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Sexsual disfunction?? Please help!!!
Me and my wife got married about 8 months ago. We realy love each other dearly. We realy get on well. We met in 2004 whereafter we went traveling for 3 months. (South Africa and France)
She is French and I am South African. In the beginning (2004) we could have sex like any normal couple. The problem started about 1 year ago after we returned from our travels. She have no desire for sex. There was no presure to get married and we do realy love each other. For her its no problem having no sex for weeks even months. I feel on the other hand that sex is a very important part of a relationship and a way in wich we share love. She did realise that this is causing problems and decided to see someone. She visited (4 - 5 sessions) a hipnotherapist and all that came out was that she is normal in not wanting so much sex. This made me angry as I was to blame for wanting too much sex now. Next stop was the local sex clinic and the woman was very helpfull and advised we set aside a afternoon/ day per week for only ourselfs for talking and spending quality time. We did that but she now just turned colder. We are totaly dedicated to each other and would like to make it work. Anyone out there with the same experiance or with some advice???
Thanks
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This is actually very normal some women do not like sex much because then they start to feel like you love them just for that i think you should write her poems get her flowers take her on a pic nic go to the beach and walk the beach holding her hand and telling her how much you love her and you want to spend the rest of your life with her p.s. do not tell her you posted this most women do not like being put on the web and about their sex life haha because then its way cold turkey for you so just try wat i said and mean it dont pretend
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I'm guessig that she thinks sex isn't really the way to express the love to each other.
I saw this kind of problem on Dr. Phil.
But if you guys did love each other then you would do anything to make each other happy right? so if she doesn't want sex then maybe you shouldn't really try to have it. But still if you would want it.. use a condom or something.
I.. can't really help with this but maybe you should try to look for a couple that had the same problem. =) best wishes
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