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hey im janelle! i love shopping and being with my friends and im reely outgoing! im up for anything and i just like to party and have a good time! i like meeting new people so anyone want to chat you can im me!

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My sister-in-law is getting married and moving away at the end of the month. I've only known her for a year now, and we've just started to bond. I'm really upset and depressed that she's moving and I want to do something for her. The problem is, I don't have a lot of money, or any idea what I should do or what I should get her.

Does anyone have any ideas of something special we could do together before she leaves, or something I could give to her? I really want whatever I do to make an impression, and I'm going to miss her a lot.

I'll leave more information if anyone needs it.

if youve recently bonded a good gift to give her is a photo album of the time youve spent together, its great little item she can pick up and look at it whenever she misses you. its also a great way to show someone you care about them and she will most deffinatley appreciate it.

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I recently broke my arm, however, I'm getting very close to when my cast comes of. When it comes off my arm will be very weak and I will have very little muscle. Therefore, I will have to go to physical therapy. Can anyone tell me what it's like? What kind of excerises will I be doing? Also will carrying my school books strain my arm? Thanks.

ive done physical therapy many many times. first of all you should not carry your books it will deffinately hurt your arm. as for what they will do they will mostly just try to make your arm stronger, they might have you bending it with a small weight in your hand or just extending it out and back. most likely it wont hurt you might feel a little tense when you get out but nothing a little ice wont help.

hope all goes well!

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I live in new zealand and I start back at school in 3 weeks. I am really worrying about it, and thus I'm not enjoying the rest of my holidays. Everytime I push it away from my mind it just comes back again and I end up thinking about it again. I'm starting year 12 which will be a really hard year. I'm just wondering if anyone had any methods or techniques for getting something out of your mind temporarily so you can stop thinking about it and worrying it. It's really ruining my holidays. Does anyone know how I can stop worrying about it? I feel I'm slowly going insane..

the best way to get something off your mind is to do something you really enjoy it will help take your mind off it and it you will enjoy your vacation more.

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i went to a tanning bed..the second i got off my skin was red. so i figure "well im just hot" nope..this is a BAD burn. what do i do? its going to hurt so bad and have that deep itch. i want to cry!

use lots of lotion prefrably unscented ( less chance of irritation) and next time use a suncreen with a high spf and if its uncomforable suring the day spread some aloe vera on it, that will ease the discomfort.

p.s natural tanning in the sun is always the best way to go, and excessive tanning in a bed isnt so great for your skin. also if you got burned really bad this time you more prone to it happening again.

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Hi guys,

The reason that I named the subject "my guy =(" is because the name of the man whom I love is Guy. I went out with him shortly before Christmas break and broke up with him the same day because my friends told me repeatedly that he was gay. He is now going out with a girl named Angela, and I'm realizing that everything my friends said was untrue, and that I made a huge mistake. I am mourning my loss right now, and he really loved me, and I don't know if I'm ever going to get him back. Could someone please help me?

-just call me BLUE

if you miss him that much you should tell him. if he loved you back as much as you said he did he will accept that you made a mistake. you should deffinately tell him and tell him you still love and miss him and your reasons for breaking up with him. if he doesnt take you back he will respect that you told him the truth.

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Me and Charliie ( shes a girl too ) were best friends in 6th grade. Charliie changed in 7th grade and became loud and obnoxious. She liked to get into trouble, she started cussing alot, painting her nails black, and wearing all dark clothing. She said it was the "real her" Me and her got into alot of fights about her being fake *cause she sucks up to the populars and is totally diff. online then she is in person* We no longer talked to each other at school and I got a new best friend. Me and Charliie started become friends again but there was always this feeling of lies in the air because we never truly worked out our past fights and I knew we'd never have the same friendship we once had. Charliies bad habits got on my nerves again and I had to tell someone. So I decided to tell my best friends. I was talking crap about Charliie to my new best friend ( we were talking about some of the stuff Charliie had lied to us about, some bad stuff she had said to make me and my new bff get mad at each other etc.) and this girl overheard us and told Charliie. Now Charliie is really pissed at me and my new bff. I don't want her to be mad at me, * i know what I did was wrong* and I don't know how to make it up to her. Like I don't nesisarlly want to be her best friend again, but I just don't want us to be fighting cause we just got more classes with eachother and when we fight she lies to turn people against me. How to I show her I'm truly sorry without sounding like I'm desperate for her back. How to I get our past cleared up and have me and her friends again? I will rate 5 for everything. thanks guys.

okay this used to happen to me all the time last year...you need to tell her that you know what you did was wrong..also you need to talk to her about all the things that shes changed, let her know that thats the reason things are different between you..it will make things alot easier.

