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Website: DoRks KnO aLL
Gender: Female
Location: California
Occupation: School
Age: 15
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Member Since: April 19, 2005
Answers: 63
Last Update: October 3, 2005
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Hi guyz, i was just wondering if it was true that if you have some kindof weird shape mole that means you have cancer, cuz thats what my friend told me and she is really afraid cuz she says she has a weird shaped mole.

Is it true?


~Steph~ (link)
it doesnt matter what size shape your mole is at all. it could like like texas for all i care...lol...what matters is if it changes color, shaper, or size, or if it has hair on it (gross, i know) but other than that its just a regular mole. if she really is worried about it she should go to the doctor...better safe than sorry...i hope i helped...
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The inside corner of my left eye is very red and bloodshot looking. Its itchy and sometimes it hurts. There is this white colored puss that shows up on the corner of my eye and I really don't know what's wrong. I wear contacts and I change them regularly. I don't know what the problem could be. Does anyone know what is wrong with my eye? It's not pink eye because I've had that before and I know what it's like. (link)
you probably have a stye. you can go to anydrug stor and get an ointment from the medicine isle. dont itch it and keep your hands away from it because you can infect your other eye. and since you wear contacts you shouldnt wear one in that eye because it wont go away if your keep putting back in the infected contact. go to the doctor if it wont go away after a week of using the eydrops. i hope i helped...
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My friends birthday is tomarrow and i have no idea what to get her! shes not into makeup or anything like that...shes more of a tomboy....i have no idea what to get for her...shes 15....we dont really hang out alot so i wouldnt know stuff that she likes!! could somebody please help me? thanks (link)
get her a gift card to a place in the mall she likes, try Fast Forward if they have that store where you are. giftcards work wonders, belive me...good luck...hope i helped
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I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost 2 months. I've kissed him before but I've never made out with him. I want to soooooo bad but everytime I get the chance I get scared and wuss out. I've never made out with anyone before and I'm really not sure on how to do it. Any advice? (link)
ok, what i would do is go to google and type in how to kiss, the first like 5 things that pop up are the best websites ever, have fun, dont be afraid to try new things, and go with the flow, good luck!
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Hey me and my girlfriend just broke up she broke up with me in january a different girl dumped me and i got over her for a little while but when i started talking to her again i couldnt help but love her again i miss her so much i dont know if she likes me
what should i do should i ask her out or should i sit here and wish she would go out with me please help!?!?!?!?! (link)
no you shoulnt just sit her and wish you should go out. ask her out. you actually have to take a chance if you want to get anywhere with her. it's better than nothing happening that coould have been happening. dont be afraid to take risks. i hope i helped...
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i got this pink dress for my semi [[ more liek 3 shades of pink, light lighter and dark,it has sparkles and diamonds and its a halter ]]..and i dont know whether to wear black shoes or silver (more like light gray..) and i dont know what kind of jewelery to wear.. since its a halter i dont know if i should wear a necklace or anything..please help! x0ox (link)
you should definitly wear black shoes. as for jewlery wear a simple black choker, or tye a black ribbon around your neck, thats what i did. hope i helped
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What is Chlamydia? (link)
its a std (sexual transmitted disease. to get more information go to www.engenderhealth.org/wh/inf/dchl.html
that has a lot of good information on everything you need...hope i helped
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hey i'm on the pill and my docter never told me how long it would take until it was effictive.. so i was just wondering if any one could tell me how long until it is effictive and how effective it is???PLEASE HELP (link)
you should start a month befor you try anyting. if you need anymore information try going on google and type in birth control pill and all this stuff should come up. if you dont want to do it on your computer then you can go on a computer in your public library, your allowed to do that....good luck..hope i helped
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i'm 13 and not allowed to wear make up. my mom thinks i'm too young (what's the big deal, though? it's not like i'll turn into a slut or something!). my dad.... anyway! i was wondering if there was something kind of like make up or something or whatever any tiups on how i can look prettier like i would with make up but is not very noticable (except it makes me look a little better). ways to make my lashes longer, little bit rosier cheeks, whatever. but as long it doesn't make me look cheap or anything. if this helps, i'm a brunnette, darkish beige skin, lightish brown eyes, full (but not huge) lips. i'll rate 5's to everyone who helps. (link)
