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is there any way you can suck your own dick??? I'm looking for a more pleasureable masturbation. Im serious so dont give me crap. (link)
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No its proven that for a man to suck his own dick you must remove a set of ribs from your rib cage in order to reach ...like everyone was suspicious cause Marylin Manson the weird singer got a set of his ribs from his rib cage removed so he could be "More flexible"..yearight....why don't you just like look at porn or try something else...
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so i need some advice on hair. i'm getting super tired of my hair and i want to get it cut. it's medium length, like a little past my shoulders. i have an oval face shape. if you could please send me links of pictures of hair that looks good on oval faces i'd verrry much appreciate it :]
and actually i'm going to grow it out so long styles are a possibility too
thanks :] (link)
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Its hard to tell you the perfect answer when i cant see your skin color/facial features etc.. so i would suggest going to
http://www.clairol.com/tios_2.jsp?hf=true
register its free and you can upload a picture of yourself and try on different hair colors/cuts on your face it really helps!
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SORRY IT'S LONG-I don't know if this is in the right catagorie but... This is a picture of me:
http://s204.photobucket.com/albums/bb199/whatever123_014/
What type of hair style would work best on me? I was kinda thinking about long bangs. not dorky more like how Hilary duff used to wear her hair in this pic:
http://images.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http://www.iamfan.com/~hilary_duff/images/pictures/hilary-duff-1.jpg&imgrefurl=http://www.iamfan.com/~hilary_duff/pictures/hilary-duff-picture-1.htm&h=400&w=300&sz=50&hl=en&start=11&tbnid=dgtYm7gefaroJM:&tbnh=124&tbnw=93&prev=/images%3Fq%3DHilary%2Bduff%2B%26gbv%3D2%26svnum%3D10%26hl%3Den%26sa%3DG
or like Alexis Bledel in this pic:
http://l.yimg.com/img.tv.yahoo.com/tv/us/img/site/44/50/0000034450_20061020202723.jpg
Like I said, I need help and this is a pretty big change in my hair so please tell me if this is a bad idea and give me some advice. (link)
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Well first your a very cute girl and i think anything you do will turn out cute but i would recommend side sweep bangs and some layering to give your hair more volume in your photo you look like you have a round shaped face meaning your face is widest at its cheeks and i think side sweep bangs complement your facial structure. you would also look cute with some highlights to help your decision go to http://clairol.com/security/login.jsp?dest=/try-it-on-studio/process_tios.jsp®loc=tios
register its free! and you can upload a photo of yourself and try on different hair colors and hair cuts thats how i found my perfect hair color/cut!
hope i helped
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what is it/how do you do it
thanks (link)
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no the person below me is wrong it is a sexual position like picture two spoons lying side by side each other and the penis going in the vagina sideways its hard to explain so here is a diagram of it its not a dirty picture.....
http://images.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http://us.st11.yimg.com/us.st.yimg.com/I/sexualpositions_1911_304913&imgrefurl=http://www.sexualpositionsfree.com/ansexfromspo.html&h=338&w=450&sz=44&hl=en&start=6&tbnid=2p60_s4kTynsbM:&tbnh=95&tbnw=127&prev=/images%3Fq%3Dspooning%26gbv%3D2%26svnum%3D10%26hl%3Den%26client%3Dfirefox-a%26channel%3Ds%26rls%3Dorg.mozilla:en-US:official%26sa%3DG
sorry hopefully the picture helped more than i explained
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Does any one have any little hits or ideas or any little things or big things that can help me make it more enjoyable for him. anything to make him like it more, he doesn't come very easily like i still haven't made him so does any one have any helpful hints thanks o by the way I'm almost 16 f (link)
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yah! what i always do is the combo hand job and blow job at the same time like make sure to put your hands at the base of his penis and jack him off while sucking. Also you can flick your tounge around his penis and spice it up a bit just remember to always make sure your hands are at work has well has your mouth...and also your lucky it takes him awhile to cum because a lot of guys are too fast and its annoying when your having sex!
hope that helps!
