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HEYY evveryone! okay soooooo...i am a very open and caring person, i love to speak my mind so dont take it as if im being mean! because im just trying to help. when im older i would love to be a psychologist so this is great practice. dont be afraid to inbox me with any questions! i would more than love that.advice
I have a lot of guy friends and they like to feel me up. At lunch time they usually do things like grab my breasts and jiggle them or just touch them a little bit. I don't really mind but I think it looks bad if there are five or six guys doing it. How do I explain to them that they can still do it but not all at once?
HAHAAHAAHHAHHAHAHA waiitttttttttt this was really funnny.
ok bye.
okay so I have a small butt and would like to make it bigger. I would like to know specific info on what to do to make it happen. Www.getabiggerbutt.com offers advice in their book , does anyone have it ? If so, please tell me what the book says ?
yeah, haha dont buy any of that crap it never works.
you need to go to the gym and work on squats, and any other machine that targets your butt. hope i helped (:
Hi welL I'm not realy sure what I should do. I'm sTill a virgin and so is my boyfriend we been dating for a year alreay he is also a virgin. Should we have sex already? Should we loose it already I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 15. Are relationship is realy close and serious but I don't want to mes it up by having sex.. Please help or give me tips on what to do :) thanks
noo... i dont think you should because first of all you even tho you your in a serios relatioonship your both accually too young and yes it might affect your relationship.
a relationship is NOT all about sex trust me, i think you gguys should hold off on i for a little and do other stufff.
hope i helpedd!
okay. i am 12 years old and i want to wear thongs but im scared to ask my mom. shes cool and will probably say yes but i dont know how to ask her if i can wear them.. do you have any advice?? personal stories would be helpful
btw dont answer if youre gonna yell at me that 12 is "way too young to be wearing sexy butt floss"
12 IS NOT WAY TO YOUNGG.
haha okkkkkk i was SOOOOOO scared to ask my mom too lol.
so this is what i did.
i was like mom i need to underwear.
and shes like why you have plenty! and i was like no mom i want a thong and shes like WHAT FOR WHAT?! and im like "because when i wear leggings or tight pants my underwear line shows and its embarassing! its not like im gonna show my thong to everyone its only for me"
lollllz. :) hope that helped !
Okay, there are only two more days left of my drivers' training and my drivers' ed partner is totally cute and from the conversations we've had, we have some things in common. The only thing that bothers me is that he's into weed and I don't know much about it, I just know it's bad for you... Anyway, I really want to get to know him more and ask him out, but I'm afraid he might not like me back and I have no idea how to ask him out in the first place. We don't go to the same school and we're not taking segement 2 together!! I need help please, I really like this guy :')
i think if he liked YOU
he would ask YOUUUU out.
andd if hes a pothead and you start talking to him
it will mostly likey turn out that your gonna tryy weed and probably keep doing it.
idont know i suggest you wait and see if he asks you out first then you know for sure hes into you
Today I got in a fight in school. I was obviously the loser, but I have a legitiment reason as to why. My question is just asking if you think this sounds like i'm making up an excuse, or if everyone will agree and think that if it was a fair fight the outcome would have been different.
Okay, so i was walking down the hallway, and she came up from behind me all quiet, the only way i knew she was there was that someone said hi and she replied. she was so close, and next thing i knew she was grabbing me by the hair and ripping me to the ground. my boyfriend tried to pull her off me but a teacher pulled him away, and she was swinging at me, and i was hitting her back, but she was sitting on top of me so i really couldnt move well.
basically i was jumped and it was a complete sneak attack.
what the fuckk.. what a dumbbb fuckking bitch. i would fucking killllllll herr!!! haha ok this is gettting me mad.
but um yea i get youu. like you could move obv if she was ontop of you hittting youu.
18/f hes 19.
ok so there this guy, i've been into him for a while but he had a girlfriend. conveniently, they broke up. I was there to help him through the horrible break up etc etc. the more we talked the more we realised we had in common. However, i might add that he's in a band and has all his little teenies after him etc etc. so i have more then enough competition. He has a gig next week that he wanted me to come to, and to excuse him if he was shy to me.
