Hey im jenny and I'm thirteen years old. I'm your typical teenager; I deal with school and home problems everyday so I usually have personal experience to the questions I answer. I love field hockey, photography, babysitting, and obviously giving advice. But dont get me wrong, I ask a ton of questions on here too. Advicenators is my answer to everything and I'm on here everyday so I'll answer your questions right away. I answer questions in every category so feel free to ask anything. I really like when people rate me and give me feedback so i know if i've helped. Thnx for reading about me and ask away =D.
E-mail: sourpatchkid22@aim.com
Gender: Female
Location: MD
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Age: 13
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So i know how to download music and i know i have to connect the mp3 player to the computer which i already did. But how do i put the music i downloaded into my mp3 player? (link)
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okay well if you have an ipod this is what you do. first you open your itunes and your limewire. then all you have to do is click on the song in your limewire library so that its highlighted, and drag it into your itunes. then plug in your ipod and import the songs.
im sry if thts not the kinda mp3 player but thats all i got.
hope i've helped!!!
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See this guy that I was with for 2 and a half years, decided that about a week ago that we shouldn't be friend anymore. We've known eachother almost 6 yrs. And Well he decided that it wouldn't be good to be friends with me anymore. It still hurts really bad, because of all the times that I need my friends it's like no one's there. I'm married and he made some dumb exscuse of why he wasn't able to tend the wedding when he said he was going to attend at least the reception. See I know it's wrong cause he was my best friend, but now since I'm married I don't know whether I should just let him go and be out me and my son's life or keep trying to keep him in my life, Please Help because all I do is mope and cry over him and I don't want to do that anymore. Nobody is worth crying over especially if they aren't crying over me for that matter. (link)
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I know how it feels to lose a friend after feeling inseperable after so many years =/ anyways to be honest you sound really devastated. and i know it hurts, but if this so-called "best friend" of yours is putting you through all this emotional pain, then they really arent acting like a friend at all. no doubt about it, its going to be really hard to let go of someone you care about, but from the what you're saying he really doesnt care about you anymore. you're right, nobody is worth crying over especially if they arent crying over you so in my opinion you should let him go. only time can tell wether or not it'll work out, so dont dwell on it, move on with your life and if you're meant to be friends, it'll work out like it should. well i hope i've helped, good luck with this whole thing =].
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I created these lyrics, and I need a good review. Didn't know who else to ask, so I'm asking Advicenators. =) I just need a really honest review of it. Thanks XD
So let go, don’t let me bring you down
You’re better at this game,
You throw the punches, I take the hits
This is the very last time you’ll ever clench a fist
If I could bring it back to life,
Trust me, I would
But who’s to trust here?
I wouldn’t stop this if I could
Don’t think we’ll ever be the same,
The evidence still leaves a stain
[Chorus]
Because heroes save the day,
But trust me, I’m no hero
And there’s nothing left to say
Just do whatever it takes to keep yourself sane
This is no time for cat and mouse,
You know you’re better at this game
I’ll never find out how the story ends,
It stops here, does it really stop here?
I wouldn’t do this if not with a reason,
So get back on that stage,
Something in the script has finally changed,
You can’t miss the part where I walk away
[Chorus]
Because heroes save the day,
But trust me, I’m no hero
And there’s nothing left to say
Just do whatever it takes to keep yourself sane
It’d be a shame to forget to say this…
You’ve gotta show them what it really feels like
It’d be a shame to forget to say this…
You’ve gotta show them what it really feels like
(Getting out before they find the ending…
Just don’t forget that you’ve got nothing left to find)
[Chorus]
Because heroes save the day,
But trust me, I’m no hero
And there’s nothing left to say
Just do whatever it takes to keep yourself sane (link)
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Personnelly, i think they're great lyrics. you're very talented at writing. and im not just saying i like them bcuz if i didnt like them, i wudnt have answered lol. well anyways i think they're awesome lyrics and you should keep writing more =D!.
