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i am an active girl who is part tom-biy, and can be a prep sometimes (but barely) i love to hang out with my friends whenever i can, but don't always get the chance. i like making my friends happy and my enemies sad. (lol, jk)

E-mail: farmerine@aol.com
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Location: new jerey, usa
Age: 13
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my mom gets pissed when i leave stuff at school. we have an email program at our school, where our teachers can email us homework. Well my teacher sent m e somethign and i dont have the book, because i didnt know what the homework would be, untill i checked my email onc ei got home, so what should i do? (link)
borrow a book from a friend or get it faxed or something....
g'luck!


okay so my boyfriend goes to a different school than i do and hes a grade older than me .. but im going to his homecoming but idunno whut to wear .. obviously ik a dress but i dont wanna be liek too dressed up but not dressed up enough. because if hes wearing liek a tux and im just wearing a skirt or im wearing liek this gown and him to wear liek normal clothes. idunno iwould feel gayy. =) thnxz i rate high (link)
ask him wat the attire is and there ur answer!
ta da


Kay well like im a cheerleader and every cheer leader has a big sis/ little sis. Every game we get eachother a little cute gift that has to do with like who we are playing sooo we are playing the Panthers...and i have no clue what to do!! HELP please!! thanks much babes : ) (link)
get a little beanny baby panther or something cutre like that


well you see i'm a mom of a 5 year old and he never leaves. and lately me and my husband have been wanting to have sex. and we're a very loud couple if you know what i mean. what do i do? (link)
get a babysitter and then go to a hotel room


wut is a 3 sum? (link)
when 3 people have sex at the same time


Ok so yesterday i was raped =(....but see the thing is i dont know how to tell my parents....or anyone. I kind of feel embaresed that it happend and idk. But should i tell them and how should I tell them.
thank you soo much (link)
you should be straight forward and tell them who did it. it is REALLY serious, and you shouls probably tell the cops also.
-dorinflower55


Both my friend and I have short thicker (thighs, but not massive but we have to go to a party that requires everyone to wear burmuda shorts. I wanted to know where I can find ones that would be more apt to fit our type, at a fairly reasonable price. Places like Kohls or Foleys or where? Thanks!:) (link)
you can get them at the gap or old navy, also any store that sells clothes, will sell them. have fun!
-dorinflower55


My good friend is having a pool party tomorrow and she invited many people to go. One of the people going is her boyfriend. I don't think I have ever hated anyone more than I hate her boyfriend. He treats me like shit, he treats HER like shit and they honestly make me sick when I see them together. I originally wasn't going to go because of the fact that he was going to be there, but then my friend Cara convinced me to go as well as my boyfriend. I made the decision not to go because I don't want to start anything with them. I know everyone is going to be there to have a good time, and I want to have fun but I CANNOT have fun if he is near me. I can't even begin to describe how much I loathe her boyfriend. I sort of feel bad that I'm not going but I know I'm making the right choice in staying home because I don't want to ruine it for anyone else just because I'm going to be misterable. But my question is, do you think I should go anyway? She really wanted me to go but I seriously will not be able to keep my anger inside if I see them together. (link)
well if u r rele gonna ruin her party then don't go, but if she is a good friend then you should go anyway. what you can do is just say hi to her in the begining and then try aviodin them and hanging out with your bf and stuff, i'm sure there are other people there. if he rele gets on your nerves then you can leave and tell the friend that you don't feel good.
-hope i heplped!-good luck!
--dorinflower55


i would like to get a haircut.unfortunately, i'm not too sure what would look good on me. does anyone know a website where i could upload a picture and see how i look with different hairstyles. thank you. :+hugs+: (link)
try going on google.com/images and then inm the space type in hair styles or haircut. you could look in magazines and then look at random people. if you wanna be like an actress or someone famous, then look at google.com/images and type in there name.
-hope i helped!--god luck!
-dorinflower55
(if you give me your e-mail then i could e-mail you some stuff, but only if you want!)
:)


do foster homes keep brothers and sisters together (link)
sometimes, but not always-alot of times they are separated.


