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MY NAME iS JAMiE.. iM 15 YEARS 0LD, AND iM A HiGH SCH00L S0PH0M0RE.. i AM N0T SiNGLE.. iM TAKEN BY THE BEST B0YFRiEND EVER .. 7.24.04
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ok so i have a sweating problem under my arms.

like REALLY badddd really really really really really really badddd. like ew i can't wear like anything besides black or really baggy T-shirts.
because im really self consious about it.

i've heard a lot about certain-dri the antipersperant stuff and i really wanna get it, im just embarassed to ask my mom cause she doesn't know about the problem (my mom isn't one of those psyco ladies or anything, she's like a normal all american stay at home mom) because once again im very embarassed and self concious about it.

so my questions are:

1)how should i ask my mom to get it without being embarassed?

2)If i get it, when should i put it on, i know at night but like afterrrr i shave or before? after shower? before? i need any advice you can give me


sorry this was soooooo long, but i really wanna know..


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thankss.
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Certain Dri is alright. I have the same problem as you and it drives me nuts. You can ask your parent to take you to the doctor for a prescribtion; they will probably give you something similar to Certain Dri, just a little stronger.


i'm 15 and i want to get my belly button pierced, i;m afraid it will portray the wrong image. i don't worry about how it will affect guys, because they're MUCH less judgemental then girls, i just want to know if i'm gonna earn myself a bad name by doing this. (link)
You will NOT earn yourself a bad name by getting your belly button pierced. It's not like you're walking around with your stomach showing. 9 out of 10 girls you see at my school have theirs done too. No one thinks much of it. Who cares what anyone else thinks anyway? It's your body. If they have a problem, then they can get over it because it's only a body piercing.


how can i get over my boyfriend "verbally" cheating on me
he told another girl he loved her but they never hung out
or hooked up .. i ALWAYS think about and i cant get it out
of my head PLEASE HELP ME (link)
Take it from someone that knows ALL about this stuff. Forget the jerk. He's seriously not worth your time if he's going to tell other people he loves them. Don't make someone a priority if they only make you an option. Just hang out with your friends. Hanging out with them will help everything, but I know things get worse at night and that's when you think about it even more. Start talking to other guys, not only will it make YOU happy, it'll make him jealous, and you'll have someone else to think about besides that jerk. Hope I helped. Feel better =]


i'm a seventeen year old girl in need of some cash!! not for anything major, but i do need a constant new supply of clothes. (i get bored easily) does anyone have any suggestions on how to get money?? i babysit already, but people don't need babysitters that often anymore. i also want to tutor, but i don't know how to get word around that i do tutor for money! i don't have enough time for a job. any suggestions? (link)
a job? i am 16 and i've been working for a year now, and it's so nice having the money for whatever. i save it, but i also spend a lot of it. you should apply anywhere you can. majority of stores hire at 16 but some hire at 18. hope i helped


I'm 16 years old. I've never had a girlfriend, I've never been kissed, I've never even held hands. Is something wrong with me? I feel like I'm missing out on one of the best parts of my teenage years. Is it wrong that it hasn't happened yet? Is it a bad thing? And what about when I finally do get a girl. Is she not going to want to be with me because I'm not experienced enough to make her happy? I guess the advice I need is how do I stop worrying so much. The only reason it bothers me so much is because of my age. I'm 16, I should have at least gotten to 3rd base by now, and I damn sure should have fallen in love. Please help! I appreciate it. (link)
It's nothing abnormal. You know what, consider yourself lucky you haven't fallen in love yet, because once you break up, it hurts.. bad. If you are worried about a girl not liking you cuz your not experienced, then don't tell her. Maybe she will be surprised and you'll be better than you think. It's a good thing you haven't yet. High school is all about fun, so go out and have fun! Just look around local places like the mall or movies and talk to girls. Hope I helped..


