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My name is Erin. I'm almost 16 [17 days!]
I love this site so much, I always ask a billion questions on advicenators and I do my best to answer as many as I can too.
Most of the time when answering questions
I give you my opinion,
then I go through different senarios [2 or 3] that are on each side of the issue
So ask away :)
advice
i am having a secret facebook event, and one of the people i want to invite doesn't have a facebook (rather, she deactivated and doesn't want to reactivate just for the event).
so, i wanted to invite her via email.
i was wondering a couple of things:
(1) will she receive a notification for everytime someone edits the event, writes on the wall, etc. if she has her facebook deactivated?
(2) what if the date / time changes for the event -- will she be notified or will i have to account for her separately?
she should recive all the updates via email, that you and the other facebook users would get via notifications
just to make sure you might wanna send another email
How do I put a video on my ipod from a dvd?
you can't, itunes won't let you put it on because of copyright infrigement and etc.
you just have to buy it from itunes :/
So i was at the doctors about two weeks ago getting an annual pelvic exam and my doctor said everything was fine but its just that i had a yest infection so she gave me a pill that i only had to take once and she said it would clear within 3 to 5 days..well it kinda went away but now the cottage cheese like discharge is back and i'm really irritated down there. I dont wanna waste another visit back there but is there anything i can do? Like something I can buy? Also, on my pelvic exam they found atypical cells and couldnt identify them so i have to go back in 3 to 6 months for another one but they dont know what the cells are and they don't want me to be worried but i kind of am..so just curious if this has happened to anyone else and if you could tell me what might happen? Thanks! By the way i am sexually active if that helps..
for the yeast infection. a warm bath with baking soda should do the trick and help the irritation, after words just rinse off in a warm shower
sorry i can't help with the cells
feel better!
can someone tell me if i need the first sim game installed onto my computer, in order for me to install the The Sims 2 or another Sims game?
thanks you.
You don't need the original Sims to install the regular Sims2,
However, to install expantion packs [example Sims2 Seasons] then you need the regular Sims2 installed on your pc first.
yah that is true.ima see whats going on.
but you know whats weiird that something telles meh he aint doing nothing stupid nd den something tells me he is.
then i get a good felling about him and then
i get a bad feeling bout him
aahhhh
It sounds like your way too inlove,
you want to think the best of him,
but sometimes worries creep into your head
its totally normal
lettme know how it works out!
that is really true,but my heart hurts alot.i dont even know what to do,one day i asked him why havent he called me and he sed it was because he dosen't have money he is broke ove there.all the money he had it all waisted.
and also i called him last week right?..nd i asked his mom if he was there and she sed no..den she asked whos dis..annd i sed his gurlfriend and she sed which gurlfriend and i sed my name..
ima tried calling him today
='[
it doesn't sound too good,
maybe you should try asking him flat out whats going on
lifes to short to be miserable
ok i been going out wit my boyfriend for a yr and 2 months.
but now he left to the dominican republic..nd everytime i call him he is never there.i dont know what to think,sometimes i think that he is just cheeting on me.because his brother got a myspace and he cheks it every 4 days,then why cant my boyfriend do that and ask why did i called or something..?
omg im confuse nd sad please give me some really good advice,thank you
You have to ask yourself, is this boy truly worth worrying this much about.
If hes putting forth no effort to stay in touch with you, why do the same for him?
I think you need to examine this relationship, because it sounds like its not strong enough to deal with the distance
However, if you do get in touch with him then maybe you can set up a few times throughout the week when you both can set time out and talk with eachother. If he truly loves you a 20 minute phone call three times a week and setting up a myspace page shouldn't be that big of a deal.
it will all work out in the end
i randomly told my mom that i bought make up at an online store in the interenet and she immediately just FREEEEAAAAKKED OUT AND YELLED AND SPEECHED ME OUT
like what am i supposed to do shes making me feel guilty and like have doubts about my buying online
shud i continue to buy or is it really dangerous
she said there are identity theft online
is that true?
pleasae ansswweer all of my questions i know its all over the place but please. IM SO WORRIED
is there nothing to be worried about?
have you esperienced any of the identity theft online in ur credit card?
how about ..do you continue to buy online?
tell me stories or speeches on anything ADDVIIICCE
please and THANKS. :(
as long as your buying from a reliable site, like a major chain of stores, you're fine.
sites like that hire people to go in, check out the holes in online security and fix them.
smaller sites don't have that kind of budget so they have more holes.
