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Ok, so i've liked a lot of guys in my life, but I have done NOTHING with any of them does that make me a slut? If I liked so many guys? ...
I mean alot of them i found out are friends w/the guys i used to like and some of them get mad and call me a slut. When I have done nothing with any guy, I'm just the kind of girl who moves on quickly if it doesn't work out between me and a guy, is that wrong?
Some guys ask me sexual questions and i answer but does that make me a slut, when i still haven't done anything with a guy? I've only made out with guys but i have not yet went past that yet. So does that make me a slut? and how do i deal with these guys?

ha your no slut, all guys are like that when you move on to someone new that will call you name's
it's just what thay do i don't know why, ha but
you have done nothing with them but kiss then
your not a slut, a slut is somone who sleeps around, maybe slow down with the kissing but thats all, don't listen to them when thay call you a slut mmkay[:

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Ok, I'm female and almost 14.

So one of the guys in my class tries to annoy me. During 6th period he uses his foot to shake my desk and looks at me sometimes, and in 4th period he was REALLY close to me and looking over my shoulder while I was reading the chapter's notes aloud. He keeps saying stuff to me like he's my boyfriend, but in a joking way. Recently, one of his relatives passed away, and since then, he's either nice to me or tells me to shut up when I'm not even talking to him! I'll admit, I kind of "like" him, but I really don't KNOW him... I really don't know what to do. Does he like me? And if he does, what do I do next?

uhm hello[:

-well sound's to me as though he doe's like you,
i mean he's trying to get you to look at him, and
most likely he like's you and if he doesnt then he
must be some sweet kid[:

get to know him maybe talk on the enternet or get his number and text whoa something say whats up to
him befor he starts his little shut up thing, [:

i'm sure everything will fall into place for you.
but good luck just in case, hope i helped, -xoxo!

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theres a long story behind this, but ill make it short and get to the root problem of it all.

basically me and this one guy who have known eachother for a pretty long time, havent been talking for the past month or so.

it was his decision to stop talking all together, and honestly i dont really know the real reason why he wanted this.

i do know that he liked me a lot, i didnt like him. he said that i betrayed his trust with things, mainly he got mad when i hooked up with other guys.

i want to think that the reason why he doesnt want to be friends anymore is because he cant have me in the way that he wants me, but i cant help that.

but anyway, ive tried texting and calling him. but i can just tell by his voice and his hints about not returning my texts, that he seriously is over and done with me.

it hurts a lot, but i still really care for him, and i keep hoping that he will change his mind and come back to me so we could start new and fresh. but its not happening..

i guess my question is, what should i do about this whole thing? i cant seem to get this out of my head and its bugging the crap out of me.

its a lot harder to just forget about someone than i thought and it hurts.

any and all advice would be greatly appreciated on how to cope with this. if anyone knows how to win back his friendship, please please please fill me in. thanks (:

Hey girl :]

well chances are he misses you aswell.
i think you should try to talk to him let him
know you want to start new and fresh with things,
he might not want to listen or he might even act
as if he doesnt care he does tho and i know he
misses you, just try and talk to him message him
aim him call and leave a voice message, anything
that can get him to call or listen to you, let him
know you miss him and you care for him and you
just want him back in your life; i'm sure it will
take some time to get it thru his head! give it
time your friendship isnt over just yet!

-i hope i helped.

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It's been 4 years and I can't get over this guy. I thought I was fine for awhile, cause i dont see him anymore, but every now and then it all comes rushing back. I'm sick of it already. Is there anyway I can just get this guy out of my head? I hate thinking about him. I know I deserve better and even if he would come back I wouldn't take him back. I just dont know why I cant get him out of my head. I'll do anything someone please help.

wowee! i went thru the same thing well kind of still am but thats between you and i :]

it's hard not to think of him i know that much, but try to keep busy doing thing's don't do stuff that reminds you of him because if you do that then he will just be on your mind' and that will make it harder for you to get over him, it's going to take some time but he will fade away! just make sure you DO NOT hang out with him cause your feelings for him will come back trust me i know; but if you ever just want to talk or spill your guts about it i'm here cause i know how you feel about this just drop me a message :]