Then i notice that he's saying how he 'gets excited everytime he has a new text =]" and i realised he must be starting to like someone else because i dont even have his number... then it hit me that i obviously dont stand a chance. I also found that he was tellling alot of girls that he gets shy around them.
what do i do....do i forget about going to the gig to forget him?
wellll i think hes talking to all these girls just to try to get his mind off his ex gf. so basically hes using you and all the girls. i think you should keep talking to him him because you cant get mad since your not his gf or not even together. and hes single so he just wants to have fun. but if ure looking for a relationship i htink youshould just stay friedns with him.
hi... as funny as this sounds, this a really weird and bad situation and I was hoping I could get some advice from you guys. My mom is ltierally obsessed with hair, but not just any hair, MY hair. She's always "liked" hair, I guess you could say. She should have become a beutician! She loves to do make up and all of that stuff. But, lately, the obsession has grown to the point where she really doesn't let me live. About a year and half ago, I had an eating disorder. I was anorexic and mildly bullemic. However, during this time period, a lot of my hair fell out. It was not just that. It was also the fact that I had done a lot of things to my hair. But at the time, I was like 17 or 18 and I just wanted to experiment with different things. My natural hair color is an ash brown. It's actually very pretty. I've always just done highlights and lowlights for it not to be so ashy. But, it is a nice color. I don't have a problem with it. My senior year of high school, I just bleached my hair blonde, blonde, blonde. It didn't look ugly, but after I while, I just didn't feel like myself. I tried different shades of brown, and I thought that for now, any brown would look fine because you wouldn't notice the hair growing back as much as you would in blonde. My roots looked almost black next to that hair color because it was so light. But, the bleach and other stuff made my hair fall out. I cut my hair around shoulder length and it wasn't short. Just normal. I got extentions to make myself feel a little better because not only was it shorter than my hair usually was (it was usually up to my waist), but it it was very thin and it had no volume. My mom has become obsessed with those extentions.
The other day, I needed to redo the extentions because they had already grown out a lot. They just needed to bring them up. In doing this, the lady doing my hair had put a toner (which isn't a hair dye, it's like something that just enhances your color, makes it look brighter). It came out a little red. So, I went back and she put something else in it to take out that red. The red was very potent. I had to take it out. Now my hair looks a little darker. After a couple of washes, it will wash out. It's not that big of a deal. But my mom went CRAZY. She was like that's too dark and she was like almost crying in the car. She's like going crazy. Then today, when I woke up, the quality of the hair was really bad. Like, it was brittle and frizzy and I just went yesturday to go get it fixed! She had ANOTHER fit. And she said that she was going to call her today and she was going to have to fix my color.
I understand where my mom is coming from and why she is upset. The hair looked terrible today and we paid good money for it. However, when it comes to the color, and the way she's going about it, she's out of control! I mean, I'm 19 and I think I can handle these things myself. I really look fine. It's just the quality of the hair that's bad. But... my mom doesn't even let me wash my own hair! She says she has to do it for me! I really don't feel comfortable taking out my extensions until my hair grows out just a little bit more. But, how can I deal with my mom? I don't think it's hair necessarily that she's obsessed with. I think she's just using that to cover up for other things. It's always my hair! She never asks me about school, work, boyfriends, you know, important things! How can I deal with her and what do I do about the hair until it grows back?
wow!haha welll my mom is like the same way.
one time i got highlights and they really fucked my hair up and my mom went INSANNNEEE!. what i did wass tell her to calm down because all you have to do is deep condition it everyday and not really straaighten it as much. but for your mom you should tell her that your a grown woman who can handle your problems (in a nice way) put in a i love you in there somewhere haha so she doesnt get too sensative. hopefully shell realize you make ure own mistakes and you learn from them.
my mom and I are always fighting and we both have bipolar disorder and somethimes she can get violent which can be physical and verbal like sometimes she will hit me and other times she will pick on me about how much i weigh just becouse I weigh 185 pounds which is overwight but she does not have the right to call me names. The thing is I can't move out becouse she's got papers on me saying that iam mentally encompentant which means Iam not able to live out on my own becouse iam mentally retarded. please tell me how we can get along better?