Ok me and this girl are really good friends and one day she cheated on him with me but we decided it was a mistake cause she had a boyfriend and i didnt want to push it. so we remained really good friends then she tells me she broke up with her boyfriends this is weeks later by the way and i dont know if i should try and be more than friends again?
if you think thats shes worth it, go for it.
but keep in mind, once a cheater, always a cheater..
Okay so Saturday was Old Home Day, and I was hanging out with Becky,Steven,Abby,Emily,Kim,and Abbys lil brother. Well at the moment Beckys dating Steven but she doesnt like him, she just didnt want to hurt his feelings.Well we were all hanging out I guess I was flirting with Steven... Becky couldnt careless though so Im not worried about that. In town, Steven baught me fries and we traded a 20 for 2 tens and the guy who gave us the two tens was like "You have your boyfriend rapped around your finger!"Because Steven gave me ten bucks and told me he'd be right back he was gunna go buy some icecream. And I was like =O Hes not my boyfriend! And the guy was like Even better..
And at Byrant Feild I wore Stevens sweatshirt, and we hung out more then he and becky did.
Well Abby wouldnt get off my case, she kept saying that Steven liked me, and that I liked Steven... and Steven ended up saying that If I asked him out seriously he would have a hard time saying no to me.. right infront of me.
Okay so i thought me and Steven were ust friends but I was telling Kim what we did to make Abby think that we liked eachother which was I play with his feet =]] Tugg on his leg hair. We wrestle, and play mercy which is really painfull btw. He layed on me...
Yes I wear his sweatshirt, and he buys me food. Were always talking and he's my best guy friend. Well Kim was like I wish I had one of those.. and I was like.. one what? and she was like Flirt Buddy =DD Cuz thats exactly what you are.
I dont mean to flirt with Steven.. but is that what im doing?
Should I tell Steven Becky doesnt like him?
Even though I really didnt mean to flirt with Steven, does that mean I like him?
i think you like his company
and i think he likes likes you
you might like him, but your the only one who can really determin that
theres no problem with having a flirt buddy, there super fun and no problems
just make sure your not leading him on if you don't acctually like him
if you do like thim. TALK TO BECKY
its not cool to flirt with him, even if she doesn't like him that much.
if you do like him, and him and becky break up
GO FOR IT
he sounds like the cutest kiddo everr =]
so this year it was my second year at a sleepaway camp. i loved this camp last summer, i had the best time of my life and i loved all of the people and made so many friends. this year a little bunk mixup happened and everyone blamed me for it because i requested two people that didnt request me. it didnt end well. before camp started, the bunks were back to normal and everything was good. on the first day i decided to swicth back into my old bunk, the one i was in last year. even though i was friends with the bunk i wanted to be in this summer. but they were ignoring me so i felt left out and switched to the bunk i was in last year. anyways, the whole summer i had a horrible time and cried every single day. no joke. so after a while i was fed up and was allowed to leave camp and come home. this happened a few days ago, august 8th actually. so now ive been home 3 days in a row because my friends are all busy. or at least they say they are. it really upsets me. i feel like my friends dont really like me anymore and i dont know why. this is the same feeling i had at camp. its not that people were mean to me at camp, i was just left out of everything. and it really hurt me because i thought these people were my friends. and i didnt know why they were doing it. i got home and texted all my friends to see if they could do anything and all of the replies said im sorry i cant :[ but i keep asking different people for different days and there ALL busy. i feel like the biggest loser ever. every year i go to long beach island near the end of august, and i NEVER ever have anyone to go with. no one. i always ask all my friends and they are always doing things. it really makes me sad. and i just feel like i dont have any friends anymore. i do have two best friends from my old school, but they are always busy. btw i forgot to mention i switched from private school into public school last year going into freshman year. it ws really hard for me because i can be really quiet at first. i had some in school friends but not that many outside friends. i lost two close friends i met last year. it was a hard year. this year im going into school feeling like i have no friends and im just so nervous. i dont know what to do anymore. its also embaressing becuase my sister who is going to be a senior has so many friends and shes always busy and so far ive done nothing ever since ive been home. i just wish i belonged somewhere. into a certain group or something. last year i had scattered friends, i was never in a group or anything. ive been having weird thoughts ever since the middle of camp, when i was having a really bad time. even now when i get upset i have these thoughts about like cutting myself or sometimes i think what it would be like if i killed myself. i dont think i ever will but sometimes i think about it. its really starting to worry me i dont know what to do anymore. and i cant tell anyone these things. help me
I went threw the same thing with my friends, it always seems like they never want to hang or they had something to do, then i got depressed and cut myself too.
