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I'm Kelli...if you ask me advise, you will get an honest answer, maybe some of you won't like it, but that's just my style. I don't sugar coat things to make it easier to swallow, I give it like I see it. That being said, I am actually a sweet person but I have my own opinion!I have been through some tough times in my life so I really do know what I am talking about. Yeah, and I hate writing these things because I never know what to say!!!!
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Me and my boyfriend lets call him Tom have been together for about a week. We really have a good connection. I have hugged him once. And he asked me if he could kiss me twice, but i didn't answer him. I really want to kiss him so badly, but im nervous. When my friend lets call her Megan kissed her boyfriend lets call him Dan she nearly missed. So i don't want to miss like she did. But however I'm more experienced. And she's only kissed twice.Should I kiss him??
If you really feel taht kissing him is right, than it is! You know when things are right and wrong for you. As for the whole "missing" part, you said that you have kissed other boys, right? Then if you have, it really itsn't anything to worry about, but if you REALLY are nervous, keep your eyes open long enough to make sure that you will catch his lips and you should be home free! I hope I have helped you!
I have a problem with very bad bumps and razor burn when I shave my pubic area. Is there an easier way? Are their hair removal lotions for full bikini area? Id rather not get it waxed because it seems like the entire area down there would be way too painful to be worth it. If not lotion then is there a product that works to get rid of razor burn in that area?
What you can do is continue shaving there how you usually would, but you can buy this stuff called "Bikini Zone" or something, anyways, it's a cream that you rub on the area that you just shaved and it helps minimize bumbs and razor burn. Stores like Walgreens, Rite Aide, or even your local grocery store probably has it. I hope I helped you out!
Hey guys
My birthday is coming up in September and I want to do something really fun and special. The only problem is there are a lot of people that I would invite and my family does not have the money for an expensive party. I can't pick and choose between friends and I already did a bbq at my house last year. Please help my family is on a tight budget so it has to be pretty cheap! Thanks
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I know how you feel! what you could try to do is like a dance party or something.. Move all of the furniture out of a room or out of the way and turn on some music and just dance. You can buy some chips and pop and MAYBE a few pizzaz (little Caesars has a $5 pizza anytime, it's a thought) so that way you could have a lot of people over and it wouldn't be REALLY expective. I hope my idea helped!
EWWW MANNN!
if you make me eat eggs i will not go with you
and than what huhhh?!?! huh?!
I won't make you eat eggs!!! I promise!! i'm not THAT evil!!!! but my mother wanted me to ask you.. do you like yogurt.... yeah, I know it's extremely random!!!! I love you!!!!!
I have an audition on Sunday, the only problem is that when I woke up this morning I discovered that I had lost my voice. I can't reschedule the audition. Does anyone have any ways that I can make my voice come back quickly? Any advice would be very much appreciated. I will rate high.
Use your voice as little as possible, let the pen and paper become your best friends!!! Also, drink hot beverages, like tea, I have found taht herbal teas work best. I hope your audition goes well!!!
My parents are always bugging me about coming home at unreasonable times, and my mom assumes that I am into drugs, smoking, and drinking alcohol. I dont know how to gain their trust, so that they will respect me more. I always seem to blurt out words to them, and they yell at me all the time. I dont know how to handle this situation, because they are destroying my social life.
Could you and your parents sit down and set up what they is an appropreate hour for you to come home at that you think is reasonable. You can gain their trust by pulling your weight around the household, like cleaning or picking things up when you aren't asked. I know it's hard not to blow up at your parents when you are angry, but when you know there is going to be a "conflict" try to think about what you are saying before it comes out of your mouth, and if you know that it will come back and bit you later, refrain from saying, but I know doing that in an agrument is extremely difficult! When you are having said argument, make the statment before you get into it that you don't want any yelling. I hope this is helpful to you!
PLEASE help me! i'm scared and pissed to!
my brother (who is 13 and about 270 pounds- i'm 16, f, and only 115pounds!!) is always threatening to beat the shit out of me! what do i do?? my therapist knows, and she says not to call the police or anything, but to try and let it blow over. when he says something to me (he calls me a lebian or a faggot-so does my mom- b/c i'm bi, also he calls me a highschool dropout b/c i failed 1 year of school!) i really just want to knock him out but he's so big!! and he's so much stronger than me!! ive been known to knock the shit out of some ppl, but they were girls and my size too! he really scares me, and he pisses me off sooo bad!!! he just makes me so mad and he's mean to me and my mother backs him up 100%!! what should i do??? i am tired of living like this!!!
