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Q: ok.. i am overweight and i eat like.. unhealthy foods.. well.. i want to eat salads when i am in school.. but i mean.. since im overweight people might make fun of me for eating a salad.. or anything healthy.. so i just dont eat.. i want to eat something healthy.. but i dont want people to laugh and dont say.. 0h.. just be happy with urself.. bla bla bla.. only if u know what to do.. write back.. ill rate you go0d

>>oVeRwEiGhT

dont care about what other people say this is a great decision i say eat healthy food its good for you
hope i helped
..*..MarissA..*..

Q: okay im not fator anything..im only 105 BUT like my stomach is so weird looking like its thin and tight then like rigt under my belly button theres this huge buldge..i hate it..how do i get rid of this? cuz like it looks so nasty its like all skinny then BAM this buldge/roll thing under my belly button..HELP!

sit ups and another form of situps where you lay on your back with your legs in the air either crossed or together then lift your legs up you butt should go up too and do that however many times you want
hope i helped
..*..MarissA..*..

Q: ok i like this guy, and i have off n on for like a year. well now were talking n stuff n im starting to like him again but everyone makes fun of me cause i keep on going back to him everytime. i dunno if i should try and get over him because they all say i can do betta or like him n hope things work out this time. hit me up plzzz!

~confused

okay the question i want to ask you is do you think he likes you and do you think this off an on relationship is worth it because if he likes you then i say keep with him but if you know he doesnt for sure like hes told you he likes someone else then you can still like him im not telling you not to but i think you should maybe expand out to liking other people but if your heart keeps going back to him then maybe it was meant to be but im thinking unless this guy is like totally perfect then hes going to do or say something that is going to be a huge turn off for you all guys do it
hope i helped send me something if you need more help
..*..MarissA..*..

Q: ok. well i live here in a town called fresno. fresno is a town of really down to earth, cool people. most people aren't really wealthy, which means theres hardly any stuck up snobby people etc.

well.. now im moving to the town next to fresno, called clovis. and clovis is a really nice town. home to people living in MILLION dollar homes. a lot of wealthy people living in that town. so.. theres definetly gonna be snobby rich b**tches there.. and i dont mix well with those kinds of people. meaning, i dont like them lol.

i dont totally have anything aginst them tho, thats just not the type of people i like to hang with or be around..

so of coarse. im going to the school there called buchanan. so like.. im really worried that im not going to make friends because i dont care for rich snobbs which is mainly what the school is made of.

WHAT DO I DO??? how do i make friends..

love, manda

hey im marissa i live in fresno california too i would liek to talk to you more cuz you seem really cool but buchanan is a good school dont worry i live near it but im goign to clovis west like amanda well the other one that posted shes one of my fantastic friends!! okay buchanan people are nice you just have to meet the right crowd for you most of the popular people are nice but some can be mean im not trying to scare you but yea its mostly the boys that are rude but then there are the hott boys wow they have some good lookers over there! ha but yea if you want to talk you can IM me on AIM at dressmeNdiam0nds (im not stuck up) or you can send me something in my inbox!!
..*..MarissA..*..

Q: My hair is too plain and i am going back to school soon and i want something different then just in a pony tail does any body have step by step hair tips to give me a better look?
i am desperate!!!!

okay well there are the basics
down and straight
down and scrunched
down and curled
half up half down straight
half up half down curly
crimped or scrunched
then you have your ponytail curled crimped straight w/e
or you could go with a bun
and if you want other stuff then you could always buy a hair magazine or even online there are some hairstyles
hope i helped
..*..MarissA..*..
send me something if you need more help

Q: okay i have this guy friend and see i dont know if i like him because i havnt seen him in a while and he gave me a hug today and i liked it and then he told me he got a girlfriend and i got mad does that mean i like him?

could mean you like him or it could mean your just jealous cuz he has someone and maybe you dont? but if you like felt some connection was there when you hugged him then you probably like him
hope i helped
..*..MarissA..*..