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Yeah, i dont know about life in general.
i dont know about my christianlyness.
i dont know about my friends.
i dont know about the boys.
i dont know about my future.
i dont know about tomorrow.
i dont know about today.
i dont know about my face.
i dont know about my body image.
i dont know about my personality.
i dont know about what i want.
i dont know about the things in life.
i dont know about what i want.
i dont know about myself.

it seems i am at a point in my life that i just dont know what i want. i dont even know my true personality. im afraid im becoming something im not. my faith has gotten weaker and weaker. i dont know if im a true christian anymore. i dont know if i even try to be one any more. i dont know whats true and whats a lie. to me, my life is too boring to keep it as it is, so i tell others what they want to hear. i dont know how to fix this. i think im forming into my friends, and not me. i want to be me. but i cant seem to be me when im just copying what others say. how am i going to get through life? i cant fake my way all the way through. i have always wanted to be the 'original one' i just want to be ME!!!! i can tell @ church that nobody wants to even be around me. but i try so hard. maybe i need to change? maybe i just need a break from church. i can tell people just walk the other way when i walk into the room. at school i dont even have that many friends, and i need MORe. i have a small group of them, but i want some more. Im so caught up in social levels that i dont even try to be friends with the "nerds" i would say im a nice level of popularity. but i dont know. i want more. but i cant have everything. i just want to be me really. becacuse me is all i can be. and i ccant please everyone. so i just want to please myself, thught that sounds really selfish. but i just want to be lme. i just want to satisfy myself. i dont want to have the thought proccess of "others will look at me like im so popular and they want to be me" because thats what i have been doing for the last... i dont know 1 years?!?!?!
i just want to please everyone, but i dont have time for myself. but since im getting older, im finding more of myself within me. and i want to be that person that people actually want to be around.
i can try.
i can talk the talk.
i can walk the walk.
i can trick the whole world into thinking im comfortable with myself.
but i cant fool myself.


am i the only one with this problemmm?

Let Me start off by saying your not the only person that's going thru this. same time last year
that was [me] i didn't understand and could care less for [anything] but,

it's okay to not know who you are!
and it's okay to not know whats going to happend
with the future; and its most deff alright to not
know who you are right now in life' god by far isnt finshed with you yet so you have nothing to worrie, don't be scared of being someone your not.
just do what you do best be you, -DONT copy, if you like it you like it you don't have to please the world and most deff don't have to make the world like you people are going to like you; and people are going to hate you it's life.

and youi can't go on trying to make everyone happy
do what makes YOU happy, everything will fall in
to place god knows what hes doing with your life.
your in good hands for be you, and don't stress the little things, everyone goes thru it your only
a humen;

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I don't even know what I am asking, I just needed to be able to turn somewhere and speak my mind.
I've been having the hardest time trying to fine something that makes me happy. I've cried myself to sleep for the past two weeks. I have thought about killing myself. I hate school, and I used to love it. Dance, the one thing I used to find comfort in, is the last thing I want to do. My parents tell me all of our financial problems, and they don't get along anymore. Every day I go to school, I put an act on and pretend everything is okay. In fact, I am so good at that that I can't even be normal. None of my friends know that I'm so upset. Nobody knows. I am seriously making myself sick. People tell me all their trivial problems and say things like "MY LIFE SUCKS" or "I'VE HAD A TERRIBLE DAY!" when they have NO idea. And I would like more than anything to scream at the top of my lungs that I am mentally sick. I don't know what I should do. I'm seriously a mess and nobody knows.
If you read this, thanks. And sorry that it didn't have a purpose, I just needed to say something.

you sound like me; as crazy as it seem things will get better for you. i hold things in too its deff not good for you & don't cry your self to sleep no long everything will be okay things get bad & then thay get good it just happends that way why i dont know but you have to enjoy that good time while you can & then exspect for the worse & catch it befor it gets to you. trust me by now ive been thru it call ibut if you would ever like to just LET IT OUT come to me i haven no prob listing to you.

cause i'm going thru it and i'd like for someone to just listin to me

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my friend told me she saw some video about the 9/11 attacks and she said they were planned by the U.S. government so they could take over some other country..
then she said theres some video of george bush saying "the planes hit" before they hit?
and then she said some plane left a baseball sized hole in the pentagon then they paid all the people on the plane to live in a different country so no one would find out.?

ok so isn't that the craziest thing you've ever heard? what do you think of all this?

Well i believe it well be sides the whole people living in a deff county. but it believe george bush had something to do with it.

