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I went to visit my aunt and met this guy and i guess he says he lieks me and when we were in the car he asked when i was going to be his gf and i said i didnt no well i havent seen him for awhile and i call him and talk to him on the phone and i really really like him what should i do becuz i really want to go with him (link)
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I don't know exactly what you're asking advice about. It seems like this has been going well, except for the fact that you haven't seen him in a while. If you guys are near eachothers age, you like eachother, and you know him well enough, then go ahead and ask him out. He obviously likes you too. Just make sure he's safe...if you've only met him once, maybe you should befriend him first just to be safe. You don't want to go out w/ a guy you barely know, right?
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WELL I have sex quite often without protection to my fiance and i think i may be pregnant.....or had a miscarrige!
i have been getting really bad cramps in the morning and diarrea as well....my period is not expected till the 7th of the month(sept) and i got it in august so it would have had to been this month it happened! i went to the bathroom yesterday and i started bleeding i thought it was my period so i acted like it was however i only BLED a little and then it stopped . its only the 23 so thats like 2 weeks early!
could i be pregnant or could the cramps be a misscarrige??
PLEASE HELP THANKS! (link)
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I agree w/ the others. The only other thing I can think of is perhaps the sex caused you to bleed a little..the sex was too rough or something? I don't know, just a thought. But yes, you should definitely go to a doctor, get it checked out.
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ok i used to go out with this guy but we didnt really do anything so we broke up and plus i dont think he liked me anymore and i didnt think i liked him but now that were back @ school everytime i see him i get really really nervous but i still like him as a friend what can i do not to act so nervous around him? (link)
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As much as you want to think you are over him...I really don't think you are. The fact that you get nervous around him hints at it. You need to give yourself time to heal from the breakup, even though it doesn't sound like a very serious relationship.
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ok.. my grandma is really depressed but when she is like this all she does is drink wut do i do to tell her that by her drinkin its ruining our family... i just wanna be a family again HELP!! (link)
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I agree w/ Manda...also, I suggest you go to a family counselor, it could help a lot. Don't yell and scream at her, just have a mature, open conversation w/ her and tell her how you feel.
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well I'm 14 and I just had a baby and I don't know what I should do like should I keep braist feeding or sumthing I'm so confused I'm only going in 9th grade and it's really hard for me to take care of my baby when my parents aren't around I love my little girl so much her names Zoé but the father doesn't love her or want anything to do with her what should I do I need help?? (link)
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I think this is a joke. Becuase first of all, a 14 year old mother would be way too busy to go on the internet, let alone advicenators.
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What the youngest baby do you think that you would put a 14 year old in charge of? And do you really think that at 14 they are responsible? (link)
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I'm 14 and I've taken care of 2 week old infants before.
I guess it depends on the 14 year old. I see myself as very mature and responsible enough to take care of an infant, but that isnt the same w/ everybody.
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i've just put in a tampon for the first time about 2 hours ago . i tried to take it out , but it hurt to pull at the string . is this normal , and could this be because my tampon is still dry ? if not , how do i yank it out without it hurting ? (link)
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dont listen to those people who say to take it out after 2 hours....you could leave it in for a full 8 hours and you're NOT GOING TO GET TSS.
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Hey...im a girl and im addicted to masturbating. i do it whenever i can with whatever i can. if my parents found out they'd kill me. but...i was wondering 2 thins
1) can your cherry pop when you're masturbating?
2)if you masturbate too much, can it make you sterile and not able to have babies?
Im so scared of these two things...but im so addicted...help me! (link)
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Actually, it's supposedly good for you.
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i got these lil pimple thimgs on my legs? i'm a virgin.. i'm 13/f.. never even had my first kiss... so i no its not STD.. is that normal? i dunno.. help!! (link)
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Yea it's ok don't worry. It's razor burn. To prevent it, shave less often, and when you do, don't push down too hard, and use a razor that sharp like new. Don't use a dull razor. Also, don't shave too fast w/ the razor across your skin. oO slowly and have patience.
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when you use a tampon is that like fingering yourself? (link)
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WTF no.
Fingering yourself is supposed to bring pleasure. And trust me, using a tampon isnt supposed to bring you pleasure. It's not like it hurts though...its like a one step process. Just push it inside you, take it out, throw out the applicator.
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what r soem good truth or dares that i can play w. guys.. n girls!!?? (link)
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making out
pick 5 things outta the trash can with your teeth
drink toilet water
just go from there
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this is goin to sound REALLY werid and maybe distubbing but i need an outside opinon,
i have seen my cousin, 2 times in my WHOLE life, me and my family stayed there for a weekend the second time, me and him slept outside in the tent cuz there was no rooms in the house, seperate, or anythig so we jsut slept out there and he kept putting moves on me! and touching me like, ( a boyfirend ) would do, i was getting really uncomfortable then when i was goin to sleep he pulled nice in close to me, and then he started kissing me then we started to make out i then id stop and tell him this is wrong he said we barley see each other so its allright but i didnt' agree i went back to trying to fall a sleep and then he started goin down my pajama pants and he FINGERD me, for liek 3-5 seconds cuz i pushed him off, i don't feel comfortable to even talk to him on the computer anymore and i can't TELL anyone cuz they'll think im like discusting what do you guys think? (link)
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That was sexual harrassment. You could call the police and keep him from doing it for good. And everybody would know that you didn't do anything wrong.
