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Q: Like any other annoying question...here it goes..

There's this guy..Scott..wow what a hottie..I've liked him since forever..7th grade..he gave me my first kiss..It wasn't even a kiss..more like a makeout session..but hey, that's even better! ..Turns out, I was just a stupid bet he won against the other guys..He said he was sorry..I accepted..we went out...broke up..went out, broke up..All this time while we broke up, I still had feelings for him...He said he still liked me, too...A couple of months ago, we went out..and this time, my feelings were even stronger..It felt like love..(I'm in 9th grade now) but he broke up with me because he said we weren't spending enough time together and that we were just "friends with benefits" I still like him..I really do. I am jealous when I know he's hanging out with other girls..I become depressed. I don't know what to do though...I live so far away from him and we don't even go to the same school...What do i do?
Well, in my opinion, you need to move on...if you two have already broken up twice and he is with other girls now, you need to forget about him. If he was just using you as a bet in the first place, i wouldn't trust him anymore. So sorry if my advice didn't help... send something in my inbox and tell my what happens please. hope i helped
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Q: What is a lubricant and what is it used for?
Main Entry: lu·bri·cant
Pronunciation: 'lü-bri-k&nt
Function: noun
1 : a substance (as grease) capable of reducing friction, heat, and wear when introduced as a film between solid surfaces
2 : something that lessens or prevents friction or difficulty
- lubricant adjective

hope that can help
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Q: i just started straightening my hair and when i straighten it its always frizzy and doesnt stay straight..i always see ppl with perfect straight silky hair and i wanna know how to get mine like that. please help!
the best advice i can give u is to use thermal spray before you straighten your hair. My hair goes like that sometimes too, i think it is just because of the type of hair...its kind of depressing....so ya, try thermal spray and see if that works...so sorry if it doesn't. hope i helped
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Q: Hi people this may seem like a totally weird question but I'm going to a costume party next weekend and I have no clue what to wear! Do any of you fashionable girls out there have any ideas or suggestions? Oh yeah, I'm a girl and I'm fifteen. I RATE 5's!!!
Well, if you have a good friend that doesn't know what to wear either, you and your friend should go as something like salt n' pepper or something. But, ya, you should dress really unique, in something that no one else would think of..... hope i helped.....
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Q: hey im a 14 year old guy..ok theres this girl who lives in a different city who i met thru some friends who i LOVE! she is so aweosme! and she loves me too, which is great. but theres a girl at my school who really likes me and i kinda like her..and i might want to ask her out in the summer, but i wouldnt be able to flirt with the girl i love and she'd never forgive me or trust me again. but its hard cuz the long distance, even tho i visit her a few times a year. should i ask the girl at my school out or stick with the girl i love? i rate high for good advice
You should definitely go with the girl that you love, even if she lives in a different city.... Asking the girl from your school out in the summer wouldn't be worth that other girl that you love not being able to trust you or forgive you. Maybe you and the girl that lives farther away should try to see each other more. I am just gonna say that who you love more is more important than how far away they are.

Q: I'm going to a car show tomorrow with my boyfriend. It's suppose to be 72 degrees. I don't know what to wear, or how I should wear my hair(it's right below shoulder length)
Please help.
I think you should wear your favorite outfit, but wear like shorts and a short sleeved shirt. Don't wear dark colors! If it is going to be breezy, put your hair up, if it isn't, you should leave it down. Its good to try something different...if you usually have your hair straight, try having it wavy or curly. if you have it curly or wavy most of the time, then try straightening it.

Q: How can I straighten my hair properly so it will stay straight thru the whole day?
my advice is to get thermal spray and spray it on your hair and then seperate your hair into layers and straighten it, one layer at a time. If you don't have a straightener, curling irons always work too, just slide it slowly through your hair without turning the curling iron like you normally would when you're curling it.

Q: ok.. ive liked this guy for a while now and now he knows and i can tell he likes me too but i think that were both afraid to talk to eachother :(.. i really really like him and i wanna be able to talk to him but im really really shy. and plus ive never had to go and talk to someone, theyve always came to me. but anyways.. its been a few weeks and i jus wanna get it over with and talk to him...but the thing is.. i dont kno wut to say, and when or w/e so can u pleasssee help me?? im starting to get frustrated with myself cause i cant do it.
I rate high!

*depressed and sad
if you have a really good friend that knows about this, then you should ask your friend if she will tell him to talk to you. this usually works. if you don't really have anyone that knows about it, then i think you should just kind of gradually get to know him and just say hi to him the next time you see him. just start saying hi to him in the hallways, and soon you will be talking to him. i know it can be hard if you're shy, but you just need to face your fears.

Q: my father abuses me what should i do
This sounds like something that would be really hard.... i think you need to tell someone that you trust about it...someone that will try to help. You should tell people like a school counselor, or a family member or a neighbor, or even a really good friend. No one has the right to do that to you and you need to end it as soon as you can.

Q: i have blackheads and i dunno what to do!..i use clean and clear, phisoderm and they both dont work! so i tried clean and clear and that didnt help either!..does anybody know how to help me?!?!?!?
i have that exact same problem... i think that you should keep trying a few more face scrubs except make sure that you are using them with cold water (that was what worked better for me) and use them about 2 or 3 times a day. give them a chance too, blackheads take a while to go away even if you wash your face a lot.

Q: If there are any cat experts out there, I need your help! My cat has constantly been throwing up her food twice a day for almost a week! (She's not bulimic!LOL)What's wrong??? I rate 5's!
K, something like this happened to my cat, so I hope it is the same problem your cat has so that my advice will actually help. Your cat might have a sensitive stomach and might need special cat food. So you could try getting cat food that says sensitive stomach on the package. Another thing you could do that would probably help a lot more than I would is to take your cat to the vet, and your vet could tell you what the problem is. Hope I helped.
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Q: I have a friend i call a best friend. She doesnt feel like a best friend to me. Its hard to be friendz with her n stuff becuz shes kind of spreading my lil secrets like how i talk about ppls behind their bak, n mi favs. I hate that but shes a litto bit powerful than me and im only a weak person. Iuno wat to do...
I think you should tell her how you feel and that you don't want her to be spreading all of your personal stuff around. Sometimes its really hard not to tell people things, and everyone tells secrets that they weren't supposed to at some time in their life, but if she thinks of you as her best friend, then I think she would listen to you. If that doesn't work, I think you should just tell her straight out that she doesn't feel like your best friend. I hope I helped.
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Q: ok well you see.. it all started about a month ago and i told me friend that i liked this kid.. and she told me that she liked my friend JJ that im kinda colse to.. anyway welll the kid i liked decided to shave his head and get his tounge pierced.. so i don't like him anymore.. but when i talk to my friend JJ i get the feeling that i like him and i don't know how to tell her.. and what if he would ask me out or somthin would i say yes or be a good friend and say no b/c my friend likes you and i don't want her to be mad at me... please help

That has sooo happened to me before... i told my friend and she didn't get mad or anything, we just laughed about how hot he was after. hehe. but i don't know ur friend so i don't really know how she would handle it if you told her... I think you should try telling her calmly, not that i know her or anything, but most people would handle it pretty well. So i say go for it.

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