My Favorite thing in the world is writing poetry granite i havent written alot newayz im 15 i go to Grafton High School and im not single :-) i met this most beautiful and attractive girl through advicenators we hit it off and now were going out I LOVE YOU ROSEMARIE alot of people think i am unattractive and that saddens me newayz here is one of my poems that i have written it is deep and dark
We have been born to this world
Some live dark and cold
I feel like giving up
Sitting here drinking liquor out of this cup
It sooths the pain and the memories of my life
It doesnt hurt like the blade of the knife
As I look through the shadowed day
I get onto my knees and pray
And wonder why is my life useless to you
I wonder what have I done to you
This rope i tied to a slip knot
No one will be there for me to be caught
As I jump from the rope tied to the cieling fan
I whisper the words Damn
For now i have lived this useless life
The one that cut like a knife
I gasp for air knowing what i have done
No air for breathing, none
I feel it getting cold in this room
No one knew my doom
This useless life has passed me by
When i was not meant to die
I took my life in my hands
My useless life has gone and died
Website: My Myspace
E-mail: greekfriend90@hotmail.com
Gender: Male
Location: Virginia
Occupation: Student
Age: 15
AIM: grkpimpva
MSN: greekfriend90@hotmail.com
Member Since: June 21, 2006
Answers: 72
Last Update: June 19, 2008
Visitors: 6094
Main Categories:
Spirituality
Mental health
Random Weirdos
View All
Favorite Columnists
venom_97
x0ricanchica
|
| |
|
wat if i were to say ur hot like really hot? (link)
| |
i would say im flattered but im already taken :-D
|
Me and my wife got married about 8 months ago. We realy love each other dearly. We realy get on well. We met in 2004 whereafter we went traveling for 3 months. (South Africa and France)
She is French and I am South African. In the beginning (2004) we could have sex like any normal couple. The problem started about 1 year ago after we returned from our travels. She have no desire for sex. There was no presure to get married and we do realy love each other. For her its no problem having no sex for weeks even months. I feel on the other hand that sex is a very important part of a relationship and a way in wich we share love. She did realise that this is causing problems and decided to see someone. She visited (4 - 5 sessions) a hipnotherapist and all that came out was that she is normal in not wanting so much sex. This made me angry as I was to blame for wanting too much sex now. Next stop was the local sex clinic and the woman was very helpfull and advised we set aside a afternoon/ day per week for only ourselfs for talking and spending quality time. We did that but she now just turned colder. We are totaly dedicated to each other and would like to make it work. Anyone out there with the same experiance or with some advice???
Thanks (link)
|
This is actually very normal some women do not like sex much because then they start to feel like you love them just for that i think you should write her poems get her flowers take her on a pic nic go to the beach and walk the beach holding her hand and telling her how much you love her and you want to spend the rest of your life with her p.s. do not tell her you posted this most women do not like being put on the web and about their sex life haha because then its way cold turkey for you so just try wat i said and mean it dont pretend
Hope I Helped
~GrkAdvisor~
|
|
I have to cousins and their parents are seperated. Both of their parents are alcoholics. They live with their mother, who treats them unkindly. One of my cousins, Rachel, she's always upset and crying because of my aunt. My other cousin, Matt, he will argue with my aunt unlike rachel but he ends up angry and upset also. They refuse to admit that my aunt has a problem. Rachel and Matt do EVERYTHING! They washes the dishes, does the laundry, cooks every meal, cleans the windows, vacuums, dusts, and many other things while my aunt, she just sits there drunk, while screaming at them and making fun of them! Rachel is too scared to argue with my aunt about doing these things. Matt argues every now and then but not a lot. He also has always been very pale and thin because he is so upset all the time. They won't talk to anyone about this. They are scared of their own mother! I don't know what I can say to them to help them through this. Does anyone have any ideas of what I can do or say? (link)
|
there is alot of this happening all the time most kids find it hard for them to go to child services because they dont want to lose their parents have someone call child services for them and see if your parents wouldnt mind them living with you guys till their mom goes to a rehabilitaion center and until then she cant have them back im sorry this has to happen to your cousins because if you care that much for them means you love them very much i love everyone because no one deserves to grow up with a mother like that
