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ok well this is kinda health thing but yah i wanted to ask about this acne prob. i have.. ok its a lil weird.. but uh ok i have a lil acne in between my "chest" and i hate wearing bathing suits b.c of it and i was wondering do i use regular acne soap for it or is there something special for it?? i know its weird but please help. thank you. ill rate!!
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the skin there is very senstive, and i know what your talking about, its actually normal! dont worry, what you need to do, is not use acne medicine but instead use warm water and just sooth the pimples with the warm water, it reduces the redness and makes them go away faster. if this doesnt work than use a very little amount of the acne medicine, but as long as you wash there regulary it should fade! good luck!
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I like this guy only one problem we dont exactly talk...occasionally we will talk online but i would like to get to know him better and become his friend only i don't know what to talk about and before you say talk abou classes i have another problem he's not in any of my classes! well my friend talks to him but teyy aren't like close friends and so getiing togtherwith just the two of them would be weird too. We have tried big group things ar even middle group things but they never seemt o work out :( well i am really hopin i can get some good ideas of how to start talkin to this guy and get to know him better! Thankss !! (link)
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talking about classes, doesnt mean you have to have classes with him, ask him what he plans on taking next year, or what he wants to be when he gets older, just care about the things hes interested in and remember them! if your a good listener play that quality up, ask him if he wants to talk sometime. this guy i liked, and didnt know how to become his friend, apparently wanted to be mine since last year, so he just sent me a comment on myspace, saying, "hey, how are you? was^?" and now we're pretty good friends, we share secrets, goals, and we talk about everything! just play a game that allows you to get to know him, thats what i did with the guy. i started this random question game, in which i ask him a question, then after he answers i answer it, then he asks me one, i answer it then he answers his question too, and so on and so forth. it works well when getting to know people. good luck and just remember if conversation is slowing down dont worry about it relax, ask him something random or just pretend you have to go, until the conversation flows naturally! good luck!!!!
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A boy is going to ask me to a school dance. I dont want to go with him. what should i tell him to let him down gently?
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just be honest, and dont use lines, it makes it more offending. speak from your heart, tell him you dont feel the same about him as he does about you, and you wouldnt want to lead him on. it should be gentle and kind, dont make him feel bad or be rude. i think your going to do fine because you ibviously care enough to ask a way thats less painful, so you know that feelings should be spaired here! good luck!
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i want to get this boy alone so i can ask him to a dance but i can never seem to get him alone...he's always with friends! i think it's better to ask him in private right? i mean i don't even know his friends like at all, & i don't want to embarass him or anything (or myself haha). so anyways, how do i get him alone? i only see him in one class & sometimes in the hall but we are walking to classes so there's not time! i don't want to like ask in the middle of the hall in front of all the random people in the hall either! what should i do?!?!?! (i want to do it in person) (link)
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Yea i agree alone is better! try just asking him if you guys can talk for a minutes after school or class or something. if his friends are always around him, hint to them you want to talk to him, and then just kind of work your way around till you guys are alone. you could also pass him a note saying you want to talk to him for a minute, its kinda cute and unique! good luck!
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How can you decrease the redness in your eye if you have pink eye? (link)
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the only way to do that is with the medication and not touching your eye. you can also try washing your face in warm water that works for me!
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okay i have a cut on the inside of my nail sort've. it had a rest surface, like blood, but it wasn't blood blood, if that makes sense. basically none came off on the bandaid. i had basketball so i took it off, & i have OCD & i'm a huge germophob, so is there anything i could've gotten?? see the thing is, idk if anyone was even bleeding, but im sort've weird about it. idk aids?? viruses?? bacteria?? i don't deal with germs that great.
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dont worry, i was like that for like a year or so, but now ive gotten better about it. dont worry you didnt get anything! itll be fine it sounds like a paper cut or something, nothing dangerous! and no aids or viruses or bacteria! try washing it with soap and water if it still bothers you, and dont worry!
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Alright well usually I don't let the things other people say to me get to me, but I hear this from pretty much every person I meet. Apparently, I'm really out of control with my "moody-ness". I know I have times (especially once a month haha) and I have bad days but is there any way I can control my mood swings? It's nothing serious but I know I am kinda moody all the time.
Thanks!
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try before freaking out on someone, or being moody, ask yourself why am i reacting this way, is it necessary, does this person deserve this treatment? then afterwards if the answers are reasonable to be moody then go ahead, everyone is groutchy once in awhile but not always! try calming down, and relax, try being positive. if your answers to these questions are illogical, and you can actually say im being unfair and unreasonable and are overreacting, then calm down chill out. remember the good and youll be ok! and when its that certain moody "time of the month" then take a midol. also just joke about it, be like wow dont piss me off today because its that time of the month and ill fuck you up!people will laugh! or as my sister likes to tell me, "take a midol, and get over it" (haha) just chill out, lifes not fun when your moody! good luck!
