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Oky dokers, i finally changed this info =)
Ill say the same things though, then im gunna go read some scary stories (i luvvv doing that)
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im not shy at all and i have no problem talking to people. now that i started high school i want to branch out and make a lot of friends. i talk to alot of new people but i dontknow how to take the talking to the next level and like start hanging out with them. i still am kinda intimidated because the girls i want to be friends with are kinda popular and i dont want to feel like an idiot asking to go somewhere. i cant have a party or people over cause my house is weird and doesnt have a place for people to hang out. i really really want new friends, i just need some help (link)
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Hm...i really struggled with making friends too. You just have to be open to everyone and new kinds of people. Im not the smartest girl in the world and all my new friends are like smarticles. Really expand your horizons.....and dont change yourself for other people either, like in odd girl out::::or mean girls. Good Movies. Bad examples. You catch what im trying to say? Just mention to them that you feel left out if you want to keep these friends, like "hey guys wanna do soemthing on saturday" and if they show off about their little outings again. Well, i guess it would be time to move on.
Let me know how thatg oes and i hope i helped!
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15/f.
this kid, told my friend, that he wants to kill all the people that are mean to him in school. and he tried to buy a gun, but he like couldn't. or something. but he wants to kill all the mean people there. he said, "all the people that just even look at me wrong, i want to kill them." and now im scared. i mean i'm not sure how serious he was. because he is veryyy emotional. like he has major mood swings. but i just don't wanna walk into school one day, and hes having an off day, and die for it. you know? and hes like, well it doesnt matter. because the most that will happen to me is ill get 25 years in jail. and thats not a big deal.
so i dont know. what should i do!? :/ should i tell someone? or just let it go.. and risk it? (link)
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Try talking to him first, in a friendly way this way he wont get over emotional, and have one of his mood swings. Tell him that you dont think its right for him to own a gun just yet, and/or that he cant just go around saying he wnats to kill people and really mesn it! Not only is it illegal but it will hurt your friendship.
Sorry im really corny, but, i hate to say it, its the truth.
Let me know how it goes for you!
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I really like this kid. for a few months now. Lets name him Dylan. I've talked to him maybe once or twice. Not even a full sentence, though. People said he liked me and all, but since i dont have anymore classes with him, i dont think he likes me anymore. I always see Dylan in the halls, and I really REALLY want to talk to him, and i always say i will, but i chicken out. I dont really know what to talk about. Dylan plays football. and Likes Georgia. Thats all i know. And I want to become his friend and hopefully after a while his girlfriend. What do i talk to him about? How do i start a conversation. Dylan is really shy. and its so cute. But, i wish he would just talk to me sometimes. How do i become his friend? Talk to him? Normaly? like any other guy?
And his best friend is like one of my best guy friends. Lets call him Kevin. I always talk to Kevin about Dylan. Kevin is so clueless sometimes and when he's around Dylan he ignores me. So, i'd always get mad at him for ignoring me. But by the end of the period, Kevins made up for it. I also think I like Kevin. asdfghjkl;;:! I can talk to Kevin so easily, but I would just love to talk to Dylan too. And if I do start to like Kevin instead of Dylan, how should i tell him? Or should I not tell him? (link)
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wow wow wow, one guy at a time!
You can't like two guys at the same tme because that will just get them confused, lol. You don't want that!! I would say to try to hang out with evin alot when hes hanging out with dylan, this way youll be more comforatble and actually TALK!!
It maybe easier also, to just like approach dylan at his locker, this way hell be doing something (emptying his books or something) and not being alone, and you can actually make him feel like your a friend. Thats the first step, by the way, Friendship. Always, you dont want to be with a guy you barley know, so be friends with him first. If it works out, great! IF now, well im sure thers many other guys for you (Kevin ;) )
Hope I helped!!!
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Hey im 16 and my boyfriend is 17 turning 18 ( We've been going out for 8 months almost 9) , and i really dont know what to get him for his birthday. Anyone have any idea.. please dont say "get him something he likes" because it really doesnt help me =[ im soo stuck. I want to get him something that a guy dreams of getting from his girlfriend.. ya know .. ( GUYS opinions appreciated ) also anyone whose in a relationship or past that gave an awesome birthday present, please shareee =]...
Thanks :) (link)
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Get him guitar hero 3. Guys love that stuff. Unless he already has that, then make him a mix and get him a movie or season of a tv show he likes. Hope i helped!
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I can't think of any songs, or moves, and i don't have the money for carmen electra's DVDs until next week! I have the house to myself for about 2 hours almost every night, what should i do? what song? know any moves? (link)
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You shouldne be doing it PERIOD. but thats just my opinion. a woman's body is sacred, and you should not be teasing men about it. Your body was made to carry out a vocation and to bring new life to the world, not to degrade yourself by stripteasing in front of people.
tsk, tsk
by the way i was just helping im not lecturing you, no need to be rude, or ill get you banned from this site.
THANKS AND BYE
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what does "a leer" mean? because "a" means "to" and leer unconjugated means "to read" so is it "to to read"??? (link)
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lol, no!
It means "To read"
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well someone left a really mean message on my myspace (on a little notepad thing, so I don't know who it's from). it said "you're an ugly stupid hoe. jk girl i love you! or at least, i have to pretend i do!"
well, i'm definitely not stupid or a hoe, and i don't think i'm ugly. so i know i shouldnt let this bother me, but i've felt like crying ever since i saw it. and i cant stop wondering who wrote it. one of my "friends?" someone i don't really know? and why would they write that? i'm not mean or stuck up... i'm always really nice to everyone! my mom says someone is just jealous of me, but that doesn't make me feel any better. it just really hurts to know that someone secretly hates me. how can i stop feeling so bad about this? (link)
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It was either one of your friends just joking around with you, or someone who doesnt know you and is trying to be a pain! Dont listen to them, its really no big. Ive had worse happen to me!
