i just turned 17 years old ill be off to college in about 6 to 7 months .im a nice person im a good communicater.i want to answer peoples advices mainly because ive been through some things in my life too and wished during those times that someone could have giving me some advices.i well take your advice serious, only if your serious too .
Gender: Female
Location: northbabylon new york
Age: 17
Member Since: October 9, 2008
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I really, really, REALLY have a MAD crush on this guy in the 8th grade. I am in 6th grade! He barely talks to me, but sometimes he'll say "bye", help me cheat at cards, and one time he borrowed my pen without asking (because he knows he doesn't need to.. he's so cool!). I think he might like this girl but I hear they're just friends. Do you think that he thinks of me as "some kid"? How do I make him like me, even with the age difference? (link)
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sounds like he might have some feelings for you just try to find out its not like a little sister way or a friend.sometimes age matters even though its nothing but a number you cant be 7 years old dating a 13 year old if you know what i mean.and becareful because boys at that age are really interested in sexual activities your too young to lose your innecences boys dont like sluts so wait as long as you can.wish you the best of lucks.
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okay so im 17/f and my bf is 18/m and we tried to have sex but we didn't actually fully do it. we used a condom and he only put it in alittle and then took it out and he didnt cum or anything and it was over, but before that he was fingering me, so what are the chances of being pregant? cause im freaking out helpp (link)
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pretty slim did he have cum on his fingers is the question you should ask him.
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my boyfriend and I had unprotected sex and he didn't cum but I did. do you think I could be pregnant ? do boys feel it when they are about to cum ? please help !!! (link)
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boys do feel when there about to cum and can prevent that. you can also get pregnant form pre ejaculation which the man doesnt know when the pre cum is coming out .getting pregnant from pre cum is slim. i wouldnt worry as much calm down you can take a test in about a week .
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Okay so i've been talking to this guy, and everyone is telling me he is a jerk. So i dont judge someone before i get to know them and i've been talking to him for a while now. He is really sweet to me over texting and IMing and stuff like that, but in school he totally ignores me!
The other day i looked at him and smiled, and he looked the other way. When we were hanging out after school he didn't say one word to me.
He texted me then next day and said he was sorry and that his friends were distracting him.
I'm texting him now and he's being really sweet again. But i just don't know, cuz if i go out with this guy i dont want it to be just a texting relationship.
I'm not even sure if he likes me that way, It just made me wonder.
Help? (link)
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girl you just described a jerk to me your wasting your time you should move on before your feelings get all caught up.
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I'm 14,i jus turned 14 actually and at school im basically the biggest slut ever,but ive been trying to change that,well ever since i found out im pregnant.i used protection.i was on the pill,but i guess somehow i got pregnant but the worst part is i dont know who the father is and honestly it could be like 10 guys.no joke.im tryin to determine if i should just get an abortion and not tell my parents or tell them then get an abortion or tell them and have it or just have and dont tell them till its ready to come out!its such a difficult decision and lately my mom has been getting mad at me cause ive been eating so much food.please someone help me! (link)
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thats one of the worst things that can happen at this age.cause im sure your not ready for a baby your a baby yourself .well you made a couple of mistakes i hope you learned from this .as for what to do with the baby is completely your choice and only you can decide this.if you wait too long you might not be able to have an abortion and your parents will find out sooner are later cause your body is gonna go through some serious changes.good luck
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He used to like me alot and I kinda did too until he got annoying to me ((asking questions like if he can come to my house which i told him he cant n he keeps bothering me about it)) but when I told him I liked him, few days later he had a girlfriend. I cant believe I lost him just like that because I didnt give him a chance, please help me get him back to me. (link)
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honestly i think his the loser
if he cant take a simple no for an answer then his an idiot if i were you i would just ignore him maybe his with someone to get you jealous.his not worth it try to move on theres more and better guys just have to look harder.
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I like this kid in my school (I'm in 8th grade by the way so that may help) and im not so sure he cares much. He knows I like him and ive given him a few small presents for the sake of giving a present and he really liked I. So I don't know if he liked it because I gave it to him or because he said it looked cool.
Also I'm kinda hyper in school and really tomboyish and I like most guy things(e.g. Videogames shooting movies and hate the color pink) he knows I'm like that. But my real problem is he likes another person but just found out she doesn't like him. How do I ask him out without sounding desperate? (link)
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try to hang out with him by yourself first invite him to play video games with you are something then ask him out.
