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Q: ok so i re-met this guy simon i already kind of knew at my friends 6th period class like 2 wednesdays ago. i thought he got really hot since i last saw him and it was a running joke with my friend erin and i that night that i wanted her to hook me up with simon, and she said she'd have her bf talk to him but i didnt really think she would. so i sorta let it go.

then the wednesday a week later simon randomly adds me on myspace and we start messaging and he asks me if i wanna chill sometime and he asked for my number and i gave it to him. then i asked erin if she had her bf talk to simon and she didnt, so him talking to me was totally his own idea. the thing is that was last wednesday and i havent heard from him in almost a week. do you think hes really gonna call cuz im kinda into him...

if he started talking to you on his own is a sign he's interested in you. I think he just doesnt want you to think that before he knows if your into him. What i think you should do is message him like "hey whats up, what you been up to" so he can get the sense that you want to get to know more about him.

Q: okay so i had unprotected sex about a week before i was supposed to get my period but it came a week late probably cause i was stressing about it so much.. and i asked people on this site if it was possible to still be pregnant and most of them said no.. but now im not sure cause i feel movement in my vagina.. i dont know but its weird ..and ive never had this before.. does anyone know what this is?

well maybe you are pregnant.

For the baby to be able to come out your vagina has to stretch.

I suggest you take a pregnancy test.

-hope i helped =]

Q: i know limewire is bad and all so no comments on that please, but its been working really good for me since i downloaded it, but all of a sudden its not letting me download anything anymore, like, i can type in the name of the song i want and the search bar is at the top, but no results come up. ive talked to a couple of my friends and they all say they have the same problem...what could be wrong and how could i fix it??
Thanks:)

make sure the internet connectivity is working. This used to happen to me when i had limewire. If its not the internet maybe its just messed up try unistalling it and installing it again, or just switch to another program. Its what i did because i started to give my computer problems. If you are going to take in consideration using another program ares is a very good one.

- hope i helped =]

Q: my hands are always cold. do you think putting lotion on them and rubbing them together will help create friction and warm them?

Most times it is caused by poor blood circulation.

i constantly find myself in that position, but also my feet. what helps if a warm bath. Rubing lotion can help but i find that as soon as it dries up my hands are fcold again. You shouldnt take it too seriously though, its not a medical problem.

Q: whats a good conditioner for somebody with dry hair and split ends

-Matrix sleek look Conditioner

its really good i get amazing results. hope i helped.]

Q: i had a relationship two years ago with a guy 3 years older than me. it ended after 4 months with a mutual decision to break up just because we lost interest in each other. he had another girlfriend by the end of the day and as you can imagine "shocked" was an understatement for my emotions that day. we didn't talk again for about a year when one day at around 3am we both happened to be online so we talked. then i didn't talk to him again. this week he's texted me everyday and we've been talking but its weird. its just like "whats up?" "nothing you?" "nothing....soooo" and then we don't talk until the next day. i didn't even know he still had my number because i deffinately did not have his. ok on to the question. what does he want?!!? why would someone randomly want to talk to their ex. its not like we hated each other, we just didn't talk. he's been with the girlfriend he had when we broke up ever since so im wondering if he's only talking to me because they broke up? but im not sure if they did and i dont want to ask because i dont want him to think i like him or want him back or anything. sooo why is he talking to me? i don't mind im just trying to figure out what he's thinking without asking him if thats possible.

well i guess he misses you and wats to talk to you again. From what youve said he wants to be friends again. If by any chances he does say he likes you still then i think you should ask him if he's with his girl. For now though he seems like he wants to be friends.

Q: theres one teacher who yells at kids for fun. when i stood up to him with out being rude because he yelled at me and my friends for no reason (seriously) he said he would send me to the principals office. and he is a bad teacher. how can i avoid this guy even though hes my teacher?

Talk to your principal, counsler who ever. If you didnt do anything why should you get screamed at? They would probably change your teacher or class if you tell your parent and bring them in to tell the principal.

-hope i helped =]

Q: im 16 and a junior in high school. i have this friend and she keeps sayin shes bi-sexual...but i think its just to get attention. she did the same thing last year then we everyone asked her if it was true she said no. now shes sayin shes bi again and i asked her if she cud she herself havin sex with another gurl and she didnt know wut to say. obviosuly if your bi then you can see your self with the opposite sex doin things that more then friends do. idk wut to do about all this. it just pisses me off becuz i think shes doin it for attention.

i have a friend who also does the same thing. My friend did it because the guy she liked said he liked bisexuals. Maybe your friend is doing the same thing.

Another possibility is she really is, and is afraid of what some people might say.

Just let her reflect on what shes doing and saying about herself. Shes the only one that knows what she feels. Stick besides and give her all your support at a time like this she must be full of doubt and confusion. Let her know youll be their for her no matter what.

-hope i helped =]

Q: Okay so there is this kid i have been liking for a VERY long time. lets call him aaron.

Well me and aaron are REALLY good friends and stuff and i knew he has been liking this girl dana for a while. So one day me and him both went over our friend chris's house. And he was like flirting with me MAJORLY!! always getting so close to me. And then when we all went home chris asked aaron if he liked me and he said idk. and then chris asked aaron if he still liked dana and he said no.

but then like after that he kepty ignoring me in the hallways, and like not talking to me as much idk why. I was first on his myspace top and now im like last and the 2nd girl.

