My friend constantly makes fun of me. I know friends joke around with each other like, and make fun of each other a little bit, but this is all the time and it gets really old. I've stopped laughing at it - I used to laugh too because I don't have a problem laughing at myself. But she makes fun of everything I do - if I said, "Ok" she'd find some reason to make fun of it. What do I do? Why is she doing this? THanks.
ilovecali answered Wednesday August 30 2006, 5:37 pm: you kno sweety i used to have a friend just like that...and if it rly bothers you you should say something like "hey it rly makes me uncomfortable when you criticize me" if she is rly a good friend she will listen..and point it out to her next time she does it....but alot of times people criticize another to make themselves feel higher and it can be covering up for their insecurities or even jealousy...its good to luagh at yourself and not give them the staisfaction of knowing it rly bugs you...dont be afraid to joke around about your friend too not has much has she does to you.but just once in a while to give her a taste of what it feels like..
hope that helps good luck
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