My boyfriend and I had sex a few weeks ago and I was due to get my period today. I still haven't gotten it. We didn't use a condom, but we didn't finish either. He was only in me for a few seconds, not even a minute. Is there any chance that I could be pregnant? I'm showing all my regular signs of PMS, but still no period. (link)
take a pregnancy test


urgh i hate this! it feels like my jaw is gonna fall out like in the grudge! i can't open my mouth really wide to eat because it feels like theres an extra bone there that isn't allowing me to open my mouth any further, and if i chew it feels like my jaw is like cracking.. like it kinda feels like when you crack your knuckles. anyway this really hurts so does any of you have any advice on how i can deal with this? thanks in advance i really appreciate this
(link)
go to the dentist


ok..so our Spring Formal is Tonight...i have a dress but it looks like an easter dress...its pale pale pink with lace like over it and its strapless and has an attached ribbon around the waist...i want a new dress but we dont have any money because my brother wrecked the car (we gotta pay for that) and were goin to NY is there any way that i could make this dress look more spring-like??...i rate thnx (link)
try making it a mini-cut it short, about knee lenght or shorter... and if you do your hair cute then that could help. jewlery can change the outfit (even cheep jewlery that looks expensive but is not)
i think u will look great!
-tell me how it goes!
-hope i helped!-have a blast!
--dorinflower55


ok so tonights our big Spring Formal and I have no idea how to do my hair..an i cant get it done anywhere cuz everyones booked...so any cute, easy, do-it-yourself hairstyles is what i want...pics would help(if possible)..=]..thanks i rate (link)
you could put your hair in a high ponytali and then curl all of it-put a lot of mouse tho...or if your hair is to short you can put 2 tiny strips nd tie them in the back of your head...
-have fun at the party!
-hope i helpes!- good luck!
--dorinflower55


hi there can you help me out
there is this boy i like, and we have so muc in common , i later found out that ne of my so called friend has been saying things that arent true, giving boys my numbers that i don't want and the one that i want found out and thinks its true when it is not. my so called friend i found from a source that she is going out with the boy that i really like and they are moving abroad after her degree what should i do?
she never ever came to me, to let me know, because she knew before hand that i like him (link)
i think ur friend is not a good friend at all and that you should go to the guy and tell him that you never liked the other guy in the first place. You should tell him bad stuff about her or do what she did back to her (if you like revenge). If not tell her that she is mean and should not do that again, and do yourself a favor win the guy back and don't ever talk to HER again...
-hope i helped!-good luck!
--dorinflower55


hi i need to find pictures for homework like..pictures of a normal liver and a liver affeccted by alcohol, or a regular heart and an alcohol affected heart, or just any organs like that. my project is due tomrorow and i need some pics! thanks! (link)
google.com/images


well i had these two friends and they are trying to make me and my really good friend to fight. what should I do? (link)
ditch them-they r NOT worth it
-hope i helped!-good luck!
--dorinflower55


O.K., Im thinking about downloading AIM onto my computer, but Im afraid it will give me a virus. If I get a virus my parents will KILL me! Does anyone have it and can tell me whether its ever given you a virus or someone you know? Thanks! All my friends have it and they've never gotten viruses before, but I need to make sure. THANKS! (link)
i have it for a long time now and i still don't have a virus so i think ur chances are low...
-hope i helped-good luck!
--dorinflower55


My best friend has a really bad headlice problem. At school you can see them all in her hair! and the problem is i dont like hugging her because i feel shes going to pass them onto me. What can i do please help?? Shes had them for ages since ive known her mabe even before that.
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try to tell her nicely to get a hat..or try some special shampoo against lice. ask your doctor if they have any cure
-hope i helped!-good luck!
--dorinflower55


Hi. I am 13 years old and I am on the computer a loottttt. All of a sudden things started blanking out when I was on the computer. You know how if you stare straight you can still see things on the right and left of you? Well on my left eye, I cant really see anything to my left when I'm looking straight. Its like blurry. And if I focus on something for example this word....dog.... if I focus on the g the d a o dissapear and then theres only a g with a white backround there. Basically when I focus on anything everything around disappears. And when I stare straight I cant see my arm. Its just not there. But it really is I just cant see it. So, I cant really see anything unless I focus on one thing. And if I watch tv and for instance if I see a face, I cant see their body. Its really weird, and Its hard to explain. Do you think I'm going blind? If I went to an eye doctor what would they do? This is VERY scary and its really freaking me out! Help me please!!! This has never happend before. (link)
well, i am no doctor but i know that you are not cing normal...i think u should definetely go to a doctor and c what's going on...it can b serious or it might not b, please tell me when u find out!
-hope i helped-good luck!
--dorinflower55




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