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it seems no matter how much i sleep (too little OR too much) i'm always getting bags under my eyes. how can i prevent this or make them go away?

uhm dont do the cold spoon thing BAD BAD BAD idea.
because my mom gets this thing done to her have to get out the lins blah & she asked what was the best way to get rid of that & she said do not what so ever use cold spoons because it could pop blood vesels & something else creams are the best thing & face masks :] hope i helped

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does anyone know any good things to say when you prank call. i have good ones but i used them all and i need some new things to say.. haha i like to prank my friends, they never know its me and i like to mess with them.

haha i love thisquestion :]
alright he's on that always works xD

when thay answer the phone be like hello are you the owner of the boat? &your friends will so NO! be like oh okay well i guess the winning trip for four for a curse isnt your's -sorry for bothering you BYE & hang up[:[: haha

heres another one

you have fallen behind on your house payments . Im sry but we are gonna have to destroy your house
xD xD Xd

heres another.
i am from the fbi and i am just calling to let you know that your neighbours are suspected of dealing with the terrorists andplease keep a watch on them and please report us when if see any suspected activity

ask for some ramdom person and when they say that they are not there or there is not one there by that name get angry with them and be like well i just talked to them at this same number like an hour ago.

or or or
ask for some ramdom person and when they say that they are not there or there is not one there by that name get angry with them and be like well i just talked to them at this same number like an hour ago.

Hi, this is God's answering service. He wanted me to call and tell you that your times up

haha good luck with it :] let me know how it goes
btw what are some that you use your self that i might not no i wanna use some diff one :] let me know

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Okay So Me And My Boyfriend Have Been Going Out Since September And It's Almost Our 6 Month Anniversary. And Everythings Different ,All Because Of His MOM. His Mom Hates Me And Told My Boyfriend To Not Talk To Me After School Or Even See Me. I Want To Call Her And Tell Her That I'm Sorry. Well Here's Why....Me And HIM Were Texting And We Started A DIRTY Conversation. He Deleted The Text Messages And Somehow His Mom Still Found Them. So She Freaked Out And Thought We Had Sex. He Told Me And I Started Crying Right THERE. He Also Said His Parents Were Going To Go To My Parents And Tell Them. Ever Since He's Been Afraid To Even Hold Me. I Mean Now It's Getting Better And Stuff But All Because Of His Mom!!!!! She's The Reason We Were Slowly Drifting Apart. I Love Him So Much And I can't Let Him Go.
OH MY GOD . What Should I Do To Make Everyhting Better?

you need to talk to his mom about this let him no nothing has heppend! & it really shouldnt matter if anything does happen hes growing up & she needs to face it! you should just try & talk to her; & let your boyfriend no how you really feel about him


when you talk to his mother dont cuss or use crazy words & let her no how much you love her son

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I need a new hairstyle! Im haveing a party tonight and i want to look awesome! Can u send me a cute pic of a hairstyle that might look good on me? Um heres a pic NOT OF ME but i have like the same hairstyle! Plz help:

http://photobucket.com/mediadetail/?media=http%3A%2F%2Fi207.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fbb273%2Fjohndeerecowgirl_12390%2FPicture012.jpg&searchTerm=wavy%20hair&pageOffset=11

I have like the same hair as her
plz help

xoxKendal

i'm sorry i was too late but i just wanted to see if everything turned out okay? let me know thanks

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in your opinion, do you think its better to be yourself or to follow others and why?

in my opinion i think it is [better] to be yourself, well because it's better to be something you ARE, why try to be some one your not? whats the point in that. -make your on path;
following others footsteps gets you [nowhere]
i dont know i think its just better to be [yourself]

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for cheerleading..i know they give you the underwear things for under the skirt..but are you supposed to were your own like regular underwear under them?

you cant cant cant cant cantttt do that maggah trouble your looking at geting point tooking of your team & sh!t like that dude dont try it were the spankies :]

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Hello, I'm sick of all the regular myspace surveys that keep circulating.

If any of you have any good ones, or would just like to give me some, that'd be great !

Thanks so much !

You Can Make Your own(:
thats what i do when i'm really bored.
its fun! take whatever you wanna say & answer
Try It Take little things from other sureys.