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okay, i have this friend,and we're going into 7th grade,but she still acts like we're going into like,3rd! and i talked to her,but i dont know if she listened.the same problem is going on with my other friend.but worse!she plays with her food at lunch and everything!i'm the only normal one of the bunch,and i hate it,it holds me back from the "popular people" which, i know i could be apart of,if they wern't so weird,you know? help me fast so i can try it before summer ends!!!!! (link)
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As you grow and mature you'll realize that you dont even WANT to be a part of the popular people. You are constantly self conscious and your life could literally be ruined. I used to be part of that crowd but I chose to seperate from them. Now I have the best, most loyal and trustworthy friends and i have never been happier.
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okay, there are these little boys i babysit for, and they are devils. i always try and to different activities *(crafts, cooking, movies, games)* with them, but they never like my ideas..what can i do with them? (link)
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ask what THEY want to do
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okay, this might seem really nasty, but i don't know how to have sex. i just don't. and i need someone to tell me... soon.
what are some things we should do?? i'm sooo clueless... i don't know what to do!! (link)
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If you dont know how to do it you're obviously not ready for it. You may feel like you are, but you're not. Get over it. and please, grow up.
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I just wanted to let everyone know that I had been asking lots of questions about what I should do since I had broken up with my boyfriend and I wanted him back. Well, we are back together!! =) =) YaY!! Anyways, my mom doesnt understand anything about me and why I still love my boyfriend but you just cant stop loving someone so fast. She's making me go out of town for a WHOLE week and I wont be able to see or talk to him and she says its for the best when its definitly NOT! My boyfriend is so good to me and is a very nice person, why doesnt my mom like him? How can I get her to accept us and let me do what I want to do?! Thank you for answering! Sorry its so long! (link)
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First off, a week isnt that long. My boyfriend is gone for an entire month. It's ok. If he's a goodboyfriend he'll still want you when he gets back. I think you can manage a week w/ out your loverboy.
Ok, your mom. She might actually NOT hate your boyfriend...she might just not like the fact that you're dating, or is uncomfortable w/ it. Tell and explain to her that you are mature enough to handle it. And you might want to explain to her why you like this guy so much.
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ok this question doesnt really fit under the category but anyways, when you are kissing like with you tongue are you supposed be moving your lips too? (link)
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umm, most of the time.
usually if you dont, you could end up use WAY too much tongue.
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Hi, I am only 14 years old and I have been dating my boy friend for about 11 months. I know I love him and he loves me. We hang out all the time, so as you can imagine, sometimes it gets a little boring and I want to do sexual stuff really bad, but I fear I am too young. How much would be appropriate for some on my age? Please, don't give me the "What ever you feel like is right" because if I knew what was right, I wouldn't be asking. Thanks so much! (link)
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Here's the jist.
At the age of 14, you make think that what you are feeling right now is real...well that can die down pretty quickly. Also, if you really loved him, then sexually activity wouldn't be necessary. You would just love spending time with him. In my opinion, sex is for two people are in love, without a doubt. No hesitations. Well, obviously you are hesitating bcause you are asking this question.
you are still maturing and still have a lot of learning to do before you go and have sex. who knows, you could find somebody else later on in life who is better and you will be sure of it. wouldnt you rather wait for somebody who you abosolutely know you will spend all of your life with rather than your current boyfriend at the age of 14? you wouldnt wanna give that up.
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One of my very good friends is 14 and she is having sex with her boy friend. I don't think it's right, but who am I to judge. I highly doubt that they'll stay together and she say she likes it a lot... Do you think it's a little slutty of her? And should I tell her I think they should stop? Help me... please! Thanks! much (link)
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IF you were a good friend you would respect her and her decision. There's obviously nothing you can do to keep her from doing it, so just encourage her to be careful, use protection, and all that fun stuff. If you want to, you can tell her how you feel, but don't expect her to make a huge turnaround. Just be supportive.
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I have a biiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiig butt. Every guy just stares as i walk into the room because my butt is sooooo big. I don't want people to see me as a small waist and a big butt. Please tell me how to make my butt appear smaller
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i like big butts and i cannot lie, my otha brothas cant deny, when a girl walks in w/ a itty bitty waist and a round thang in yo face you get sprung!
just wear better fitting pants, and exercise and diet
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