hey guys my name is alex im 16 years old and i live in texas and im in 11th grade!! when life gives u trouble wether it love life problems or anything else feel free to ask me im here to answer !! thanks for your questions !!
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me and my boyfriend have been going out for like a week now. and the other day he asked me if i wanted sex.
we r madly in love, but im not sure if its the right time in the relationship?
what should i do?
luv nicki xxxxx (link)
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a week ? wow i think u should wait regardless of if your madly in love ... its so not the right time in the relationship !!! what if somethin happened like something went wrong ?? you know what i mean !!! so ya i think its to early to even think about that !! like that happened to me with my bf we were goin out for like two weeks and he asked me if i wanted sex and i didnt know what to say so one night we were at his house alone and we started making out and he went to take my shirt off and i knew it was the totally wrong thing to do so i couldnt i told him im so sorry but i just cant .... you may not realize it now but you will later !! please dont make the wrong chioce!!! you have a whole life ahead of you take adventures just not this one !! well hope i helped some !! good luck !!
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hey im a 17 year old girl i have a boyfriend how is to much with me but i think hes a woosse... in the way that if im not with him every minute of every day he gets bitchy... if i ask for a night off he bitches... cryies you name it... he does it.. and it just makes me feel bad... and he wins... i feel like im in jail... he says he dosnt mind but the next day he says i hated it and makes me feel bad like i dont what to do... hes driving me insane... and when i try talking abt it he just makes me feel bad... i need help (link)
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ok my advice is to break up with the cry baby !! i had a bf like that and not to be unsensative but i dumped him it was like i was a fridge and he was a magnet that was glued on !! he would complain every time i would do anythig without him it got so annoying it was like i was locked up in a cage !!! i say dump him !! not to be mean but its the only way to stop it !! well hope i helped some !!
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Okay, I need some advice, and this might be pretty long because of all the explaining I have to do about this... but anyways, at the beginning of the school year I changed schools. I started liking this guy in my Biology class. I didn't know his name because I had only been there three or four days. Then one day one of my new friends told me his friend liked me. I was all like "Okay, whatever." Well, about a few weeks later, I realized the guy that liked me was the guy I liked. The guy & I weren't really friends, and we only had a short conversation probably twice, but yet I always caught him looking at me or something and he would always stand by me if we were waiting outside the classroom for the teacher. Well, now we're in a new semester and we have History together. We've talked a few more times but not much. And I also overheard my friend talking to him about me and telling him I don't have a boyfriend and he should go out with me (but she doesn't know I like him.) I also still catch him looking at me, but he hangs around with this other girl that he seems to like. Like today, for instance, he would look at me alot during the first half of the period, then the second half he went over and sat beside the other girl and was talking to her. And I'm not really the kind of girl that will tell a guy I like him up front or anything. But I'm really confused by this - does he like me, or not? Some advice/help would be appreciated. =) Thanks. Oh, by the way, I'm 15 years old & female. (link)
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i think he does but is gettin tierd of waiting on you to let him know you like him !! just have one of your friends tell him you like him and see what happens ! well hop i helped some !! thanks !!!
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Is there any way that I would be able to restrict certain sites from my computer? Something like parental controls but I don't have AOL. Thanks. (link)
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contact the internet service and ask them if there is any way to do that !!
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my bestfriend always calls me fat and everyone else tells me im not she is just jelouse what can i do to make her quite callen me fat it really bothers me?
shaiina (link)
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ok my advice is to sit down and say why do you keep callin me fat?? and see what her problem is !! dont belive her that she says that your fat !! and if she was such a good friend she wouldnt call you fat !! maybe she calls you that because shes jelouse of you !! i dotn know but i hope i helped some !! thanks for your question !!
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Well, I really don't know where to begin... the problem is, i am helplessly in love with this guy in Year 11 (I'm in Year 9). And whats the problem, you might ask? I have never said a single word to this guy. He is so totally HOT, and, when i look at him, i just want to do everything sexually with him. Another problem is that he is my brothers best friend, so he comes over like, every day. He sometimes smiles at me, and then i do stupid things, like drop the dishes, or trip over my own shoes or something. HELP!!!!!!!! It is getting to the point where i just want to jump on him like an animal or something! What should i do?? (link)
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oh my god !! your nine years old !! you shouldnt be thinking about that at your age !! sry cant help you out !!
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I know this is vague, but a lot of people have different opions or different things they've heard. So, what are some signs that guy likes you, and some to show a guy that you like him. I've read some in a magazine once but I'd like more opinions! Thanks! (link)
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umm a guy will talk to you alot and go around you alot or if hes shy then hell look at you alot and then he wont let any of his friends talk to you !! i dont know though but i showed a guy i like him by being around him and talkin to him alot and i had my friend tell him that i liked him !! lol !! it worked for me ! ha ha !! lol !hope i helped !!
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hey! i wanna get my cartilage pierced. i know that straight guys are supposed to get their ears done on the left side. are straight girls supposed to get it on the left side too? thanks! (link)
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yes i got mine done on the left !! i had it on the right but i had to take it out cause it got infected !! not that it matters but ... you know !! hope i helped !! thanks
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For my health class we are suppossed to find out if guys mostly prefer virgins or sluts, what do you think? (link)
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i think sluts no offense to guys !! but guys like to get some alot !! lol !! but im a girl so i have no idea !! but why are yall doin that stuff anyways ??