aaaw this accualy breaks my heart...
im really sorry that you have to go through this.
well yea me and my mom dont get along alot either nd she doesnt emotionally and physically abuse me.
i reallly think you should call your mom aside for ex. your room and shut the dooor. and just let ALLLL your feelings out about how she really hurts your feelings and how you want to be close to her and want to have a really good relationship. That should be the first step to fixing things which is talking everyhting out and starting new.
hope i helped and i hope everything gets better !
if you have any questions just inbox me.
I met a guy (Chris) through my guy friend.. (a guy friend I hadn't seen since about 2 years ago) we bumped into each other in a club. I've known Chris for over a month now.
Any way Chris flirted a little, asked for my fb and number and I gave it to him. He kissed me that night. We went on a date a week later and he seemed really nice.
Problem with him is, I have heard he still likes his ex. We have been in a bar with our friends and his ex has turned up, and they always end up talking... and the other night she turned up, started talking to him and him and his friends LEFT the bar with her and her friends! and left me and my friend in the other bar on our own, he didn't even say bye!
He flirts a lot but I think he's just using me to get over his ex. What do you think?
His guy friend also told me that Chris walked his ex home, and he thinks that he might still love her (they have been split up for 2 months) and I know they see each other at least once a week, they go to the same gym.
Oh, and I heard him say to her "come back to mine" even though he didn't know I was behind him. Thing is, he broke up with her so does he still really like her?
sorry to tell you but yeah...your bassicly his rebound. you should stop now before you start to like him ALOT. he should of stayed with you at he bar but he accualy left, the least he could have done was say bye but he didnt. that was very low of him, but dont blame him and just let him be because there probably going to go back out if he sees her alot.
hope i hlped girll.
do u think a guy with a 3 in dick could get a hot girlfriend
depends how old you aree.
Two nights ago I went out wearing new high heels. Halfway through the night they started rubbing on the side of the ball of my foot so I put a piece of tissue in my shoe to stop it hurting so much and tried to ignore it. In the morning, the blister had turned into a horrible sticky open wound and the area around it was all swollen. I thought it would sort itself out so I put a band aid on it and left it but today it's still the same. Everytime the band aid comes off, the wound is still open and full of pus and my foot is still swollen so I can't really walk comfortably.
What should I do?
you need to not put anything on it and let it dry out by itself
everytime i blow dry my hair with a diffuser, it ends up being poofy and only a few waves. i have naturally straight hair and before i diffuse it i put some sprunch spray in it (used to make hair like beach waves) and i also put gel in it and scrunch it up. then i blow dry with diffuser. it always ends up being poofy.. what am i doing wrong??
heyyyy, yea that happands to me alot, what i do is put the product in my hair while its very wet(not SOAKING WET) and diffuse myhair for only about 5 min(it gets alittle poofy) but then after i diffuse i twist it or braid it (wait 10-20 min) take the braid or twist out and it should be more tamed and smoothe.
hope i helpd !
if you have any questions about hair just inbox me :)
what are some good songs for me and my best guy friend ?
true friend- miley cyrus! hahaha
I'm 12, almost 13, girl. I know it's long, but please read!
So, my friendship started in the 5th grade. I sat right next 2 her & got 2 meet her. After only like, 2 weeks we were moved again. I guess that was how my teacher made us meet new ppl. Well ya, during the whole 5th grade we were fine as best friends.
In the 6th grade, that was when we REALLY separated. I only had 2 periods with her! Then there was this other girl, Cassidy, who pretty much stole her from me. My friend wasn't even comfortable w/ that girl being her friend most of the time! One minute they would be fine & then 5 minutes later, she would insult her, really annoy her, or disagree w/ her. That friend of mine was always very sensitive, & @ the smallest thing, she'd b offended/bothered by. At lunch, I would try 2 sit with her, give her 'friends' a chance, but those fake friends of hers always had a seat saved or something stupid like that & I would have 2 move. It got me SOOO mad. She thought I was always mad 4 every little thing I did, but really it was only those 'friends' being brats that got me so mad. If she would just pay attention 2 what it was that I was getting so mad at, she would know why. There were so many things I never got 2 tell her. THANK YOU CASSIDY, 4 taking my BEST FRIEND away from me!
