hello my name is Jacqui & i am 17 years old. i just finished my senior year in high school and right now i am studying the field of psychology. i plan to have to my first degree in psychology by the end of 2008. in high school i have studied many different courses of psychology including collge leveled so i am very experienced in helping people. i have gone through numerous hardenings in my life as well. im not perfect & i will only give the best advice that i can give to you. i am also hardworking & dedicated.
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There is this guy i have liked for a while, but he thinks of me just as a best friend. When i see him do things with other girls i tend to get pretty jealous. He asks me for advice with girls he really likes sometimes, and that kind of hurts my feelings because i like him. I try to make that clear but he just doesn't seem to be getting it. We are both fourteen so i guess i'm not ready for something extremely serious, but i want to go out with him. what do i do? (link)
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Try telling him again that you do like him and that asking about other girls is not something he should be doing so throw on your million dollar smile and start flirting with him. Maybe get his number and call him. Fourteen is a young age especially for a relationship but its still ok, just as long as you keep it clean. If he doesn't take this into consideration and still asks you about girls chance is he doesn't like you and is not interested. *good luck* xoJacxo
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Theres this guy at school.This will be an average story but anyways,He waits for me by my locker and he will hold my hand and flirt with me.He just makes me feel really special.We're not going out but sometimes i feel like we are.We've known eachother since we were 5.We are now teenagers.Can someone tell me if he might like me??im a female.
Signed,
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He defidently likes you. I mean its not everyday that a guy waits for you by your locker, flirts with you and makes you feel special especially not since you knew him when you were 5. He might be a little shy and afriad to ask you because he is afraid that you will turn him down. Explain that you like him and appreciate what he is doing and maybe that will cool his guard down and make him feel more open with you. But yes he does like you. Hope i helped...drop one in the inbox. xoJacxo
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Okay, I have been sick for almost a week now, I have really bad diarrhea and I can't keep any food down! Everytime I eat it comes up, I even took three bites of a yogurt and it came up. My mom refuses to take me to the doctor and I am starting to feel weak. i usually get dehydrated really easily and now when i drink it doesnt stay down either. My mom keeps an attitude towards me when i tell her what is going on and she says she cant afford to take me to the doctor, WHAT DO I DO? (link)
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Try telling your mom that you are starting to feel weak and that you really need to see a doctor. If she still refuses have a relative take you or a close friend's mom. If you don't want to go to the extreme try pepto bismol or an upset stomach medication. Hope i helped :)xoJacxo
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Last night I did my washing but I was really tired so I just dumped it all in without looking to see what went in. Then when I checked this morning, I had found that I had slipped a fur coat into the mix.
Things happen and bada bing bada boom,
The coat feel apart,
Well I'm not that upset about the coat falling apart (a bit but not much) but now all my other clothes that went in that wash have fur all over them. I have tried shaking them off but they are still covered- what would be the best way to get all the fur off easily?
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Rolling tape or a lint roller. Hope i helped :)
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There is this guy at my school Rick who asked me out 2 years ago (and told me he loved me), and i rejected him. But now, I think I am in love with him. I have been in love with Rick from the moment I rejected him, and I don't know what to do about it. And if I go up to him and be like "Hey I love you" then that will just be really akward and he'll be like wtf? I talk to him at school sometimes, but never about dating or anything. It's just casual conversation. And the conversations usually only last about 2 minutes or so, because then we have to each start heading different ways for our next classes. (And I look forward to those 2 minutes every day.. they are the highlight of my day, they are what I wake up for.. hah i know that sounds corny but it's true!!) What can I say to Rick, but make it sound casual? And also, I'm not sure if he still likes me or not. Sometimes in the halls he will catch up to me and talk to me. But I can't tell if he likes me or not. Please help, I don't know what to do, but I know I need to do SOMETHING. Please don't delete this!! (link)
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I think one day you should go up to him and tell him that in middle school you didn't know if he was being serious when he told you that "he loved you" because you thought that middle school was a young age to be in love. During the day when you both have time or on the phone (but its better face to face for eye contact) you should tell him that you still like him, even after all these years, you just were too young in middle school but now since your older and more mature ( i hope) you can handle something like this. If he still likes you he will accept, then go out for lunch or go to a movie. It will bring you two a lot closer and a relationship will start to form again. Hope i helped :) xoJacxo
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my best friend always goes over to a girl named sarahs house.She goes over because sarah has an older brother and i guess julie (my best friend) thinks its really cool that she gets to do "stuff" with older guys after many times of this, the guys ALWAYS deny it when asked and NONE of then ever talk to her. Also my friend falls in love spontainiously (sp?) like one hour shes in love with one guy shes never met, and the next shes in love with another guy shes never met its really dumb and eventually i know she will get hurt but if i tell her that they are just using her then shes going to say no and be mad at me... please tell me somthing i can tell her (link)