Hope I Helped
~GrkAdvisor~
|
|
Oh my god. I wish I hadn't said what I said. My friend is mad at me because I said, "some friend you are." That's all I said. I've said that I have had a hellhole for a life and she doesn't even care. I don't have friends where I am, and this all started when she emailed that my other friend was moving. I was all, "I poured my heart to you and all you can say is 'I'm still sad.' Some friend you are!" I mean she doesn't even consider my feelings! I may sound a bit selfish, I know, but I can hardly go outside without being alone! I swear, I have no friends where I am and I am coming home in over 4 weeks! What should I say? I am SO not inviting her to my birthday party! She is so stupid! (link)
|
first thing would be not to call her stupid be like i know what i said was uncalled for and stupid and im sorry that i said that and i upset your feelings i know all you could say was im still sad and im sorry for saying that i was just mad at the moment and wanted more explenation and understanding and comforting and letting me know everything will be ok and YES no matter how much you hate her right now INVITE HER TO YOUR B-DAY PARTY because friends always get over things
P.S. tell me how things work out
Hope I Helped
~GrkAdvisor~
|
|
OK here it is, I'm 19 turning 20 soon and my girlfriend is 20, we have been going gout for almost 2 years now, and here it is, i have a high sex drive, i mean i like masturbate easily 3-6 times a day, but my girlfriend does not, i mean as far as i know she does not masturbate, and i wanted to know if there is anything i can do to get her in the mood, she likes to be massage and i like to massage her too, but i don't think she gets any stimulation out of it. (link)
|
try whispering in her ear and breathing on her neck and kissing it just make it sexy and yes most girls do masturbate although they say they dont
Hope I Helped
Tell me if it works or not
~GrkAdvisor~
|
|
tonight when i was with my boyfriend i suddenly got bored and didnt wanna be with him anymore. i started having thoughts of breaking up with him. but then like 10 minutes later he was holding me and i felt so happy! i LOVE the physical attraction we have and hes really funny but im not sure if hes right for me cause i cant always be the crazy, hyper person that i am. is it bad that i was having those negative thoughts or is it normal? any advice will be appreciated! (link)
|
its normal depending on how long you guys have been dating alot of people think of breaking up with each other my oldest brother has thought about breaking up with his girlfriend and she the same but they always remember that they love each other and one time they did for like 2.5 seconds and then were like i love you please go back out with me so yeah it is normal
Hope I Helped
~GrkAdvisor~
|
i am just wondering... do most people shave all down there or just their bakini line? because i am thinking about getting my bakini line done. do they just do right next to where your bakini line ends? does it hurt real bad? is it healthy?
thanks in advance. (link)
|
As a guy i know that i prefer a shaved or just a happy trail i dont like a bush because if you wish to preform oral sex on a girl its just "disgusting" from what i have heard it is better to first shave and use lotion afterward and yes they do right next to where it ends so dont worry about having to show your "Downstair" and why wouldnt it be its just hair like on your head
Hope I Helped
~GrkAdvisor~
|
so my dad met his girlfriend at work one day and they started going out...ok so she has 2 kids a 17 year old son and a 20 year old daughter anyway...so i got to know her son more and more just to skip to this part after 2 months of my dad and his gf dating her and her kids moved in...ok so then one night i was with her son and we made out then my dad came in a caught us so they were makin fun of us even tho he was super pissed. anyway so within that time now they have been dating for a year and this hole time i knew her son...ok well her son is player no doubt but idk soo we figured since it didnt matter because they were just dating so it wasnt like ya know incest or anything well now me and him are like more serious and we\'ve like done things.....ya so anyway i find out yesterday that my dad and his gf broke up and hes moving out and ill never see him again. i\'m truly inlove with this boy no joke and i dont know if he feels like that tword me but i love that boy like none other. so i dont know what i should do im never gonna see him again and im like inlove with him.
