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Location: from texas, live in maryland
Occupation: student
Member Since: August 9, 2004
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Last Update: September 10, 2005
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does anyone know how to get bleach OUT of clothing? like if you get Clorox bleach on a dark blue tshirt or something?? thnx so much !!:) (link)
you can't silly.


Do any girls know of anything I can do to get rid of cramps? Im having them really severely and its hard to move. Thanks. (link)
birth control.


Here lately, my boobs have been hurting REALLY bad. Like in skool and volleyball practice when i run they REALLY hurt. I have had unprotected sex before, so could this mean im pregnant or something? I mean, it hasnt even been a month since i had sex last, so would i be able to tell yet or still have to wait. or will ur boobs hurt when u get pregnant?

Please help!! Im only 14 by the way.. (link)
it might mean that you about to get your period. or you re growing.


Okay my little brother is sooo picky when it comes to eating. he doesnt eat meat what so ever. he lives off of chips and captain cruch cerial! Oh and I cant forget about candy! My point being is he eats all this junk and hes not chubby for his age and height. I know hes only 7 years old but still how can u NOT be chubby and eat junk food everyday. Its not like he runs around cuz hes always in the house playing video games haha. Here I am busting my butt off trying to lose weight because im 16 yrs old weigh 115 lbs and im 5'4". How is this? Should I be a vegitarrian like him? (link)
your not over wieght


Im in 7th grade, at Pontiac Jounior High and im having problems--My figure is my heads oval, Im REALLY skinny, im fit, i have green eyes blonde hair and im a white person. I need to noe wat to were to school (not uniforms) OO yeah im noot tall and not short so i guess im average. Im not ugly im really pretty, but iono wat to were my make up, jewlery, my hair. If u could please help me...i need ur help!!

*Baffled Beauty* (link)
jesus christ. youre concieded.


ok well, me nd my mom fite constantly and i dont no what 2 do! its liek she never wants 2 help me out at all, if she drives me 2 my friends house one day i'll b hearing about it 4 the next 2 weeks. my friends parents always offer 2 drive me places ebcuase my mom wont, it makes me so upset that i have 2 ask other peoples moms 4 rides when my own mom wont. and my dad works alot but he'll drive me 2 my friends and stuff more then my mom will and he works ALOT more than her. and its usmmer so i have 2 stay home with my sister until 3 when my mom gets home but then shes always like im 2 tired blabalbal. i just dont no it may make me sound kinda selfsish but im reelie not its jsu like my omm never wnats 2 help me at all. i dont no what 2 do, and i get so upset sow e end up yelling at each other and i get in even more trouble, please help. (link)
learn how to use the bus.


what is the best way to get a babysitting job? (link)
post flyers int he neighbor hood. it actually works. seriously.


Does anyone know how to save the XANGA skins on ur site? If you do PLEASE help! THank you! bye (link)
push save or change at the end.


ive never had acne , i have about 2 zits a month. but latlely ive been getting zits like all over my body! my chest, my back, my legs..whats with this? (link)
i dono but if it is acne, use seabreeze astrigent. it dries up the oils and stuff. altho if it is acne but like little bumps, then you can use lac hydrin 5. its a cream that is usually carried at CVS. ifd it isnt, you can order it from them.


i want to sleep with this guy, im a vrigin and im lil nerveous but i know im ready should i?
i rate good (link)
NO DONT DO IT. NO NO NO. SAY NO. NO.


i hate boys...why do they feel the need to tear out my heart and rip it to pieces?! >:0 :( (link)
they are losers.


Ok im really attracted to my friend and he's a guy and i really think he's hot but idk how 2 tell him how i feel or even if he's gay. Please help i am a 14 and im a guy please help! (link)
instead of asking, Are you gay? dance around the question. for instance, do you know anyone whose gay? that way if he isnt gay he wont never talk to you again.


