Hey Guys, I'm Jasmine, I'm sixteen years old,a junior in high school,on student council, a cheerleader, an ambassador, and a very nice person! I hope you guys ask me whatever is on your mind!!!!I hope you have a wonderful day!~~~~Jazz
Gender: Female
Location: Fayetteville, Georgia, EXITING hehe
Occupation: Student at WHS
Age: 15
AIM: jazz82289@aol.com
Member Since: September 25, 2004
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My Best Friend ditched me the other day, and then called me last night saying: "Hey girl! What's up?!?!" I'm still really mad about it, and she does it all the time. What should I do? (link)
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Talk to her about it girl! Just sitting around feeling sorry for yourself isn't gonna do anything. Tell her that she does it all the time and it hurts your feelings. If she does it again then maybe that is a sign that you may need to get a new friend. xoxo
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I have liked this guy (we will call him george) for awhile. I never told anyoen so he ended up going out with one of my friends (we will call her katie). So they went out for awhile and for about the last week george has been flirting with me a lot since we were in a play together and we had a lot of rehearsals. Well, katie started to notice that he was flirting with me and then he wouldnt with her. So a few days ago George broke up with katie, katie seemed all excited about it. Then the next day she came up to me and told me i should go out with him. Do you think she is jealous? Or if she really wanted to let go and be set free? i dont want to go out with the guy if its really going to hurt her :-/
~Signed, Friend or Foe? (link)
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If she told you to go out with him and you really like him then go for it, she needs to stop beating around the bush if she doesn't want you to go out with him. If yall go out and she gets mad it's her fault not yours. But if you do go out try to lay low with your boy for a minute and try not to rub it in her face you know? Just make sure she's cool with it. But if she's over him then she shouldn't have a problem with it. I have always had this theory that your friends shouldn't keep you from going out with someone just because they went out with him and broke up. I hope I helped! xoxo
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Me and my boyfriend are trying to get me pregnant but it seems to be not working. I just got out of collage and im living in an apartment with him and we have sex every other day .. it isnt working.. is there something I shouldnt be doing?
Thank you.
Victoria (link)
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Umm...get married and then see what happens. Just kidding I dunno, you really didn't give me enough information. Are you taking birth control, what's your blood type, are you using a condom, sometimes you may not be an easy person to get pregnant anyway and so as you have sex your body gets more and more used to your boyfriend's sperm making it harder and harder to get pregnant. Talk to your doctor. Good luck!
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hey, its "lizzie the loser" again. ok, well, my friend(lets just call her J). so J found out i wrote to u about her and she said she was gonna start cutting herself! and now she keeps pressuring me to go out with this guy(lets just call him FRISKY), well, she keeps pressuring me to go out with FRISKY and to kiss him(omg, i dont believe in kissing!)! ok, well, i need some serious help! PLEASE WRITE BACK!thanks
lizzie the loser (link)
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you should give her some midol, she's probably on her period lol and Frisky is probably REALLY ATTRACTIVE, i'm guessing you have probably gone out with him before and you licked her sexy face didn't you? well then you believe in kissing. i know you need serious help darling good luck xoxox
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To give some background information, I am 14 years old (female). I am currently dating this amazing guy who is 16. He's a very very nice guy and I think that I'm falling in love with him. Well, I started dating when I was 12, yes I know that was young but I wanted to be "cool". My first boyfriend was from church (14) and I had this great friend (13)from my church. I always saw them flirting and I really didn't think much of it. One day, we were at a youth group meeting and I found the two of them making out behind the church and I was completely heart broken. I broke up with him and then I moved onto boyfriend #2 who was 15 and I was 12. He was still having sex with his ex girlfriend so that was the end of us. Finally (4 boyfriends after the one that had sex with his ex... all of the others cheated on me too...) I found this guy that was PERFECT... So I thought. We were together for 4 months and I was in love. He was the first guy that I said "I love you" to and actually meant it. Things in my life couldn't have been better. Then around our 3rd month of being together, he got on the subject of sex and I was like well, I want to wait a little bit because I'm not ready. He kept telling me "No you're ready, I love you blah blah blah." He was presuring me into having sex with him and I was going to give in. Luckily, I was having things going on in my family at the time and I could never see him so he broke up with me and I found out that he was cheating on me with some 17 year old girl ( He had sex with her) And she thought she was pregnant. I went into this depression and I was cutting and tried to commit suicide. About a month later I met this amazing guy named Tim. We've been dating for 5 and a half months now and I love him, I know I do. He had the same situation with his ex girlfriend, she started doing drugs and she cheated on him and she pressured him into having sex and he wasn't ready (They didn't have sex though.) The thing is, I'm still nervous as HELL to fall in love with him because I don't want to get my heart broken again... He's #7 and I want him to be the one... I really do but I'm so so so scared that I'm going to get hurt again. I've told him that and he tells me that he'd never do that to me, EVER. I've heard that line over and over again. I feel like I trust him, but I really don't know. Can anyone help me try to get over being paranoid?? I really feel like I love this guy and I want to make it last.