(link)
|
THIS IS GOING TO BE THE WORST NEWS OF YOUR LIFE unless you think you and him could handle a long distance relationship but you said he was a player himself so i dont think it would but if you can thats great im happy but you said he was a player and that mostly ends up only getting you hurt worse if you find out he has been cheating on you a part of me wants to say DONT WORRRY ABOUT DISTANCE because me and my girlfriend have been going out for almost a month now and she lives in RI and I live in VA but my love for her is so strong that it doesnt matter how far we are that it doesnt matter because we love each other ANYWAYZ getting off topic its only human nature to fall in love with someone who you have become attachted too especially if you have done the "Naughty Naughty" newayz its better to have loved and be hurt than never to have loved at all I dont know who said it but he was right :-D ive only fallen in love 2wice once she didnt love me back and the second time i new it was perfect which is now I hope you find the glory and happiness i have found I wish you the best of luck and hey it doesnt hurt to try a long distance relationship p.s. if you want to talk about things more and need someone to talk to just im me on grkpimpva or ilyrosemarie on AIM or just email me at greekfriend90@hotmail.com im alwayz willing to help sorry ive taken up so much of your time but i thought you could really use some advice haha oh wait thats why you have that on here lol catcha lata
~GrkAdvisor~
|
|
ok I recently met a guy through his mother, they recently moved into town and asked me to go to a movie with the family. I dont know if he liked hanging out with me or not, he gave me a ride home and actually took me to his apt while he changed clothes before we went over to his parents house again, and didn't take me home until 12:30am but I dont know if i should ask him to hang out again or not. (link)
|
why not it wouldnt hurt be like hey you free on friday round 7 come and pick me up i want to show you this place and find a place that you like to hang and show it to him or a "Make Out Spot" hehe those alwayz leave the hint j/k just somewhere but im pretty sure he wouldnt mind going back out with you
Hope I Helped
~GrkAdvisor~
|
|
so i've just gotten closer with this guy this year [friend wise] he's praticly the closest friend i got. What sucks is that i liked him at first, just kept quiet about it since he "rejected me" last year. [long story. not as literate as u think] anyhow, there are times when were going out, get close and it just gives me that feeling that i know i do like him, but he wouldn't ever feel the same way back cause to him were just really good friends. [i think] sometimes we have these weird conversations thats make me wonder if he does like me. but anyway, we'v both dated other people throughout the year, he goes on and on bout some girl and it kinda gets annoying [i've delt with it for a year, so im pretyy gd :P] so now we're both going to different new school, our plans to stay close til another year so i can register at his. although i doubt it'll work out. its just, i kind of want to let him go, so i wont have to look at him and know that i like him but at the same time, i want him there! [cause hes my best friend.. and i do like] does that even make sence? it feels like the crushes i use to have in middle school! i feel pretty lame but its the way things grew to. our conversations have changed in someways, were more open, but i have to wonder if its just a friendship thing. so u see how messed up im getting? does anyone have any advice for the siuation im in? [[[do not suggest i tell him, that is out of the question ]]] but maybe how to learn to just not love him, how to let go, i dont know but something cause im dieing here!! xxx thanks (link)
|
heheh ive seen your question and ive read it many times trying to think of a solution and i finally think i got something else besides tell him i suggest that you talk to him and you should see if you really like him you say that your becoming more open with him and thats the start of being in a relationship is being open with the other person and getting to know what they are really like so talk to him and ask him if he likes you not so blunt though make it cute be like if you knew a girl like me would you go out with her? and then smile and giggle thats all i got
hope i helped
~GrkAdvisor~
|
|
My boyfriend and I have been going out for 5 months-ish now. As of recently his mom and I have become really close and i've been finding out a lot of stuff about him that HE probably should've told me. I mean, I knew that he hung around with some pretty shady people but he didn't tell me that he has some guy coming after him trying to kill him, that he carries a knife around with him everywhere he goes, and that he's stabbed two guys with it. I talked to him about it and when I asked him why he didn't trust me and he said that the more you tell people the more they have against you and the more people know how to hurt you the more they will. I just don't know what to do because I would never ever hurt him and I want him to know that he can talk to me but i'm also mad because I trust him so much and he means so much to me and it's like, I thought he trusted me too. Any advice on what I should do to gain his trust or what I should do about the fact that some guy is trying to kill him would be greatly appreciated. (link)
|
im sorry to hear that but hanging around or being with a guy like him will probably get you hurt because if this guy figures out that your his girlfriend and that he loves you he will try to hurt you to affect him and i know its hard because you guys have been together for about 5 months and you want him to trust you and tell you these things but i think what he feels is that if he tells you that you will get hurt and he shouldnt feel like that because i think and believe you love him and you dont want him to get hurt because that would hurt you soo much anyway try telling him that that you want him to trust you
