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1. can you get stds from a guy if you give him a bj and hes a virgin and hes never done anything sexual with any other girl besides you?
2. also can you get hpv from giving a bj (b/c i know that some guys are born with it)?
3. andd i know that hpv causes cervical cancer.. but is that only if you have sex or can you get cervical cancer from getting hpv through giving a bj???
thanks!! xo (link)
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You can contract STD's from ANY body fluids - including fluids exchanged during oral sex. Even if the guy hasn't "done anything" (according to him), the best thing to do is get tested. You can both go down to the local health department where they can test for STD's and give you protection (And yes, a guy still needs to use protection for oral sex) I see that you are at least thinking about some of the physical risks, but have you thought of the emotional risks?
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Ok so latley ever scince my friend has gotten a computer in her room shes been on it non stop. Shes talking to people she dosent know. Like theres this online chat room and shes on it EVERY night for hours and hours. She even has a boyfrind on there, its really sad and im starting to be scared for her. And latley me and my other friend have been feeling the negitive effects of it by getting blown off. She claims shes too busy becuase of her going to the pool but we know the real reason why. And everytime we would bring it up to her about her not hanging out with us or how much shes on the computer she gets all defensive and gets all pissed at us. does anyone have any advice on this becuase its been a whole almost 2 weeks of summer vacation and she still has yet to hung out with us. anyone have any advice that could help us out becuase we miss her and i just have a feeling something bad is about to happen soon and i dont know what to do..
thankss a lot:]♥ (link)
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Okay, first of all you are seeing ALOT of red flags with your friend - cutting off friendships, obsessive computer use, on-line "boyfriend", defensive. These are all signs that she may be being exposed to an on-line predator!! They tell her everything she wants to hear and prey on her weaknesses. The best thing to do - and I don't want to sound all after-school special, but - is to talk to an adult you trust (Her parents if possible). Send her and her parents a link on signs of an on-line predator. If it ends up being a predator, your friend could be in some SERIOUS trouble. Speak up now. Even if it means trouble for your friendship now, it beats her being in serious danger and you losing her permanently.
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ok well yesterday i graduate middle school. and my best friend and i are going to different high schools. people all assume we're a couple because we're practically glued at the hip but he told me he didnt like me like that but ive always liked him. problem with him is he gives a lot of mixed signals. so i was talking to him on msn and he had to go. i said "wow im not gonna see you at school tomorrow anymore. its so weird.." then he said "i know...i love you" and i said "i love you too". the he said "we sure say a lot for not a couple...some major questioning is to be done." what does that mean? i really have no idea what he meant. and i told him i dont like him anymore. so he doesnt think i still do. and i know its time to move on and just be friends but what did he mean by that? thanx (link)
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If you guys are as close as you say you are - ask him. Say that you don't want to risk your friendship, but your feelings run deeper. You are willing to respect his decision, but if he wants to be just friends, then he doesn't need to lead you on.
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What can I do to get over my strange newfound jealousy of my boyfriend watching porn? Before, I never had a probelm with it, but lately I have. I don't know what my problem is. (link)
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This shows that there is something else about your relationship that is making you insecure. Tell your boy to lay off the porn and concentrate a little more on you. Participating is way better than watching!! (THIS IS ONLY IF YOU ARE OF LEGAL ADULT AGE AND IN A COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP - USE PROTECTION (THERE ARE STD'S AND PREGNANCY RISKS EVEN WITH PROTECTION)REMEMBER THAT YOU ARE LINKED FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE TO WHOMEVER YOU ARE INTIMATE WITH - DON'T LET IT COME BACK TO HAUNT YOU.
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i feel like im ugly or i am too pushy or my standards r too high...idk i have only started dating when i was in 5th grade the longest relationship i have been in has only lasted 3 months.....now i had a bf that i really loved and really cared about and i still do but he didn't want to be tied down cas basically he wasn't finished fooling around and well our relationship lasted 3weeks and 1day i still having feelings for him and i tryed goin out with other ppl but it just didn't work out i don't know what to do.
so basically i am asking what should i think about if i want to have a long lasting relationship and how should i act towards a guy?
plzz answer asap (link)
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The first thing you should do is back off. The be-all end-all is not having a boyfriend. Although you seem like you like this guy, you seem more concerned on having a long relationship. Take a little hint from the guy -have a little fun first. You have the rest of your life to be settled down. (This does NOT mean be promiscuous)And, just maybe, when this guy sees what a fun RELAXED person you are, you might be able to start a relationship again. Start out having fun and let the relationship develop naturally for seriousness, otherwise it's not worth it.
