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This is ya boi Danny! I'm here to answer your questions! you need answers i got them! i'll always be here to answer them and if not leave it in the inbox! Let me know whats up, whatca need?
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-Danny
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My former best friend and I have been growing apart over the last two years. Now to her I'm just someone she says hi to in the hall. It's been hard to stay in touch over the years because she is so busy and we haven't been in any of the same classes. We still consider oursleves "friends", but I wish things could go back to the way they used to be. Whenever I call her to do something with me, she always has other plans. Ever since we started fading away from being best friends I've really missed her. We had been best friends for over 4 years and we had this dream of becoming famous actresses together, and it really saddens me how apart we've grown now. I'm afraid that in a couple of years or so, we might not be friends at all. I feel like there is nothing I can do to just have us be best friends or even just good friends again, but I need to figure out something. This seems impossible since shes always so busy with her activities and her group of best friends. Can anyone help me on what to do? I rate high!
I know this is gonna suck, but maybe you two have lost that thing that makes friends, friends. It happens all the time, especailly when you change schools or are not in a lot of the same classes. You can either keep forcing feelings and try to make her come to her sences, or you can move on with your life and find a new best friend
This bitch lets call her Allie stole my crush from me. Then my friend Carley told her I liked him and Allie called me a slut to my face and now all my friends are turning on me. You don't know how bad I want this boy, and want my friends back. I mean I liked him first and this girl is younger then him. I'm so confused, what should I do?
Women......anyways. How much is this guy into her? Does he know that u like him a lot?? He caNt do anything if he dosnt know. Remember, we are stupid!!
when you're talking about sex, what do you mean by foreplay and role play? more towards foreplay
Wow, this is weird. But yea foreplay as in teaseing each other to get the adrenaline pumping, you can play with toys like chains, handcuffs, leather, feathers. Dirty talk is pretty good as long as it dosnt go to far.
I am a 16/m and I have a girlfriend who is 21 and we have been going out for 5 months. I just recently lost my virginity to her. After that, we have been having sex, but there is one problem. I don't get aroused enough. I feel horrible about this. I want to have sex with her so bad when I am not with her but then when I am there and we are foreplaying or she is on top of me I do not get fully aroused. What should I do so I can be fully aroused because I really want to enjoy it?
Its not ALL about foreplay. Try roleplaying or something completly different. Sex is suppose to be fun. Not just "stick it in, hump a few times, cum like crazy". Its more complicated, but can also be more fun.
-Danny
Love or friendship?
Both. Start with friendship, learn to love.
i've been with my boyfriend for 19 months and i love him more than anything. the other day i had a dream i was making out with this hot kid at school. does this mean anything? by the way, this is like the 3rd or 4th dream i've had of this kid.
Well don't we all dream about dying? Its just a dream, not reality. Dont let it affect your relationship because it sounds like you two are good for each other
-Danny
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Good Luck to You!
-Danny
Okay i had my winter dance tonight and this guy asked me to dance. I was speechless and i couldn't say anything. Then he goes "you know what fine, whatever" and i'm like "no come back! Okay i will dance with you i will i'm so sorry!" but, he just ignored me. I had my friends go and ask him to dance for me but he ignored them. I went over and said "Okay i am really sorry and i wish i could take it back but will you dance with me?" He walked away and i knew i had really hurt him. My other friend went over and asked him why he was being like this. He said " you want me to just say okay and dance with her?" and she goes "yea just please she feels like crap come on. And he just screamed a her saying "TOO BAD!" Then i felt it the pain he had felt. I was so sorry but he wouldn't let me tell him. He just ran back into the croud. I looked for him all over but couldn't find him. Then the last dance came and i started to cry. He saw me and sad "now you know how i feel" and went away. Now i feel like CRAP!! i am so sad, and mad and i should have said yes. I am so sorry i need to tell him that but i dont have him # or his e-mail or anyother thing i could reach him by. I feel bad but i dont know why. If it was just a regular guy i would have been okay but its not it was one of my friends and i am so sad. Do i like him? What can i do for him to forgive me? Will he forgive me? Should i ask him to dance at our new dance coming up? i have no idea! Please Help!!!! I'll rate high!!!!! Thanks alot! xoxoxoxo HunnieBuns (even the advice columnist needs help) Just like me!
Here's the thing about guys, once you stepped on our balls, it stings for a while. On the other hand though, the guy is an asshole. If he wanted to dance he would have waited and not get all pissy about it.
Right now there is this guy that i have known for five years that I've had a tangled history with, we are now 15 and 14. He first notices me a little over two years ago and acted like he hated me, but it definately got my attention. That summer he admitted to liking me and we dated for a month. He then suddenly broke it off. We grew majorily apart, mainly from angry and I was very hurt. He was still interested in me when we started school the next year, but never said anything, so I moved on to other guys. We remained really good friends, growing closer again day by day. We almost went out again the beginning of this school year, but he said something just didn't feel right. We continued to talk very seriously (something unlikely from a guy) but it hasn't developed. Now he is dating a girl from his church, and insists he couldn't be with me because i don't share the same beliefs and values. He knows this hurts me because it isn't true, and still continues to flirt and about getting serious. I've tried to forget about it but I can't, what should I do?