theres nothing wrong with you
alot of people go through things like this
i'm serious, your not alone
i decided to throw a pool party at my house and called people to come over, and told them all of our friends were invited.
Everyone ended up coming and we had an awsome time, dancing and eatting pizza, after that everyone felt closer
maybe you could try the same thing with your friends, camp friends, old friends, new friends
all of them
also when you ask them if they want to hang and they say there busy, ask them when there free, say something like "well when can you hang cause its been forever since i've seen you!"
i think its going to work out for you, i really do
keep faith
don't hurt yourself
and if no one wants to hang, pick up a book,
no joke, reading is a million times better escape then cutting.
Me and my boyfriend broke up last week (Mon) because basically for the last two months he was having thoughts/feelings for my bestfriend and never told me. So we eneded it, yet i still have deep feelings as he does for me, but it wouldnt be right to take him back a second time. He states hes over her, but how can i be sure, he stopped communication with her for 2 months. Basically we werent really giving each other space, we were acting as if everything was normal. I asked him for space, and now i feel even more hurt and lonely than before, what do i do?
-Female, 15
Invite him to meet you at a park, the school yard, somewhere where no one has an advantage [like someones house] and try to get it so not many people are around.
You need to sit and talk with him about this
explain to him why logically its stupid for you to take him back, let him know exactly how hurt you were/are by his thoughts about your best friend.
See what he says, and if its anything besides kissing your ass, you know hes not worth it,
Also tell him that you still care about him alot
and maybe you could set something up, where you two start dating again, but if anything like it happens again,
kick that boy to the curb, your too young to waste time on a stupid boy, and TRUST ME I KNOW
how much it sucks to have you boyfriend and your best friend eyeing eachother behind your back, i've been there and i've lived it,
give him a second chance, if he resepcts you enough it won't happen again
ok i need a good comeback for when someone is calling you a hoe, and its not true. i need something b*tchy but also sweet so it can be b*tchy in a nice way, to where itll be even b*tchier...
You could say back in a sweet little voice, "only for you" or "only for your boyfriend"
or say something like ".. well thats original"
Being nice and over sweet always works if your trying to get back at someone, doesn't matter what you say
I dont understand the whole ovulation thing...at all. Its not the same as a period right? And my friends mom said like 2 weeks before or after your period you release a lot of discharge and you want to...have sex ahha. Is that true? or what.
Ovulation is before your period. Your body releases and egg and this is the time when if you want to have a baby, you get to it.
Natural instincs would make you want to have sex so the human race keeps going.
where can i get a good deal for a make up palette? with really nice eyeshadow colors. =] thankss
local drug stores normally have pretty colors that aren't that expensive
ok i had my first period 3 years ago on my birthday and it was heavy and somewhat long, i had it again exactly a year later about. now it comes every few months and i never know when its gonna come every time i do have it, i get super moody, its heavy and it lasts a few good days. i need to know a way to make it regular so i don't have to always wonder when its going to come. my mom suggested birth control, but i never know if i can take it at the same time every day because i have a horrible memory about stuff like pills and other kinds of medicine. any advice about any way to keep my period regular??
my sister had a problem similar to yours, she takes Yaz now and hers lasts about 3 days, is very light and is on time everymonth.
personally i think talking to a doctor about this is a must, you don't want to be taking pills without knowing more about them
What are signs that you're falling out of love with someone? And that someone's falling out of love with you?
if the person seems bored with you
or your bored with them
things aren't as fun as they used to be
you fight easily
you don't trust them as much
i relieze i don't know your exact problem,
but life is about having fun
don't stick with someone just for the sake of being with someone, especially if you don't love them anymore
So, I've noticed this for almost all my life, and I've just assumed it's nothing to worry about, but I just want to know if it's what I've been assuming all along.
