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hmm i really dont know what to say about myself, i love to give advice. meaning, im not just using advicenators to entertain myself. i simply like to help people out. i try to answer all questions to the best of my ability...im not going to tell you im "great at giving advice" because im sure theres people who dont think that, but there might be some who do...but what im getting at is everyone has their own oppinion and if you like my advice thats great! and if you dont, send me something in my in box because i would love any pointers or things i can improve on when i give advice. love ya!
kayla xo
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Hey. I'm so close...so close to killing myself. Everyday I have to FIGHT not to, its the hardest thing i've ever done. My mom knows... im seeing 3 colnsulars.. but nothing helps. Nothing at all makes me want to live anymore. It hurts to talk, it hurts to smile... I've stopped doing everything i used to love. Nothing can make me happy. I don't want to hurt my friends though, their the only ones keeping me from..ehh. If you cant help me, please do..
Hey,
Just think about how many people you would hurt if you did go through with killing yourself. Im sure there are plenty of people who love and care for you and they would feel horrible if you died.
You need to tell your mom that going to counselors is not making a difference in the way you feel about killing yourself. Stay strong...
to lose stomach fat, is walking the same as running? im not very good at running and i really want to lose my stomach fat so can i just walk? will walking help me lose my stomach weight?
Hey,
No, walking wont help you lose you're stomache fat...but crunches/situps will!
i have three daughters who always seem to suffer from headlice, the doctor has gave me some shampoo to treat it which is very good but i can't seem to get rid of the little white eggs, could you please suggest some-thing, thanks.
Hey,
Usually the doctors give you like a special comb to get the eggs out, so...you might wanna ask for one of those. the shampoo doesnt kill the eggs, it only kills the adults,
yea...my sister had it once
Ok..i know this is sucha weird question..but have any of you people TRIED bloody mary? you kno where you go in the bathroom and turn off all the lights and say her name 3 times and shes suppose to come out?? or maybe i got it wrong..all i really wanna know is that if anyone tried it..and whats the story behind it and what do you do exactly to see her??? pleaassseee reply! i`ll rate high =)
Hey,
Sadly, yes i have tried it, im pathetic. Me and my friend went in the bathroom in my basement and did it. We heard a noise and we ran out of the room and leaned against the door. Then we heard a big bang coming from the bathroom. i was scared shittless...i ran upstairs as fast as i could. it was most likely just my imagination though..
Anyways, the story. i think their are a few versions to it. I looked it up on google. Well heres what i got:
-"About 100 years ago or so there was a woman named Mary. One day she had a terrible accident and her face was scratched so badly that she bled to death. But her spirit could not rest. Bloody Mary roams the world as an evil ghost. If you stand in front of a mirror in the dark and say her name three times, you will see her horribly mangled face appear. If you don't turn on the light and run away as fast as you can she will try to scratch your face off"
you can read the whole page for yourself, here
http://www.mythology.com/bloodymary.html
Me and my friend both have questions:
My question: I just started going out with this guy that I have been with on and off before. We haven't seen each other all summer so we talk on the phone alot. Anyways, I don't know what to talk to him about! We both end up asking the other person what they wanna talk about and saying I don't know. Or we end up talking about "us" or something. Any ideas? I don't wanna seem boring.
My friends question: My dad is racist, and the problem is I like a guy who is partially black. When we're talking on the phone my dad always interrupts me and asks why we are talking. It's really getting on my nerves and I don't think my dad can get over this. What should I do?
Thanks!
Hey,
Ill answer your question first:
When you are talking to him on the phone, dont ask him what he wants to talk about it. It just make's the situation awkward and draws attention to the fact that you're boring eachother out. Just talk to him about anything interesting thats happened to you and stuff like that. Ask him how he's been and what hes been up to. That should hold the convorsation for a little while.
And to answer you're friend's question:
Does you're dad know hes partially black or whatever? If he does you should definitly talk to him about it. Tell him that he shouldn't be judging your friends like that, and interrupting on your convorsations. Tell him that just because he's racist doesnt mean you have to be. And if that doesn't work, i guess your just going to have to put up with him.
Hey, I'm 14.f and something has been bugging me. So many people have been starting to have sex, and i think its like, pathetic, how can teenagers, want to give blow jobs and hand jobs, i mean hello, its kinda weird for 13-16 year olds to do that at this age in my opinion. Does anybody out there agree with me that this stuff is stupid at this age? There have been so many questions on here about sex and hand jobs and everything and i think it is plain out pathetic! Teens shouldnt be worried about that kind of stuff at this age. Does anyone out there agree with me at all?
Thanks-
Hey,
I completely agree with you. Its discusting isn't it? The people who post questions about blow jobs and hand jobs...etc, are probably the same people who post questions a couple of weeks later saying that their pregnant and they dont know if they should keep the baby or not.
