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hey everyone im desirae! this is my new advicenators my old one was drjwlc4..but heres some stuff about me..

i am 16 years old i am going to be a junior at beecher high school..i play softball it is half my life the other half is my friends..who mean everything to me and also my family and boyfriend..

i also like ot ride my fourwheeler work out shop talk on the phone help people and just live life to the fullest i am not stuck up i am actually a very shy person who is trying to break out fo there shell..

i love hollister and abercrombie!but theyy are really expensive..i have been playing softbal since i was four yhears old and my favorite number is 4! i used to be a cheerleader,play vollyball,soccer,basketball but now i stick to softball i am going to try out for soccer again along with basketball..

i drive a 2001 hyundai sonoata! i hate four door cars but i love this one..my dream car is a mustang ever since i was litle i have had my eye on that car..dont matter wat year just has to be pretty fast and drivable..i also want an excersion cause i love big trucks!!and also a f150 lighting so yes i am a fords girl even tho i dont drive one but my mom and dad do..i have one brother and a nephew both there names are joseph micheal..

well if you guys would like to know naything else im me

advice

How do you put two pictures up on one picture slot on myspace? Like have them one on top of the other? Like here http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewPicture&friendID=22614392&MyToken=7626a98a-9b48-428c-a306-42a7d2c51093

Thanks in advance

hey go to tinypic.com and upload your picture and the you have to copy the link then go to your photos for myspace and go to add caption and then put and where it says link delete that and [aste the code you copied from tiny pic if you need any other help with myspace im me at fallhrdintolove4

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what are some good idie/rock/emo
songs or bands.
i need a new myspace song but ive had like every single song!

kk well this our really good songs i love them

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I have this swimming party on July 24. I weigh 147, 5'1, so im chunkey, or "fat". Well, I want a flat tummy. I will feel way much better. You know. Well this is what i have to loose weight, (my idea)



100 crunches, 100 calf phrases with 10 ilb. weights. go up by 5 every day.


eat only grilled chicken & fish. Salad, fruit, and drink water ONLY. Walk 15 minuetes after every meal. Smaller porportions. Skip exercise for only one day, that day only eat fruits & veggies.


So, does everyone think this is a fine plan? Thanks!


-Also. I want it to be REALLY flat. You know? soo, i meen im willing to do anything extra, i just dont have a bike and i CANNOT run. Thanks!

yah that is good but its good if you drink at least 20 onces of milk a day..and you will lose weight with everything you are doingthat is a really good idea but i dont think that you will lose everything by then it takes a month or two to be were you wantt to be but that is a great plan good thinking!

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Hey guys. Right now, I'm a bit sad. For as long as I can remember, my number one priority in life has been softball. It's all I ever wanted to do. When, I lived with my mom, it was all I ever DID. I moved in with my dad when I was about 9, going on 10. I still played softball, and I still loved the game with all my heart. I made all-stars every year I played. Then, one year after we lost a game, my all-star coach made us practice right afterwards. We were all too hot and worn out, and my dad was furious with this, and told my coach I quit. This happened when I was about 12. Ever since then, I haven't made the all-stars team, and I see myself becoming worse and worse. I would do anything to play softball in college, but I don't think I'm going to make it. I'm now going to be a sophomore in high school, and I'm on the high school team. I want to get better, and help myself. But I don't know how. I also need confidence, something I lack tremendously. I'm going to the World Cup of Softball in July, and I just want to be able know that there's a chance I could be there one day. Maybe not on the Olympic team, but a college team, one that is highly respected, like the Texas Longhorns. It is my dream to play for them. I guess I'm sad because I know I'm not going to make it to where I want to be with softball. I don't really know what my question is, but could someone just help me?