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I think that it is a problem. It is ok if she goes over sarah's house to see sarah. Basically it sounds like she is using sarah to get closer to her brother, and doint stuff with older guys is against the law. Now you can call police on the guys if things get way out of hand, this is going to hurt her in the end. The guys are usuing her for things and she doesn't know it. Being open and vulnerable like this is bad, and something terrible can happen is this continues. Defidently make it stop by telling her that you care about her. xoJacxo
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Ok, in school I'm in the "popular group" and my friends are really nice and everything but sometimes they really annoy me. Here's why. Whenever a guy asks them out they'll like automaticlly say yes (even if they don't like them), and when a guy dumps them or they dump a guy they'll be going out with someone else within an hour. Anyway, for some reason this really bugs me. I don't really no why either. Now a guy asked me out and I said no because I don't like him and now they keep calling me too picky. What do I do? (link)
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Just ignore them. They shouldn't be able to tell you what to do. You are your own person regardless of who you do or don't hang out with. In my advice they seem like a bunch of snobs trying to do that to guys. In the end the innocent guys get hurt where they didn't do anything wrong but ask a girl out. If they bug you ignore them, you shouldn't be listening to them anyways. Hope I helped :)..need anything put it in the inbox. xoJacxo
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i have this friend named lindsey marion and she cried at my friends house and she said she wanted to go back to my house and not stay there, and she called her mom and my mom thought she was tellin her mom that all the grownups were drunk and now she can't come over again and spend the night or even play over. wat should i tell my mom to make her let my friend spend the night again?
the sadest,
smarti8 (link)
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I think you should tell your mom that your friend was mistaken and that your friend was scared and should explain to your mom that it wasn't what she thought it was. If this doesn't work have the mother call your mother and try and have the issue resolved. Best wishes :)..have a question pop one in the inbox. xoJacxo
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I'm a 13 (almost14) female....... At school theres like half black people, and the other half is white. I'm white, but all these black people tell me I have a black girls booty, and they tell me I have a big head (not like stuck up, but like literaly big"! sometimes the guys act like they like me, but then again they make fun of me. Do they really like me, or are they picking on me seriously???????
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Well if they say you have a black girl's booty it's simply a compliment and they are so obviously jealous of you that they are black and don't have a butt like yours. As well as the guy part goes, guys are immature and jerks. They do like you because im 16 almost 17 and all i hear all the time is how much guys like the tooshie. I don't think you have a big head, I think that they are saying that to try and act cool and bring your self-esteem down. Ignore them. The guys who like you, like you and the ones who pick on you don't. I still have guys who pick on me and I still have guys who like me. You can't be expected for every guy to like you. But ignore the ones who are picking on you and calling you a "big head" they are the stuck up ones. Stay true to yourself sweetie. Hope i helped :)..need anything else pop one in the inbox..and rate me plz...*good luck* xoJacxo
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Ok I asked a question last night....if you didn't read it you can go back and do that. Ok so I haven't tried talking to this guy because i'm kinda afraid of what i might hear. but he avoids me and supposedly he's heard stuff about me thats not true which could be the case to the break up! I was at his basketball game and it made me think about him even more....my friend thinks i should just move on for now and wait til later this year or something because she thinks were meant to be together....just wanted to know what you guys think? (link)
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I think you should confront him about it, and see if he has heard stuff about you. If he has explain to him that they are rumors and they are untrue. He will come around to where he will believe you, this is best because if he finds out that they are untrue then he won't avoid you any more and a relationship could start to form. I don't think hiding from what he might say is going to solve anything. Because if you hide from it, then the year is going to be over before you know it and things still wouldn't have changed. It's better to do it now than later. Hope i helped :) any other questions pop on in the inbox. *good luck* xoJacxo
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You know those Livestrong Bracelets that everyone is wearing now-a-days? Well according to my Spanish teacher, they're also a symbol for hospitals to not ressusitate (sp.) you if you get in some sort of accident and are put in the hospital. Is this true??? Because if it is, that's awful, and I'm not wearing mine anymore. (link)
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That is so NOT TRUE. The livestrong bracelts were made for the Lance Armstrong Foundation because he has cancer and all profits from the bracelts go to his treatment. Hope i helped :) any questions pop one in the inbox. xoJacxo
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My best friend and I like the same guy. The thing is, he is dating my best friend. But she and he both know that he likes me also. He wants to be with both of us, but I don't want to hurt my best friend so I think I should back off. What should I do?? Thanks!