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ive been fingered, ive masterbated, and ive worn tampons. so my hymen is most likely broken right? (link)
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most likely not because the hymen has a opening in it..tampons most ikley never break your hymen...masturbating with a large dildo or being fingered with alot of finger can break it...you would know if after your being fingered or masturbating there is a little blood and discomfort and most likley if not soon but when you pee or a little later on there is some weird discharge because it most likley is the broken hymen skin coming out....but tampons and fingering most likley dont break your hymen most people hymens are broeken during intercourse
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Ok i had sex with my boyfriend we used a condom but when he pulled out it wasnt on anymore it was inside of me. What are the possibilties of my getting pregnat? I'm really scared. (link)
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i agree with the person below me in that it is very likley...but when the condom was inside of you was his semen already in the condom or did he pull out while he was ejaculating..or did he even ejaculate yet...try to remeber because that matters but it can still be very likely....make surethat when you put a condom on your guys package you squeeze all the air out of it and when your guy ejaculates and is ready to pull out make sure he holds the base of the condom so it wont fall off...review your putting on taking off condom skills it will prevent these accidents...but if your young and cant have people kno your pregnant nd if you find out you are pregnant..free clinic..but the abortion isint free its usually like 100-800 dollars depending where you go..
anyways hope i helped
good luck ;)
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Ok my mother is forcing me to go for a medicals check up cause i havent had one in like years and for some reason she thinks i could have diebeties cause she sees me eating too many sweets (rolls eyes) i know its rediculose but now im freaking out cause i just relized there gonna check my urine, blood, ect.. and... im just wondering if they can see that i have marijuana in my system. I dont smoke it all the time just once in a while last time was like friday nov 17 my check up is on tuesday can find anything if there not looking for it? help anyone who knows cause if they can im just gonna stale untill maybe another month if i can
any advice will be greatly appreciated
Thanks!
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haha you sound like one my many friends....ok marijuana stays in your system for a month...butit can only show up in your urine if your mom requests a test for marijuana..so if your mom has been onto you latley oir is aware you smoke marijuana..she may order you a urine test without you knowing.....but it will only show up if your mom requests they look for it....anyways my friends before they get tested take de-tox pills...its supossed to flush everything out of your system it is usually used for cleansing your system....u can buy them at any health food stores such has whole foods etc. warning:if you are very skinny or have a eating disorder do not take these..im not sure how much you are supposed to take but it should say on the bottle....
good luck ;)
btw i forgot to mention
DONT DRINK BLEACH
its stupid its a myth bleach is toxic it can kill you if you put too much in your system a little drop dosent do anything trust me it dosent do shit ive asked a doctor that so i know for sure
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Okay, so I'm a girl...
Anywhos, okay, I get really aroused when I think about the whole rape, sexual harrassment things and what not.
Is this weird? (link)
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welll... i think if you were actually raped or taled to someone who was raped you would think differetly....i kinda kno what you mean though when you are getting aroused do you usually imagine yourself being raped by somone specific who you know...or do u actually imagine yourself with some any random old man. Maybe your just into rough hard sex like bondage and you like the feeling of being dominated or taken over or being dirty...lots of guys love that.... so anyways yes i think its normal to get aroused by being dominated or someone taking over your body....but i dont think its normal to get aroused by any old man or anyone random who is a rapist....but im sure your just a dirty girl..so whip out the whips and chains Woot Woot haha!
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16/f
I like to wear skinny jeans. I LOVE them. The way I dress is labeled "scene/punk"...whatever.
My friends (3 of them) want to start wearing skinny jeans because they say I look good in them so they want to try them. I'm a size 5.
First of all..what are y'alls views on skinny jeans? (out of curiousity)
Do y'all think girls who are sizes 5,9, and 11 would look good in skinny jeans?
Oh and...I don't want them to look EXACTLY like me so what other shoes, besides converse or flats, would look good with skinny jeans? (link)
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i love skinny jeans has well..i wear my skinny jeans with usually black,red or white pumps and i also wear mine with peep toe heels (the heels that show a bit of ur toes). mostly heels and flats look good with skinny jeans avoid any kind of sneaker cause in my view it makes your feet look big. Add a oversized sweater or a waist belt with skinny jeans and pumps and you will look ultra sexy.In my view skinny jeand s look god on up to people who are a size six and under...anything above that unfortunatley people might critisize...but that dosent keep u from looking hot there are plenty of cute fashions out right now!
