Q: i get tiny spiders in my dressers. which is why i dont open them or anything anymore. because spiders fall on me whenever i put up a shirt.

so if i put moth balls in it... would it kill spiders or is that just for larave?

Q: my boyfriend said he had to go and that he loved me and i didn't want him to leave and i told him if he left i would dump him. he still signed off, and i dumped him on the phone. and then i called him again and he hung up on me.

who did the wrong thing? me or him? did i over react because he had to go? or was it him?

=/ i feel like crap. i think i overeacted

how can i tell him how much he means to me?

Q: ok i was watching a movie and i started thinking....if you just went to the police and said i you had killed someone would they throw you in jail? or would you have to show them the body for them to believe you? and what if you didnt want to show them the body? would they still throw you in jail?

Q: 19/F
Ok this seems long and soap-opera-ish but please bear with me. I’ve gotten rid of some of the details to make it shorter but please tell me if it isn’t clear enough. And please don't rant at me about being a cheating b**** or anything. I know I am a bad bad person. I just need you to tell me what to do.
Nate has always been the typical "rich bad boy" type. He gets a pack mentality when he is with his boys so he’s labeled an official ***hole. He's had a pretty bad past and when you get him alone, he’s different. He and I go a few years back when I wasn't into the party scene, and it got around that he "wanted" me. I shot that down and he gave up. I've been intrigued by him (i.e. had a crush on him) and we always used to exchange looks all the time at school and parties and I could feel the sizzles (but wasn’t sure it was mutual). Only last year did we start talking a bit inside and outside school. Then I finished school and didn’t see him.
In May, I met Blake. He’s ridiculously good-looking, the sweetest guy ever, and a cook. I didn’t think he was into me so I backed off then recently, Blake started showing interest in me and I was thrilled. We were perfect for each other, our life goals and views were the same, we had minor arguments sometimes, which ended with practically no resentment on either end, and we always made up quickly. It was the perfect relationship. I was still a virgin but he understood because he had only been with one chick (his year-long girlfriend in grade 11).
End of last year, Nate and I ended up at a party together. I was hammered out of my mind and we had sex in a bedroom. It was harsh to the point that he did it, shoved me away and left. I was broken after. Eventually, I told Blake and he was mostly sad for me and he did whatever he could to make me feel better. Including sex and it was just like the rest of our relationship, comfortable.
Then one day, Nate showed up at my house after I saw him at the mall and went home all shaken up. We had sex. We have had sex about five times now altogether. Usually it’s when I’m vunerable. It’s pretty much casual sex but it is explosive as in really really hot, stuff I thought didn’t exist outside novels. Blake and I haven’t even come close, even though there is some sizzle, it isn’t comparable. Told Blake once and he was mad but he came back and told me he’d still have me and he didn’t understand. Usually Nate just has sex with me and sticks around for a while and leaves but one time, he actually stayed after and kissed my face and stuff.
This is what confuses me. Blake and I are perfect for each other and it’s not a completely devoid of sexual drive either but when I’m with Nate, it feels right like it’s exactly where I belong.
I’m just so afraid of hurting Blake. I want to stay with him but at the same time, I feel like puking when I think about what a disgusting unfaithful slut I’m being. And I’m pretty sure Nate doesn’t want a relationship. I just don’t know what to do anymore. I don’t want to look back twenty years from now and regret it. I know that bad boy’s can’t be tamed but I know his history and I kind of still ache for Nate but Blake is just perfect.
Help?

Q: Ok my friend Susanna (who is thin) lives with her mom. Her mom decided to make soup chicken noodle soup to take over to her one of her two granddaughters who is sick. So she asked Susanna to taste a teaspoon of the soup and the noodles. Susanna said "Mom no noodles" Her mother replied "You are not going to gain weight from a few noodles" Susanna left to go answer her phone and then came back and said "I wasnt thinking about weight" Her mom said "But I know you you watch what you eat" Susanna said "But mom I never gain weight" Her mother replied "Absolutely you never gain" Susanna asked her friends after she told them the story "Is my mom saying I gain weight if I dont watch what I eat" And her friends said "No your mom isnt saying that, what your mom is saying is she is agreeing with you that you never gain weight, but she knows you watch what you eat" MY QUESTION: DO YOU AGREE WITH SUSANNAS FRIENDS?

Q: ok i work at a big supermarket that sells like everything, and ive been working there for over a year. Well all of a sudden ive become considered "hot" and guys seem to show a lot of intrest in me. Especially guys from a certain department. The thing is that ive heard they're having a bet to see who can get with me first, and three guys have asked me out from this department in the last month, when theres like tops 10 guys in there. It makes me worried cause im not a girl who will just go out with all these guys and its kind of annoying how they think they can take advantage of me. How can i really find a great guy at work and not think that their in on a bet or something? and what do u think about those guys from the department?

