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Ok, I'm 100% Serious about this, this is to all the girls... do chicks prefer guys who are

A> Not shaven or trimmed downstairs
B> Shaven Mostly with lil hair remaning
C> Trimmed to a shortish level but not shaven
D> Shaven And trimmed with little hair remaning
E> Completely Shaven

Thanks for your answers ladies >.> (link)
well i can't answer for every girl but i prefer C.remember,shaved=itching


i know everyone has a different variation, but can you send you version of the bases? ex. first base-making out, 2nd base-up the shirt, etc. (link)
1st base:making out
2nd base:hand up shirt
3rd base:hand down pants(either person)
home run:sex


Hey I'm a guy and was just wondering about something...
I know its normal and not exactly their fault and everything, but when a girl goes through monthly stuff, what are we, the guys, supposed to do. I really don't mind it, but sometimes I feel like I need to help out my g/f with whatever the problem may be...but I can't. Should I just be there to talk and listen? That's what I've been doing so far. I mean I can't think of any good advice other than lie down, take some medicine, try to relax, and stuff like that. Should I try to help, or just stay out of the way? Is there any way I can help or no? I know I don't or ever will understand what it feels like or anything, but I'd still try to help with anything. Will rate, thanks in advance. (link)
it really depend on your gf.if she feels sick,do what she asks but don't bug her.when i feel sick during my period i just like to be alone,but that may not be the case for your girl


how old should you be before having sex. (link)
i would ay at least 14 or 15.but you should wait until you are in love and you could take care of a baby(just in case).


can you have sex while your pregnent?(serious question, no smart answers please.) all fives. (link)
you can definately have sex while you're pregnant...waiting nine months?!how sucky


I went to my high schools last football game for the season and there i was hanging out wiht my friends ((Guys)) and after half time my friend (ganna give u letters meber guys) E ask me if i wanted to talk a walk and i said yes. We went down to the beach because its right by my school and we were laughing and giggling and stuff... and we kissed(ALOT) there would be no problem with this if i didn't have a b/f and he didn't have a g/f... well that was last friday and today in school my friend Sarah ((a girl)) asked me if i wanted to go out to the movies this afternoon with me her E and my boy J i said yess but after ins tudy hall E asked me if i could make up a lie or something because he didn't want to go because he couldn't see me with J he said it made him to sad.

I feel so BaD! Help what should i do...I love my b/f but how can i make it easier for me to hang out wiht him with out making it feel weird between us??? please!! help me!

**Nikki** (link)
you gotta come clean to your boyfriend.the truth will come out eventually and it'll be worse if he hears it from someone else.


This is not the kinda question i should be asking, but im curious. (dont get grossed out)
Im a guy who is very sexually active with one partner, my question is the following..my girlfriend hardly ever gives me head not because she doesnt want to, but because for the last 8 months or so, ive had this very bad odour comming from my penis. The thing is im the cleanest person ever, i shower everyday and pay extra attention to washing my penis properly, however 10 or 15 minutes later, the smell is back. Ive gotten checked for all stds many of times, and i know for a fact that im my girlfriends first and only lover. Any body have any ideas as to why this odour keeps on destroying my feallatio fantasies? (link)
i wouldn't know because i don't have a penis.so see a doctor


Hey,
My main problem is basicaly im just Apsolutly petrified of sex! and anything to do with it really. I'm almost 18 and male, nearly 19 days of now, im in a relasionship of 5 months at the minute and ive lost my virginity, not in this relasionship though.
Through out all relasionships ive always been petrified of doing something wrong, accidently getting cum on my fingers or something, in my first hardcore relasionship i lost 1 and a half stone becasue she told me she was late, ive never had sucha rough week in my life!
People have said its really not possible to get some one pregnant during oral sex or what i just said? but still! Is this true? is my mind just esculating everything i think about that has something to do with babys lol!

I'm a really fun loving guy but it tends to get in the way sometimes and i worrie my self to peices when there probably is no need at all?

