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okay well my name is Kimberly a future model therapist here!!! i love helping people with there problems or helping them solve there own problems. i am 14 an i live in california
shopping is my life, and when i dont have a alptop i just get on the internet through my sidekick 3 when i am in the car driving to somewhere fab lol.i have long wavy surfer kind of girl red sorta brownish hair. i a skateboard, surf, playsoccer, run track, and im on the swim team. i love abercrombie and fitch, hollister is okay along with american eagle. love old navy's pjs and aeropastles pj's!!! pac suns clothes are awesome(volcom baby)love oversized sunglasses an ripped jeans. i hang out with guys and girls and have a crush on one of my guy friend -winkwink- lol i am very outgoing an random
peace out!!!
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okay so tonight i went out with a guy that i know pretty well. we both like each other and we have french kissed once as friends. so this was kind of our second date i guess. anyway we were at a friends house with a few people. they said if we wanted to chill alone there was a guest room in the house so we both knew why we were going in there. so we of course started to make out and then we got under the covers and he took his shirt off and then i took off my bra etc. so i took my jeans off so i was completely naked then. he was too and he was saying how far have you gone and i said i've given a guy a hand job sorta before. and he said hes kinda at the same experience level as me. and then he said i mean would you give head i mean you dont have to and i said i wasn't ready yet. and of course i try to give him a hand job and he says it would be easier if my hand was wet so i did. and he said you know it might be easier if you wet it with you mouth because my mouth was so dry for some reason. so i did and then it still didnt work so we both went into the bathroom butt naked and i gave him a hand job. and then he goes pee and he says so do you want to go back outside. and i said yeah. i just feel so violated but i feel like it is my fault. and i feel like such as ho/slut. (link)
oh okay


so i'm going to a rave in a few weeks. how the hell do you dance at a rave? im clueless? (link)
first off rave parties are illegal,
so be careful
and second i'd just dane like i was in a techno club an when ur in a techno club you dance anyway you want to


So, there's a song I totally fell in love with. The song is "Love Me Dead" by the band Ludo. I've looked on iTunes and Purevolume, but I can't find a downloadable copy anywhere. The band used to have it on their myspace and it's on their purevolume page, but it's not loadable.

Is there anyway to access this song and download it? I know it's pirating, but you don't understand- I'm in LOVE with this song.

Someone help! (link)
try limeiwre
if tht doesnt work try rapsody
and omg i looke dup ludo an i fell in love with them!!!!!


Where can I get a good, cheap laptop?

LINKS ARE GREATLY APPRECIATED.

Thanks (link)
amazon.com


Hey. Well on the Grey's Anatomy commercial that plays on Lifetime(show), there's this song that's starts out like

"The first love is the deepest..."

Well I don't know the rest so if you know what I'm talking about I would really appreciate it you told me what the song is called and who it's by. Thanks (link)
The First Cut Is The Deepest by sheryl crow


ok so i have this friend, she's not that great of a friend but thats not the point. anyway, i have this boyfriend. they dont like eachother, whatever. So she gave one of her hot co-workers my myspace and he's telling me im hot and stuff and that me him my friend and her boyfriend should go on a double date. one day my boyfriend logged into my account because i had told him about this guy and he asked if he could read some of the messages the guy sent me. he said if the guy kept bugging me after i told him i had a bf he would get mad and at least message the guy telling him something. the guy sent me another message right now giving me his number. i dont want to hook up with this other guy but i wouldnt mind talking to him, i have a lot of guy friends. i think my boyfriend would be mad if i called him. what should i do? (link)
dont call him unless you want trouble


19/F

I had a (male) friend over today, and we were watching movies and drinking together. Just innocent fun.

I ended up getting more tipsy than I usually do, and we ended up starting to have sex. I sobered up pretty quickly and made him stop before we actually did, and sent him home.

Here's the thing: I have a boyfriend who I love dearly. We're talking about moving in together when our leases expire, and we've discussed marriage.

He's the one I really want, and I feel sick having cheated on him. I know I could never do it ever again. I hate what I did.

So my question is, what do I do? Do I tell him? Will that hurt him more than if he doesn't know? Should it be on a "don't ask, don't tell" basis?

Keep in mind that my boyfriend is the man I want to be with for the rest of my life, and that this friend was equally as intoxicated as myself.