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OKay well i like this guy and the only thing is that ive gone out with him 3 times and i broke up with him last well the only reason i did is because im scared to get close to anyone i guess like my dad left when i was 12 and one of my best friends got all mad at me for no reason and stoped talking to me and my sisters about to have a baby so my moms all strest and is yelling at me and my best friend cammi is going threw alot right now and i normally help her and i cant even give good advice now and normally im realli good at helping people but now i cant get my mind off this guy i like and my advice has been realli sucky. im not sure what to do so can someone please help me..

tell him everything you just said...also if you feel stressed out try doing something that you really enjoy to take your mind off things it will help calm you down.

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Well, I took a midol at school, and I didn't have anything to wash it down with (my schools water is actually toxic..we've done tests)so I used saliva..well it didn't work to well, and I knew it was residing somewhere near the bottom of my throat. I figured it would go down eventually and didn't worry about it. Well 5 minutes later I started getting a very uncomfortable burning feeling in the lower part of my throat. The pain shot all the way down into my upper back. It went away after an hour (mostly) and I went on with my day. Well today during lunch I realized that everytime I swallowed (food, drink, air) my throat began burning alot, and it feels alot like the time I had broncitis and developed a lot of scar tissue in my throat...uncomfortable. Or the time I vomited 6 times in a row. I know it was the midol, but my question is, "What did it do to me? And should I tell someone or see if it stops...?"

ouch! that must really hurt! well first i would drink plenty of fluids,(prefrably water or drinks without any carbon to be on the safe side) and if it doesnt get better by the end of the week contact a doctor.

p.s next time you might want to wait until lunch where you can find a liquid to wash it down with -or- go to the nurse (if you ask they will most likely have something)


hope i helped!

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Ok so this morning I shaved my legs and i had goosebumps so i kind of messed up my legs REALLY bad and they hurt like crazy. Plus they are all red and bumpy. How can I get rid of this AS FAST AS POSSIBLE. And does anyone have any tips on how to prevent this in the future?

And what is the best razor out there ( i have extremely sensitive skin) and shaving cream.

i hate when this happens here are a few options:

1. aloevera, works amazing and feels good.
2. lotion,when choosing a lotion for this go for a non scented,non glittering one such as aveno or jergens

when trying to prevent this:
1. it helps to use a shaving gel or soap or evern shampoo or conditioner, it makes a smooth surface for the razor to glide over and makes it alot easier on your legs

i find one of the best razors to be the schick intuitoin (you can buy sensitive skin ones) or the venus razor!


hope i helped

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Hey well I found out that this girl that im not really friends with but we dont have anything against each and so i found out that she heard that i said i wanted to fuck her exboyfriend and now she wants to kick my ass.well i never said that and im really scared about it too.....im just wondering because the person who told me isnt really my friend either so i think mabye she was just saying that so i would get all scared for nothing...please tell me what to do before this coming up monday because im really scared!!ill rate 5's for anyone w/ good advice

chances are shes jealous of you...so she tries to scare you so she will look bigger and better..people see throught it...if she needs to make up stuff like that to be popular she really isnt...chances are nothing will happen but on the off chance it does you could always tell an adult :0)



hope i helped

mucho lovee janelle

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Ok im in a screwed up situation. Well there is me and this girl i have known since like september of 2002. OK we have been through our ups and down you know. ANd yeah i have tried hooking up with her but am giving up on that. Well me and her talk on messenger off and on or at least used to. But here lately when i say hey or whatever, soon as i put it and send it to her she say logs off. I talk to her sister cause me and her sister are good friends. And was talking to her sister and she had it online to her sister but offline to me. And this didnt happen til some boy named michael got in the picture and they started talking and going out. But her her sister and her mom are like second family to me. I have no problem with the sister and mom though. I went over to there house last weekend and helped them out you know they let me stay the night alot. And the bad thing is its like some of my other friends are sort of ignoring me to and truthfully i havent done nothing wrong. I been the same ole me and try to be nice. But i am tired of it and am honestly turning into an asshole. My questiong is, does she really care for me like a friend. And what should i do bout this cause its ticking me off.

im going to be completely honest if shes acting that bitchy to you and ignoring you she cant care for you like a true friend...a true frend should be the no metter what the circumstances!


hope i helped!

mucho love

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Well I really like this guy, and the other day we were on the bus and this girl came up and said, "yes or no? I need you to tell me before lindsey get's on the bus". i was kind of confused so after he said he had to think about it and she left I asked him what he had to think about, and he said "if im gonna do my homework or not, she wants to borrow it". problem was, it was a friday. so idk why he lied?

Also... I kind of like his best friend, and people say he likes me, but idk, what should i do?

hey..chances are he did lie and not to sound mean but waht they were talkin about could have been about you...best thing to do is confront him and be honest second go straight to the source if you like him and have reason to believe he likes you go for it if you wait he might end up going out with someone else ((trust me been there done that))

hope i helped!

mucho love janelle

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okay i just had a party and this boy i like did stuff with me and my friend asked him out for me without me knowing and he said he will think about it he didnt know .. walking home from school he didnt talk to me but he only walked by me once and it looked like he was trying to hide his head.. does that mean he doesnt like me ? and all of my friends and his friends at the party said he was all over me and we were goin to end up goin out.. what should i do ? and did that mean he didnt like me ?

hey ...this is a tough one...if you "hooked up" with him at the party he might like you but he might not be ready to commit to a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship...if you really like him and it seems hes avoiding you confront him and ask him whats up...the longer you wait the farther you could grow apart!


hope i helped mucho love janele

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well i am african american so my hair grows slow

so i was wonderin what products are good to make your hair grow super fast =)!?!?
And also since my hair is short i cant really do nething to it but put it in a ponytail with a piece in it or suttin neother cute styles i can do to my hair???