hey..well softball is also my life i live wat sleep softball..its teh best feeling in the world..and i quit playing high school ball my freshman year casue the coach was retarted nad had his favorties and our team goes to state every year but this one weve won statte 3 times! then i quit but i got back into softball..i just think you need to talk to your coach and prove to him your should be on the all star team..jsut give it your all dont force your self jsut relax at everything..you can do this mental thing you lay down and jsut think of when uaare on the field what you should sdo wiht every play nad every time you are up and what you should do etc..make sure your eyes are closed just concentrate realx take deep breathes and it works i felt so much better when i did this..u can do it before games or practices..maybe even get the whole team to do it nad you shall all work better..and then i say talk to the coach and tell ur dad to stay out of it cause it was one lost big deal..as long as you love it and want to pla it and think youll do good then do it and hell yeah go texxas! and i also wwant to play for them but i dont play high school anymore so i dont htink i will get naywhere with my softball but dont give up! i have faith!

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ok i think i like my exboyfriend and i dont know if he likes me!and even if he does i dont know if i should go back out with him cuz he is mixed!!what do i do???????UNKNOWN:/

well if you went out iwht him before nad he was mixed why would htat matter now?and if u like him then try to go for him again just start talking and etc and ask him if he lieks you and if he says yes then be liek well would you like to give it an otehr shoot.. but i hope everything works out between u guys

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ok well im the type of girl who is sooo self consious. i ALWAYS wear sweatshirts and i roll my pants up to my knee and i always wear sneakers. I want to break out of that. i AM a really pretty girl and i know it but one problem. I am VERY busty. like im not moster busty im like busty enough to look about um 2 years older than i am and yea. So what shirts would would look good on me to flatter my chest (B34 btw) thank you soo much

hey..well i was the exact smae way no joke..my friends helped me bust thro all of that i always wore my hair in a pony tail always wore my sports cloths and etc..but then i was like wow i think i am decent looking so i might as wll show people..but unlike you i dont have boobs..very flat but i think you jsut need to tell you friends be like hey help me get out of this..i told my friends to take my sweat shirts..and then we went shopping and now i actually liek the way i dress and you can probley go to rte.21 for cute shirts that show your clevage etc..well hjope i helped

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Can relationships be repaired after he cheats to be better than before?

hey..well if he only cheated on you once.. i would try to fix it..but i would just be more careful like make sure he is not lying..but i hope everything works out with you guys..jsut be careful try to fix thigns and make sure he dont lie or cheat again and if he does then i dont think things should work out wiht u guys cause noone deserves that

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is it normal for you to not have your period on time? normaly my period is always on time. what's wrong with me?

p.s i haven't had sex

well..my period is always mesed up its either late or early..so it might be normal maybe ur body is still makeing a few adjustments..i wouldnt worry that much about it if u havent had sex..

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where can i get those shorts that say the names of sports on the but. or the mesh ones that have like lacrosse sticks in the corner or say a school name. is there a website?

here is where u can design wat u would like..from any sport or anything

http://www.logosoftwear.com/

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i may sound stupid;;
but how do i rate pictures on myspace??
--♥thanks

well go to the profile where u want to rate the picture and then where it says rate me..by where you add the people at it will say rate me and u go right there..

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I keep making plans for dieting. I try and give up im 13 yrs old 5'2 and 117 pounds.I need some inspiration. Please help!

well u dont really have to diet just eat whats in the major food groups and exercies..there is a good ewbsit and no u dont have to by the magazine its www.fitnessmagazine.com and thats where i learned how to keep in shape abd it worls really good and they also have food you hsould eat and when to eat them

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Ugh,how do you scrunch youre hair? Everytime i do it always turns out so crappy. Like staicy and frizzyish and it doesnt look smooth at all.

And my hair doesnt really stay that "scrunched"

Any help?

Thanks.

well after you get out of the shower put a towel on your head let it sit there for 5-10 mins..then make sure your ahir is still wet and brush it to where there are no knots in it..then flip your hai to where your head is upside down and get the gel put it in your hand and then just take the bottom of your hair scrunch it to teh top and hold it there for about 5 seconds..repeat all over your head till it loks a lil scrunched to you then flip your head back up and get the hair spray and spray it all over your head and then scrunch it agian for about 5 seconds everywhere and then i have this curl booster stuff that i use and then i repeat the same thing as the hair spray..it works reaallly good!


