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one-way love?
There is this guy at my school Rick who asked me out 2 years ago (and told me he loved me), and i rejected him. But now, I think I am in love with him. I have been in love with Rick from the moment I rejected him, and I don't know what to do about it. And if I go up to him and be like "Hey I love you" then that will just be really akward and he'll be like wtf? I talk to him at school sometimes, but never about dating or anything. It's just casual conversation. And the conversations usually only last about 2 minutes or so, because then we have to each start heading different ways for our next classes. (And I look forward to those 2 minutes every day.. they are the highlight of my day, they are what I wake up for.. hah i know that sounds corny but it's true!!) What can I say to Rick, but make it sound casual? And also, I'm not sure if he still likes me or not. Sometimes in the halls he will catch up to me and talk to me. But I can't tell if he likes me or not. Please help, I don't know what to do, but I know I need to do SOMETHING. Please don't delete this!!
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i think u definately should talk to him. buecause a lot of the times that happens to people, they turn some one down and then start to like them. and then before they kno it, theyre basically in love with that person and he could care less. but. if this guy truly loved you ((by the way i dont believe you need to be a certain age to love)) then he should take you back. talk to him. tell him how you feel. and if youre too scared just send him a text. a note.. and im. or do it on the phone. something like rick- ever since you asked me out and i turned you down, i have liked you more and more and i want to kno if u still like me. or something like that..
xO-sara
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I think one day you should go up to him and tell him that in middle school you didn't know if he was being serious when he told you that "he loved you" because you thought that middle school was a young age to be in love. During the day when you both have time or on the phone (but its better face to face for eye contact) you should tell him that you still like him, even after all these years, you just were too young in middle school but now since your older and more mature ( i hope) you can handle something like this. If he still likes you he will accept, then go out for lunch or go to a movie. It will bring you two a lot closer and a relationship will start to form again. Hope i helped :) xoJacxo
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if you really like rick you should tell him at lunch or something,just say to him "Rick i like you alot", and then see what he says,but what ever you do,do not ask him out,because i did that to a guy that asked me out lik a while ago,and then i rejected him,but now i like him,and i asked him out and he rejected me,because girls lik us are not supose to ask the guy out,the guy is supose to ask you out,so just ask him to go to the movies or something on the weekend,and if he really likes you still he might say yes,and if he does say yes then you guys go to the movies,and ask him if you can hold his hand if you go to a scary movie,then you might be able to tell if he likes you,but until then just keep dropin hints to him that you like him that much.
-newyork745-
p.s. i hope this works out for you.
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Aww, I'm sorry, the same thing happened to me with someone.. I would say to just try to talk to him more often, find out his screenname and talk to him online and stuff, and get to be good friends again and then maybe tell him you like him. I guess it all depends on how good of friends you get to be.. I hope this helps!
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i know what you mean the thing that worked for me is that you should still talk to him.but you cant go fast because you have to realize that u rejected him and if you go to fast he will think that your relasionships will be fast try being friends first so you can spend time with him or give him your email adress or number and tell him he can call anytime.
hope it works out with rick
luv britt
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get some one on one time with him. if you want to talk to him about this.. it's gonna take more than 2 minutes lol. but the next time there's a 2 minute chat be like hey Rick can we hang out blah blah blah? I kinda need to talk to you about something.. when that day does come.. be like umm.. so you remember 2 years ago when you asked me out? i was wondering if that option was still open. it's crazy i know but i was an idiot and i regret it. i get if you don't feel that way anymore but i just had to tell you and see if there was a chance.
goodluck.
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i think that next time you talk to him be like rick you know id really like to talk to you more than 2 minutes can we hang out some time out of school.. and if he says yes.. just tell him how you feel and lay it all out for him.
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Just go up to him and casually be like, "My friends keep saying we'd be really cute together. What do u think?" If he says no, just leave it at that. If he says yes, then there ya go! Good luck!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~
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