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i dont have alot of acne, like its not bad enough to have to go to a dermatologist but proactiv doesnt really work for me. Does anyone know any kind a face wash that gets rid of it really well?
thankss (link)
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i know where your coming from, proactive didnt work for me or my best friend either. when my face got really bad, i used different clean and clear products [the products differ for different problems] and now my face is rly clear =] my friend, on the other hand, uses clearisel and her face is even clearer than mine.
i would suggest staying away from the Oxy pads and the other Oxy products, they broke me out terribly. hope ive helped =D!
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how do i view somones top friends on myspace if they're hidden? (link)
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if someone's myspace top is hidden you cant see it. ppl hide their top so people cant see it and usually so people dont bug them about being o their top haha. the only person tht can see their top is them. srry, but i hope ive helped!!!
**jenny13**
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Hey, my birthday is coming up in about 2 weeks, and the only thing I really want is an Xbox 360. They're like $400 right now, but I have $200 saved up already. How can I manage to ask them for this and to offer to pay for half of it? If anybody has any weaseling tips, it would help lol. (link)
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Hmmm well there are a few ways you can approach this. You could wait untill your parents ask you what you want for your birthday and then say the Xbox 360. Or you could be suddle. Find a magazine or something with it in there and circle it or say "Mom isn't this cool?" Also when your parents ask you what you want you could be like "Well to be honenst I really want the Xbox 360. I know its really expensive but I have $200 saved up already and I could help pay for it." You could right a birthday wishlist with some other little things on it and have XBOX 360!!! in capital letters and different colors to show that it's the most important thing on your list.
But if they still say no, theres always guilting them. Like if they say no and then ask you what else you want say something like "I guess I just wannt money than so I can save up and buy it myself..." I'm sure if you make it know that that's what you really want, you'll probably get it :]. Hope i've helped!!!
**jenny13**
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theres this guy im just startin to be friends with..we gave eachother our numbers and we talk alot on AIM but i never really han gout with him..he lives in the same neighborhood as me n we go to the same school same grade. He's really nice to me but he already has a GF n they love eachother soo much..i need your help..i dont kknow how but i dont want them to break up becuz they r perfect for eachother...and i ddont kknow every1 says your good so help pleasee! ty (link)
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Okay well I don't really know what your advice you need cuz you nenver rly asked a question. But if you like him try looking for other guys untill he's available. I don't know what grade your in but i doubt theyre really in love if you guys are in middle school or a little older. If you live near him that's great! Call and ask him if he wants to hang out. I suggest bring some more friends {boys and girls} so his girlfriend doesn't get mad or suspicious. You should hang out all summer and than if he does break up with her {which he will eventually unless theyre old enough to get married or something lol} he'll have you. Don't get upset if he doesn't ask you out as soon as they break up either. Give him time and maybe he'll realize your more than friends. Hope i've helped!!!
**jenny13**
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Tonight my friend Jennifer had dinner with her brother, her sister-in-law, as well as her 2 nieces and her father at a
restaurant her brother, sister-in-law love. When Jennifer was driving her father home Jennifer said to her father in the
car: Dad did you like the place Carl and Susan took us to; Her father said; it was ok; Jennifer said; yeah I felt the
same way. And the portion of my food I ordered was huge; Any way her father said to her; yes your portion was huge,
but i dont think you liked what you ordered because you didnt really eat any of what was on your plate. Jennifer took
this to mean her father thought she should have eaten everything on her plate. She then said but dad it was a big
portion, and he replied: yes it was but you love vegetables and you hardly ate those so you probably did not like it.
ANY WAY Jennifer called me and told me what her father said and said to me: is my dad telling me I should have
eaten a lot on the plate or even everything; And I told her; no your father is not saying that all, your father does not
care how much you eat he just was just talking about if you liked the food or not; MY QUESTION: DO YOU
AGREE/CONCUR WITH ME? (link)
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Yes I agree with you. Her father wasn't implying that she should have eaten a lot on the plate, he was just saying he didnt think she liked it because she didn't eat a lot of it. Hope ive helped!!!
**jenny13**
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Ugh I have this huge cut in ym mouth from my braces which is KILLING ME! I brushed my teeth clean and put the wax on. Oh while I brushed my teeth the brush hit off my cut so it hurt even more!