Q: ok now i wear thongs and i am kinda the one in skool that no one reallys notices. this is my last year of junor high and i want to be noticed. i want to sit down and have my thong hang out but then i have second thoughts bout it and chicken out. wheat can i do and is it ok if i do this?? plz help me

*~I RATE REALLY GOOD~*

you dont have to have your thong showing to get people attention. if you want the guys to notice you then flirt and talk to them mayeb once in a while show some thong but you dont have to do it

Q: I met this guy online. I have been takling to him for like 8 months. I like him and he likes me. We live in diffrent states. What should i do!?

okay make sure hes not some physco killer thats like 45 pretending to be 13 and then if you think you both can handle a long distance relationship i say go for it
hope i helped
..*..MarissA..*..

Q: ok well i have this one friend well she's more like my best friend but anyways there was some bad shit going on in my family and i didn't know how to handle it and well so i cut. and i meen now she's soooo mad at me for doing that when i told her i would neevr do it again like 50 times. but it just helps you feel better! what should i do i really don't want to loose my friend anymore then i alreayd have!

okay well i have a question how does it feel good to make yourself bleed and put scars on your body? and i understand how she is mad at you but you just have to tell her what was going on and well what i would say was it was the wrong thing to do but you might not think that so just tell her what you feel
hope i helped
..*..MarissA..*..

Q: my bf and i have been together 4 2 yrs now.. we love eachother completly and we trust eachother and all.. my parents r really strict and they dont noe im wit him! i found out tat my bf is going to another skool so he can improve his grades.. n i really dont mind i meen i do cuz im not gunna see him as much but i trust him and he told me tat no matter wat we r gonna b together.. he said tat we could see eachother during the weekends n stuff but i dnt think ill b able to see him tat much and i donno im scared about the whole thing.. any advice would b helpful.. tanx

first thing i have to say is you very good at keeping things hidden i cant lie about a b/f to my parents but if you want to see him on weekends your going to have to tell them or find a way to sneak around and see eachother
i probably didnt help that much but good luck
..*..MarissA..*..

Q: my eye has been twitching lately!! ts gotton worse!! like its my eyelid, sometimes my eyebrow, and below my eye...not all @ once but its only in my right eye...u cant see it but i can feel it..i told my mom but she didnt really think nothin of it...wat does this mean??

i think it means your tired thats what my doctor said mine was it was on my right eyelid
hope i helped
..*..MarissA..*..

Q: In the 3rd grade i used to always hand out wit this boy and i liked him to death. he liked me 2 this might sound childish but plz listen, he moved nad i did see him again until a few weeks ago.And i walked past him and he said hi gloria (my mom) and to me he said..."uhhhhhhh what is ur name"!! I was sooooooo mad! what the heck is goin in?

well what i am wondering is how long ago was the 3rd grade cuz if it was like 4 years ago then well of course he wouldnt recognize you you probably changed alot and usually your parents dont that much

Q: is your eye doctor supposed to tell you which contact solution to use or can you use whatever you want??

it kinda depends on the contacts your using but if you like using regular clear lenses then mostlikely no you can just get w/e but if you have like clear day n nights then those use a special one i think

Q: Can someone get pregnant from pre-cum?

absolutly if your trying to use the pullout before he cums it wont work cuz well obviously you know about pre-cum but yes you can get pregnant from pre-cum cuz well its still cum

Q: theres this guy that wants to go out with me...i havent said yes or no yet. i sit right next to him in one of my classes too and ive talked to him and stuff b4 but hes not like a good guy friend of mine or n e thing and idk if i even really like him. and i sorta like this other guy and want to find out if he likes me and if so wants to go out..would it be mean of me to do that??

all you have to do is tell the other guy that asked you out is that you dont know him that well and you dont really like him in that way and the you like someone else then you are free to go after the other guy
goodluck
..*..MarissA..*..

Q: how do u change ur password again i forgot b/c i havent been on this in like forever!
please help!
xoxo
sweetheart00

go to profile settings on the left hand side
..*..MarissA..*..

Q: What can i do to be more popular in school...i have soo many friends but i just wanna b a lil more poplular....and guys give ur true and honest answer dont give me a "full house" answer please.....help me out!

really if you have soo many friends right now just do what your already doing try to meet more people just show them you its obviously working for you already

Q: hey i like my 2nd best friend hes also my best friends ex b/f should i like him or should i froget about him she says its ok but is she really ok with it