But then like dana told chris to tell aaron she likes him. and chris did and then aaron asked her outtt!!!!!!! =[

but ever since they were going out, he has been talking to me SOOO much and in the hallways he is ALWAYS trying to get my attention now, but i kept ignoring him.. but then today he moved me BACK to number one on his top!! And he is still going out with Dana.

I don't know this whole thing is so confusing. I don't know what he is trying to do. I need to figure out this guy.. Helpp!! =(

well i think he really likes dana and was trying to get over her with you. Maybe they had an arguement or w.e and broke up and is trying to get Dana jealous. =/

What you can do is show him you care for him. Both of you can grow from this and you will find out exactly what he feels for you.

-hope i helped =]

Q: what should i get my dad for christmas? he loves soccer, is a buissness man, and likes comedy

what about a new soccer ball and a few comedy movies.

-hope i helped =]

Q: i know its long , but help is really needed

well you and eric have been friends for a really long time. I think you should apologixe, if your boyfriend finds out or anything. what could he be mad about you only are going to apoligize. Its not worth loosing a true friend oer the jealousy of your boyfriend. Besides your friend only came back for christmas so its really impossible for your boyfriend to find out unless you dont delete the text afterwards and he reads it.

-hope i helped =]

Q: How do you make all your pictures on myspace private as in no one can view them not even your friends and so that only the display picture can b viewed when viewing your profile?

first go to add/edit photos from your home page.
Then click on the album you want to be private. After that click options it will ask viewable by: set it to private. Even though you will still be able to view the ablum no one else will. The picture you set as your default from that album will still show as your default. Its just no one will be able to view the ablum or the picture itself big.

-hope i helped =]

Q: So I'm 15 years old, 5'1", 114 lbs. I have extra on my stomach and thighs and I guess top arms. I'm gonna eat healthier and try to lose it. But, I'm a 34B. My boobs are already small enough.. I don't want to lose anymore. And I don't wanna lose any in my butt. Ha I don't like people with flat butts. Okay anyway. How can I lose stomach,thighs,arms but keep butt,boobs?

your body decides where you loose the weight. theirs no way you can loose exactly what you want.

just excersise. dont worry about what you want to loose. where you loose it, is the way your body was supposed to look like.

-hope i helped =]

Q: how do you make pictures look flawless?
i always see pictures liket this:

what do you need to do this? photoshop?
because i googled it and tried downloading it but it wasn't really working out.. like i couldn't find it.

thankss

well could also download paintshop pro. its like the same thing, just easier to understand. After you get it look for tutorials to do what you want to do to your pictures.

hope i helped =]

Q: my boyfriend wants to have sex but i dont know if im ready what should i tell him

tell him you dont want to your not ready. if he ges mad it only says hes with you for the sex.
if he's doesnt want to wait till you feel ready do you really think its worth it being with him.

Q: my eyes tend to get big when i put my contacts in .. idk why? but i hate them big! i heard that if you put eyeliner on they get smaller .. true story? any tips?

if you put it on the top it makes them look bigger if you put it on the bottom it makes them look smaller.

hope i helped =]

Q: I want to make a song

just using my mouth, no instruments etc.

But i cant seem to find a program that lets me "mix" all the sounds together!

e.g.

My voice
The Beat
Music

Mixing all them together, but recorded seperately!

Is there a program downloadable that i can do this with?

(I have already tried Windows Movie maker, but the actions are very limited, it doesnt "mix")

Thanks so much in advance

Kronix

download the following program from the website:
http://en.softonic.com/search/download-fruity-loops-7

hope i helped =]

Q: Someone likes me. My friend told me that he only likes me because he probably thinks im easy. -- What makes a girl easy anyways? And how can he tell?

What makes a girl easy is that the guy wont have to ask much before she gives it up to him. Often guys can tell by a way a girl dresses or acts.

-hope i helped =]

Q: i'm very worried about my grades in school. i'm a f/sophomore.
i have all honors and a.p classes...i usually get very good grades, and last report card, got all As and Bs.
this grading period...two of my grades are slipping to Cs...and I don't know how to pull them up..i try my best. i just can't do well in those subjects. and this makes me hate myself...really badly =| i don't know what to do..i really do try. and the worst part..is that i know i'm smart, but i see other people doing better than me and it just makes me hate myself even more! i used to be one of those students that always got the highest score...but its as if i got lazy and i'm on a hiatus or something.
what can I do in this situation? I know that i can do better. but there are way too many distractions.

i guess this could be called "smart person's block"
lol. please help. anyone with the same experience?

well i have sort of the same problem i am very smart in school but i just dont seem to understand global and science as much as my other subjects. I have spoken to my teachers and asked them what could i do to bring up my grades. They suggested going to tutoring, and with everytime i go i get extra credit this has helped me out alot. I suggest you talk to your teacher and they might have something for you to do to bring up your grade.

-hope i helped =]

Q: Okay, Christmas is just around the corner, and the the is, I'm clueless about what I want. I have no idea, what are some suggestions? I'm into video games, preferably sims on ps2. I like doin many different things, so please, some suggestions wouldnt hurt.

im in the same position. so what i did is ask people to give me money instead of gifts so when i do decide what i want i go out any buy it myself. I think this is the best solution.

-hope i helped =]

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Im a really cool person once you get to know me. I love giving advice to people makes me feel useful knowing i can help others. =]. well thats all for now, buh byye =]