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16/f
okay this might sound kind of funny but im just making sure! ive probably been on birth control for about a year now..not for sex or anything but for my period. is there different kinds of birth control? like..if i wanted to have sex with a guy would taking my birth control still be effective, or is there like birth control just for sex and just for your period? im just wondering like..im scared to have sex obviously because im scared of pregnancy and all that other stuff! so if i ever find a right boy that i love and when i feel the time is right i want to make sure im as protected as i can be =)
im just wondering with all this stuff..
THANKS (link)
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ive never herd of birth control just for periods so im pretty sure your safe from being pregnant since is been a year just be consistent with it and keep taking it and dont skip a dose...but eventhough you are safe from pregnancy you are not safe from stds so you should always use a condom then you will be totally safe from everything!
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how do I fight my porn addiction. I hate it but it's everywhere. Please help me. (link)
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i would take your computer out of yor house and any other type of porn you might have...and when u get urges just masturbate or something but try to keep urself busy like the person below said it will def keep ur mind off of it
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i hate my body..i play soccer and lacrosse and i like to run.. but all i see is fat. sometimes when i eat i'll make myself purge. i don't want to do it before i do it but after i feel so much better like i've accomplished something. i always count my calories....i don't purge every day.. sometimes it's only once a week or once every few weeks. but sometimes i'll do it more than once a week...am i bulimic? is this serious? do i need help? (link)
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ok sweety that is the begginigs of a eating disorder...i would know because i was anorexic for 2 years and had to be hospitalized for about a month and i met alot of bulimic/anorexic patients. People dont ask for eating disorders they sneak up on you..it can start by being really depressed, a obsseion with working out, on a diet and cut back too much etc. and sweety you sound sthletic so i dont want to ruin your perfect heath because eating disorders corrupt your life..Purging is very unhealthy and it ruins the lining of your stomach and it ruins your teeth since the acids from your stomach rot your teeth and you can seriously do permanent damage to your body...you should gte perfressional help like a counsler or talk to friends before this can blow up into a bigger thing..if you feel you are overweight you can maintain weight or gain muscle and be toned..but im sure your a beautiful person and dont let and eating disorder corrupt your life because if it gets serious it will control your life it did mine and it was horrible...just be sure to eat your 3 meals a day and work out and keep healthy by working out...eventhough you may love the control of deciding what you eat its not worth it in the end...be confident if you learn to love your body then guys will flock to you there is nothng sexier than a confident girl...if you have any questions at all reguarding eating disorders im your girl
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My friend constantly makes fun of me. I know friends joke around with each other like, and make fun of each other a little bit, but this is all the time and it gets really old. I've stopped laughing at it - I used to laugh too because I don't have a problem laughing at myself. But she makes fun of everything I do - if I said, "Ok" she'd find some reason to make fun of it. What do I do? Why is she doing this? THanks. (link)
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you kno sweety i used to have a friend just like that...and if it rly bothers you you should say something like "hey it rly makes me uncomfortable when you criticize me" if she is rly a good friend she will listen..and point it out to her next time she does it....but alot of times people criticize another to make themselves feel higher and it can be covering up for their insecurities or even jealousy...its good to luagh at yourself and not give them the staisfaction of knowing it rly bugs you...dont be afraid to joke around about your friend too not has much has she does to you.but just once in a while to give her a taste of what it feels like..
hope that helps good luck
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I was just wondering what do you think would be an appropriate age to start dating? (link)
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nowadays there is rly no age limit because if you tell your kids they can date at a certain age they can still do it out of your control so i started to date around 13-14 even though my parents told me i could start at 16 i just ignored them and contiued to go out with him.....i think you should go with your heart and go out with someone who you truly feel is worth your time and a good boyfirend
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my uniform for school is cacki pants and a white polo. i dont wanna wear sneakers with it .. i wanna wear flats, like moccasins or something. does that look good? and where could I get some flats at a good price that are cute, and a nuetral color, like brown or black. thanks in advance (link)
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hey well flats would look adorbale to spice up your outfit..pointy toed flats are hot in black and so are maryjane flats..if your daring pumps are totally instyle i dunno if ur school allows those but that sexy yet conservative look is very hot..you should also try other accesories like belts headbands jewlery..try forever 21 or wet seal for great accesories..and nuetral colors would look great but dont be afraid to add some color if you accesorize rigth with some other colrs it will look hot..and also try layering your white polo with other longer shirts underneath..some great cheap shoe stores are DSW,target,Bakers,shoe pavillion..but if you want the hottest styles and splurge a bit i would suggest nordstrom or macys or www.urbanoutfitters.com has my favorite flats
hope this helps
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hiii i have really curly hair.