BTW...i have a perm[my hair is straight]

Please help! Good answers will get 5's!!!

hey i hope this helps....i heard from a few friends that garnier fructis helps hair grow a little faster but im not too sure on thaat one, as for hair styles i always like the half up half down pony.or the little piece of hair smoothed back with a clip, a perm and curly hair is very in this year so consider yourself ahead of everyone else ; )

hope i helped!

mucho love Janelle

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well..i guess i should start from the begining to give a good backround for ya'll to work on. well it all started back in 7th grade when this boy started bugging me. he was a new student so i tried to be nice but he was kind of annyoing and he would keep bothering me about stupid things so i ignored him most of the time. so in 8th grade, me and him actually became really close after a dance that we had at school. a lot of people thought we were actualy going out, we were that close. anyways 9th grade comes around and at we were still pretty close but not as much as we were before. now it's 10th grade and i don't really talk to him at all. now i don't know if ya'll get this but i really really like him more than just a friend and i have since 8th grade. me and him have the same lunch EVERY DAY but he sits at a different table and its weird because everytime i look over at him, he's always starring back at me with his gorgeous smile. i probably haven't talked to him in a few months. but i really want to change that. and every single day..i tell myself that i'm gonna go up to him at lunch and just sit down with him and just be there with him but i get wicked nervous and i chicken out. the same with calling him too. i just chicken out. does anyone have any advice for me on how to get my best friend back?? thank you soo much

p.s. i rate 5's for good advice =]

hey this has happened to me soo many times, i think if you reely wana talk to him and reely love him you cam gather enough self confidence to go talk to him cuz everyday you wait is another day he could ask someone else out, also if you still feel too nervous to go up to him alone have a mutual friend of yours go up with him it will make you feel more comfortable and it might loosen you both up! also be yourself if its one thing ive learned is id you were once frends with him he likes you for you so dont try and be something your not ((sorry its a bit long))


hope i helped!

mucho love janelle

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Hi I am a complete girly girl and I LOVE to where my hair in different styles. I wanted to know if anyone had any ideas on different hair styles i could wear. Any help would be apprecaited! If it helps I'm African American.

hey hey! im the same way i love looking through magazines and trying out new hairstyles...one i find to be cute is when you put half your hair in a pony tail low its so quick and easy and its so adorable! okay sorry a lil vague on that one, you tilt your head back and pull your hair together in the middle and tie it with an elastic if you need more help you can mail me


hope i helped! mucho love janelle

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I have a really bad cramp right now. I've already taken medicine and it hasn't gone away. I can barly stand up for more then 30 seconds because I have such a bad cramp. My flow is also pretty heavy right now, is this making it worse?
What are something I can do to realive the pain? Please help me!

hey! thsi happens to me all the time and i know its major sucky well a good way to take care of cramps if youve already taken medicine is to put ice on it..you could also eat a warm liguid such as soup to ease the pain a little also i always find it relaxing to take a shower and that seems to help!


hope i helped!


mucho lovee!


janelle

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hey i just wanna know if iam not a virgin will my husband know on the wedding night??? is there a way for him not to know?

hey! i know of alot of people who wanted to know this...no he will not be able to know if you are or arent but since you are getting married to him it would be nice if you were honest and upfront with being a virgin or not becuase im sure if your getting married he would love you anyway!



hope i helped


mucho lovee

janelle

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im 13 years old my name is dany the girls name is noora she is 14 years old she is in ma church what do u exactly mean by flirt be nice how do i do that ?

hey! a good way of flirting is to comment her on something shes wearing or tell her she looks pretty today also comment her on the little things notice something she may be wearing that shes never worn before the little things are what really get to a girls heart!



hope i helped!


mucho love


janelle

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for girls- when ever i get my period i am fine during the day - my pads NEVER leak. however, when i go to bed, they very often do. it seems as though the pad just doesn't protect the back of my underwear for some reason...but only when i lie down! how can i prvent this...i have the kind of pads with wings, so i can't put it much farther back, can i? i know there are longer pads made, but is there anything i can do to prevent leaks for now with the pads i have? (i have tampons too, but isn't sleeping with them in too long of a itme period to keep the same one in?) anyways, what can i do? thanks!

hey! dont worry this is sooo common, a way i help prevent it is maybe wear a bigger pair of underware and maybe wear to underware one going up higher in the back it works for me


hope i helped!


mucho lovee!

janelle

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