Thank you! I'm tearing myself to pieces because of this. (link)
i hate to say this sweetie... but you have to tell him no matter how much it hurts an tell him everything you just old everyone online about how you want ot spend the rest of ur life with him an stuff an even bring tears when your telling him becuz it will show that you are deeply sorry

i feel so sad for you
i hope you guys dont break up


13/f

I'm going to a dinner party today. Well, actually, it's at lunch time so technically it's not a 'dinner' party, but oh well. Anyway, it's indian themed - the food, decorations. The geusts don't have to dress indian. It's just, I don't know what to wear - and what to do with my hair and makeup. I want to look classy, but casual at the same time seeing as it's in the day. I'd also like to add some little indian touches (maybe jewellery, hair or makeup).
So, have you got any ideas?
Thanks, xxx (link)
go for like a bohemian look
an put ur hair in like a updo like in a clip or some thing an her eis what bohemian looks like
http://s33.photobucket.com/albums/d67/fel_han/?action=view¤t=kyurii_online-img597x600-top_flutte.jpg



also for jewllery an belts an stuff do stuff that are really natuarl looking colors urban kinda look


my 2 best friends have been
leaving me out. they dont do
it a lot and they aren't doing
it to be mean, but it still hurts.
they are making this movie for
school and i'm in their class and
they didn't ask me. i asked if
i could be in but they already
filmed it. all 3 of us hang out
alot but if i cant do anything that
day and the 2 of them hang out,
i miss so many inside jokes and then
they put it in their aim profiles and
i feel left out. they feel left out
sometimes too, i guess thats what
happens when 3 people are bffs but
i dont wanna feel left out and i wanna
know all the secrets or inside jokes. (link)
tell them how you feel
by you not telling them how you feel will make it worse
an this song
dear jamie...sincerely me by hellogoodbye
reminds me of what your going through
listen to it


Okay, this is long so be prepared. Let's call this guy Fred. He's in 11th grade and I'm in 9th. Obviously, I really like him. Heh so we met like at the second month of this school year? I really don't know how because I didn't know him and vice versa...but like one day out of random he hugged me at lunch saying "She's a cutie." to a friend that we both know. And after that, I was walking to lunch with my bff and the friend that we both know and Fred were like "Come stand in line with us." and I was like why? And his friend and Fred were like "Because you're pretty/beautiful." And my bff was like "He likkeeess you." btw, my bff is a guy that's gay. Anywhos, then after that he puts his arms around me [not possessivly but rather like cute-ly?] haha. Twice he almost got in trouble for it. Also, during one of the [strings] concerts, he was backstage waving at me frantically =P He also calls me a nickname he made me, cute, pretty, and beautiful a lot. He also gives me bear hugs and always gets up to stand with me when I go over to his lunch table. Last time he was like "You're tall for a girl." and I was like "Hmmm, I'm still shorter than most people." and he goes "I'm still short" [yet, he's still taller than me XD] I go "You're not short. You're taller than me." and then he goes "Well, I like tall girls. Do you like tall guys?" and I was like "Why not?" Haha anyways, do you think he likes me, or what? Tell me the truth. I won't give you 1's because I didn't want to hear the answer. (link)
omg yes he is practicallyCRAZY over you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


My friend, (K) used to have a dog named, Misty. A while back she went to Tenesee. While she was there her dog got hit by a car at her house. She lived on a busy street so don't blame the driver that hit her because if he/she stopped they would have hurt or killed the person behind them. She died of inturnal bleeding. When she went back to school she cried so much she had to leave. I felt so bad for her. When she called me and told me I thought she was faking it, but it ended up she wasn't. She ripped up a picture of her and then tapped it back together. I felt sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo bad for her. I just want to tell her what other people said about it. So please write something to me so I can tell it to her. Please don't joke about this. Because it even made her dad cry.So write Back Please! (link)
awww k!!!!! i know you know me in real life because you told me what happened the other day.. now im crying tht is so sad



i'll be brief. dont worry! (;
i need some cute everyday hairstyles.
every day i either wear my hair straight
or in a messy bun or ponytail and it's
getting boring!! (curling takes too long)

what are some cute hair styles besides
the ones i mentioned??? oh yess and
pictures make me happy (: (link)
you can part your hair in a side part an bring one half of your hair over your face a bit an if you want to make it look cuter curl it so it can sorta look like its blowing in the wind at all times lol
and lets see...
try putting those big clips in your hair an brings a piece of hair out
low pig tails are gorgeous an bring some hair out lol