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I dont know if I'm bi or not, how can I tell if I am?? (link)
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are you attracted to both men and women, and i dont mean ohh that guy is cute and that girl is pretty, i mean i'd want to date him/her, or have a sexual relationship with them. its more of a feelings than just saying im bi. good luck, hope i helped!
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I'm really lonely and need a boyfriend (or girlfriend) VERY SOON!! Wut should I do? (link)
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well ... dont get a boyfriend or ... girlfriend, just to get one, you need friends if your lonely! but just put yourself out there and dont tell people your lonely, just be positive! good luck!
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one of my bestfriends died and i need a song to put up on myspace to show i miss her and care!
please help
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heres a few suggestions:
1. Miss you- Aaliyah
2. Sad- Pearl Jam
3. Daffodil Lament- Cranberries
4. Return to Pooh Corner- Kenny Loggins
5. OMG the perfect one is Angel Standing By- Jewel
my favorite is the jewel and keeny logins ones, but i thought you might like some options. Pick the jewel one, its perfect, beautiful, and i want to cry when i hear it, itll really hit home! good luck, and im deeply sorry for your loss, i dont know what i would do without my bestfriend!
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my skin gets dry pretty easily. so after washing my face at night and putting an acne medication on, i will wake up in the morning and simply put makeup on without washing my face first. is there any harm in this? (link)
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your skin is getting dried out from the washing and acne medication, remember your skin needs to be nourished! try using Eucerin, its doesnt use oils or perfumes, so its really good for your skin and doesnt cause any breakouts or pimples, also it doesnt irritate sensitive skin! GOOD LUCK!
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my skin is dry, but my forehead isn't,so it breaks out. what are some good face moisturizers for combo skin? (that work good because my cheeks can get really dry) (oo yeah,um, under like, $8?)
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i have the same problem, i have a skin disease, like egsema i think, that causes my cheeks to be really dry, and my forhead is normal and breaks out every so often. try biore products, they work really well!!! and for your dry skin, use Eucerin, it works miracles!!!!!!! good luck!
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i'm 15 and a half, female, sophomore in highschool, and i've like the same guy for a long time. Probably since september... about 7 and a half months now. I mean, some times i'll like him a LOT, and other times it'll be a crush. But it's always there. He's a junior btw. I think he's 17. Anyways a while back i told him how i felt... it was a few months ago. And it turned out he liked my friend "R". I dont' think R likes him, but he's always talking to her and stuff. I mean, R and him are friends to begin with, so i could be overreacting, but it seems like they flirt a lot.
Anyways R and this guy both went on this trip my school sponsored to europe. My best friend G also went on the trip. G hung out with this guy, and this guy's friends. When the guy i like wasn't around, she got around to talking to his friends. She, G, found out that the guy i like has never asked anyone out before in his life becuase he's too shy. Which, i guess makes me more at ease about R and him being in europe together. But a while ago i thought he liked me. Like little stuff he did i could kind of interpret as signs. At the time, i figured he knew that i liked him, so if he liked me, he would ask me out. Obviously not the case. So i guess he's going to his prom with this freshman girl, whom i've heard rumor he likes, but i'm not sure if he'll actually follow through with dating her. I think i missed my chance to ask him out before he started liking this freshman, and now i don't know if i'll ever get the opportunity. I'm really hooked on this guy. I think we'll get closer once Drumline starts (we're both on the line) but that's not till after summer, and i'll probably forget him by then, logically speaking. I'm a hopeless romantic, and i really don't want to lose this guy. We talk as friends, but not much mroe. I've never dated anyone before... so i'm not sure how to go about asking someone out, or if at this point if i should be asking this kid out. Obviously i should wait till after his prom, but even at that point i'm not sure what to do.
i guess i just need general relationship advice on this one.
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i think until after prom there is no deffinite way of finding out if he likes you. once prom is over though, you can see if he dates the freashman or not. if he does then i think that the opportunity wont present itself again til drumline starts. however if he doesnt date the girl then go for it, just be like i like you alot, and have liked you for awhile, would you want to go out on a date with me, or would you want to see a movie or something. theres no better way to find out then asking him, plus the answer is honest, even a shy guy will tell you the truth, trust me ive been through this! i think that hes not going to date the freshman, sooo your going to be presented with the opportunity soon hopefully!!!! well good luck and tell me how it goes!!!! (or if you need more advice)
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Can you lose weight by not eating just for one day? I'm not going anorexic or anything, just wondering.
Another question, what are the foods to eat that will slim you down the quickest? Like salads with no dressing or croutons...
