i reallyyyy want him to call, do you think he will?
Question Posted Monday January 21 2008, 7:23 pm
ok so i re-met this guy simon i already kind of knew at my friends 6th period class like 2 wednesdays ago. i thought he got really hot since i last saw him and it was a running joke with my friend erin and i that night that i wanted her to hook me up with simon, and she said she'd have her bf talk to him but i didnt really think she would. so i sorta let it go.
then the wednesday a week later simon randomly adds me on myspace and we start messaging and he asks me if i wanna chill sometime and he asked for my number and i gave it to him. then i asked erin if she had her bf talk to simon and she didnt, so him talking to me was totally his own idea. the thing is that was last wednesday and i havent heard from him in almost a week. do you think hes really gonna call cuz im kinda into him...
That's all it takes. Then if he's still interested which believe me he will be you can set up something for a movie etc. He was looking for you to take the bait so to speak.
He wanted you to say you would like to hang out with him when he asked you to "chill". So, you need to go after him and tell him you're interested.
The other thing is that it's very scary for guys to approach girls in person or call on the phone because of rejection. maybe he didn't call because he was scared. You have to take into account that it was the weekend and perhaps he meant to talk to you but got caught up in family stuff.
Do what I mentioned above and you should be set. It sounds like he really likes you but isn't so sure where he stands with you. Invite him to hang out with you and your pals and see what happens. If you want him go after him. You have a window of opportunity here that you could drive a truck through. It will work out fine. Let me know though what transpires. [ solidadvice4teens's advice column | Ask solidadvice4teens A Question ]
dATSEXiiMAMii4U answered Monday January 21 2008, 9:42 pm: if he started talking to you on his own is a sign he's interested in you. I think he just doesnt want you to think that before he knows if your into him. What i think you should do is message him like "hey whats up, what you been up to" so he can get the sense that you want to get to know more about him. [ dATSEXiiMAMii4U's advice column | Ask dATSEXiiMAMii4U A Question ]
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