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No matter what I do everyday when I come home from school I am always unhappy. Im happy in school I laugh and everything but for some reason when I come home everyday the same house seems depressing. I dont really like my family and since im young as my mom says I dont get to go out as much as Id like. What do you think is wrong with me and what should I do?
P.s. I've talked to my guidance conselor and shes awsome but her talks arent making me happier nor are they helping me.
:( PLEASE HELP
Jacki (link)
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i dont know why you are deppresed? maybe you should set up something to do with your friends afer school or after school activities that way you wont have to be home that much !! and if that doesnt work figure out why you dont like your family and why you r depressed !! well hope i helped some !! if you want email me at cold_burn_22@yahoo.com
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My heart has been broken by my best male friend
but i still love him...should i still be friends with him or wat? (link)
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first of all how was your heart broken by him ? and two that same thing happened to me and i just quit being friends with him and it turned out to be a huge mistake !!! and then when i felt really bad he wouldnt take me bak which was kinda mean but i understand though !! but dont make the same mistake i did !! hope i helped !! thanks !!
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ok.... well i have gone out with this guy 4 times and every time we brake up it is because of other girls!!! now he wants to go back out with me. he is always sweet and always says i love you to me. he always holds my hand and is always there for me.but the real question is ... should i go back oout with him or not? plz answer!!! (link)
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well that happened to my best friend !! they broke up then got back together and then broke up and so on!! and just recently he asked her out again i said if i didnt work out then what makes you think it is now? so she ended up saying no cause she got hurt every time she said yes to him !! so if hes anything like him then i think you should turn him down !! like i say dont buy a pair of shoes if they just feel comfy the first day !! if u dont get wat im sayin you will later !1 if u think about it !! well hope i helped !! thanks !
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ive been going out with my boyfriend for a long time. he never pressures me or disrespects me. but the other day in the movies he started touching my boobs which is really unlike him. then apologized throughout the whole movie for doing it. we went out to dinner and i flipped out on him and he started CRYING. this morning at school he decorated my locker saying "im so sorry i love you" with hearts all over it. i found out that he stayed up all night making it. he was crying all day in school, and he wrote me a long apology letter. everyone says im overreacting. should i get back with him because i really want to... (link)
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yes stupid !! not to be mean though !! its a guy thing and he said sorry after doin it !! and if you felt uncomferatble with it then you should have said somehting while he was doing it !! but ya if he didnt care about you then he wouldnt care to say sorry or if he didnt care how you felt or if he wasnt really sorry then he wouldnt do all that !!! yes i think you are over reacting !! but thats my oppinion !! well hope i helped !! thanks !!
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Ok.... I went to my best friends b-day party and my g/f was there and we were watching a movie and we started making out for like 15 seconds. Now i can't wait to see her again because i really feel different becasue we made out. Is this normal?
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definatly !! that same thing happened to me we were at a friends house and evry one was up stairs and we went down stairs to get a snack and i bumped into him and the next thing i knew we were making out for a second !! it was wierd and i felt the same way !! so ya thats normal !! so just call her up and see if she wants to do something sometime !! she what happens !! good luck and hope i helped !!
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okay i have a guy friend...hes nice and sweet but not liked very much at school...tonight he threatened to kill himself. im really scared b/c im not around him much at school and never after school...i care about him alot but sometimes dont show it very well. Should i bring our IM conversation to the councelor tomorow or something else...talking to him doesnt help...he doesnt listen.
please help...i rate hight
-x0x- (link)
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yes definatly !! if you really cared for him you would help him out by doing that ! i think thats a great idea !! but then again you dont want to pressure him to make it worse ! but just hang around him at school talk to him in the halls and make him feel liked !! have you figured out why he wants to commite suicide? email me back at cold_burn_22@yahoo.com if you want thanks !!
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ok, heres the thing every summer since i was little ( i'm now 15 ), we would go to NY and visit my moms close friend. Well she has four kids and i had a HUGE crush on her one son thats 3 yrs. older then me. So a couple of years ago he found out i had a crush on him and after he found that out we got close and we would always makeout. We havent gone down there in a couple of years, so we havent spoken . His mother sent us a christmas card with his cap and gown picture ( he is now a senior ) in it and ever since then i can't get him off my mind and i keep havig these dreams about him. Why is this happening, do i stll have feelings for him, what should i do?? Thanks and sry it's so long! (link)
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since it has been a while maybe u should call him up see how hes doin and see if he feels the same way you do about him !! and if not then i guess it wasnt meant to be but you can still be friends right ? ya ya i know the friends thing is crap and not what you want but come on its not bad !! but if he does feel the same way then go see him !! take a chance and if you dont want to call him go up there and suprise him !! see where love takes you !! let yuor heart lead the way !!and the dreams i know all about! they are telling you that you need to do somehting about it something that leads you to him !! well i have to go but good luck and i hope i helped some !!
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i have acne on my back and ah i have tried getting it away but it doesnt really work...but i have a party to go to and i wanna wear a dress that shows my back. im wearing it to the party at the end of the month. what is something that would work quickly to get it away? (link)
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ok i had that problem and i got stuff from the doctor that u put on it and it dries it up but i didnt work good and i had a swim party to go to so course evry one was ganna see my back so wat i did was i go water prof base/ foundation and put it on my back and it hid my acne so if u trie medicine and it dont work try the base and see how it works it worked for me hope it works for you !! go luck and hope i helped !!
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