I am really trying to cut down on the snacks for when school starts. Unfortunately, I work in an icecream shop... for about 5 hours at a time...ugh...any tips on how to stop myself from eating the icecream I crave? (link)
sucking on ice cuts back cravings. and its free. and you can get it at an ice cream shop.


ill be 15 in dayz an last year i wen ta this new skool an when i tried out 4 basketball an made it this rummor got started that i had "did it" wit the coach ta make the team.. when of course i ddin

now this new year even before skool started..
there is now a rumor that i did it wit this dude i wen out wit las year named Criag when i didn an every1 belives it..
i donno what to do bc im not a hoe like that i mean he was my 1st kiss
an all these ppl belive i did it. how can i make it stop.. how can i jus get thro it (link)
15 in dayz eh?
HA what is it with people and those stupid rumors. honeslty. everyone who heard them probably realize they arent true. BUT in a pathetic attempt to be one of the crowd and not in the rumors they belivev and spread. HONESTLY people.. they dont have lives anymore. so i say. poo on them. and make friends somewhere else. make sure that when they make fun of you or something that you make it clear to them that it doesnt bother you. it really helps alot to stop.


I'm 15 years old & have been with my boyfriend for a few months. He's not a virgin and he's done sexual things with many girls. He told me he was ready to have sex whenever I was. I feel like I don't live up to his old girlfriends and that I'm such a good girl - being a virgin & unexperienced. I'm a little scared to have sex but when will I know I'm totally ready and mature enough to do it? Is it that wrong to not be sexually experienced at 15? (link)
no you should wait. besides your young. and youve only been seeing your boyfriend for a few months. NO WAY JOSE. ew. lets all go back to elementary school days. EW BOYS HAVE koooDIES.


i rlly dont wanna go to school tomorrow...i get made fun of, but thats not the point. i just wanna make myself throw up one time. ill never do it again..is that really bad? (link)
DONT DO IT. OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG. OMG x a billion.


ok ill be 15 in like dayz.. an i swtiched skoolz this las past year (in a middle of 8th grade) an when i switched skools.. all these girlz like started hated on me 4 no reason.. an they all wanna like beat me up an jump me.. still an its a new year comin up. I dunno what ta do because they wont leave me alone.. help please?

lost an confused (link)
is this the same person who asked the lastquestion? WELLL.the chances of them actually beating you up is quite slim. sooo. dont worry aboout them. in fact IGNORE THEM. thats rite. POOF. they arent in youre life anymore. and now you have no worries. unless you wrote the last ?


You all have helped me with answerin my questions.. but this one is kinda difficult.. All your advice has helped alot.. but I can't picture myself with out my EX kevin.. But when I think about it i'd be better off with someone else.. Kevin is a great guy and I still love him so much.. he tells me all the time that he still loves me but I don't no if i can believe it! I don't know what to do.. I don't know if I should just forget about Kevin and move on or If I should give kevin anonther chance..

HELP ME PLEASE!

*~SO LOST AND CONFUSED~* (link)
mmm. my favorite saying is. INNOCENT UNTIL PROVEN GUILTY. therefore, unless theres a reason to believe that he doesnt actually love you. you shold believe him. INNOCENT INNOCENT INNOCENT!


Ook lately my friends havent asked to do like anything with me. They barely do. And i know theyre all good people and they dont particularly not like me but i invite people placez plenty of times and the invites i get back? Slim and few. Plus my best friends being.. well obviously not herself. My schools too small and I wouldnt leave them anyway... talking to them has proved impossible. so wat do i do. (link)
id just invite myself to these events. so what. JUST GO ANYWAYS.


I have this boyfriend who is really tight with my best friend. My boyfriend also has a best friend who used to go out with my best friend. I know it's confusing, but all 4 of us used to be so tight and everything. Now it's only me and my boyfriend because my best friend & my boyfriends best friend broke up and everythings so messed up. I know they still have feelings for eachother. What can I do to get all 4 of us back together like old times? (link)
bribe.




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