PS: He goes to a different school than I do.
Thank you SO much if you can help.... Sorry this was so long =/ I really need the help though. (link)
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O.K. you want it to last, you don't need sex, personally I think you are a little young, I'm not even having sex. I understand that you love him but you don't need sex to make a relationship last, trust me I have been with someone since 7th grade(I'm in 10th now) and we aren't having sex. Even thought he wants to, he's not pressuring me into doing it. Because he loves me. Love is shown through actions. So just keep everything going the way it is and if you are ready to have sex, do it. Good luck sweetie! oooo
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ok this is probubly gonna be stupid but i gotta ask for ur help
i just got dumped by my b/f of like almost a year and i was heart broken but i got over it really qwick and yea h i started liking this new guy i know he knows who i am but i think im getting weird vibs around him like at the begining of the year i got nominated for homcoming and he did to and he asked me to walk wit him and he was soo nice then i didnt talk to him for like ever cause i never saw him now i like him but im scared to like wave or say hi or anything cause im afriad hes goona think im stupid or pathetic and i talk to his friends and they all tell me to go for it but i cant i have no idea help me plz!!! (link)
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Go for it! Trust me, if it was there befor it's still there!
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ok im so conflicted
i sit by these to guys in one of my classes and like they always steal like snacks and pop i bring to class and stuff and its fun but me and the kid behind me we like pretned to hit eachother like we could beat eachother up its funny cause hes like 8 inchs taller then me but its like hes always touching me in sum way like prtending to hit me or hit me lightly or holding on to my hair and seeing how long it takes me to noitce and he like taps his foot on my desk and kicks my butt and moves my desk and stuff i dont know if he flirting or if hes just doin it for sumthin to do and even when were not in class he'lll make silly face at me and talk to me and do this thing called jump start where he like pokes me on both of my side on my nerve and it makes me like jumo but plz expalin to me if he flirting or not i can never tell
help me and thanks (link)
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He's most definately flirting. Try doing more talking. And if it goes well ask what is up with the two of you. He seems sweet. Have fun xoxx
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i wrote the last question called "my ex" and i forgot to add... there is this boy and he REALLY likes me a lot and he is really sweet.. so dif than my ex.. this kid actually wants to be with mee. and i dno if i should go out with him .. i def wanna wait.. but i dno how to get over my ex.. i try but when he talks to me he flirts so much and just makes me like him.. i need serious help (link)
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Don't flirt with him, what he did was wrong, and rude he comes back to you because he knows you will take him back. I mean find something that you can't stand about him, like he picks his nose or his scabs or something and focus on that, i know it's gross but it works. As for this new guy I think you should go for it, I mean date for a couple of weeks and LET HIM KNOW you are trying to get over your ex so that he's patient with you, and then see if you guys can make it official.Good luck!!! xoxox
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to make a long story very short, a guy named mike has liked me since 7th grade...and i was never interested, persay, now, i like him, and i know he likes me, but hes so shy! everygirl hes dated or liked he never made a move on. tomoro well both be at this haloween party- the parents wont be home and i really want him to open up to me.. talk to me... and if i need to make a move, i will... how do i make a move ona guy? and how can i make him open up and talk to me? (link)
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Try hanging out with him, be A LITTLE more flirty than ususal, and then see if you can get him alone, talk to him for like ten minutes alone, try to get like 3 minutes in to talk about what is going on between the 2 of you and then if he wants to take it a little further just be like "so then lets take it further" and kiss him. Try not to be in front of a lot of people and just be like really cool about it. Good luck!xxx
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well i was taklin 2 my friend..and she told me that when you give a guy a handjob your in his pants...but can u b on the outside or his pants. please dont delete this..id really liek to kno. (link)
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No, not really I mean you can but he won't get the same effect, your hand will just be cleaner.