Hurting him isn't the answer. I think you should make sure your therapist knows how scared you are, tell her how your mom and you brother verably abuse you and gang up on you. Do you have any friends that have parents you trust? or maybe an aunt or grandpartents you can talk to? If so, you can tell them what's going on, make sure you have proof of what your brother has done, like bruises, gashes, or scrapes, because a lot of the time, you can tell when those things are done my someone else. I feel awful about this, my heart truely does go out to you! I hope things get better!
i really want to get my driving permit over the summer and i've already studied some of drivers manual. i just dont know what kind of questions or situations they will ask. i have tried lookin for stuff online and i just hate guessing on the questions and not knowing the actual answer. please if u know any questions can you also provide an answer. please and thank you
Most DMV (department of motor vehicles) require that you take a drivers training course, but maybe yours doesn't, you probably know better than I would. But anyway, most of the questions are just common sence, like there'll be a picture of a highway and some car on it and it will ask something like "Car A wants to get off the highway and go with other way, which exit would it take?" and then you look at the picture pick the right one. Also, knowing the signs by shape. picture, and color. Hope this help!
okayy..this is kinda confusing but yeahh. my cousin "tiffany" has a older brother named " bobby". well me and "tiffany" are best friends & im always back at her house. bobby has a friend named "timmy". okay. so the other night me and timmy stayed up intil bout 5 in the morning just talking and cuddling. i aint sure if he likes me or not and thats what my question is. hes kinda shy too, which i dont see why bc hes older than me. thanks. i rate high.
It does sound like he has thing for you, hang out with him a little more, you know, one on one to see how he acts, if you feel the "vibes" than try bringing that up.. but first, how much older is he than you? I hope this helped!
Ok, my hands have all these little spots on them, they hurt, and they itch...the spots are starting to go away but i am still wondering if anyone knows whats going on! I rate high for good advice!
Do you get if afer you've been out tanning in the sun or out when it's hot?? Because my sister gets those, and you can go to your doctor and he/she will give you a creme to put on it to clear it up and keep it from coming back. Otherwise, it might be heat rash, had that NOT FUN!!!, to get rid of that you can try like hydrocorizone (sp??) *anti-itch creme* or like Aveeno on it and see if it clears up. i hope this was helpful to you!
Ok, every summer i have the same sleep scheduel, like 3a.m.-2p.m. but now that i'm getting older and that i have a job i just am tired all the time. By the time i wake up over half the day is gone. So now i see mostly night and thats tiring too. I don't want to go on sleep aids but if i try to fall asleep i can't its just gotta happen naturaly. Any ideas? I rate high for good advice!
I know you said that you don't want to use sleep aids, but you do to your doctor, she/he can give you something that's not habit foriming or anything, but tylenol PM is really good, I use it some nights when I can't sleep, and I'm not addicted to it or anything, I sleep just fine when I don't use it, so just consider that. Hope you get the sleep you need!
Is god real im confused
Yes, God is real!There is scientific evidence that what is says God did in Genesis 1 and2, those are the Creation Stories if you don't know. And if you are asking about God being real because of some hard times you are going through, just know that God doesn't give you more than you can handle, and even if you feel like you can't handle it, He knows you can. I'm really sorry is this sounds like a "Christian" answer, but I am a Christian, so this is what I believe to be true. Hope this helped you!
what is the minimum time i need to wear my retainer? i've had my braces off for a few months. my retainer is so uncomfortable :( is a couple of hours a day good enough?
you really should wear it as long as your Ortho said you should, so if he said 24/7 wear it at all times excpet for when yo uare eatting, if he said nighttime-wear it while you sleep, daytime- all day except for when you eat. I know they can be uncomfortable, but trust me, your mouth will get used to it! And if you don't wear your retainer as persribed, all that time you had braces would do nothing about your teeth would start to revert to what they were like before.. I hope I helped!
I'm going to another state for a few weeks...to see my cousins. What could I do so I don't miss my boyfriend too much? I fear I may miss him too much to the point where I'd want to stop completely to cease any sad feelings. And since I got hurt in past relationships-- I'm not trying to get too attached just in case he decides to break up with me when I'm away. Besides that, what could we do so nothing wrong happens? We figure some instant messaging and a few calls... but I don't know if that'll help that much at all.
I think you will be alright, it's only a few weeks, right?? You could send him some letters and call him like once a week or maybe a little more, but I don't think it would be a good idea to keep thinking about him breaking up with you, because if you stress about it so much, you could end up bringing it upon yourself, and that's not something you want! I can understand how you could be scared if you were hurt previously, but dwelling on it can make it worse, so just try to have fun with your cousins and I think you and your boyfriend will do just fine!