I Hope I Helped.
-xoxo

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hi im 13 and haven't started my period yet and i think i might be so here is what's happening,

.i am having gut pains and cramps,
.i haven't been felling well (as in i fell sick)
.my gut and stumache are bubbling almost for like always,

please tell me if these r signs that i'm going to start my period!

-worried

well you may & may not;
you will never know because when i started mine
i didnt cramp or anything it jusy happend.
untill after but yeah theres nothinng to be worried about, so dont worrie(:

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How do you put photos as a photo caption on Myspace?

Hey[:
go here;
www.whateverlife.com
& then search for picture captions
& there will be a little thing that shows you how to do it; it's the best kind of help there is :]

Hope I Helped
-xoxo.

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Where can I find the blank checkmark box bullets in the Microsoft 2007 Word version?

Google.com
Search Your Question
I'm Sure That's All You Need To Know

Hope I Helped.
-xoxo.

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omg!!!ok so i got a myspace and when i was trying to uploal a pictit wouldnt work so i closed it out and try to sighn back in but it wouldnt work!!!it said hey(my name) but the e-mail and password were empty and it said you must be logged in to do that.well i asked my friend to go up there and it worked for them!so i asked them to delete it so i could male a new one.well after i confirmed the cancel i tryed to log in again and it worked!!!!!well i forgot why but i think i log out or something then when i tried to log back in it wouldnt f-n work!!!!!but when i search my e-mail on myspace it my page comes up and it says im online!!!!this is just so danm frustrating!!could it be my comp?someone please help!!!!!

alright well. you didnt delete your myspace(:
lol you have you sign on your yahoo; aim ect and
confirmed the message tom sends too you then you have to wait 24 hours & your myspace will be deleted; anyways -DONT DO THAT! kay(:
lol myspace messes up sometimes tom was prob fixing something; that happends alot its myspace something you should be use to! it wont happend EVERYTIME just some times & if it does then you just have to wait for a hour; no longer then that though maybe even less. but yes myspace messes up ALOT & there isnt anything you can do about; it isnt your computer or anything its just -MYSPACE
& deleteing it & remakeing it wont help you will just have to go thru everything all over again & will just have to work on geting all of your friends back & anything so trust me dont delete it unless you dont want a myspace anymore



anyways i hope i helped & i'm sorry its LONG haa

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ok so i really like this guy.We dont talk or anything its been actcually a long time since we've talked. So today [feb.26] he couldnt really keep his eyes off of me. i mean i think he likes me & all & even once in a while he'll smile really quick and if i catch him he'll turn around quick to the other side.

i thinks he confused and debating if he likes me or not.
So, do you think he likes me?

-Heyyyy(:

well, the same thing USE to happend to me
HAAA lol anyways sounds like he likes you
- TALK TOO HIMM!!!!!!!! nothing more needs to be said cause once you to chill then you in;
trust me what could you lose? nothing(:

& Remeber if you get caught looking at him
[remeber] he was looking back ;)

hope i helped.

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Okay, well.. let's see I've liked this guy since the beginning of the year.. and it's the first year that i've known him for. And well my friend decides to tell him something that I don't know. So later on today, he asked one of my good friends heres a lay out of what he asked the convo between them:
The guy I like : Hey , you know Betty right? Your good friends with her right?
My friend: Oh yeah why?
The guy I like : Well.. because I heard that she likes me? someone said that she likes me..? Is it true?
My friend: Ohh uhmm.. I don't know.. I don't think so?
The guy I like : Oh.. alright.


And then they went on about some other thing about the project we were doing.. and he always looks at me we do the whole '' when I look at him and he turns to look at me I turn around like I wasn't looking at him and he does the whole same thing'' And we havne't really talked either.. like we have so much in common but never really gotten the chance to talk to him. For example we would be in class filling out some thing that we had to go around to everyone in the room and we looked at eachother and then went seperate ways..
Out of all this that I told you .. what do YOU think?
THANK YOU SO MUCH

Lot's of love , Bettyy.

Well Hey betty(:

i dont know it sounds like he has a thing for you;
but if you guys dont know eachother maybe you should talk idkk about school [SOMETHING ANYTHING]
then work your way up to it; & the next time he asks one of your friends if you like him make sure she doesnt say i dont think so ;) cause then if he does like you hes going to think you dont like him!

but talk to him- what could you lose?

hope i help.
-xoxo.

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