Hi, i am 16. Ive been with my boyfriend for 9 months now - this is a long relationship for me. This boy means a lot to me, and we love each other heaps - except we're really on and off. We break up all the time because his friends always get in the way.
Like, on the weekend of my 16th, he decided to go away with his friends to the coast and left me alone at home with dad, and that really cut me deep. Anyway, we always break up because he prefers his friends over me, but the thing is, i hate it. I want to tell him that i need his attention without sounding selfish and he gets really angry really easily. also, we broke up last weekend. i heard he got a new girl that is 15.. i think, anyway shes 2 years younger than him, and i heard they were going out so then i decided to go out one night on a weeknight so me and a few friends went for a drive and i ended up kissing one of his old friends. well that weekend after that he called me and we talked for 4 hours and sorted things out and i broke up with this other boy for the guy i love, but.. this girl he was apparently with is getting in the way.. im really insecure about it and i say "you love her more than me" and he agrees, but i know he doesnt. im really confused. does he love her or not. i love him so much and im sick of breaking up and when we got back together last weekend he talked to her on MSN messenger saying that he "still wants to be friends with her", so does he have feelings for her or not? thanks (link)
Haha.. this reminds me of my ex-boyfriend. He just broke up with me after 2 years for the same reason. He's probably just trying to get over you. He could still have feelings for her, but it's all just a matter of trust. I hope everything works out.


Hey! My boyfriend is really horny. I know, he is a guy but come on! He wants to have sex 24/7!! We haven't had sex yet. I want to but when ever he has tried to go for it there has been sort of a crowd there =/
1 st time he tried/wanted: on a buss!
2nd time he tried/wanted: outside of a metal consert up against a steel wall with peple just around the corner
3rd: on gravel right infront of a parking lot with at least 15 car wich had their light on. SPOTLIGHT!
4th: at a café!!!

Seriously, does that sound hot or just weird??
Don't get me wrong, it's not like I'm a virgin and I do want to sleep with him...just not in thoose places =/
What should I do? (link)
That does sound a bit weird to me. Tell him that you don't want to do it in those kind of places. That's called PDA. Tell him you want to do it when you guys are alone. If he really wants to have sex with you, he should understand.


oh yea, and what does 'hit that' or 'tap that' mean (link)
that's when people think they're cool, because that's the "cool" way of saying they'd have sex with whoever.


i am 13 years old and i want to find a way that i can make alot of money fast. i already babysit for this one family that gives me $60 dollars every time i come. i want to be able to make money by not doing alot of work. please help. (link)
honey.. we all wish we could make money without doin a lot of work lol. i suggest doing jobs like mowing the lawn, and stick with babysitting, but do it for more than one family. you won't get a real job until your around 16 years old. sorry =[


Well since it is summer, I want a complete makeover for the next school year. I want to lose some weight in my stomach & legs.. Also I want to get my hair done, my hair is very curly & frissy.. & if i put my hair up its just so frissy & is there any good products out for that? thanks in advance. (link)
"brittney" is definately right. sleek.look is the best stuff out there for smoothing your hair. spray some "iron smoother" in it, and then straighten your hair. it'll look so nice!! it may be a little pricey but it'll definately help!


Why is it that so many girls freak out about their boobs being too small? I see so many questions about girls who think that because they have small boobs, they won't get any guys. That is not true at all.

But that really isn't the issue, I guess. I myself have quite the chest. I'm a 38 D, and still growing somewhat. It is painful sometimes, especially around periods, and frustrating, because it is near impossible to find shirts that fit, or decent bras.

So when I see these girls who think their lives are over because they are 16 and they aren't Jessica Rabbit, it makes me angry. They have no idea what larger chested women have to deal with! To me, it seems they have it easy. They don't have to worry about aching backs, or not being able to wear a beautiful shirt or dress because it is too tight at the bust, or too loose everywhere else.

How can I keep from being so angry with them? I know that they don't understand, and I know it isn't worth fussing over, but I just can't help it.

Thank you all so much! (link)
You shouldn't have to keep it all in! I'm a 36 C and i think it's even painful, but I already have back problems. You're right. They do think it's so hard to find boys because they don't have the chest, but that seriously isn't true. It's good that someone finally says it. Don't stop saying it, the flat people need to know it's not all about boobs. =]


Sorry if this is in the wrong category... it seemed to be the best fit.