Hello... I'm 19 years old and taking up tourism sophomore.. I'm now living in the Philippines but i have lived in Netherlands for 1 year and 2 months.. With that time, i have gained lots of friends and learned the language, though not perfect but i can speak and understand.. My stepfather who's Dutch decided that we go back in the Philippines, so now im studying here.. My problem is my stepfather wants us again to go back in Netherlands next year, i'm already 3rd year college that time, one more year then i'll graduate already.. I really wanna go back in Netherlands because lots of my friends are there and i just love Netherlands.. but the problem is i dont know what to do.. I think it was waste of time that i studied then after that nothing would happen.. because ofcourse, when im already in NL, i'll start college again, 1st year and i think it's awkward cause i'm 20 that time and my classmates are 16 or 17.. and it would be hard again for me to communicate because i already forgot some of my dutch. What do u think i suppose to do? Finish my college here in the Philippines or go back in NL and repeat 1st year again.. take note: NL doesn't accept diplomas from different country..
Thank you so mush, your help means a lot..
Dahlia
I think you should finish up your last year in the Philippines and then once you graduate, you should go back and join your family in the Netherlands. I hope you can make the right choice!
im 15 almost 16 and i am still in a AA-cup bra.
mom is a A-cup, but my sister is a C-cup.
This is completely destroying my life! I have not had a boyfriend cuz' my breasts are tiny now I am old and nobody will want me.
what about breast enlargement?
are there any other wayz i can get someone to love me?
is surgery for enlarging my breasts my best way to get my life back?
i want to have a boyfriend before i get old! am i already too old? none of the boys will want me soon. i am almost 16!
Please HELP ME!
Ok, first off... you are SIXTEEN and you're worrying about ending up alone??!! You're still young! It will happen!! And boys don't not want you because you have small boob!! has a boy you asked out actually said no because your boobs weren't big enough??!! Breast Augmentation is probably out of the question, most docters won't opperate on teenagers and besides, I went from being an A-cup to a C-cup in a year, you'll probably get a bit bigger than you are now!!!!!
If the clothes from abercrombie are so...thin....why do they cost so much?
And I don't want this to sound mean, but why do so many people buy their clothes there, just for them to shrink in the laundry?
They cost so much pretty much because the company can do that. If the clothes are "in" than some people will spend almost anything to have them. So people buy the clothes even though they shrink. because the people that buy them shrink too! ok, that was mean, but.. it happens.. so yeah... i really don't know the apeal of Abercrombie....
Heres the sitch...im a 16yr male senior at my high school, and ive been BEST friends with this girl since sophmore year...problem is, ive fallen for her...hard. i cant get her out of my head, i get jealous of any other guys she talks to or who like her, and im really protective of her...but she doest like me when i like her, she said she had a crush on me back when i had a gf soph year, but now she doesnt like ANYONE. what should i do? ive liked her for two years, but she says it would be wierd to date bcuz weve been friends for so long...
As weird as it is going to be to tell her, I think you should tell her how you feel about her! Chances are that she likes you too but just can't tell you. I personally think it would be easier to to date someone you've been friends with, you know them really well, you are comfortable with them, and you know all of their "annoying" little quirks. If you can't tell her to her face, trying writing a letter or note and place it somewhere she will find it. I hope to have to have helped you!
hi i love you and im going to be obsesseive
and ilkeeeeee i dont know..
my stomache hurts
im pmsing.. oh dear.. now if i press submit the whole world will know.. oh well.
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Are you STILL sick??!! Good lord.. GET BETTER!!!! How will I obsesse over you if you are in the bath room puking or dead??!! I am seriously!!! Oh well... you had better feel better!!!!!!!!!!! I LOVE YOU TOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
A little more than 25 years ago, I met a guy who became a friend. About three years after we met, he took my car out one night, got drunk and smashed it up. I had to pay to tow the car away, junk it, and for tickets. Cost me over $1,000 at the time. He never offered to pay me for the damages to my car.
He was doing bad financially at that time and I figured that later on, when he was doing well, over time he would find some way to compensate me because we were still "friends."
Fast forward 25 years. This "friend" is single and doing well, owns house, car, good job, etc. Last year I borrowed $300 from him to buy emergency plane tickets, and told him I'd pay him back when I could. About three weeks later, he began to demand repayment in full. He was nasty about it so I reminded him about his car wreck 25 years ago. Nobody made him pay then.
He was still angry; I was stunned. No, I did not ever pay him back. The crisis has passed but I want to know, who's right about this? Should he get his $300 back? And what about people who think the passage of time relieves them of their financial and moral obligations? Your help please....
I honestly think you should pay the guy back! I mean, you promised that you would pay him back, and if you have the money, you really need to do it! When he borrowed the money from you, he never said that he would pay you back, did he?