There's like...some kind of hole right above where my butt ends, and it doesn't go into my body or anything. It's almost like a belly button, except it's not in the right place you know? I've just always assumed I was born with a tail, and it was removed immediately after birth like most people who do are born with them.
Am I right or not? I would ask my doctor, but it's not really life-threatening to me, so I kind of don't want to pay the copay money just to see her over that :)
i don't think thats possible
can you ask a parent or older family member maybe if you've always had the mark?
and if its not a big issue then next time your at the doctor for something else bring it up
ok so there is this guy i am totaly into im 16 by the way and hes a bit older like 2 years and he is amazing i think im in love he is so sweet and cares about me hes not sleezy or anything. the thing is i know he was into me a few weeks ago but now i heard he has a girlfriend but i dont understand he was like perfect and i cnat stop thinking about him i spent a night going out and stuff with him then we werre going to hang out and he has communicated with me since then but thats alll and now i want to see him but do not want to make the first move and seem tooo intrested if he has a girlfriend i will feel like crap what can i do???? my friends boyfriend and him are like great friends so i will prob end up seeing him sooon but it might be uncomfertable what can i do about that too???
totaly confused!!!
maybe you could mention that a big group of people are going out and you were supposed to invite people too, you saw his sn on or his myspace etc. and thought he might want to come to
[makes you seem not too intrested and more friendly]
and tell him to bring a friend[s] of his too
and if he brings the girlfriend then you know for sure and stick with your friend and try to keep a bit of distance but not ignoring him,
but if he doesn't bring the girl, and he doesn't have one then go for it!
i hope i helped and it all works out for you
good luck!
Hey! There’s a little problem that I have that I probably have put off for too long. Here goes…. So there’s this guy at school who is (or at least in my opinion) a great guy. He’s cute, super smart (and I should know- he’s one of the smartest person in our AP classes), really nice and really athletic (basketball, soccer, Frisbee, you name it).Anyway, he’s really nice to everyone, so I wasn’t sure if he was just being affable or if he might actually like me. So here’s a bit of a stuff that might be influential. I was wondering if anyone could make heads or tails of it.
We had an Arthurian Tales project earlier this year in Literature and he was in my group (we had four people total). Because the other two people were less eager to work, we were the only two who answered the questions. Later, we had to work on a larger project together as a whole group dealing with the Arthurian Tales so I offered to do the drawing for all three of them (because I’m better at art than they are), and two of them consented. The guy refused, and so we did our parts for the project separately. Later, the day before the due date, he had me how much I had done and I said I did the other two people’s parts already, but very little of mine. I assured him that I would be able to finish it in time, but he still ended up teasing me about it. Then, in Latin class, we had a huge project about ancient Roman architecture still standing today in Europe. Because my project dealt with building an architectural building out of food, I didn’t work on it at school, but rather did it at home. However, the rest of the class spent time during class to work on theirs, including the guy. I went over to talk with him and his partner and helped them build their bridge. I laughed saying that it was a bit flimsy and teased them about the model. Both laughed and ended up putting aside my comments. Another day, I was really happy because I found out that we got a really good grade on our Arthurian project so I told him. We were the first of our group to know. I did my whole ‘I’m-really-happy’ clap and he ended up teasing me by copying the clap sarcastically.
Later in the year, we had a Poetry Anthology assignment in Literature worth a hundred points. About a week before it was due, as we were walking back to our lockers (they are close together since we both have the same first period class), he asked me if I had finished by anthology yet. We talked a bit about it until we reached our lockers, both admitting that we had not done much work on it yet. When we finally turned our anthologies in, we had to display them to the class. We each put our anthologies on our desks with a piece of paper for others to write comments on it. So, we went around and I kept looking over at my desk as I read others’ anthologies. I saw him walking around in the general area and finally sat down. But before long, the period was over and we had to turn everything in to be graded. However, when I got the comments sheet back, his comment was the last one. It said, "I really liked how you wrote about quests and stories. They were really interesting." When I questioned him later, he said that he never really got to read them because by the time he got to my anthology, the period was over.