Is there anything else I can do to make it heal quicker? (link)
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When I get cuts in my mouth i use chloraseptic. You can buy it at your grocery store or walmart and you don't need a prescription. Spray a whole bunch of that on a cotton ball and out it where the cut its. It numbs the spot and makes your mouth feel SO much better trust me!!! Hope ive helped!!!
**jenny13**
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this weekend i was with my brother and some of his friends and we were all driving around in my new car a 2007 escalade. I was driving adn it was raining and late at night and i have only had my license for about 3 months. we were coming around the corner and hit another car totaling mine and theirs. right away my brother took the blame for it and told me not to worry about it since he has been driving for a few eyars now and wouldnt get in as much trouble as i would. since the other car didnt see i was driving it worked out fine but now i feel awful that he took the blame for this but i know that if i came forward my parents would kill me. they are making him pay for a new car and he is grounded for like a month and i keep telling him that i will tell them but he wont listen to me what should i do (link)
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I think you need to tell your parents. Not only is it the right thing to do, but you won't feel the guilt of keeping it a secret. But if your brother absolutley won't let you tell, than just help him pay for the new car. Well you shud help him pay for it weather you tell your parents or not. Hope i've helped!!!
**jenny13**
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Okay well theres this guy well he's actually my best friend "JeremY". And i really wanna know if he likes me. He walks with me home and pushes me all the time and he always seems to try to get me as close to him as possible, He looks into my eyes when we talk and we dont really talk all that much but we do mess around alot and kinda hang on eachother. Do you think this means anything?
It doesnt really fit under love life but i really really like him! and need to know if i should do anything? if you think he likes me what do you suggest i do? (link)
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Well my best friend is guy too. And he's actually just like this. To be honest I think this guy might love you like a best friend. Like me and my guy friend are in love... but just in a friendship way. The way you describe him he sounds like an affectionate person. But he may like you still, so your best bet is talking to him about it. Don't come right out and ask, but be like "Omg my friend thinks we're in love!" based on his reaction you'll polly get a better idea. hope i've helped!!!
**jenny13**
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When I did Cross Country, I met this kid. He helped me throught a lot. We were somewhat friends, and we somewhat talked. It was like, a hi in the hall way, sometimes talking. You know, that deal.
He committed suicide the other day.
I hardly knew him, not well anyways. I went to his wake and it was so sad. All of his best friends, whom were my close friends too, were there, and crying. I started to cry pretty bad, becausei couldn't even imagine what theyw ere going through. I don't know what tothink, what to say.
He was such a nice guy.
I don't know how to cope with it, and I feel stupid because I wasn't even close with him. (link)
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It doesn't matter if you were close to him or not. Whenever someone you know passes away it's very sad and hard to cope with. I can't tell you what to think, but it would be understandable if you were just as upset as they were. You can talk to your friends about him, but if you don't want to upset them just talk to a guidance counsler or someone who would listen to how you feel and help you through it. Hope i've helped!!!
**jenny13**
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every year my family goes on vacation somewhere. summer's coming up soon, but we still have no clue where to go.
what we're looking for-
not too hot, not too cold lol
beautiful scenery
fun things to do
not a really long flight and not having to get a passport.
i wanna either go to the carribean or florida, but they dont want to :\ where should we gooo! (link)
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You could go to Ocean City New Jersey {one of my favorite places}. Also Ocean City Maryland is nice too. But something fun and different would be going to Pennsylvania to the mountains and go camping. It's very beautiful up there and it's just the right temperature in the summer. Hope i've helped!!!
**jenny13**
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what are some cute things i could make/buy for my boyfriend? for example he made me a cookie and wrote *his name* loves *my name* it was adorable but i just can't think of anything to do for him like that. any ideas? (link)
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I think you should get a boyfriend girlfriend present. Like maybe a boy & girl bear {or whatever kind of animal you choose}. You may think boys don't like that stuff, but if he's sweet enough to make you a cookie he'll probably like that. Hope i've helped!!!