Q: i started to have a itchy scalp a day ago and it was itching really bad (espeically during the night) The day before, i went to school and came back home- didn't itch. I took a shower but i didn't use shampoo and then when it was around 10 i went to bed but my head started to itch alot. in the morning it was still itching and throughout the day it did. sometimes it'll stop and be not so itchy but it'll come back. i took a bath today and shampooed my hair because i thought maybe it was too dry hair. but now it still itches sometimes.

i'm scared because i might have lice or some scalp proble. but i didn't use anyone's brush or hat or share anything. can someone help me? what should i do?

Q: Ok, so my friend, let's call her...Gabie and I are really close. We were new students at an exclusive private middle school this year and we have grown closer. The problem is that, we are both very cool and classy. [not trying 2 brag]. And like, we never cling on to each other and call each other best friends and stuff, but we are TTIIGGHHTT! Well, today, i asked her if she thought of us as best friends...and she said, "Well, me you and sabrina have been fighting A LOT lately...i`m not sure lately...." And that pissed me off. I mean, i get mad when Sabrina {my other tight friend} and her don`t wait for me to get my stuff from my locker, and yeah we have been fighting. However, there is an AWSOME camp that is coming up [in, like, 2 weeks] and me & Gabie r FOR SURE going-but sabrina doesn`t know if she can afford it. So, what do you guys think i can do for her and me to be better friends? I NEED ADVICE! Thanks in advance!

Q: well in april im going to d.c. with my school from the 17-20.

and i wanna go and have a good time.
but i get homesick and then i get upset and like start to cry.

&it happens when i eat too, like at dinner id prob. get upset.

and i need ways to not get homesick, like things i can do that really work and like not make me more upset.

thanks.

Q: Okay well like i have dated before and i alwais end up dumping him evn if i really like him. I have to admit i'm a BIG FLIRT and they guys flirt back but then when were together i feel fine then when he's gone i think about dumping him should i be with him does he love me and all the concerns and then i end up dumping him. What is wrong with me? How can i stop this? IT'S RUINING MY RELATIONSHIPS!!!!!!!!!

-Thanks
-Ashliiee

Q: Mine's really wavy and wild and there seems like there's nothing I can do with it,but I'm trying to grow it out.I've always kept it short (guy,by the way)so I'm thinking that maybe if I just let it go it'll even out.I just don't want to let it grow and just end up with a huge puffball on my head.Anyone know what I could do?

Q: I bought a backless dress for my banquet and I was wondering if anybody has ever tried one of those backless bras that just stick onto the front? They're kind of expensive and I would only wear it a few times so I wanted to see if they work before I bought one. Any good brands? Thanks!

Q: my best friend (he's a dude and i'm a girl) just went back to jail for 5 days and it's his last chance to behave and not mess up probation before he goes away for like 2 years...what can i do to make him not be so ignorant about something so serious..if it helps he just told me he liked me before he went away..he'll be back on tuesday but as i said its his last chance.

Q: what are good ways to stop procrastinating? i really need to know becuase procrastination is like ruining my life. i do it so badly i like never get any sleep and am doing worse in school which like messes me up. and please dont say 'just focus' . thanks!

Q: Hey. Well, I'm 13, if that will help.

So I have a screenname[AIM] and a myspace and stuff, and I'm absolutely addicted. More to AIM then to myspace, though. I go on AIM every single day, no matter where I am or who I'm with. I go on it for atleast an hour and a half and if it were up to me, I'd never get off.

So, my question is, is there any way I can like less addict myself to the computer, is it a phase?

Thankss

Q: how do you know if you are seriously depressed..being unhappy is a reoccuring thing for me, and i mean really unhappy. its getting to the point that i wanna run away and just be somewhere completely different. no worries and no hurt. i feel like i have nothing but occasional faith. and thats not enough..

Q: i got new brown pants and i was just wondering what color shirts would match nice and what kind of shirt (sweatshirt, jacket, blouse, t-shirt etcetc.) would look good with the pants. thank you :]

Q: ok heres the thing i went to the movies 2 with this kid john ill call him and well he asked me to go to the movies but he never paid or anything and he is mad shy but the thing is he is annoying and stupid but i like him in a way and he is forever talking about his ex how he hates her and shit i guess what im trying to say is hes not so shy when he texts me but in person hes is and i dont know if i like him im thinking of only being friends with him because i dont know if theres anything else there but i was wondering should i get ride of him or should i try to work out my committment problems with him but i really dont think were compatible and maybe im to much for him to handle but i dont know how to break it to him if i do hes the kind of person who will talk a lot of shit and who is not so forgiving please help if you can im sorry if its confusing its confusing me

Q: i have a playing test in band tomorrow for school and i have a question

when theres a note... is the key signature (flat or sharp) supposed to go in FRONT of the note? or BEHIND the note?

and how do you play a B# on a clarinet??

Q: omg
tomorrow i start swim for my schools swim team
and i am scared .
i think my boobs arent gonna be big
or im gonna look fat
help

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