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Hey- i'm Emily. I love my friends and most ask for my help with various situations... so I guess i'm good at giving advice lol. I am a freshman, i love the band, and i am somewhat outgoing. Ask me anything and i'll do my best to help. :)

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hey i'm just wondering, who is on each cover of the gossip girls books? like who's the black girl? and same for the clique books, which girl is which on the cover? and for a-list too haha..are they ALL anna percy? ok thanks i'll rate 5s! =)

I think on the A list covers is Anna Percy.
In the first Gossip Girl book (only one i own) I think Blair is in the middle and the blonde one and the dark one are Isabel or Kati.
The Clique are Massie,Kristen,and Alicia. Not sure what order they go in but... sorry.
I hope I helped!

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My boyfriends birthday is on valentines day and i have no idea what to get him as a birthday present and a valentines day present. We've been going out for a little more then a month but i really love him. I want to give him something cute which he'll remember.

any ideas about what i should give or do for himm?

thanks;)

13f if it helps.

Well it depends on how much you spend. However, most guys appreciate what you give them more if it's something you make. Say... make him his favorite food, make a photo album of just you two in it...
You could try that or you could buy him something. As I said it depends on how much you spend. Well if you want to stay under $20 you could try asking his friends what type of cologne he wears or something he has been wanting for a while.
I hope I helped you out! emily

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There is this one girl at my school who is basically my shadow. But not in a good way. Her main goal in life is to beat me at everything I do, which also means doing everything I do. I play the cello, and so does she, but I, not to brag, am better, so she gets very competitive about that. And since we met, she has decided to play piano, "volleyball," "guitar," and "sing," all of which I have been doing before we met. The reason I put quotation marks is because she does't do either of those things, but she just says she does. What should I do to make her get her own life?

Ask her things like, "Oh maybe I could watch one of your games sometime?" "What is you team name?" or "Do I know anyone on your team?" and then see what she says.
Try staying away from her. If she comes up to you just walk away, pretend to not hear her, or just flat out ignore her. Distance yourself from her.
If all else fails, just say, "Look, I've been getting the feeling you have been copying me for the past few weeks. Are you?" By this she will most likely get the fact she is bugging or seriously annoying her.
I hope these work for you... Good luck! emily

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Does coffee make you lose weight or gain weight? Does it have any effect at all?

In most coffees there isn't any fat. Number of calories also vary depending on the type of coffee. Really it depends on what you put into your coffee. If you add in a lot of cream and sugar remember that they have a large calorie content. And whipped cream may be yummy, but it is no way to go when you are talking about health and what is good for you. Hope I helped!

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i'm doing a project on ghosts and i need to conclude my essay about the believer's and non-believer's views and i'm a bit stuck for ideas! i've written about a few perspective's but i need a few more.

so for what reasons would a person either believe or not believe in ghosts?
Any personal views or points in general would be a great help thank you :)

i rate all answers :)

Some people don't believe in the paranormal, which is ghosts, witches, fortune tellers etc etc, some people think they are made up myths that are flat out dumb.
Some find careers trying to prove those things are real.

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i am 13/f and i am a very artsy person. i am redecorating my room and i want to paint some paintings to frame on my walls any ideas on what i could paint? i love music, dance, and color if that helps at all. i rate & thanks a bunch!

You could do a ballerina theme or something in that category. Personally, i wouldn't want to put up something really basic like a certain dancer or painter because then if you don't like that person in a few months, you will have them on your wall.
Hope I helped!

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is hydrogen peroxide(sp?) ok to use to whiten your teeth? and if so, how do you do it, whats the best way to put it on, how long to you keep it on, etc....

also, would it be better to use before or after baces come off(i obiously have braces)

thanksss

It's completly safe to use, just DONT swallow it. Pour the hydrogen peroxide on your tooth brush and then put on some baking soda over it, then brush your teeth with it. Leave it on your teeth for at least two and a half minutes then rinse your mouth. After you finish brushing with that, brush again with regular toothpaste to get the taste out of your mouth. I think it is better to do it when you get your braces off. PS: Don't do this more then once a week.