Hope I Helped a little
~GrkAdvisor~
|
say I like this guy, and I do, I think he likes me too. I mean, he sends all the right signals and we flirt a ton. But Im friends with his younger sister, his best friend hooked up with me awhile ago, and we are on the same swim team, so theres a few obstacles ffor you. I want to make some sort of move. I dont know what though. He gives me rides home and stuff and we also go out to eat after most practices. If anyone had any ideas...that'd be great. (link)
|
well i dont know if you should make the first move usually the guy likes to make the move but if you want to know if he really likes you put your hand around him when hes driving or look at him and gaze and he will probably say "What?" and then you can say in a cute voice "Nothing" something along those lines
Hope I Helped
~GrkAdvisor~
Your welcome
|
|
ok well i have a program called 'imesh' and well you can download music and videos on it .. it is super protected and cealed so you cant copy any songs on a cd "awwww" anyway.. i hate using limewire...because it skips songs when i go on another page and then goes crazy.. so thats why i love imesh.. though you have to pay after a certain time.... i clicked download to downlaod a song but it says my time has expired....soooo.... i couldnt donwload anymore....so in order to continue to download i have to pay.. thats what i think it bothering it because in the 'start' window it has 'imesh' and its icon .. i click it .. then the timer comoes up right next to the arrow.. then it goes away .. i have been wanting it to come up for so long.. and i miss my music...these rainy days suck and i need something to do..... so can anyone help me on how to open it??? (and dont suggest windows media plaer because it doesnt go loud enough and the videos go crazy and freeze up) pleazzzz help!!!!!! (link)
|
try realplayer or quick time any media player should work really and limewire is ok its not the best i use to use a program called WinMx it was safe and free too im not sure if its still out there but it should do the trick
Hope I Helped
~GrkAdvisor~
|
|
Hey guys. I'm pretty pissed off. This guy I like hung out with this other guy that lives next to me, and they both came to my house and dumped a bag of mulch on my porch, just for a joke I'm guessing. Anyways, I'm kind of mad he would do that because my family has aenough porblems without him messing around with our yard. I;m just asking..is it ok to be mad? Or should I just be like oh right haha good joke? Will he think that I get mad over the stupidest things? please help. (link)
|
tell him what you think that what he did was irresponsible and immature and if he thinks its cute then dont go for him guys do stupid stuff but not to say he was sorry and that he knows what he did was wrong and clean it up that shows to you that he doesnt respect you or your family
Hope I Helped
~GrkAdvisor~
|
|
I have never kissed my boyfriend before. We have only been dating for two weeks. I have only seen him 3 times. I talk to him on the phone everyday. But we have an age difference... 3 years! I really like him, but i'm not sure he completely feels the same way. I really want to kiss him so badly. But however i dont want to act like a little kid planning my kiss and sex. So should i ask him or should I just kiss him? (link)
|
its ok if you havent kissed him just show him you want to kiss him get close to him and meet him half way and then he meets you the rest so he wont feel like you made the move because most guys would like to feel confident and tell other guys that he kissed you and you didnt kiss him its a guys ego and if he doesnt go the half way that would probably mean he doesnt like you
Hope I Helped a little
I wish you the best of luck
Let me know what happens i would like to hear the end of this
~GrkAdvisor~
|
HEYY ALEX....its rosemarie......just sayin hi cuz your the best! and ily
(link)
| |
hehe duh
|
ALEX!!!!!!!!!!! lol wuts up?
hey sexy
hmm i didnt know i had an admirere lol you wanna meet up sometime?? get a cup of coffe come up to my apartment baby? hehe just give me a call
~Alex~
Aka SexyAdvisor
lol.......ur so slow sometimes..but i love ya (link)
| |
wow your name is alex to?
|
|
ayye papi sounds great ttys (link)
|
huh?? wat sounds great
|
|
hey did you no your awfully sexiii and you are so totally nice no im not a creep by the way i just speak my mind and so ya you were so nice to tell that poor gurl her poems were good when they obvouisly sucked they are pathetic really but thats so nice of u to lie (link)
| |
i really do like them how about you do you write poetry miss.anonymous?
|
i cant find my favorites so these will have to do:
I LAY HERE AT THIS HOUR
NOT KNOWING WHAT PAIN
WILL LYE AHEAD AHEAD ME
I DONT KNOW WAT IS WITH THIS STATE I AM IN
i dont even NO IF
IT IS A SIN
DO I TRULY HAVE REAL LOVE FOR HIM
OR I AM I A FAKE A SELLOUT PERHAPS
SHOULD I DO WHAT I HAVE BEEN DOING
GO BACK AND POUT
FUCK I AM SO COFUSED
I DONT EVEN NO IF IF HAVE ANYTHING TO LOOSE
MY HEART IS NO HEART
JUST A BIG BRUISE
I DONT NO AND I DONT WANT TO
I HATE IT I HATE IT ALL
I CANT EVEN ENJOY A MALL
GOD I DESPERETLY NEED HELP
i no they are a bit weird
ALONE
EVERYTHING FEELS LIKE
IT WILL LAST FOR ETERNITY
LIKE I WILL NEVER BE HAPPY
JUST ALONE
THESE FEELINGS I HAD KNOWN
THAT PERSON I HAD BEEN
THAT PERSON I HAD BEEN
WILL STAY IN HIDING
FOR THE REST OF TIME
GOOD BYE TO THE REAL ME
NOW I WILL BE SOMEONE ELSE
(link)
|
These are great i love them i can send you some of mine if you would like?
|
|