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Not eating isnt a way to loose weight, you may loose like 2 pounds, but it wont work really, the moment you drink or eat something it'll go back! The quickest way to slim down is slimply to exercise before any food is in your system in the morning, yes that means waking up semi-early and exercising, try jogging or power-walking or even yoga, anything arobic. This is to burn the fat that is causing you to hold that weight, if you wait till after you eat, you will just be burning off the calories from that last meal, not the real fat! Try just eating healthy, fruits, veggies, etc. And dont forget carbs ARE necessary!!! good luck!
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Im a 14 year old girl and i started at a highschool with no friends coming with me. i have made some friends that i really like hanging out with and i think that they like me, but other times i feel like they dont like me at all. i ask them to do one on one stuff and group stuff, but they tell me that they are busy, or nobody wants to plan it with me. i also dont get invited to stuff that i know are group things, and i dont get incvited to do one on one stuff that often...what should i do? (link)
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hmm well its been almost a full year so i dont know why they are acting strange. try not being clingy, i think what you should do is ask them to see a movie at the movie theatre, so they dont feel so uncomfortable at your house. but if they still are acting wierd just confront them about it, your friends shouldnt make you feel uncomfortable or left out. i also think if they continue you should seek out some new friends. good luck, write back if you need more!
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Well my Boyfriend I Have Been Going Out For 6th Months now. ABout 3 Weeks Ago I Wasn't At School On Monday And We Had A Pep Rally... You Know With All The Cheerleaders and Ya! Well ME And My BF Were Walking ANd He Said That He Sat In The Back And He Said That The Cheerleaders Had Nice Butts! I WAS LIKE OMG! I Dont Think You Should Be Telling Me This! But What Do You Think?! I Need Some Opions! I Will Rate Good! Thanks!
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all i can say is guys will be guys, they think of it the same as when girls say oh this guy is hott type of thing, dont worry too much, hes just a normal teenage guy who think swith his penis! lol just tell him not to check other girls out, and especially not tell you, ask him if he would like you to say hey that guys is super hott, i bet he has really nice muscles or something! guys just dont think about it as a big deal, he still likes you, you still go out, and he told you to your face, if he hadnt told you to your face that he was checking other girls out that would mean he was thinking of it as cheating or doing something wrong but because he told you that shows he was being honest, and didnt think of it as a bad thing. he liukes you, dont worry, and plus cheerleaders do have short skirts, what do you expect from a guy? lol ttyl good luck!
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yes it is..and u should probably know that we dont know one another that well..thanx (link)
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i think that you should ask another advice columnist because i dont feel that i can help you to the best of my ability! good luck sorry i couldnt help you more.
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i am realizing that i really cant live without my boyfriend but i keep getting crushes on other people... i cant help this feelings or stop them
what should i do
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physical attraction to other people is perfectly normal! dont worry you sound like you really love your boyfriend, and your "crushes" on other people is ;ust not love! to stop the feelings try to realize that its perfectly normal to be aware of other peoples physical beauty, if you realize this than you will know that its doesnt matter as long as you are faithful to your boyfriend! good luck, hope i helped!
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Hi my name is yousif and i need some advice.Ok here's the thing..i like one of my cousins who is also a twin..they are almost identical but i can know which is who and naturally i like one more than the other..this is probably my biggest crush so far(i hope you dont think its weird to like your cousin)..the problem is i donno if she likes me back..i see her once a week in my granpa's house(we go to different schools and have different friends)..and when we do see each other we r always in the same room with our relatives(including our parents)..i can tell she is the shy kind..sometimes i stare at her(i cant help it) and she knows it but she always looks away or to the floor..im not worried about other guys(especially strangers)because she rejects guys she dont know(im not saying shes a coquette)..anyway can u plzzz help me know if she likes me back without having to make a move or do something funny in front of my relatives..im running out of people to ask and im more desperate for an answer than ever..she just looks damn good even without makeup(couldnt help writing it)..thank u
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um is this a serious question? write me back if it is.
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Is it weird that me and my boyfriend don't call each other? He's called me once before to tell me he couldn't hangout. I have a huge problem with calling people. (I asked a question earlier about my phone phobia) His whole family knows about us going out and it'd be weird calling his house (Plus his parents are separated so I'd have to call both houses) We talk online which works a lot better for me, and he seems to like it better since he doesn't have to fear my dad picking up the phone lol. Plus we end up on the computer anyhow due to homework and stuff. I feel fine not doing it because we still communicate, but is it anything to be worried about? We've been going out for less than a month. Thanks. (link)
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dont worry, its fine! if you feel the need to talk on the phone more, try texting him, just ask how his day was, or wats up. after texting awhile, try working up to calling him. if you want you can even make an excuse to call instead of text, like my dad said to lay off the texting for a bit. but if you dont feel comfortable talking on phone dont worry its normal, as long as you talkk to him inperson, then its normal, however if you dont talk in person and only online than thats bad and try the phone! good luck!
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