My first time, only time, was good , i enjoyed it and dint worrie at all, unfortunitly due to my idiocy i left the packet on the floor and her parents found it, (parents good catholics) and that was the end of that really.

Now i'm gettin up to this stage with my girl friend, im already always paraniod when it comes to simple oral sex, washing hands n all, but i mean? ive had sex before, and i enjoyed it thuraly lol, but if im scared, does this mean im not ready? does this mean i should just hold back?

My gf doesn't believe in abortion either which doesn't help as if something did excidently happen, if im honest i dont think id want to keep it, im for and against abortion but just at this age, i wouldnt be able to handle it!
I think she'd go on the pill, and id still use a condom but id still be stupidly paraniod if she took the pill everyday, and then i'd probably get even more wound up as i new she wouldnt come on her period every month as a relief sort of thing?

I no all this sounds a little blown out of preportion but unfortunitly thats how my mind works, i hate it totaly, i get one small thought, and it develops and grows and can totaly dig me in a hole.

Any help would be so so soooo Appreciated as i just need some reasurance or guidence or even just opinion?

Many thanks,

Tim (link)
if you are this scared of knocking up your gf,you probably shouldn't be having sex.but if it's something you both really want to do,and you guys are really comfortable with eachother, be safe.always use a condom,even if she is on the pill.check the condom sometimes too,because they break, trust me.and don't worry so much.sex shouldn't cause stress.it's supposed to make you feel better and closer to your partner


Hi, heres my love story... Theres this girl I really like but I just can't seem to make the first move. I don't have any friends and would like to get to know her alot. I just don't know when to approach her or what to say. The only time I see her is on the school bus. Of coarse theres loads of her friends and people on the bus. What good advice can you give me. I would like it from both girls and boys, but mainly girls. Thanks. (link)
first,ask of you can sit next to her on the bus.then just start talking to her.if by the end of the bus ride,or after a few days, she seems to like you, ask her out.


Ive gotten to like this girl. Shes beautiful and has a nice personality. I want to say something nice to her and let her know how I feel about her. Im not keen on love letters, asking through friends and things like that, and I can't seem to find the right time because shes always with her friends everytime I want to talk to her. Ive heard that compliments work a treat. I need a list of compliments that are from a girls point of veiw that girls like said to them. Could you give me some girls advice or steps on asking her out or using special body language. 5's deffinately will be given out for really great advice/steps. Girls only. (link)
there isn't really any specific compliment that'll make us swoon.just compliment her on what stands out to you most.just be real


i'm a guy and was wondering something. as the question implys, i would like to know whether most people put feelings or morality first, and why. my example is pre-marital sex. there must be at least 20 questions on that topic before this one...some say 'do it if you feel ready' while others say 'no because you'll regret it and it's not meant to be that way'. both seem good reasons for or against it. is it both? should you really put your feelings and that of another first, or should you stick to your moral values, reguardless of what others or society has to say about pre-marital sex. thanks, will rate. (link)
sex is not a bad thing.but if are confused about whether or not to wait for marriage, then you should definately wait until you are in love.that way it means something.but it's really up to you. don't listen to society,listen to me!


I'm considering getting a circumcision since I heard it is less likely to get STD's. The only problem is that some of my friends said that getting a circumcision makes your penis smaller. I don't know how since it is just getting your foreskin cut. Is this true or not? (link)
it's doesn't make it smaller.it just takes off the skin and makes your penis look a lot less wierd


I am a 16- years old, I got a event that takes place soon. I need to tone my stomach and mi chest. The event takes place in a month and two weeks. Can someone plz help me? Mi breast aren't saggy but I don't like em, they are to low, can someone help me to do something to help me. please help. thanks (link)
eat healthy,do crunches and wear a pushup bra


ok well im doing the seventeen workout in the june issue and it says its a 15 minute workout but it only takes me 4 minutes and it makes me really mad because i dont no what im doing wrong help me

oh and i do exactaly what it says in workout


i rate high (link)
it's easier to be fat




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