it sounds like you dont need makeup hun. your 13, you look beutiful without anymakeup. trust me. if you reely want to wear makeup and is just insisting on whereing something then you should wear black or clear mascara that will bring out your light brown eyes, if your wearing clear mascara then you may want to wear a little bit of black eyliner, but not to thick, you will have to practice puttin that on. as for your cheeks, leave them the way they are. your lips, wear clear lip gloss...voila! your beutiful and it costs uner 5 dollars! hope i helped
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okay, let me break it down for you...my best friend (lets call him X) has a girlfriend, and his girlfriend is my friend (but not like a best friend) and i told X that i liked him. He said that he had liked me for like a year and a half before he got together with his girlfriend. So, we are still best friends, but i dont know what to do. Should I still like him because i know that i dont have a chance because he's already got a girlfriend and they are close (but i dont think he loves her as much as he says he does..)? Should i just like him as my best friend only? Or should I keep loving him, and he will never know how much I love him? Help! Im so confused!! (link)
dont give up too soon. keep him on your mind. it sounds like you really like him and i know exactly how you feel beacuse im going throu the same thing rite now except the guy is telling me he loves me backk...veryconfusing trust me.
. just dont think about him so much and be waiting for him so long that your missing out of having fun. give him a month, if he's still with the girl he's going out with then, accept him as a friend and try to move on, you got time to change...and he has time to change...good luck...i hope i helped
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I have gone shopping for a dress for the "big dance" at the end of the year. And every dress I've tried on shows the little "pudge" on my stomach. Is there anything I can wear under the dress to kind of hide it? If so where can I buy it and for how much? (link)
you can buy a corset type thingy at any store where they sell bras, theres new ones now that you cant see at all and there not too unconfy. they look like a bra on top and it goes all the way down to your lower stomach. usaully that cost around 20 dollars...good luck, i hopei helped
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I really love my boyfriend a lot. We have known each other for a long time. But I like to flirt a lot with other guys, sometimes i just can't help it. And my boyfriend will find out sometimes and it makes him feel bad. I don't think he would break up with me but I hate to hurt him. It makes me feel so bad. What can I do? (link)
try your hardest to not flirt with other guys. what do you think you owuld do if you saw your b/f flirting with the school slut? you would not apriciate it. just try to get in his head and see how he feels. i know where your coming from because im just like you , i just cant help it, its just the way i am. just really try hard, because you dont want to ruin your relationship. try to limit it to just talking, not touching. never ever flirt with a guy if your guy is in the same room with you. my guy ruined it for us wen i saw him flirting with the skool slut when he was sitting rite across the room from me...not fun...trust me...i hope all goes well...
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ok here the thing. i like this one girl. i've heard she likes me too but i'm not sure.and we haven't talked in about a year. (we've went out before)wat do i do?
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ask her out. dont miss out on something that you could be expierincing and the only thing holding you back is a girl saying no. better have something happen then nothing. good luck i hope it all works out...
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hello ever one lol ummm i dont konw what do say ok i lost my cellphone 2 days ago and i didnt really worried about it cause i thought it was cheap about 40 dollar i got at cingular and my contract is not fininshed yet also i ask then how much is it they told me about 160 dollar icant offered that much and i think im gonna get kick out of my house if i dont find it ( i dont have my phone now but my dad still have to pay the monthly plan) oh my gosh what should i do can how can i get a free or cheap phone at cingular or is that possible?

sry i may write really messy or dosnt make ne since but plz forgive (link)
well you shouldnt get kicked out of your house becasue you lost your phone thats messed up. well, 160 dollars may sound like alot but its not too much. try babysitting, or see if you can loan it through a couple of your good friends. you can help around the neighborhood, offering to do stuff. if you mow lawns for 20 a lawn it will only take 8 lawns to do it. not that bad. you'll be able to figure it out. you should try talking to cingular again about replacing your phone. i dont think it would cost as much to replace your fone if iyou already had one, you should only have to pay around 50 if you had insurance...i hope i helped...good luck...
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Is it a turnoff if a girl asks a guy out???