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First off the back I think that the guy is a jerk. Even though he's not dating two girls at the same time he wants to date both of you. In the end this could come out to be some serious dramam with you and your best friend. I don't necessairly think you should back off, you can still like him, but maybe you don't want to shove it in her face that you still have feelings for the guy, because in the end that could hurt your friendship. The best advice comes in the end, is this guy worth losing your best friend in the end. Hope i helped :) if you have a question pop on in the inbox. *good luck* xoJacxo
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hey..a few days ago i got an ipod and it came wit itunes. So i loaded it on, at first it didn't work so i resept the ipod and then everything worked fine and i loaded 4 or 5 CD's..the other day i tried to load another one and it said "do not disconnect" onthe ipod, and the ipod file came up but the songs didnt download on. I left it connected for atleast 2 hours and still no songs. I tried to load a different cd a few days later and the same problem happened. Does anyone know how i can fix this and be able to load my cds again. If it helps, i see the cd titles in "my library". Thanks in advance. (link)
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I have an Ipod too! Mine was a breeze to download songs. Make sure you have iTunes installed on your computer. First you have to connect the Ipod to the computer with the UVB cord. Then iTunes will open. Put a cd inside your CD-ROM drive. The songs should appear in your library and start downloading. After its complete click ok, and the songs should be on your Ipod. If you downloading from your computer you don't need to put anything in the CD-ROM drive the iTunes will pick it up automatically and start downloading the music to your Ipod. Let me know if this works. Any other questions drop one in the inbox. *good luck* xoJacxo
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ok my family n friends live in connecticut b/c i moved a few years ago... we go there every xmas... im gonna be seeing my bff who i havent seen for like a year... i need a REALLY good xmas gift! im going to be seeing a few of my other really good friends so does anyone have any ideas about what i should get? please answer asap im leaving in like 2 days! thanx so much!... i rate (link)
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O.K. for some people this might seem like a hard question. Get her something that you know would both mean a lot ot her and yourself. Perhaps a photo alubum that way you can take pictures and put it in there. You can bring it home with you and fill it up with more pictures so next time when you go see her, she can look at the photos to see everything she has missed while you were away. Or you can get some CD's or a CD player (though thats not really meaningful) you could also make her a nice card. Have any questions..pop one in the inbox. *good luck* xoJacxo
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anybody knows best free place get journal? (link)
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you can try www.livejournal.com (thats what i have) xanga.com or blunty.com. they all work. any other questions drop one in the inbox. xoJacquixo
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my friend has had this off and on relationship with this guy.hes fingered her and made out alot and stuff but he goes off and does stuff like that with other people.shes like my best friend EVER and she calls me crying sayin hes makin out with some girl.it breaks my heart and i think she should leave him.all he does is break her hearrt.she deserves so much better but she claims she loves him so much.other times she hates him.can someone help me?im afraid im in the middle.
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I think your friend should leave him. Obviously she is hurting herself by claiming that she "loves" this guy when I think she has been mistaken. Don't let her become something she is not, sit down and talk to her about how bad he is treating her and how something like this can turn into an abusive relationship if nothing is done about it. You would rahter the issue be solved now than later when it can turn into a bigger deal.
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I want to make a butterfly garden. How should I make it? what flowers should I use?
thanks xo0x (link)
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the heck if i know
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Hi Jaqui,
I am babysitting my brother tonight? What should I do besides sit around the house and watch him?
Thanks in advance :) (link)
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trying to rate
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ok my bf and i have been going out for 8 days and we went to the movies he didn't act like he was going to break up with me, but he has not called me today and he calls me everyday. what do i do? I have tried calling him and he didn't anwser on either his cell or home phone and i don't want to seem like an obessive gf so i don't want to call again what do i do? How long do you think i should wait b4 calling again? plz help i rate!!!! (link)
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Looks like he is really into you. If you tried to call him today there is no need to worry about it hun! Either he is not home or he is busy doing something maybe for school or a chore. If you tried calling and don't want to seem obsessive try calling once or twice every hour. Or maybe try again later that night when you know whatever he is doing he will probably be about done. No need to panic, and when you do get to talk to him, you'll feel like nothing ever happened at all. Any other questions pop on in the inbox *good luck* xoJacquixo
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ok my bf and i hav been going out for out for 8 days and we went to the movies he didnt act like he was going to break up with me but he has not called me today and he calls me everyday so what do i do i have tried calling him and he didnt anwser on either his cell or home phone and i dont want to seem like an obesive gf so i dont want to call again what do i do and how do you think i should wait b4 calling again plz help i rate!!!! (link)
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Looks like he is really into you. If you tried to call him today there is no need to worry about it hun! Either he is not home or he is busy doing something maybe for school or a chore. If you tried calling and don't want to seem obsessive try calling once or twice every hour. Or maybe try again later that night when you know whatever he is doing he will probably be about done. No need to panic, and when you do get to talk to him, you'll feel like nothing ever happened at all. Any other questions pop on in the inbox *good luck* xoJacquixo
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