People are way too easy today. Girls will do anything to get a guy to like him and i think its totally pathetic. I mean, if your with a boy for a long time and you know he loves you, i suppose maybe you could give him a hand job or something to spice things up. BUT thats not usually the case. Teens go out and give like guys they barely even know bjs and stuff and then they complain when they get called whores...yeah...i agree with you 100%
Hi. I'm a 16 year old girl and I have a huge problem. I often times wonder about God. I'm sure that I believe in him but at times I have doubts...is that normal? And also, is it true that God has a plan for everyone and some people are bound to go to hell?
Hey,
Thats totally normal. Atleast for me it is. I mean my family believes in god. we're catholic. so yeah...but i mean how does anyone KNOW he's real. With all those crazy religions out there...i have no idea what to believe. I dont think any one is 100% sure that god does have a plan for everybody.
what is the best product to use on acne?
Hey,
Acne products work differently on everyone. Thats why people get perscription medication that works for them. Go to a dermatologist and have them check out you're acne. Chances are they will end up giving you a perscription. Their are tons of acne products out there. Not all of them are going to work great. An advicenator could reccomend an acne product that worked wonders on them and then you go and buy it and it doesn't do shit for you. So talk to your dermatologist.
I feel so ugly.. no matter what I do, I'm always comparing myself to girls that are prettier than me, and putting myself down... I always feel like I'm not worth anything because I feel ugly.. What can I do to raise my self-esteem or make myself prettier???
Hey,
Everyone feels that way at one point or another. There's times in my life when i feel beautiful, and then there are times when i feel like the ugliest person alive. There isnt really much you can do about it. Just try not to compare yourself to other people. Try and think about the positive points of your image. Dont compare yourself to the prettier girls, try and think about how much prettier you are than some of the less fortunate girls. Hopefully that will make you feel a little bit better. Dont be so down on yourself. im sure you look just fine!
=]
kayla
What is a good hair straightinger (sp?)? I have very thick hair and my conair straightinger just doesn't work for me and more. What's a good brand that will work for my kind of hair? Thank you in advanced.
Hey,
conair straighteners aren't really the best brand of straighting iron's out there. I use a Ceramic by Helen of Troy. Its really good acctually. You can acctually choose the heat setting for it. settings 1-5 are for thin or wavy hair. and settings 6-12 are for thick curly or wavy hair. It heats up quickly too. I dont know exactly how much mine cost. Im sure it wasn't very expensive though.
i completly agree with you on your last answer! the girls pathetic about it! and shes posting the peoples names who answered.. thats sad
exactly! =]
well the other day when my friend slept over it was time to put our pj's on and i usually go into the bathroom to get changed and my friend just started to take it all of in front of me and i got nervous so i went to the bathroom.....does that mean anything?? like did she want to see me naked or somthing?? because she is usually a private person about that stuff
signed confused?
i rate 5's for GOOD answers
PS im a girl
Hey,
She most likely didn't have the desire to see you naked. Dont worry about it. Some people are just more comfortable about other people seeing their body. It seems totally ok. Your probably just over reacting.
i went out with this guy like 5 months ago, but we broke up after 1 day because this girl from my school started a rumor that i was using him even though i wasn't, but then 2 months ago, he asked me out again and i said yes, and now we're still going out, but i don't really like him anymore because i got to know him a lot better and now i know how he really is. i was going to brake up with him yesterday, but before i did, he gave me all these presents and said that he was so glad that we were going out again, and that he hopes it lasts really long. and he still sort of doesn't know if i used him or not, and if i just brake up with him right after he gives me all this stuff, then he's gona think i just used him again, so what should i do? should i wait for like a month or something so that it's not right after he gave me all the presents and he doesn't think that i used him, or should i just go ahead and just brake up with him? i don't want to wait because i don't like him, but if i don't wait he'll think i just used him, and it'll also hurt his feelings because he's liked me for 2 years now and he's been trying to get me to go out with him ever since.
please help, i rate high for peeps with good answers!!!
Hey,
I know its hard to be with someone you dont like. I have been in that situation before. Once I get to know I guy I recognize all of his flaws and i get over him way too quickly.
I agree with you that it would be a bad idea to break up with him right now. If you can try and wait a week or two (at least) to break it off so he wont have any reason to think you had been using him. You dont need to wait a whole month. Thats like hell staying with a guy you dont like, especially for a long period of time.
If you can't wait that long and you absolutly have to get rid of this guy by all means go ahead. If he says anything about you using him just straight out tell him that that isnt the case. Explain to him that you just dont have feelings for him like that any more and you want to be friends.
Before you decide what you're going to do, consider this, if you take my advice and wait for two weeks, he could get more attatched to you and end up giving you more gifts, so the best thing to do would be to just break it off right now.