Now this year, 7th grade, she doesn't even make an effort 2 talk 2 me! There were a couple of times when she said hi & smiled or something like that. This morning, I asked her boyfriend if she ever talks about me or asks about me, & he said no. Earlier in the year, I tried texting her. She would respond, but I was always the first one 2 text HER, SHE never texted ME.
What do u think I should do? Should I try 2 talk 2 her & ask what happened? I still truly care about her.
Thanks to everyone who responds.
yessss you should call her and ask what happand and hopefully you guys will hangout more and she will remember how things used to be and miss it and want to be ure bestfriend again !
(dont be too clingy because she might get annoyed)
if she doesnt want to be friends then (exuse my language) FUCK HER ! atleast you tried but if she does then goodluck :) !
Before you read this, yes im very young and if your going to be mean and negative dont answer this, ok?
16/f. Hey everyone. My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now. and we are engaged. Im head over heal's in love with him, as he is with me. He live's with me also. He and I both want a child. And have been trying to get pregnant. Im on the depo birth control shot, but ive only had one, and am due for another one in exactly a month. I seem to not be able to get pregnant though. Its un protected, and he cums in my everytime. Ive had unprotected since i was 14 and have been came in before and ive never been pregnant. What will increase my chances? By the way my parents know im trying. Thanks in advance!
Tip # 1. Before you start trying to get pregnant see your doctor.
Make sure you are in good health and have had a regular check up from your OBGYN or medical provider. Untreated infections, sexually transmitted diseases, or poor health can affect your chances of getting pregnant. Its good to see a doctor as well as start taking prenatal vitamins prior to trying to conceive.
Tip # 2. When trying to get pregnant, don’t smoke, drink alcohol, or abuse drugs.
This may seem like common sense but many women do try to get pregnant while smoking, drinking or using drugs. Smoking, drugs, and alcohol can affect your fertility. It will also affect your unborn child. It is important to stop smoking or using drugs and alcohol before getting pregnant and not wait until you find out you are pregnant.
Tip # 3. To get pregnant faster have enjoyable sex.
Sometimes when couples are trying to conceive, sex becomes a job or function of reproduction and is not as enjoyable. Plan a romantic evening or try something different to spice things up. How you are feeling sexually may factor into your chances of getting pregnant. Some researchers believe that having an orgasm during sex increases your chances of getting pregnant. For women, the spasmic movements of orgasm will help pull the sperm into the uterus and for men a better orgasm may increase the man’s sperm count.
Tip # 4. Have sex in positions that keep sperm inside the vagina longer.
The missionary position is a good position to use when trying to get pregnant. Avoid positions where the woman is on top. Gravity will allow sperm to leak out with these positions. Also try placing a pillow under your hips to help tilt your pelvis and keep the sperm in longer. Don’t get up right after sex. Try to relax and allow the sperm to stay in the vagina as long as possible.
Me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months. i love him uncoditionally and i never want to lose him,but rumors are going arounf that hes cheating on me. He keeps denying them and i want to believe him, but i have really bad trust issues and im scared to trust him because what if he is cheating, then im gonna feel like crap. but i dont want him to leave because he feels ill never trust him. what do i do????? im 14 and so is he.
rumors rumors rumors....
wow hhaahaha honestly there were rumors about my boyfriend and how he ALWAYS cheats on me.. when HE DOESNT because im everywhere he goes and at everyparty hes at but people just love drama and they love to see you sad because there just jelous.. girl please dont listen to anyone because its gonna ruin something really good. and dont ever let people get in ure head unless you have proof
i hope i helped !
