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Q: Me and my boyfriend are going through really hard times right now. He keeps telling me how he's too busy to talk or too tired to even figure things out. And I feel like I've just been the one to deal with his bad moods lately. Last night I was explaining to him how hurt I was about the fact that I was crying and all he could talk about was how tired he was about it. He just said that he just can't deal with all of this, so I told him that he doesn't have to deal with me anymore and we hung up. I'm always the one to come back to him after a fight. So, this time I'm letting him make the move. He's called twice tonight and I didn't answer because I just think he needs more room.

So my questions are: If he really cares about me, will he still keep calling to prove that he does want this to work?

How will I know that he really does want this to work?

Should I give him time? because I really don't want to be hurt anymore by the fact that he doesn't want to talk lately.

I need some advice, I will rate to let you know what I think

In my personal opinion, i would say that this guy should come over to cheer you up-not just call you, that could get annoying. it would also be nice if he brought something special with him for you-that would show how much he really cares.

Or, maybe he really is tired a lot lately and he could take some time off of work or whatever and yins could take a day just to relax and have fun, and talk about the way things have been going lately. Maybe he will apologize and come back to you.

But remember, if he really does care about you, he will not just give up and not call you or come to see you, he will do whatever he can so that you can forgive him and start over again.

hope it works:)

Q: How do u prevent razor burn from yur bakini area? lol i'll rate 5's thanks!!!

Allright,
you could try some skin creams or things but my best advice is to wax your legs.
i doesn't hurt at all, it lasts a lot longer than shaving so you don't have to shave every day and it will leave you with pretty, healthy skin that won't hurt!

:) try it!

Q: Ok,
I have a boyfriend BUT the thing is that I am not allowed to have one. I don't know how long my relationship will last before my mom and dad find out...but I really like the guy. If I tell them I have a bf they will freak out...I really don't know what to do! PLEASE help!
(14/f)

If you are positive that your parents wouldn't understand, try this instead.

If that guy is as crazy as you are for him, it's easy. Tell him your problem and if he understands, he will suggest that you guys maybe can just be really good friends. That way, you won't have to lie to your parents any more and you will know that he really really likes you as well.

hope it works:)

Q: what are all the things a hormone inbalance can do to your body? i'm 25 years old and i'm a female.i thought i was to young but i've been told that i'm not so what do you think?

Well i am not too sure about this,
but i think your age is fine to have a hormone inbalance. But otherwise, i think you will have to look that up on the internet or ask somebody else.

Sorry i couldn't be of help.:(

Q: 14 5'4 110 pounds

I want to lose about 10 pounds without becoming anorexic or bullemic... any suggestions for healthy ways to lose the 10 pounds?

*what to eat
*excercises
*anything else

Try cutting out snacks in between meals or evening no desserts for a week or two.
One of my very best friends' went on the south beach diet, which meant that she couldn't eat meat for two weeks. I'm pretty sure it worked.
Some simple things you can do to exercise:
Try walking to school ,if you can
Walk up and down your stairs 10 times
Jumping Jacks- no really, they actually work
Stomach crunchies!!!
Take a walk with friends, or ride your bike
anything that works up a sweat

But seriously, your weight is perfectly fine and don't worry too much.

Q: 13/m

ok so i've been trying to ask this one girl out at school, but i just can't work up the courage to ask her. . . . i thought about aim or email, but she doesn't have either, so i have to ask her in person, and i'm kind of a coward when it comes to this stuff. . .

thnx

All right, well there are only two possible outcomes to this situation.
One, she says yes and you go out, happily ever after.
Two, she says no and you can still remain friends.

Trust me, if this girl likes you, she is probably wondering if she should ask you out or why you are not asking her out.

Just be yourself and ask casually so that it doesn't look like you've been rehearsing.

Good luck:)

Q: There is a young man I really like, who is also a good friend of mine. He likes this other female who is, really, the ideal girl. Even though she rejected him, he still wants her. I know I can't compete with someone like her, but still, how can I gain his attention (without being a whore, that is)?

This is a fun, yet tricky situation.
You can try several situations.
Wear pink. One of my best guy friends' says he always notices girls in pink.
Smile. It's nice to show your teeth when he looks at you and it will make him feel good.
Laugh. It's pretty and attractive.
Invite him to go places with you. It's a good way to get to know him even more and find out things you like about him.
And lastly (most importantly) be yourself. Maybe he will stop liking her, and like you. It's worth a shot and he might back off her for you.

Good luck:)

Q: I am a very self concious person and I was wondering if Anyone has tips on how to make a plan outfit look cuter, or more "gangsta lol" Or just better put together and not so plain..?

well, there are a number of things you could do.
if you want to buy a whole new outfit, try fun, cheap stores that sell nice stuff, such as forever 21, macy's, or any other store near you.
if you are feeling crafty, you could sew some things on it yourself! you could decorate it with ribbon or patches, things like that.
you could also:
wear fun long necklaces
shiny earrings
toerings
skirts, long and short
even a ribbon around your neck looks pretty

hope it helps!

ps: i am assuming you are a girl:)

Q: okay i like this guy. i started talking to him online cause i kept noticing him around school. he's a year older than me. well i wanna ask him to hang out but im afraid to. spring break is coming up and i dont want to be stuck with out seeing him for 2 weeks. how can i casually ask if he wants to hang out?

thanks. ill rate high! :)

aww that sounds very nice.
firstly, find out things he likes to do.
go to concerts, movies, the mall, bowling, things like that.
and then pick one that you think would be fun for both you and him.
then bring up the conversation of the thing you would like to do, and casually ask him,
"i love going to ___! would you like to go sometime?"
and if he says yes, then there you go. invite some friends, too, if you want.
if he says no, just shake it off and say,
"maybe some other time."

good luck!

Q: I am going to my 8th grade dinner dance and its supposed to be totally formal but not like im going to the prom and im so picky and i dont want to spend too much money where should i go what should i wear?

my recommendation is go to macy's or a store similar to macy's. they have cheap, clothes that are in style and you can chose dresses or a skirt and top. i remember when i was in eighth grade and i got a really cute, knee-legnth skirt with a gold top to match. i got the whole outfit for under a hundred dollars.
but, if you are not sure with my advice,
just where something comfortable that you can dance in.

Q: i am singing at my church and i am suppost to pick a song to sing.... does anyone know of a good christian sing and worship song that i can sing?....and if it helps im a 15/f and i have a pretty good voice.thanx and god bless

RAIN DOWN!!!
it's the best christian song ever, and many people love it!

Q: Okay, my name is Saylor I am thirteen and I'm starting to have boy trouble. Okay I know a bunch of boys that like me and I can have anyone of them that I want I know this because they have all asked me out... except for one that I am really crushing on. Okay here is how it goes... Okay tonight was the big baseball game against Owsley County and Lee County. (two counties that are enemies) Me... being from Owsley. Okay the boy I like plays baseball for Owsley. I was watching the game and my bff Whitley came over there and told me to come in the dugout. Well this boy (Nate) was sittin out cause he sprang his hand. I sat with him the whole time I think he was flirting with me but Im really not sure. He sat with me on the bus on the way home and everything. He was tickling me and laying down against me trying to go to sleep and I really like him. He is way sweet. The question is what can I do to get him to like me more, and how can I find out if he likes me. Thanks... I heard your alot of help... dont let me down.

all right i am sorry... please don't swear at me.
i am forgetting how it feels to be young. that's great he likes you. i hope you enjoy your relationship.

once again, i really am sorry.

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