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when are the best times to go running??
how can i work on my abs?
what fruits are good for you?
and going a day without eating n just drinking water, once of two weeks is that ok?
Thanx to any1 who helps.

the best time to go running is in the morning so it boost your metabloism(sp) so between 6-11 am..and all fruits are good for you so any tyope is good for you to eat..and u shouldnt go day with out eating you should eat all your major meals..cause you want to gain weight and make it into muscle so you are more built jsut dont eat to much go to this website this is wat i use..www.fitnessmagazine.com/ hope i helped

desirae

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my boyfriend and i have gone out for a LONG time.. well, lately things have just sucked. idk like our phone conversations are boring (neither of us ever has anything to say) we ALWAYS argue and our conversations just SUCk... what can i do to spark up the relationship or keep things fun???

thanks!

i dont wnat to be mean or anything but maybe you guys are getting bored with each otehr..and dont think i am gunan say break up cause im not..but maybe u could make him happy like re-enact your frist date or sumthing go to the same place and order the same thing i think that woudl be cute or just try new things ..and sho whim u still love him and dont want to lseo him

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Ok i'm a 13 year old girl. My boyfriend is 16!
I don't know what i should do about that cuz he's 3 years older then me. And he's never kissed a girl... so should i stay with him or should i dump him cuz he might do something with me??

well if he has never kissed a girl and he is 16 i dont think that he is going to do anythig iwth you..and if he likes you then he shoud also respect u not to do anythig that you are not comphy to do..and i dont think u should dump him give him a chance

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what are some fun websites to go to when your bored besides bored.com?

myspace.com

xanga.com

youtube.com

ebaumsworld.com

killsometime.com

it really depends wat u are looking for but those are wat i go on..hope i helped &hearts

desirae

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lately ive been really into excersizing. i want to tonemy body (preferably just my stomach, but i also NEED stronger arms & legs!!)

so anygood excersizes? (rite now i do lunges, lift wieghts, and crucnhes)

hey..well latley i have also been into excersise and i foudn this website and i did all tehre excersises and i feel good and i usally never do..and so it works but go here and just follow everythign htey say..www.fitnessmagazine.com/



you dfont have to buy the magaizine

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My best friend is spending the night and we don't know what to do. We are going to the mall and we will be there untill 10:30, but what else should we do for the rest of the night? Keep in mind that we are 16, so no stuff like prank-calling or truth or dare. And we can't do anything that involves loud noise or leaving my bedroom. Or anything that makes a mess. Sorry so picky.

well if she is your best friend and you guys have stayed the night togther before then why is now sucha big deal..u guys are best friends best friedns always keep each other occupid just talk about hings..have fun..

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anybody know of any good drinking games other then quarters? something easy to play without alot of stuff. for liek 2 to like 5 players

well you can play the laughing game..which is you watch sumthing funny and at first before you all start you all ahve to take a shot..and then take one more..and then watch the family guy or sumthing funny and everytime you laugh you have to take a shot..you will get completly trashed and if you want to stop drinking..then you ahve to take one more shot then your done..thats one game

the other is checkers..u can have teams it dont amtter..but say you jump someone then the person or team you jump has to take a shot and if you double jump them they have to take two shots..and et..if they jump you and your team then you or your team has to take a shot..

hope i helped

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i am a girl 14 and i like my neighbor who is 15 and i told him how i felt but he never said anything bac from then on it was really awkward between us but now i have been seein him more and he has become so much nicer he even IM's me now he go's to all my softball games and all that but i still don't know if he likes me or not he never told me what should i do?

hey! well some guys are shy at first..and he is starting to relize how he feels it was probley confused and thought you were joking or sumthing..but things will most likely work out between you guys casue he ims you..and goes to your softball games and i would get the hint that if a guy went to your softball games he is intrested nad wants to get to kno teh sport better cause you are intrested in it..hope i helped ♥

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