if you have any questions just inbox me
So there is this girl that goes to my school and she past away. But i wrote and long entry on my blog about her but I want to dedicate a song for her but it wasn't like we were best friends but I just want to show people just because you weren't friends doesn't mean you can't care so does anyone know any good songs for people who are just aquaintences. I don't care what I just want a song to show that I care and I want it to mean something special. Thanks
a reallly good sad song about missing someone is
i miss you-miley cyrus ORRRR a better one is
Come On Get Higher-Matt Nathanson
This week i was informed that i have been selected to go to France and study frence with a honors program. It is an opertunity of a life time. The problem is that my brother is getting married at the time i would be in France. So should i go to my brothers wedding and miss out or go to France and miss hiw wedding?
honestly...families comes first out of anything in the world..so you decide :p
hope i helped
12/girl
How do u flirt with a guy? How can I tell he's flirting back?
how u can tell hes flirting:
He'll look at you, until you turn around, then boom, he's looking the other way.
You may 'feel' like he's watching you - but he's hard to catch at it
He may do something physical - like grab you in a play way, poke you, play with your hair...
(Remember when you were really young and the guy you liked punched you or tackled you?)
He may be working really hard to pay attention to you, but doesn't quite know how...
He may ask a friend of yours about you - he'll say it's just for "friend of mine" that wants to know about you.
He talks to everybody else - but when you're around he turns silent, or chokes up.
You seem to accidentally bump into him a lot of different places.
He may not say a word to you, but he shows up in the same line, at the same movie, etc.
He'll give you a little smile from across the room, but if you get near, he won't look up.
Basically - the BIG clue is that his behavior changes when you're around (compared to when he's around his buds or other girls).
DEAD Giveaway - when you talk to him he turns red.
(Bingo - you can pack that puppy up and take him home...)
how to flirt:
Wear something that makes you feel flirty. Flirting is all about attitude and, while a guy's receptiveness to your flirting may depend greatly on how you look, the most important thing is to dress in a way that makes you feel good about yourself. You could look fantastic in a mini skirt and heels, but if you feel uncomfortable and not like yourself, and you slouch and cross your arms and display unapproachable body language, you'll be a terrible flirt. Experiment with your appearance until you can look at your reflection in the mirror and feel like you've given your beauty the representation it deserves. Accept yourself, revel in your best features and your individuality, and you'll have a great foundation for flirting: confidence. See How to Build Self Confidence.
2Be playful. Don't be uptight. Don't worry about how you look. Don't get too hung up on everything being perfect. Just relax. Smile. Be goofy, crack jokes, and laugh. Be laid back. Have fun.
3Use positive body language. Angle yourself toward other people, sit or stand with an upright (but not stiff) posture, and uncross your arms. Make eye contact. Smile often. See How to Look Approachable.
4Break the touch barrier. Touch him lightly on the arm or shoulder when you're talking. Just make it a quick, innocent touch and don't make a big deal out of it. Holding hands is also a good way to break the touch barrier. The simple act of touching can strengthen the intimacy between you and him. Sometimes a guy will break the touch barrier, and if you're comfortable with him doing so, touch him back. But don't wait for a guy to make the first move here, because girls can generally get away with breaking the touch barrier earlier in a relationship more than guys can. Also another good way of breaking the touch barrier is to "compare hand sizes" then smile and lace your fingers for a moment. This is a cute way to "break the barrier." A perfect, subtle way to touch him without just reaching up and grabbing his arm or something is to brush imaginary fuzz off of his shoulder or something, or fix his sweatshirt string, or pick an imaginary hair off of his shirt. Totally subtle and initiates comfortable boundary-crossing in an innocent manner. Casually tap him while laughing, rest your head on his shoulder if you’re tired and hold his hand when you're nervous.
5Compliment him. Be sure to compliment them in a casual and friendly way on things that are true. Sometimes people will make up compliments just to talk to someone, but that is the total wrong thing to do. You really should compliment on things you really like, so you sound more sincere naturally. Some times complimenting their family or other things they are proud of works.
6Be confident! If you don't know if he is interested, look down at his feet. If you are facing you, he is interested. If it is facing left or right, then he totally isn't interested.