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I have been best friend's with a boy for two whole years. he always makes me laugh and we always have a good time. He broke up with his girlfriend in October. since then she has not left him alone shes basically like a stalker. and because there not dating she takes it out on me, calls, IM's, and talks a lot of things behind my back. She told people she wanted to kill me and that she wanted to hang my dog, now thats just immature. i am sixteen and she is fifteen and im not the least bit intimidated. Today as i walked by in school she yelled shit at me and now im just frustrated i tryed being nice and telling her i dont like him like that but i shouldnt have to explain myself or be nice to somone whose arrogant. I am not a fighter, but i honestly believe the only way to gain respect from her is to hit her. The only thing that is holding me back is im an honor roll student, im one of those kids that cares about school and hates missing it.. stupid i know. I dont want to go tell a conselour or anything, because things like that always get worse, because my friends have been through it. I just need some advice on how to approach this girl, and what exactly i should do to avoid getting hit back. i really need your help, thankyou (link)
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hhmm.. well what you could do is that tell her to back off. if she knows that you and her xbf are just bffs then tell her that. but if she talks smack .. you know what to do talk to her (not rudly) but talk to her in a calm way. if she calls her friends on you. then tell this " what is the point of wasting our time in this.. because i dont like him... if you are jealous then talk to him... this has nothing to do with me because i am just his bestfriend."
that's it and she should feel stupid. (HAHAHA)
BE CONFIDENT OF TELLING HER THE TRUTH AND NEVER TALK SMACK BCAZ THAT WILL MAKE EVERYTHING WORST THAN IT IS. I'VE BEEN THERE. (STUPID THINGS HAPPENS)
PEACE.
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so me and my friend jamie have been friends since kindergarden(now were in 8th grade). but recently she has been ditching me for my friend shannon. i mean shannon isnt a bad person or w/e, but i just want my friend back. i didnt know why she WAS ditching me so i got all mad and just assumed she didnt want to be my friend anymore, bc she was like ALL OVER SHANNON! like her and shannon did EVERYTHING together. so one day in class i drew this really mean picture of her bc she was ditching me. then at that recess someone asked me what was wrong and i told her the story how jamie was ditching me and i called her a biotch. i mean i HAD to! jamie gets mad at me for the gayest things. like on valentines day i didnt get her a present, so she got all mad at me! and that made me cry in class! UGHH she gets on my nerves sometimes. oh and by the way she bacically STOLE everything from me. (for example:im always gosh your so retarted hahaha duh duh ..and now SHE does that) and it has been rumored(by me..duh..well i think this) that she only wants to be my friend bc i know 2 girls that are like popular and stuff and really fun to be around and were like bff and jamie wants to be really close to them too.
today(feb.28)i sent jamie a note saying how sorry i was and how i thought she was ditching me for shannon. idk whats going to happen next, but knowing jamie, she will not forgive until i give her a present or w/e. wow some friend!
i want to still be friends w/ her bc weve been friends for so long and i dont want to ruin that, but shes so rude(when its just me and her) and idk if i can be friends with someone that. if she doesnt forgive me, my life will be even more ruined than it already is. she takes OVER my life. i mean seriously. when its just me and shannon, were like bff and have so much fun, but when jamies around IM LEFT OUT.
and i cant find other friends bc then i would have to like start over with my friendship and stuff.
please help (link)
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i've been there, done that. same thing happened to me when i was in 7th grade. i mean, yea you should know what you should do. move on and find a new friend. but it's your choice. i've been in that situation a lot of times when a friend ditch you because they wanna be famouse or well known in school and your there sticking to them because you trully trust them. well, what im trying to say is that don't feel stupid if she is rude to you, dont feel sad if she says things about you or to you. No ONE OF THOSE ARE REAL BECAUSE YOU KNOW YOURSELF WELL. NO ONE KNOWS YOU WELL, ONLY YOURSELF. stand up for your self girl! let you selfesteem out and be conffident. If you are so nice to your friend like that, they will become naive. if they are your friend they should talk to you and never let you down. do you know what friend means? friend is a person that you could trust and be with and also rely on. well if you are bff with this girl and this girl back ditch you for some reason. she's not a real bestfriend or a friend. BFF ARE THE ONE THAT STICKS FOREVER AND THEY DONT FIGHT. if she backstabs you then you know it. she's not that right friend for you. find new friends and dont let your self down because of her.
or just talk it out with her and she doesn't wanna be friend with you, then just go and find new friends.
ight. much love, peace yo!
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