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im into my best friend...
so i've just gotten closer with this guy this year [friend wise] he's praticly the closest friend i got. What sucks is that i liked him at first, just kept quiet about it since he "rejected me" last year. [long story. not as literate as u think] anyhow, there are times when were going out, get close and it just gives me that feeling that i know i do like him, but he wouldn't ever feel the same way back cause to him were just really good friends. [i think] sometimes we have these weird conversations thats make me wonder if he does like me. but anyway, we'v both dated other people throughout the year, he goes on and on bout some girl and it kinda gets annoying [i've delt with it for a year, so im pretyy gd :P] so now we're both going to different new school, our plans to stay close til another year so i can register at his. although i doubt it'll work out. its just, i kind of want to let him go, so i wont have to look at him and know that i like him but at the same time, i want him there! [cause hes my best friend.. and i do like] does that even make sence? it feels like the crushes i use to have in middle school! i feel pretty lame but its the way things grew to. our conversations have changed in someways, were more open, but i have to wonder if its just a friendship thing. so u see how messed up im getting? does anyone have any advice for the siuation im in? [[[do not suggest i tell him, that is out of the question ]]] but maybe how to learn to just not love him, how to let go, i dont know but something cause im dieing here!! xxx thanks
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Hi, the only way to let go of someone is to just drop him and never see him again. This may take some time to get used to but eventually or sometime later you should hopefully have forgotten him. You may see another guy you llike and fall in love with him. Crushes usually don't last long if it is a crush. It will happen in time. Daniel.
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heheh ive seen your question and ive read it many times trying to think of a solution and i finally think i got something else besides tell him i suggest that you talk to him and you should see if you really like him you say that your becoming more open with him and thats the start of being in a relationship is being open with the other person and getting to know what they are really like so talk to him and ask him if he likes you not so blunt though make it cute be like if you knew a girl like me would you go out with her? and then smile and giggle thats all i got
hope i helped
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You are right I would not tell him because that would cause a whole skew of problems (I know I have done that;) But just go about it as if you were still friends and only think of it like that.
Maybe you could ask him how he feels about you guys' relationship?
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