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Okay, I've been living with my seeing things and a slight fear of the dark and almost any noise you could possibly imagine for the last few years. Lately though, it's getting worse and my paranoia has reached amazing levels, I also tend to be more aggressive about it. I've talked to my friends James, Casey, and Travis about it. Travis & Casey know alot about mental disorders and suggested that I am schizophrenic. Lately it's all getting worse. I'm frightened all the time, of almost everything, and not just at night either. Someone give me some advice? Anything would help. Thank you so much.
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FYI - Signs and Symptoms of Schizophrenia Include:
Sleep problems
Social isolation
Hyperactivity or inactivity
Inability to concentrate
Hostility
Paranoia
Unusual emotional reactions
Deterioration in personal hygiene
Unusual sensitivity
You need to talk to your parents and family doctor if your fears are escalating. Regardless of your diagnosis, they can help you get this under control before it takes over your entire life.
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Female Age 14
Okay i have this ex boyfriend and his girlfriend. i mean i dont hate her or anything but then i got along with her just fine. Then the next thing i know her brother shows up 2 my school saying that he wanted to meet me. he said i was going to kill him i guess because his sister is going out with my first boyfriend. I still like him but i dont care if he is going out with someone as long as we can still be friends. But then after i meet her brother, Her and my ex both blocked me off of myspace. But i dunno why they did that and i dont know what should i do..... I need advice please! Thanks in advance. (link)
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Apparently your ex-boy, his new girl, AND her brother thrive on drama. The best thing to do is stay away from all three. It is never going to be comfortable and the new girl will never like you - meaning she will constantly bad mouth you to her brother. He's already involved otherwise he wouldn't have met you and said that you "were going to kill him" for his sister dating your ex. Let them be petty - you won't ever change them. Not worth your time or energy - move on.
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Okay im 16/f to start off =]
My problem is that I am so insecure.
Like I know that my bf wont cheat on me, well I don't know like 100% because well... here is my reason.
Like this person i know told me a story about this really really handsome and well mannered Lawyer and he turned out to be a serial killer
Like its completely unthinkable but it happened ya know?
So that's the problem. I hear all these weird stories, especially see on tv about how her husband stabbed her like over 20 times when they were married happily and had 3 kids.
also all those stories and shows on how guys cheats on their girlfriends.
I know those are some psychos and weirdos out there doing that, but I can't help but to wonder about those things.
I mean don't get me wrong, I love my boyfriend, Okay we been only going out for couple months but we were best friends before going out and known eachother for over a year so yeah =]
And he's really a nice guy, heck he was voted as the most friendliest person and has really good moral values such as no drinking and drugs and no sex till marriage.
But I cant help but to be paranoid about all those things.
Like i would get really paranoid if he even talks about another girl. I mean he doesnt talk about a girl like oh she's really pretty (unless he's joking...) but like he told me he had to work with 2 other girls one day and etc... and i got paranoid although i didnt say anything.
Or when he doesnt call or doesnt pick up my phone. Which is really not usual, and he always has a valid reason why he didnt pick up nor called. So i suspect im being paranoid again, but then later i think, what if he's just a really good liar?
So little stupid things bothers me like that.
What is wrong with me? I really dont understand why im so insecure and stuff like that! it makes me mad because he doesnt deserve all that non-trust thoughts going on in my head from me.
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Okay, the first thing is you need to do is stop watching trash tv. Yes, there are psychos out there, but not everyone is that way. The media tends to concentrate on those kinds of stories because trash sells. Next thing you need to realize is your boy is going run from you eventually becuase you are pushing him away and constantly over-analyzing and driving him away. FYI - guys do NOT think like girls. They are NOT constantly analyzing every move they make for an alterior motive. So either trust the guy until you have a VALID reason not to (and no, I don't mean because you watch a new episode of America's Most Wanted) or let him go so he can be with someone sane.
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