And can you like kinda clarify... i really need help... anyone... i rate high

Gomesy (link)
i dont think its a turnoff for guys when a girl asks them out. alot of guys thinks its a turn on acutally. they see that your not afraiding of wanting something and just getting it, or trying to get it. just when you ask this guy out make sure that he is interested in you...he might me be thinking of asking you out but is too afraid you might turn him down, you be the brave one and ask him first...im sure it will surprise him. and as for how to do it? just ask him will you be my boyfriend. simple as that. good luck...hopefully you will have a boyfriend by tomorrow...hope i helped....
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I NEED SERIOUS HELPPPPPPPP!

My friend and I recently had a huge fight.

She started to spread rumors about me.

HALF OF THE PEOPLE at school want to murder me.

HELP!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
first of all talk to your friend and ask her why she's doing this to you. tell the people that believe her rumors they arnt true. but just dont backstab her or try to gether back. try to make up to her about whatever fight you had about. rumors suck. i hope everythink works out...hope i helped some...
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I have a bad attitude about school and i cant change it. I have alot of missing math assingmets, i don want to do them: they are super hard. I hate school, I would rather laze around all day... (link)
hey! i do too! we'd probably get along good. but my advice is just try to change it, it will really help you in the long run. you dont have to be trying to shoot for strait a's or anything like that, just c's or above. especially ifyour in highschool because it goes on your permanent record and its getting harder to find jobs with your transcript saying that you failed all your classes exept p.e...see if you can find a reely hot nerd at your school and get tootered, im sure your parents want you to pass to the next grade right....lol...good luck, i hope ihelped...
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Is it possible to be in love when your 13? Im turning 14 in July but still....his mom wont let him date until like a 'year down the road" (thats what she told me) and we are both willing to wait until his mom 'allows' him to date....ive never liked somebody so much in my life! And hes not even the hottest thing in the world hes the sweetest, funniest, adorablest guy in the world....and ive NEVER felt this way about ANYBODY....i LoVe him....but still is it possible to fall in love when your 13? (link)
it is possible to fall in love at any age. love has no limits. i am in love with the best guy in the whole entire world and he's dating my best friend...just see how hard that is for me...it hurts alot...i've told him i loved him...i belive you totally, and i hope you can wait that long to date him! (if i were you though i'd secretely go out with him and not tell your parents, it makes the relationship that much more exciteing...lol) go for it
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hey everybody this question is for everyone i am getting braces soon and i am totally freaking out on what colors to get because if i don't like the colors i get then i have to wait till i get them changed again and i am very picky so if anybody could help it would be greatly apperciated thanks i will rate 5's for good and reasonable answers. oh yeah one more thing i am a girl and my favorite color is blue and only blue thanks. (link)
thats not that hard of a question...get blue! lol...if you only like blue...or you can get like, blue and green, blue and pink, blue and purple, blue and yellow...lol have fun with it...you'll be able to get it changed again...dont sweat the small stuff...youll hurt yourself...
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i really like this guy and we were at a party and i thought it would be fun to go to and have sex. ( hes really cool and popular) when we got to the bed i quikly changed my mind and said i didn't want to have sex. but i guess he didn't care. i don't feel like myself anymore since that nite. what should i do? (link)
girl, you got raped. if you said you didnt want to do it, even if in the beginning you said you did, but you said no, and he still continued with it....you should talk to your mom about it because you can file him for rape. if you really dont want to go to your mom for this you can go to your school counsolor, they can help, and if you ask they wont tell your parents anything. but you have to do something. he did something that you didnt want. dont be afraid to do waht you think is right...dont leave just leave it though...i hope i helped...
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