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Im tall like not gigantic but im bout 5 6' and im 14 and im not even 100 pounds i dont have an eating disorder i just have always been really skinny cuz i have a good metabolism. How can I gain weight so people will stop making fun of me and i'll feel better about myself? (link)
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You shouldn't want to gain weight. Don't do it to please them. It's not even a what you want to do issue because you have a fast metabolism meaning no matter how much you eat you are going to look the same. I'm just like that. Just stay away from them. This is how you were made, be proud of it! XXX
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i have this friend(we'll call her carli) and she got relly mad at me bc she thought that her bf liked me. so i went to her bf, and he told me that he did not like me. well, we tried to tell carli, but she just rolled her eyes and walked away. then today, someone told me they saw carli in the backseat of this guys car at the movies, and they were,uh, gettin kinda dirrty, if you get my drift. i think she such a hypocrit bc shes doin stuff with a guy and she was just fuming the other day bc she thought her bf was givin me the eye. but what really bugs me is she told everyone else that me and her bf were "together" and he dumped her for me. everyone believed her, and not me. and they dont even believe this other chick who saw her in the car. they think i made the girl say it to get the attention off me. i want carli to know that her bf doesnt like me, the school to know i wasnt with her bf and that carli was in the backseat of another guys car. revenge is sweet, so make it good.
thanks!!
oOoCarrieoOo
and dont tell me to throw pigs blood on her using my powers..im not that kind of carrie!! (link)
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Who cares what they think, she doesn't sound that great anyway. You know what was true. I know it sounds hard, but sometimes you just have to brush it off and keep going.It's just not worth your energy. Revenge isn't the way because then you will be just as low as she is. Move on. Good luck. xoxo
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Hey well I met this guy in a chat room and we got to talkin and it turned out that he went to my school , and when I found him in my school he turned out to be the Captian of the Football team and he seamed to like me but I already have a boyfriend...... I love my boyfriend to death but the guy I met lets just say his name is Shawn asked me out and I turned him down , was that the right thing to do??? (link)
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STAY TRUE TO YOUR MAN BABY!!!! Who said captain of the football team was so great anyway???? XXX
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OMG!!! i have a huge problem and i need this answer by saturday. here are my choicces for halloween which one should i choose
MY BEST FRIENDS INVITED ME TO STAY OVER FROM SATURDAY TO SUNDAY! (more than 3)
I WAS INVITED TO A PARTY ON SUNDAY NIGHT TO WATCH MOVIES AND PARTY OUT
BEST FRIENDS HOUSE FOR HALLOWEEN (1)
BUT THE PROBLEM IS I HAVE A HUGE TEST ON MONDAY AND IM BOOKED SATURDAY WHAT SHOULD I DO?? WHAT CHOICE?? I NEED TO STDY (link)
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You should have studied tonight, go to your friends house and get her to quiz you for like 30 minutes, then on Sunday find some time during the DAY to study and then study monday morning, that's 2 hours of studying, it's better when it's spread out anyway, you remember more.