Anyway, for the past few days my left eye has been really itchy. I don't wear contacts or anything like that. It feels like there is an eye lash that fell into my eye... it's that exact same feeling, but there is nothing in it. The feeling is not there 24/7 either... it probably feels that way every 4 hours or so, and I can't stop rubbing it when it happens which makes it itch and bother me even more!

What's wrong, and how can I fix it? Any ideas? Thanks so much in advance! :) (link)
Visine is a miracle worker.


i'm trying to download episodes of MTV's The Hills but i can't seem to find them. i've tried searching for them on Limewire but i can't find them. Help! (link)
You don't need to download them. If you want to watch them, they are usually on before the new episode premieres. They also play at various times during the week. Hope I helped =]


ok well i have a band myspace and im not a band or singer i accidentaly turned it into a band myspace but i dont like it i would really like to have a regular myspace again is that possible?

please help im dying here

i rate high

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You might just have to make a new myspace. Copy and paste everything you wrote in your band myspace to your new myspace, unless you want to redo it. Hope i helped =]


okay, to start off, when i see a hot guy on the street, i automatically think "they're hot" and when i see a pretty girl on the street, that NEVER crosses my mind, i just say to myself, "i wish i looked like them, i wish i had their body" etc. but there was this myspace with "i'm horny, fuck me" as the name, and when i looked at her pictures i got horny. they were of a woman's body, lubed up and she was covering her breasts and her vagina. an di watched a video on youtube of a woman dancing and stripping, and it showed her butt. i'm fifteen and female, and i admit to masturbating, and when i masturbate to men i get turned on, but i tested myself and thought about women, and i just got grossed out. could dirty pictures of women just turn me on because i wish i LOOKED like that, or should i question my sexuality, taking everything else i've said in this question into consideration. help please, i rate high. (link)
Well, if you got grossed out by thinking of women, I think you're okay. Every teenage girl will question her sexuality at least once, I know I have. I'm sure you just want to look like them, but don't we all? If you really think you are bisexual, then think about it. You need to think if you could picture yourself doing stuff to another girl. If you get grossed out by that too, then you probably aren't bi. You were probably just bi-curious. I wouldn't really worry about it too much. Hope I helped =]


someone said;

"I got my permit"

what does the person mean? thanks..
I rate (link)
Getting a permit means you can drive a car with someone 21+ with you. If you want to get your license at 16, you are required to have a permit. Hope I helped =]


My hair is long, dry, brittle, dull and has split ends. I want it to be soft, smooth, shiny and healthy. How do I go about getting that? Any product recommendations? I'll rate 5's (link)
this might not help you, but that's okay. i use matrix sleek.look. it works really good on making your hair soft and shiny. i use the shampoo and conditioner, and when i straighten my hair, i use sleek.look iron smoother. spray it on before you straighten your hair and it makes it really healthy looking and soft. you can find it at any salon, i'm sure. i work at great clips and i got it there. to get rid of the split ends, you should go get your hair trimmed. it makes your hair look a LOT healthier! hope this helped!


Lately, I've been getting pretty serious with my guy friend who just happens to be 18. The problem is, I'm 15.

He, however, is still in highschool and still has one more year to complete.

Is this consider child molestation or anything like that? Could he, or I, get in trouble?

Also, I turn 16 in about a week, when I'm 16 is that still illegal?


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Haha. this is funny because i'm turning 16 in 3 weeks and my boyfriend is 18 too. I don't think it's child molestation unless it's something you don't want. It's still illegal once you turn 16 but it should be okay if your parents aren't bothered by it. Hope that helped


I'm a 13/f, and when I become 14, I want to get my working papers. Does anyone know any places in New York where a 14 year old can get a job. (link)
Any fast food places might take you at 14. I think McDonalds might. Places don't really look at 14 year olds, but they might consider at 15. I'm 15 and work at a hair salon. Fast food is the place to look.


Theres this girl Ive knowen for like 5 years. Im nearly 16. I want to ask her out on a date. What words could I say to her that will melt her heart like an ice cream. What body language could I use to tell her that Im interested?
Thanks. I rate 5's for great answers. Im English. (link)
Just tell her everything you feel about her. You don't need to say anything to melt her heart. Tell her that everything about her is just beautiful, inside and out. Good body language is just being a little flirt. Hope that helped!




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