Okay well like i have dated before and i alwais end up dumping him evn if i really like him. I have to admit i'm a BIG FLIRT and they guys flirt back but then when were together i feel fine then when he's gone i think about dumping him should i be with him does he love me and all the concerns and then i end up dumping him. What is wrong with me? How can i stop this? IT'S RUINING MY RELATIONSHIPS!!!!!!!!!
Additional info, added Tuesday February 27 2007, 8:38 pm: Here sorry let me say this more umm better! Okay i flirt with guys they flirt going knowing i'm intrested then they ask me out! Most of the time i say No but sometimes i say yes. Then if i say yes We go on our date make out and chill and then at the end of our date or chyll out when he's gone i keep thinking should i be with him is he the right guy does he love me!! then i ask myself so many questions about our relationship then i end up dumping him! what is hapening i mean i really like the guys i date why do i ask myself these quetions how can they stop!!
-Ashliiee. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? helper32074 answered Friday March 2 2007, 10:31 am: you are a flirt not that that is a bad thing it just means you love to flirt but you also love the freedom of being single.Try waiting until you really really like a guy and spend alot alot of time with him but dont make him your whole life! HOPE I HELPED!!!! [ helper32074's advice column | Ask helper32074 A Question ]
thexperfectxshot answered Tuesday February 27 2007, 9:05 pm: you should find more and more about him and then u chose wat u want to do
lilmissblondiex3 answered Tuesday February 27 2007, 8:02 pm: hey! i had the exact same problem. but i learned to get over it by whenever i see another guy that i want to flirt with and have a boyfriend. think about your boyfriend and compare him to this other guy, think about whats better about your boyfriend, or worse. if the new guy has more better things about him then your boyfriend, break up wiht your boyfriend. its not fair to him if you think another guy has more better qualities then he does, but if your boyfriend has more better qualities, stick with him. And if you still feel urged to flirt, think about your boyfriend and how much fun you have doing things like making out, or even just talkkking. Also, if you find that your boyfriend and the new guy have the same number of good and bad qualities. stick with your boyfriend. it's easieir to stay in a relationship that youre happy in rather than trying to start a new one!
good luck!
hope i helped!
xoxoxo [ lilmissblondiex3's advice column | Ask lilmissblondiex3 A Question ]
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.