**jenny13**
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Well i like this boy but he dosnt know we talk all the time but on msn we talk then we pause or will just be like hmmmm sooooooo lol can use please tell me a few things there are to talk bout we are really upfront like we tell eachother everything any adviice ?? (link)
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ASk things like what's his favorite color? movie? show? sport? animal? Ask about his teachers and classes. Talk to him about his friends. You can even get into what kind of girls he goes for {but remember not to change for him to like you!} Ask about his family or anything exciting happening. Take an interest in his life. One of these questions is bound to start a conversation. But I suggest you don't ask all these questions at one time because it might sound like you're surveying him. Hope i've helped!!!
**jenny13**
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okay so me and my bf broke up about a month ago but we were still friends afterwards and i was always asking him if he would go back out with me or ever like me again and he said he didnt noe.. well a few days later he asks me out but i said i had to think about it and he was fine with it. now im am like dieing becuz he wont talk to me. or reply to my messages. or call me back or pick up the phone when i call him. so i called him on my friends phone and he answered and i had asked why he isnt talking to me and he said its for his own good and that theres nothing wrong with me. its him... i realllyyyy like him tho i cant just stop likeing him so is there anyway i could get him to talk to me or like am i bugging him to much? or just something! (link)
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Hmmm well this guy sounds confusing. Your best bet is probably give him time. Give him a few days or a week. If he still isn't talking to you, try getting one of your friends {that is friends with him too} to talk to him about it. Then depending on what he tells them, you can try talking to him again. Hope i've helped!!!
**jenny13**
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I've tried ear plugs but i still can hear some sounds made by the passing cars, slamming gates and all in front of my house. I'm so afraid of hearing sounds at night that I actually keep my ears open for sounds and I don't dare go to sleep for fear that I'd be woken up by sounds later on at night.
Sometimes, I'm so exhausted that I tell myself to just sleep but I can't. THe moment I lie on my bed, I have that sickening exhausting yet unable to sleep experience. Don't tell me to use radio, ear plugs, white noise, etc. It ALL DON"T WORK. I'm going crazy. Every single sound is keeping me up and I can't stop anticipating the next sound. Everytime I get woken up by a sound I start to cry because I'm so angry with myself for transforming from a heavy to a light sleeper. Someone pls help me sleep. I NEED IT!! I'm going crazy. (link)
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I know you said no radio or nething but u could start listening to your ipod when you go to bed. If headphones are uncomfertable, there are these "ipod pillows" and you plug ur ipod into it and the speaker is in the middle. Other than that you could leave your TV on when you go to sleep. If none of that works, you could always take a nap when you get home before your worry about those sounds at night {at lest you would be getting some sleep}. Hope i've helped!!!
**jenny13**
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is there any way you can erase pen on paper without totally ruining the paper??
Please answer fast,, i NEED an answer ASAP!! thanks. i rate. (link)
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White out would probably be your best bet. But in the future, buying erasable pen {found at places like walmart} would save you a lot of trouble.
**jenny13**
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Please help this is kind of long, though.
I am 13, female. There is this kid who just asked me out. My friends gave me a heads up so I knew. They said I would look really cute with him. But there is a problem. I don't like him though. I said "I don't know. I think we would be better off friends. Sorry." Then to my friends he said things like "FUCKERRRR" and "AHHH" and "Why does everyone say no to me am I really that ugly" and that kind of stuff. I feel really bad that I said no but I just don't like him like that. I am going to talk to him later so what should I say in addition to this? "Hey. I am so sorry. I don't want you to hate me. Can we still be friends and act like nothing happened?" What else should I say? (link)
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You could say something like, "You're cute and everything but i don't really like you like that. Let's talk and hang out more and then maybe it will turn into something more." You don't have to get his hopes up, just his spirits. Hope i've helped!!!
**jenny13**
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i just got my first period on saturday, and the weird thing about it is that the blood doesn't come out on the pad or in my underwear, only if i wipe or put a tampon in. does anyone know why this happens? thank youu! (link)
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First of all, congratulations on getting your period. Well enjoy this while you can. Your flow is light because you just got it. As time goes on you'll get a heavier {and more irritating} flow. Hope i've helped!!!
**jenny13**
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