and when i starighten it,it looks good
but somtimes it looks sorta dried out?
what can i do to make it not looking that way (link)
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i feel ya girl...well first make sure you have a good straightener preferably ceramic and NO WET TO DRY STAIGHTENERS they fry your hair good to buy one at your local beauty store..also if its been awhile you should cut some of the split ends off if you have any because straightening causes them to split evenmore which is no bueno....you also shouldent wash your hair evryday because it takes away all your hairs natural oils which keep it hydrated...try hot oil treatments and always condition..also in the shower dont rinse off all of you conditioner keep a little in....if your looking to splurge some good products are
BioSilk Silk Therapy Treatment
Aveda light elements smoothing fluid
Kerastase, Serum Oleo Relax
these are all seriums that you can apply after straightening but dont use too much because it can make your hair very greasy=no bueno....apply it from the middle of your hair to the ends putting thee ecxess on the top...but there are chaeper seriums at the drug store...also good to use mosturizing shampoo and conditioner im obsessed with garnier frutics dry or damaged hairshmpoo/conditoner
well i can go on forever about hair hope one of these helps
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I really want to be known (in a good way) ...like know everyone,be friends with them..but the thing is,i've lost my self.i dont know what to say or do,im just locked up.i need a re-vamp on my style and personality. so i want to know,what are some good ways become more outgoing,what are some stores that i can mix and match from (to create a new style) and how can i meet more people (i feel like everyone hates me) (link)
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well i can understand you when you say uve lost urself most teenagers are lost and dont completley understand themseleves...ok first personality......dont be afraid to talk to new people and watever you do dont make eneimies...just be chill with everyone...keep a positve attitude because people really like that and get involved with your school activities...join clunbs sports etc..but at the same time dont be afraid to be urself thats just stupid trying to change who you are to fit in..im sure ur a beautiful person and if people are mean to you..you dont need them life is too short to care about what people think of you...just step out of your comfort zone a little and talk to new people dont be shy...
ok style....i dont kno what your current style is but you dont want to make a drastic change fast because unfortunatley people like to gossip and cause drama like for ex if you are goth and go preppy or watever people might say something.....so i would gradually change your style.....some very fashionable cheap stores that i love are forever 21 and h&m...or i love abercrombie and fitch and hollister, urban outfitters..if you are looking for a more electric style i would suggest urban outfitters or forever 21 if more preppy/casual abercrombie or hollister..u may also love to wear some makeup play around with you hair cut/color...btw i wore this too school and it attracted alot of good attention try skinny jeans with some flats or if your like me some 1 inch heel pumps or higher..and layer its totally in..but most impotantly walk into school with confidence in this if you are shy it is not good walk into school with the attitud this is the new hot me...people will surely respond
good luck
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My husband and I are very much in love. We also have a 3 year old daughter. Now, my question is, how can we still have sex without getting a surprise? My attention is always on her and she constantly wakes up during the night. A problem is that we live in NY, and not a single family member lives here, so we don't have any help. All advice is appreciated, thank you! (link)
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hello! well i agree to get a lock on the door and it might be a good idea to let your daughter know that you are fine.....beause when i was a little girl i would do the same thing and i would think my mom moaning meant she was hurt or in trouble...haha but when se gets a little older you should definatley teach her....or maybe if you have a adventourous sex life you can try having sex in other places..its always hot to unexpectadly slip in a quicke...that could spice things up
good luck
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I'm so confused about masturbation. Is it right or wrong? I keep getting these urges and I'm scared to masturbate because I'm afraid it's wrong for me to do because I'm afraid my mom might get mad and tell me not to, but I can't control my hormones! I can't even sleep because of my hormones. What should I do? (link)
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hey and i feel ya and masturbation is totally normal for your age just dont let your mom find out because that would be embarassing but guys love really horny girls..you can just masturbate in privacy and i dont kno how comfortable you feel with this but when i was 13 i got my first little vibrator you can buy them at spencers for like 10 bucks...best ten bucks i ever spent....or just find things that vibrate and hold then up to your clitoris and that will surely cure your sexual urges..you can do this when your mom is gone or when she is asleep etc...but masturbation is something she cant prevent you from doing because its a very natural thing
:)
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