|
Unwanted stalker
Okay there is this guy on Drama (Drama Club) and (we'll call him Steve.) Steve is just one of those people who can't keep his mouth shut. He always makes dirty comments. Usually I just tune him out but over time it's gotten worse. It's gotten worse because now he always wants to hug me and he makes dirty comments about me. (ew)
Well I am one of those innocent girls. I don't swear, make dirty remarks...that kinda stuff. So from a friend of mine I heard that in English he talks about me. Steve says how "cute & innocent" I am and well....how he wants to take my "innocence".
If that isn't enough, last year i heard a rumor that he apparently raped his step-sister. He acts so pervertedly sick that i kinda wouldn't doubt it. So now I am actually afraid he'll try to do something to me....
I don't want to quit Drama because I love it and have made it a personal goal to attend all 4 yrs of it. So...what do I do?
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships?
Tell him staright up. Don't hold back or something will happen. Don't always believe the rumors either. Be nice when you do it, but firm. Either that, or ignore him, hang out with someone else at drama, let them in on it. Make a plan with your friends. ANYTHING to get him to stay away from you.
]
I agree with Elcee. If this guy is making you uncomfortable then let an adult know about it.
In this case your teacher may be the best one to
talk too. Can't hurt to ask Moms advice either.
So don't quit drama because of this creep. Let
someone know what hes doing. You do not have to take this kind of treatment from anyone. Its called sexual harassment. If he doesn't stop, if the teacher doesn't take it seriously, have your parents get a lawyer.
]
I think you should stop letting this creep intimidate you. The next time he bothers you, turn around and be like "oh please. (insert inseult)". There's no way you should quit drama, this isn't a big deal. You just need to show him whose boss.
]
I really think that you should get an adult involved in all this. Perhaps your Dad/Mum/Drama teacher could have a quiet word in his ear about leaving you alone. He is getting a kick out of making to you feel uncomfortable and he should not be getting away with it. The only way to stop him is to have someone in authority confront him. Don't be scared of involving your parents in this because they will want to protect you.
You are doing nothing wrong and I agree that you must continue with your drama group. He is the one that should leave if necessary. Please don't let him get away with this any longer.
Tell him to grow up and leave you alone and that you have told your parents/teacher what is going on.
If he does continue with this harassment, please go to the police and they should deal with it. Good luck.
]
More Questions: |