At another time, I had a huge math exam and because I did not understand a question, I asked a good friend of mine. She’s extremely brilliant, and like the guy, was in an AP math class that was one level ahead of the norm. The guy overheard, and since he didn’t understand either, referred me to another person. He was really trying to be helpful, and the next day, asked me if I had figured out the answer yet. Also, several times, while my friends and I were just sitting around and talking during Free Period, he would come over from across the room to join in, joking and laughing with us.
On the last two days of school, our Literature class (or at least half of us) pitched in together to complete a 1,000 piece puzzle of all the most important people of the century. I had asked if I could join and he said "sure." I’m not the greatest at puzzles, so whenever I got a piece right, I was extremely ecstatic. He (and several others) kept teasing me saying things like, "Yay, you finally got a piece!" in a really sarcastic tone. He also teased me using a comment I had said earlier (which was, "Hey, I’m not bad at all puzzles; I can do 10 piece ones really well!). Finally, I felt that I really couldn’t help any longer and after constant reminders that I was horrid at puzzles, I got into a fit and left. Whilst I was standing and watching everyone else work on the puzzles, someone came up to me and asked why I wasn’t helping. Indignantly, I retorted that "They told me not to work," to which he replied "We didn’t!" in an irritated manner. The next day (or last day of school), when I first got into the room, it was already utterly chaotic. A guy in our class had brought in a small, rubber, bouncy ball and accidentally threw it at the puzzle workers. It hit him on the back slightly the first time, and a few minutes later, squarely hit the puzzle and broke pieces off. He was really mad so he took the ball and wouldn’t give it back to the other guy. I told him "Just give it back to them," to which he replied, "Why should I? Why would you care?" A while later, I got back into the group and sat down next to him. I was wearing my graduation dress, and for the first time that morning, he noticed it. "Wow," he said with a glance in my direction, and then he went back to work.
The last few bits of things that I can still remember is something that deals with yearbooks. I had nothing to do in Latin class one day in the last week of school, so I asked to ‘sign’ his yearbook. I had already written a little message earlier with something along the lines of "Have a great summer," but now I wanted to decorate an entire page. Everyone in our classes knew what an ‘artaholic’ (as they put it) I am and how I would decorate and doodle all over anything I can get my hands onto. They also found out during yearbook-time that I LOVED writing and drawing in yearbooks. Some of them actually tried taking up a lot of room in MY yearbook just because I did that in theirs, and it was a way that they could irritate me. After a bit of pleading, he finally relented, but warned me only to take up ONE page, and that was all. So, I used my Sharpies and doodled all over and around messages. When I finally returned it to him, the page was nothing but a swirl of colors. He thanked me and then went back to his seat. I caught him surveying the book thoughtfully and even pointed something out to his friend, but since I wasn’t in hearing distance, I couldn’t tell what he said. Later, he had asked me to decorate another page because someone (we both know) who has really bad spelling and stuff wrote in his book that he thought would ‘ruin his yearbook’ (excuse?). I did so, and he thanked me yet again. I had also asked him to sign my yearbook and this is exactly what it says, "___, Thanks for making all of the really cool designs in my yearbook. I’ll (which was later scribbled out). Yours is the coolest "signature" I have. It has been fun being in Latin class and Literature with you! Have an awesome summer. See you next year!" He then signed his name in block letters. Because I had specifically asked everyone in my yearbook to decorate it, he drew (around the borders of the message) pictures of people we knew. He also drew the King of France, Sir Gawain, Gawain’s "horse/camel/dino" and "Me [meaning him], the artist… a long time from now." He labeled all of the pictures and wrote at the top, "My attempt at decoration." Finally, when school let out for the summer, I told him over my shoulder to "Have fun in N.Y." He paused for a moment and then said, "Huh? Oh, yeah. New York. Yeah, thanks."
Well, that’s the end of it. I know that it was really long, so I’m sorry! But please help me out! Is he just being friendly or might this be something more?
its possible he likes you and is to shy to come out and say it, maybe you could get a bunch of your friends and his friends together to hang out and see if it starts up again?
its kinda hard to tell if its more, i'm thinking thou that it is a deff possiblility and maybe you want to flirt a little [nothing dramatic] and see how he responds.
let me know how it goes, hope i helped!