It is just a flirt. You guys went out and hit it off. Then he broke it off and made up a bullcrap excuss about not sharing the same beliefs. He is retarted!! I hate guys like that (i am a guy), but seriously. All i have to say is you are better then that! Don't even let it get to you. He is a _____. (You can fill in thr blank!) But you dont deserve someone who can "throw you out" like that. Dont let it get to you. Stand up and get yourself another man!!
My mom was mad at my dad because a few days ago he went to New York without letting my mom know (he works there he didn't run off). Then like a day later my mom went to go pick up my brother somewhere and my dad thought they were just going to the highschool to pick him up but then they went to another town to another town. My dad didn't know that and he had a meeting to go to so he told me to tell my mom when she came home. Well a couple hours later my brother calls and is like "Tell dad we're coming home now and that we're sorry we were so late," and I'm like dad is not here why didn't you call eailer. Well anyway I got mad and my brother put my mom on the phone and I'm like "You can't be mad at dad anymore for not telling you where he was going," and she got mad and didn't say anything so i apologized and sahe just said bye. Now I think my mom is mad at me and my question is how do I get her to forgive me? Thank you I'll rate fives just for reading this.
She's not mad at you. If you read between the lines, you started to argue first because your parents fights were pissing you off. Your mom is probley just very worried about the three of you. She asks where her husband is, she picks up her son in an other town, and she worried that you are getting agitated with her. Its all in good love! Hakuna Matata, shes not mad at you!
16/f.... this may be a stupid question, but what are those people called that you talk to about your problems and you tell them everything and then they give you advice and everything is confidential. They do it for a living. Nothing SERIOUS is going on in my life (ex. I'm not pregnant, I don't go drugs, I'm not a lesbian, etc.), but I feel like I can't talk to my parents (about guys or whatever) I never have and I probably never will. I'm an only child and I've been the center of their lives for 16 years and I hate it. I always have...I wish I can share the spotlight with someone, but thats not going to happen. Sometimes I wish they didn't care about me AS MUCH as they do. I feel like I need to go see one of those people because I've kept so much inside of me all my life and now I think I need to deal with a professional who can help me. And I'm afraid of a lot of things (I always have visions of disturbing things in my head, but thats a different story). How can I tell my parents I need one of those people without hurting them?
I think you get that who they are. One way i would go about it is to go to the guidance counciler at your school and ask to talk to someone. I know that they are willing to help, hence that is why they are there. Almost half of my friends last year had a physcologist at school and eventually formed one big study group. It is a really good thing, especially if you can't talk to your parents.
I was the same way. I live with my grandparents, a bro, and my mom (divorced for years). But i couldn't talk to my grandparents cuz they never understand, my brother and I hate each other so i could talk to him, and my mom...i love her but i mean she couldn't help me. I finally got one and she really helped me relize that i am capable to be strong on my own...hope i helped!
-Danny
okay my friends and i are in a fight and because they are taking drugs! i've tried to stop them! they also drink and smoke and one of them does it while she is driving! i've tried to stop them like i said before but they won't listen! what should i do?!
Drastic Times call for Drastic Measures!
You can tell someone important like a parent, teacher, councler, or whatever. If you don't want to feel like a snitch. You can drive them home if you hang with them. If they still dont stop, you HAVE to tell someone. For your sanity and for thier own good.
-Danny
okay so every time i like a guy, i like him until he starts to pay any sort of attention to me. Like if he starts to act maybe a little interested, I freak out and like stop liking him! I don't know why! Like ever since my last major bf (we were together for 4 months) I've been like afraid or something to like a guy when he likes me back or like have a boyfriend its so weird does anyone have any ideas on how i can like stop whatever it is and why im doing ? ty so much
I would suggest that when you find yourself in this situation again, work through it. Tell yourself to breathe and take it slow. You dont have to say, 'Go out with me!'right when you discover his is interested. Slow yourself and remember that things wont get wierd. I understand that u havent have a BF in a while and your last one was awesome, but u need to get over it. It sucks to hear it, but it is true.
okay there is this kidd at my school and well i kinda talked about him with 2 other people and while i was doing that i found out he passed by me and now i feel really gulity and i think i like this kidd but i'm not sure! what should i do to clear things up?
Well if you really like this kid you got to clear things up, obviously. How to do it...
1) You could talk to him normally and slowly work your way up to apologizing/saying u like him.
2) Go right up to him and say I'm sorry for talking about you, i was just kidding (hopefully u were)
3) Dont say sorry, Dont tell him everything and have the both of you feel bad!
HINT:Dont do 3! But i mean if you like this kid, just tell him how you really feel. The worst he can say is no. The world isn't going to end if he doesnt like you or wont forgive you.
-Danny