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Can you get pregnant from dry sex?
Even if you and your partner have underwear and pants on?
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nope its not possible.
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okay i'm a 16 year old female. i like watching porn. usually lesbian porn, but i'm straight. i like guys, but for some reason watching lesbian porn really gets me like horny and i "get off" if you will, from lesbian porn. is that weird? could i possibly be gay? (link)
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theres nothing weired with that at that age your experiencing.you could be bisexual or you could be straight your mind and body doesnt know which one yet
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Me and my boyfriend fool around and dry hump. and one day we were dumb and put two plastic bags over and did that bare and he went a little inside me but not far at all. and then we realized that the bags broke, but he didnt NOT cum and i dont even think there was precum on it cause we stopped and started a bunch. anyways, i missed my period by 2 days and i dont know if i should get a pregnancy test or not. I got it on November 18 last month, and now its Dec 20. I usually would get it on Dec 18, 31 days exactly after. However, last month i got it at midnight afer the 18th. I also got mono about a week after we did that. I had been not exercising for 2 weeks and started about a week ago. Maybe that would affect it?.
I know there is a CHANCE i could be pregnant(there always is), but what ARE the chances? (link)
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it depends how long you guys did it for i would say the chances are pretty low .late period can occur for numerous reasons stress,exciesing,change of diet etc i wouldnt worry yet .wait for a week if you still dont get your period take a test.next time be more careful everybody makes mistakes just make sure you learn from that.good luck
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okay, so ive nevert had a boyfriend, and ima 16/f.
sooo lately ive been wanting to be more than friends with alot of my guy friends, but i knowi dont really like them.
i just feel this way because i really want a bf.
does that make sense? so i get "hurt" alot, but its all my fault because i trick myself into liking them. i know it sounds like im a freak, but how can i get over this? (link)
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Ive been there theres nothing weired about it sometimes you can feel lonely and it always seems like everybody else has a man except you.try to distract yourself when you know that your doing it hang out with girl-friends instead of guys all the time and if you just wait a while things will fall in to place and your going to find your guy dont rush things that arent met to be.good luck
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15/f
i want to start wearing tampons, but i heard its not good to wear it when you dont have your period? because mine usually last arond 5 days and it kind of comes and goes, and i want to wear one without worrying if it's gonna come that day or not beucase im not sure.
thank you!
any advice if helpful! (link)
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well ive heared from my health teacher that you shouldnt leave one in for more than 6 hours.i would say make sure you change it regularly or else your fine.
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I'm 18/f, and I'm currently being pursued by my friend, let's call him Mike. I used to be head over heels for Mike, and about a year ago we hooked up once or twice. But then we drifted apart. Now he and I are hanging out a lot, and he keeps telling me how amazing and beautiful and smart he thinks i am.. and it's flattering and I really like, him.. except he's 25 years old, and that difference makes me feel uncomfortable.
When we hung out last he tried to kiss me, and I told him that I wasn't ready because I had just gotten out of a really bad relationship (that's true). I've kind of sworn off relationships, especially physical relationships. I'm not interested in sex anymore. He said he understood and he felt pretty bad, but I told him we could still be friends, and he said he was okay with that.
He still calls me every night and praises me constantly, telling me how much he likes me, asking when I'm free to hang out.. and I DO want to hang out with him, because he's a great friend, but I don't want to lead him on and make him think I want to date or get involved with him again.
What's the best way to handle this situation? I've already spoken about it to him honestly, and I don't want to start blowing him off or avoiding him.. help! Thank you!!
-YoungAndCelibate (link)
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be as honest as possible
maybe you guys should stop hanging out so much cause it only makes it harder.tell him you only see him as a friend and see no potential relationship.
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Over the summer, this guy and i were friends with benefits. i know friends with benefits are never a good thing but anyway.. a friend of mine told me he had been dating someone. So i stopped talking to him to get him out of the picture. Well, i haven't talked to him in about 2 months and he texted me tonight saying that he missed me and how he wanted me to come over soon. I don't miss him, just doing things with him. I asked him about his girlfriend and he just said "yeaaah we can keep it between us" so i said umm ill think about it. so should i do it? i don't know the girl at all that hes dating so i wouldnt feel bad at all about that. (link)
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friends with benefits always become complicated when theres more then two people involve good thing you have no feelings for this guy.obviously he has no respect for girls his treating you like your a sex object i dont know if you up for that but, what about the other girl think she has feelings too things like that can really distroy people .how would you feel if you really liked a guy and found out he was messing around with another girl.think before you act if i were you i would just ignore him.
