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ok look i liked this one kid 4 a long time and i did shit with him and stuff.. now i got a boyfriend nd he caled me yesterday and asked me to chill.. and ofcorse i like my b.f. but this boy will always b #1 to me and im goin to c him today or wut should i do i mean everytime i get into a relationship i cant take it is it cuz mayb i wont b able to let dat kid go until we finally go all the way? i dunno wut to do i cant live like this i need sum advice plez help me

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First, don't abbreviate so much of your posts, It's like it was written in a chat room by a 14-year-old.

Secondly, I could write a thesis on cheating, but let me some it up like this. It sucks.

The guilt sucks, the hurt feelings suck, finding out you've been cheated on sucks- the only good moment is WHEN it happens, and that isn't because it's deep and meaningfull, but becuase it's dangerous and exciting.

Like doing motorcycle stunts... great fun till you crash and burn.

You're old enough to walk your own path - you knew the differance between right and wrong before you made your post asking for advice... all you wanted was a push in the right direction (or maybe a push in the wrong) Just be prepared to accept whatever consequences you earn through your actions.


Okay i have this friend and her name is andrea. we are like best friends but now i dont think so...we tell each other everything but she never sits by me at school. she is having a great time with her other friends and she tells me all there jokes...she never really talks to me anymore. she told me i cant be in there lil group anymore! so are we still best friends or not? or should i stop being her friend? HELP please! (link)
NOT.

that simple.

She's in a click that she doesn't feel like she has enough of an influance over to get you in? Yeah... a "best friend" is like a right arm... you don't leave it behind. If they can accept her, they can accept both of you. and if they can't then she has no buisness hanging out with people who can't play nice with her "best friend."

If that's not the way she sees it. then you are NOT best friends.


i went with this kid and i broke up with him cuz it wasnt working but now he got a new g.f. and im so sad i dunno wut to do i wunt him back..help wu should i say to him wut should i do?

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Well, for starters- you can tell how young you are by the way you type. Normaly I wouldn't respond to people who purposefully spell "want" and "what" using the letter "u," but I digress.

The first thing you need to do is assess your emotions and determine whether you want to be his girlfriend or whether you just don't want him to have annother girlfriend.

I think there's a good chance it's actually the later. There have been a handfull of ladies I have dated- Two of these relationships were more than a year long, and I remain close frineds with both of these women today. And even though they were the ones who ended our relationship, they BOTH tell me it drives them crazy to see me dating someone new.

Neither of them really want me back, and they want me to be happy - they just don't like being replaced.

There's a good chance you are experiancing this same thing for the first time. Just remember, turnabout is fair play. It will scrable his brains just as hard to see you getting friendly with annother boy as it did to you when you found out about him... It may not be nice to do that to him, but it may make you feel beter ;^)


is your pubic hair the same colour as your hair?
ex: if you blond is your pubic hair blond? (link)
For the most part, your body hair has the same pigmentation, however factors such as daylight and exposure to the elements or to chemicals can effect hairs as they grow out... generally your pubic hair is protected from most of this and will retain a darker color.




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