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Hey, im 5'1 and i like my body weight the way it is right now, but my stomach is fat (the fattest part of my body), and unproportional to my body. i really wanna get a flat stomach like i used to, but i dont want to loose any weight. Is there any way to lose the fat on my stomach? or make it look better?
thank you
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Crunches.Eat healthier foods, try not to stuff yourself when you eat, look for tummy flattening things on all the women's magazine websites, that stuff really does work. Good luck! xx
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I need someone who will help tell me something that can help depression I need someone or something to help me I HATE MY LIFE SOMEONE HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!! (link)
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I wish you could give me more information. You might need some anti depressents, I need to take them too. But I personally have turned to the bible. If you are a Christain go to church, pray about it, read your bible, I'm not saying it's gonna get better right away but you will feel better, IF YOU REALLY TRY TO FEEL BETTER. Call your doctor and tell her/him what has been going on and then go to www.gurl.com and find like body functions and find depression, it gives you all the symptoms to see if you really have it. I hope you feel better. Keep your head up! XoXo Jasmine
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k well i am havin thi huge halloween party tomorrow night and i was wonderin if ne one knew ne good costume ideas (like cute &sexy not like disgustin)
thnx and if it help 13/f (link)
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Hmm you being 13, I would go with a cute little firefighter, don't do the bunny thing no matter how much you want to or a french maid, or a nurse, they are too sexual. You could do a policeman too. Umm, I'm having a brain fart. Check the web too. Have fun at your party!!!
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ok theres a song that goes "lets go..., if u want some u can get some lemme no" does anyone no who sings that? thnx (link)
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It's Trick Daddy featuring twista!!! I love that song! LET'S GOOOO IF YOU WANT IT YOU CAN GET IT LEMME KNOW.... especially the ozzy part in the background
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ok i figure im gonna have to start from the beginning i had a b/f and we went out for a little over 6 months then out of no where he text's me at 4 in the morning sayin he likes sum1 else and he wants to break up and that night hes all over this girl at a school game and i seriously wanted to cry the whole time i went home and cry then he comes on and tells me the real reason that he dumped me was cause i treated him like shit when he always made me cry and i gave up goin to cali to hang out wit him so now the girl he dumped me for dont like (if she ever even did) so now hes actin all depressed and talking to me when he knows i dont wanna talk to him and i like this other guy whos sooo swert to me and is so nice and hung out wit me that night at the game and listen to all the stuff i said about him and yeah no hes trying to ask me to hang out and stuff and the guy i like is starting to act kinda wierd what am i supposed to do i have no intrest in being my ex's friend cause of what he did but i cant help feeling bad for him SUM! HELP ME PLZ!!!! (link)
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Don't blow him off, you can't just go around not giving people second chances. He made a mistake.. he's a boy, you can't just cut your ex out of your life, I mean how would you feel if you made ONE mistake and your boyfriend cut you completely out of his life. Just be his friend and go for it with the other guy he seems sweet talk to me again and tell me how it turns out. xoxo
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ok Here I go, I really really really like this guy. I met him at a party (i knew him i just didn't know him know him) and my friends kept telling me that he looked like he likes me. (paying attention to me, flirting) So like a week later I began to fall head over heels for him. I don't see him that often at school and when I do we give a little wave. I just don't have the guts to tell him. I want him to know but now I'm very insecure about when I like guys cause I always get heartbroken. Lets just say, I basically fell for the wrong guys. I know I should just move on. But its always going to be there in the pit of my heart. The confusing part is I want him to know and then I don't. Why? Why do I think that way? I'm thinking to myself I'm way out of his league in looks and everything. (you can see my picture on x0x_surfergirl_x0x) Plus he's popular and I DO NOT like getting that whole attention spaz when I'm going out with someone. Sorry for it being sooo long. I'm just really depressed but when I see him my heart flutters. :) What do I do?
xo0x adriana (link)
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Don't worry about it being long. I mean I wish I knew how old you were. You like a guy and then you don't... it's perfectly natural. It comes from when you aren't with a guy and you make out with him and stuff it's the whole having your cake and eating it too. Just be like "hey what's up with us?"I know that you are shy, but don't do the friend thing good luck
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