There's this kid in my english class, Michael. I didn't even know the kid till the week before Christmas break. The day before we got out for Christmas break, I was playing a game with some of my friends and he walked out of no where, sat on some desk by us (I was sitting on the floor, so he was above me and looked down my shirt), and said, "Whoa. That's niiiiice." And my friend looked at him and said, "Uh, Michael? You're weird." But, he just ignored her and sat there staring at me (More like my boobs). Then Wednesday I dropped something and I bent down to get it. He walked by, looked down my shirt, said that stupid, "Nice," thing again, and smiled at me. THEN, on friday I kneeled down to reach a book (His desk was behind me.) and when I turned around, he was staring at my butt. On Friday, I walked by his desk because I was trying to go ask my teacher something. He moved his arm closer to the side I was going to be walking by and he kind of brushed up against my butt and when I turned around he was smiling at me again and staring right at my boobs and then when I was walking back he said something to me, but all I could catch was the word "sexy." Near the end of the day, he came up to me and tried to touch my boobs or something and I was like, "Excuse me. Get away from me, okay?" and one of my friends came up behind me and he's like, "Back off, faggot." THEN, he finally left. But, he's gonna end up doing something again Monday. I KNOW he will.. The thing is, after Wednesday, I told him to back off and same for Friday. Now I don't know if he thought I was joking or WHAT the crap the kid's problem is, but he won't leave me alone. Ugh, what should I do? (link)
tell someone and the reaosn why he is acting that way is because some guys arent mature enough to handale there hormones once they get puberty so they act like total imature jerks
an when they have puberty all they really do is crave girls an think about them 24/7
so just tell a teacher or something that will make him stop bothering you but he will always be thinking about it


my dog, [westie] is acting weird.. like she has this stuff animal, that she like loves [she doesnt do anything like gross with it, she just like watches it, & sits with it.] & she'll stay there all day. & then she ALWAYS sleeps with me at night.. & she hasnt for 2 days. I don't get whats up with her.. what do i do? has your dog ever done this? (link)
its just a thing they do next week your dog will be back in your bed lol
my dog sleeps in my bed too an for like 2 weeks she slep downstairs by the porch door
for no reason but now she sleeps with me


How come Zac Efron isn't in the High School Musical concert tour thing? Will he be in High School Musical 2? (link)
he is shooting a movie called hair spray while HSM is on tour an yeah he will deff. be in HSM2


Theres this guy we are kinda going out he tells me he loves me and i love him as well but he says I love you to other girls and flirts with them as well.

So I'm thinking that I'm being played here

whats going on? (link)
well your getting played if he is telling you i love you in a romantic way an to be sure its romantic he stares at you in the eyes deeply an says it but if he likes says it in a jokingly way that means he migh tlove you a sister or family or is just doesnt know what he is talking about an is just saying i love you because he thinks that is what the girls want to hear


i know there are websites where you can type in a person and it gives you their number, but is there a website where you type in the phone number and it gives you the person? (link)
http://www.yellowpages.com


What are some like Latin/Reggaeton songs that are like the song 'Mas Maiz' by N.O.R.E, Big Mato, Fat Joe, Nina Sky, Chingo Bling, Lumidee, ect. I really want to download them on Limewire and put them on my mp3. Thank you! (link)
stars are blind reggaeton remix by paris hilton

that song is off the chain


how do you make holes in your jeans
do you just cut them or what? ;/ (link)
well what i do is go outside an do some major damage like role around fall and stuff an that is how i ripped my jeans
but it wa son accident an when i wore them to school everyone was like "omgash your jeans look soooooooooooo kuh-ute!!!" an im "yeah ,whatever..." lol but really dont cut them or they wont look natuarl an if you want that kind of lightish an darkish color on your jeans in different areas
use your ironer
it works too


okay well my names taylor and i really want a new screenname with my name in it. i like things like taylor is a badass, team taylor, taylor x fcuk, etc. please help ill rate high. (link)
my cousins name is taylor so this is simple

either botayto chip lol (you might not like that one)
taytayxlove
Taylorx(middle name)
Taylorxcore




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