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WHAT IS TIHS???
http://xff.xanga.com/57a8567544010135261374/m1612269.gif (link)
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Looks like a worm to me.....with legs
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Oj, so I pop my fingers, and I know I really need to stop...but I don't know how...^^ Anyway advice will be so helpfull!
Thanks advance!! (link)
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Haha,
my friends all do that too!
Try to catch yourself next time you do it!
And/or get into another habbit, a good one!
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i like this guy and i think he likes me back, but we only talk online. we go to different schools (freshmen)
how can i ask him to get together without sounding to anxious? or how can i get him to call?
please be as detailed as possible!!! (link)
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Well, just be upfront with him and tell him how you feel! Then the time you guys will spend together will eventually come, with time. It takes time for a relationship to grow. (you may have heard that from the suite life of zack and cody, lol) My point is that you have to make your move! Dont wait for him to do it, becauase most guys are real shy at our age (Im a freshmen too) Except for a few, theyre just immature, lol. Let me know how that goes for you!
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Okay there is this guy on Drama (Drama Club) and (we'll call him Steve.) Steve is just one of those people who can't keep his mouth shut. He always makes dirty comments. Usually I just tune him out but over time it's gotten worse. It's gotten worse because now he always wants to hug me and he makes dirty comments about me. (ew)
Well I am one of those innocent girls. I don't swear, make dirty remarks...that kinda stuff. So from a friend of mine I heard that in English he talks about me. Steve says how "cute & innocent" I am and well....how he wants to take my "innocence".
If that isn't enough, last year i heard a rumor that he apparently raped his step-sister. He acts so pervertedly sick that i kinda wouldn't doubt it. So now I am actually afraid he'll try to do something to me....
I don't want to quit Drama because I love it and have made it a personal goal to attend all 4 yrs of it. So...what do I do? (link)
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Tell him staright up. Don't hold back or something will happen. Don't always believe the rumors either. Be nice when you do it, but firm. Either that, or ignore him, hang out with someone else at drama, let them in on it. Make a plan with your friends. ANYTHING to get him to stay away from you.
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hey guys im 14 years of age and am looking for a job but no one will hired someone under the age of 16 that i know of so far if anyone know somewhere that will hire at 14 please tell me (link)
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try babysitting, works for me, or ask to help out at a animal hospital or something. Maybe bagging at a grocery store??
It deppends what you like.
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15/f. I dislike my dad and mom. I have nothing for them, nothing against them. I don't feel anything for them. They're like nobody to me. They don't ignore me or abuse me or anything. But I can't bring myself to say "I love you guys." Because I know I'll be bullshitting everyone. I also dislike my sister. My parents get me stuff I want, and they treat me like other parents treat their daughter. But I strongly dislike them. I love being alone, untouched, in my own room. Or instead, out of the house and away from them. I hate being involved with them. And my other relatives live in another country. I don't talk with my parents, and I don't need their advice. I don't confide in them. What can I do?
Any advice? :/ (link)
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I think you should try to spend time with them, i mean....their your parents dude! try saying "Hey ma, wanna go ________ with me?"
Anything to get you guys to talk, i think parents are a big deal in someones life, and i know mine are really important to me. I know, im a loser, lol. But they are. Tell me how that goes for you!!
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I like this guy and he likes me back but we never talk to eachother. We known eachother since we were 8 yrs old and every time we would sit next to eachother we would talk but every time we got seperated or we had our seats changed we would act really shy to eachother. I really like him but I dont know how to approach him. What should I do? (link)
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I think you should tell him! If he acts weird and shy in front of you thats a good sign! Just be up front will him and say sweetly "Hey...i kinda like you....alot"
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there's really nothing that wrong with my life. my parents are together, we're middle class, i have friends, there's food on the table, a roof over my head, it's all fine. but i don't feel that way. it all kinda started with this boy, i'm not gonna get into great detail but we went out twice & broke up last may. it's october now, obviously, & i think i'm still in love with him. i started liking him last november. my best friend treated me like crap. like really i couldn't stand her. now we're not friends & i think i might actually HATE her. alot of the girls in my grade are beautiful. i'm decent looking i guess, but i really wish i was truly beautiful. i care more about what people think of me then i think of myself. when i get stressed out i pull out my eyelashes. right now i only have a few on the bottom & i don't want to leave my house because i feel disgusting & i hate myself. it feels like when people look at me all they see is my bald eyes & my insecuritiies, & people make fun of me for my eyes. i think i have a real problem, it's been gonig on for 5 years. it happens whenever i feel stressed & i suually don't even know i'm doing it. i feel disgusting most of the time & i hide everything behind a huge smile & a bubbly personality, but whem i'm alone everythings different. this is more like a confession than asking for advice.. but is there anything anybody can do to help me with anything in anyway? i know there are people with big problems & you all probably think i'm pathetic, but it just feels good to get it all out.. sorry that it's so long. (link)
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Hey girl!
I think you need someone to talk to, you sound like you need a best friend, and, in your answer unfortunatley, you dont have a very loyal one. do u hav a sister, or a close cousin? Sometimes i go to them. But if not, your welcome to pour your feeling out here, and my ears are always open. I really ish you luck. And the eye lash thing? .... Try to stop yourself next time you do it! other wise you wpnt hav any left to do it to! But maybe a close friend? Do you hang out with anyone in skool?
Anyways, u got us adviceanators people, were always here for ya!
-Kim
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