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there is a girl and she does these really mean things to me and alls i do to her is be nice what should i do about her?

Obviously this means in some way she is jealous of you or wants attention from you. You should not try and do anything back just ignore her and eventually she will get the clue that you dont care. Hope I helped! Good Luck!

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How can you get pictures from a cell phone on a computer ?



Send all of you pictures to your email address in order for them to get on your computer. The problem is you will be charged for every picture!
Hope I helped!

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alright so i have liked this boy for a while and he knows and he has been giving me mixed signals lately. and i dont know if he likes me or not..so maybe you can help. so a couple of days ago we were all hanging out and me and my friend sam were sitting across from eachother and he comes over and is like move over to me. and everytime i sat down he would sit next to me.Like once we were sitting on a bench and i was between my friend sam and mark . And he was like mark move over when he could have sat next to mark. Than he told his friend that we were going out . But we werent? it was wierd. So yeah we were hanging out but towards the end of the night he kinda ditched me almost and hung out with 2 other girls . and thats when i got confused. So does he like me, is he leading me on, or what?! and what do i do? ILL RATE HIGH FOR GOOD ANSWERS! thanks for reading this

This sounds like something that my friend has experienced. What happened was the guy acted like he was crazy about her one day, then didn't really care for her the next. Other words he was playing with your emotions and that is what I think this guy is doing to you.
Sorry to say, you have to be the one to make the final call and decide whether he really is a guy that plays with your emotions or if he really is a keeper. Just make sure you don't go TOO crazy for him because you could possibly end up with your feelings majorly hurt. What to do is your desicion but just remember to think before you act. Good Luck ~ emily

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OK, im trying to lose weight around my theigh and ab area, so i was wonderin what diets actually worked, and i was hoping peole could give me like what to eat and not to eat and stuff..thank you very much, ill rate high for any useful info

I have read some of the answers on here and some are sorry but.. absurd! Only two meals a day? A person can't live like that. If you want to lose weight you CANNOT skip meals or it will mess up your system (you might not get all the nutrients you need etc).
Avoid a lot of sugary or carbonated drinks. Sunkist, Coke, and Dr. Pepper are some examples. Drink water or if you REALLY want something with flavor try lemonade.
Sometimes we think they are hungry when really all we need is water b/c we are thirsty. So before you go grab the junk food grab a glass of water then see if you are still hungry.
Eat three meals (!) but make sure they are not piled high with fat filled creamy things. Trade cheetos and donuts with apples with peanut butter or carrots with ranch or italian dressing.
Just eat more healthy and drink more water! Good luck!

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can anyone tell me how to make a facial mask?

**sleepiesheep**

You can get Neutrogena face mask/ facial cleanser. Its both... in the same thing. You can just put the cleanser on your face then leave it for like 15 minutes and it forms a facial mask. If you want it as a daily cleanser wash it with warm water and yeah yo get the picture lol. Good luck!

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ok im 13/f and i have a pimple. i know how to hide it but im not sure how to make it go away! please help!

**sleepiesheep**

If the pimple is huge, red, and, sorry but, disastrous you need to put Neosporin on it. Leave it on, go to bed, then in the morning it will have decreased it's size and redness A LOT. So it will be a small bump going away instead of a crisis.
hope things turn out spectacular!

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i am certainly not a fat girl, but i am not the skinniest either. i am pretty happy with the way i look, but i want to drop a few pounds/make my stomach flatter. i already know exercises for that & i do them every night, so that's not my problem. the real problem is that i am addicted to chocolate. i want to be able to eat some chocolate maybe once a week for dessert, but i wind up having it everyday, sometimes more then once a day. it's not like i am a horse eating until i pop, but i tell myself i am not going to eat it but then an hour later my mouth starts to water & i can't resist some. i need a way to stop this temptation. how can i take control & not give in to having chocolate? what works for you or other people you know? i need some good tips, so if you have an idea that would be great! thank you!

