said, liking lesbian porn or naked pictures of girls doesn't necessarily make you bi. You'd have to actually be able to have feelings for both girls and guys for this to be the case.

Now I'm going to be a bit controversial here and dispute the whole "it's a phase" talk. I'm not saying that this couldn't be a phase, but there are studies that have shown sexuality to be fairly consistent in the long run. Being bisexual or lesbian is just as likely to be a phase as being straight is. One thing to get, though, is that our society is currently pretty paranoid and sensitive about these topics.

I wouldn't rush to any conclusions about appreciating the female figure; our bodies are pretty awesome. Right now you can call yourself bicurious, but I'd wait till you were actually attracted to other girls to put the bisexual "label" on yourself.

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grumps answered Monday February 4 2008, 1:00 am:
no worries;
dont sweat it, seriously.

it prbly just a phase.
i wont lie; im like that too right now.
but i know im not bi or lesbian.

i like lesbian porn; it turns me on.
i like it better then straight, guy girl porn.
its sexier.

&maybe yu should try a vibrator :)
theyre alot better then doing it yurself.
yu control everything on yur own :)

we should talk sometime ;)

write me back if yu want to ;)

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guitar_girl answered Monday February 4 2008, 12:21 am:
hey,
You might just be having a phase which is making you curious about sexuality.there is a chance that u could be bi or lesbian but you will probably just have to wait and see.Over time it will become clearer to you.hope i helped.

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