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I've been knowing my boyfriend since august. we FINALLY just started goin out thxgiving.
he's not a virgin.
I am.
I think he's attempted to finger me, but I've stopped him before because we weren't going out yet.
I've finnally did STUFF w/ other ppl before we went out. it was fun. lol.
howww do I get him to do stuff? Just straight up tell him? or when were kissing just go for it? as you know it took him 4 months to ask me out, & also he took forever to even kiss me!!
* and I am comfortable with him & we can talk about anything. this is a little new to me though. thaanks. (link)
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well when you guys are making out you start by touching him first then if he didnt get the hint put his hand between your legs or on your breat .best of luck
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Hey guys I'm 14/f and I need a lot of help.
So I met this guy a while ago, let's call him Dan. I've hung out with him twice and my friend Sydney's house in a group, he goes to a different school thats kind of far away but we've been texting constantly ever since. Well, he asked me if he wanted me to come to his house on Friday. And I was like more than excited. But my mom isn't letting me!! She doesn't want me at a guys house alone. I keep explaining to her that the parents are going to be there but she won't listen. She only wants me to hang out with him in groups but that's a little hard considering I don't know his friends and Sydney is away for the weekend. Ugh, I know he's a good kid and I trust him more than ever but my mom is being so annoying =( I want to go so badly. I mentioned if it was okay if we went to the mall or movies or something but she still keep saying "No, Not alone, only in a group" I can't take it! I'm 14 for crying out loud! I'm going to be 15 soon! Ugh, please help how do I convince her? And what do I tell him? He's going to think I'm so lame if I tell him "Oh yeah I can't come over because my mom doesn't like me at guys houses" So please help me =( I can't take this. All my friends go to guy's houses alone all the time and all of them have guys over alone too. I keep telling her that but she just says she doesn't care. UGH. So please help with those two questions. Thanks! (link)
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your mom is right you can never trust someone all the way who knows he might just want sex so wait till your friend come back and try to convince your mom to let you go.just tell him you have plans for now and give him a date to when you guys can hang out if he really cares he wont like you less.
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If you have se at 15 can the boy get arrested even if he was 15 also? Im not having sex but people say they can go to jail for 20 years and stuff..... (link)
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if both of you are 15 you cant go to jail if his older than 18 and your 15 he can.
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So my boyfriend loves sex, i mean what guy doesn't don't get me wrong i love sex to hah, a lot. Lately i have been thinking though i mean i love sex but i watch these movies and shows and stuff and the movies have the people 'making love' not having 'sex'. I've been thinking about it more and more and i want to make love so bad. My boyfriend is the kinda guy that talks dirty and stuff during sex, i don't know how to explain what im trying to say but i guess i just want to be more romantic then it is i mean the sex is great its just i want to feel that romantic connection that i see on movies and such with making love. My boyfriend likes doing everything and anything and he just doesn't seem like he would be the romantic kind during sex he's more like the 'porn star' kind. IM sorry i don't know how to explain this.. i love my boyfriend and i know he loves me i just want to feel more connected when we have sex instead of just fucking and then thats it, like we don't really say much after we just put our clothes on and thats it hah. How can i get my boyfriend to be more connected? What should i do about this? Any advice? (link)
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I know what you mean and you explained it correctly you should explain it the same way to him .it seems like you want it slow and you want to be told i love you and your beautiful while having sex and after that lay there and just talk fall asleep in each others arm.
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ok i have been like freaking lately because everyone says i have a big butt. and i dont want a big butt. but does that mean im fat? should i start dieting? i've tried but its reeealy hard lol :( im 16 and like 5 feet n 5 inches tall and weigh about 133 pounds. please tel me if you think i should start watching wat i eat oh and by the way im a athlete, a figure skater but i ahvent been skating that much and i keep eating alot so im worried im gunna gain alot of wieght and i realy dont want that to happen. :( (link)
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wow your size is perfect dont worry i take having a big butt as a compliment i would think that you would want a little shape and not want to be a stick figure .i think your weight is fine its always great to excercise for a healthy heart but dont starve yourself go the healthy way.good luck
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list some of your guys favorite songs! mostly slow rock kind of songs about love and heartbreak! (link)
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order in ,play video games ,rent a movie .
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