O my gosh it is scary you described me like just a few weeks ago. Scary... anyways. What I did to stop the temptation was drink a lot of water. That keeps you full. Sometimes when you think you are hungry and/or need somethign sweet to eat it really is just that you are dehydrated or thirsty.
Another thing is to STAY AWAY FROM CHOCOLATE. If you have any candy bars, little mini size snack ones, or any type of chocolate stash it away in a cupboard so it is out of sight. That decreases the temptation to eat it. When you see it it triggers the feelign YOU NEED IT!
Good Luck I hope things turn out () !!! e

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Hey guys,
I want to do my eyebrows so they don't look so like bad. Should i get them waxed? does waxing hurt? Is there a way I could maybe pluck my eyebrows at home and not have it hurt so bad? thnx much luv xoxoxoxox

Waxing is different for girls on the hurt scale. Soem girls have more sesitive of skin than other girls, therefore it hurts more. For some girls it doesn't hurt at all, actually.
Plucking hurts much more than waxing. Having to pluck one by one hurts. (TIP: If you follow along with the plucking plan though, numb the place you want to pluck with ice to help with the pain.)
Hope things turn out () !!! e

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I have acne on my forehead, chin, and right and left cheeks. This guy that I like tells me I have pimples and I'm like...umm ok? I want to get ride of them and i use BenzaClin and makeup and nothing seems to help. We have a four day weekend, and I have to go back to school on Monday and I want them to be gone by then! I rate high for good answers and I really want them to be gone by then. I really like this boy and I'm pretty sure he doesn't like me, and I'm flirtatious and anything so what am I doing wrong?



Basically, I wanna know how to get rid of my pimples, and how to get [lets call him S] to like me.
Thanks.
I RATE 5'S FOR HELPFUL ANSWERS

Buy Clearasil Face Wash. It really works... just do the directions on back and it will work. Since tomorrow is Monday I guess I'm a little late but I still hope I helped you with your pimple problem.
About the guy, just act yourself around him. You want him to like him for you. (If you just act yourself and he tells you you have pimples, say "Yeah, it's this thing that teenagers have. Acne. You have it to I've noticed." Haha do it if you want lol :P).

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This isnt a real love life kinda question but like ive heard that chewing gum actually makes your breathe stink? is that true?

Some gum does make your breath smell. If it's not Mint flavored or Winterfresh Mint (same thing lol) then your breath will stink... a lot. IREFO! E!

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alright, i'm 14 years old and i'm around.. 5'3" or possibly 5'4" and im about 106lbs. I'm just asking.. is that really skinny? I mean, I have like, real high metabolism ( both my parents have it ) and all my friends say I'm too skinny and that I need to gain some weight. I'm just having some trouble. How would I go about doing that? Cause I'm not gonna sit there and like, pig out till' i die. I just don't want people thinking i'm anorexic or something. I mean I'm really not that skinny. I think I'm averagley skinny. =/ I don't know. Please help.




Signed,
Sad to be skinny

Your friends might be jealous and just kidding with you OR your metabolism really is kicking in. I'd say that you should gain at least 5 more pounds and you would be VERY healthy. Just don't pig out all day, like you said lol.
IREFO! E!

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ok i need some help with these abbreviations(they do not have to do with each other) on eis O.P.P. and the other is A&F and the last one is V.D. if you any thatd be great. thanks♥

I know for sure that A&F is abercrombie and fitch as in the store lol... OPP I have NO idea and the same with VD.. . sry and i hope I helped some!

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I have this friend and she is so gorgeous. So many guys like her and she is always talking about how they stare at her and how so many people call her beautiful. I try to be nice, but i can't help it, i am so jealus of her. Sometimes i'll be really mean to her but i dont mean to be and i feel so bad. She's really nice to me, but but whenever i bring up a topic about myself, she'll change the subject and talk about a guy liking her. Is there any way i can stop being jealus of her and get her to listen to me? thanks in advance.

Conversation is the key to any relation. Haha anyways.. Talk to her. Tell her how you feel and why you feel that way. If you don' talk to her, this jealousy will get bigger and bigger and we don't want that.
I don't think there is a way to stop being jealous. Getting jealous is a fact of life- we all get jealous. Just remember that you shouldn't let this ruin your friendship.
Hope I helped! IREFO!

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